“Bless this Mess” a fun, humorous and unfiltered podcast where we bring you along the journey of dating in our 30’s. _ Nik is a born again Christian and Kelly is a semi-retired party girl. While we are looking for totally different men, our goal is the same: to find real love. _ Ride this wave with us while we let you in on random dating exercises, interview dating experts, interview men + women about love and, of course, our dating lives.