185 \\ Are You Normalizing Toxic Behavior, Stepmom? | Featuring Expert Lawyer Samantha Drum | Part 2
Be sure to catch part 1 here!Are you normalizing toxic behavior in your stepfamily? According to our guest expert, Samantha Drum, when you try to avoid the real issues with high conflict personalities, you end up having chronic self-doubt, thinking "I must be the problem," since the high conflict personality has had so much uninterrupted time to convince you this is the case. Join today's show to learn exactly what to do instead of avoiding the toxic behaviors, especially when dealing with stepteens. Your questions are answered on today's show!Check out Part 1 here. Find answers with Samantha's Resources!Ready to accelerate your wins and become an Empowered Stepmom?Apply for private coaching now! Jen tackles questions from you regarding boundaries during July & August. If you want in on the Q&A, then take one teeny tiny action step to move forward to put your question in the ring.📳☎📞Get your question answered in one of 3 ways:Leave Jen a VMJoin the FB GroupEmail me and the team [email protected]'s how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Aug 18, 2023
11 min
184 \\ Are You Normalizing Toxic Behavior, Stepmom? | Featuring Expert Lawyer Samantha Drum | Part 1
Are you normalizing toxic behavior in your stepfamily? According to our guest expert, Samantha Drum, when you try to avoid the real issues with high conflict personalities, you end up having chronic self-doubt, thinking "I must be the problem," since the high conflict personality has had so much uninterrupted time to convince you this is the case. Join today's show to learn exactly what to do instead of avoiding the toxic behaviors, especially when dealing with stepteens. Your questions are answered on today's show!Just can't wait for the rest of the story to drop? If you're listening on release day, you can check out Part 2 early here. 😁😍Samantha's ResourcesReady to accelerate your wins and become an Empowered Stepmom?Apply for private coaching now!Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Aug 17, 2023
44 min
👉Are you a stepmom wondering how to deal with another contentious phone call or a malicious text that your husband has received from a not-so-nice ex?👉Are you wondering why it is so difficult to have normal conversations with another co-parent?👉Do you struggle with knowing how to co-parent? Or your role as a stepmom? Well, if you have wondered any of those things, you are in exactly the right place! In this episode, you will walk away with these three things: 🦋Increased confidence when you understand how you can use communication to build trust.🦋Apply your most powerful tool when processing verbal & nonverbal cues (listen to the episode to find out what it is!)🦋You're going to get smarter as you gain a higher awareness of common stepfamily pitfalls and what you can do to avoid them.Jen tackles questions from you regarding boundaries during July & August. If you want in on the Q&A, then take one teeny tiny action step to move forward to put your question in the ring.📳☎📞Get your question answered in one of 3 ways:Leave Jen a VMJoin the FB GroupEmail me and the team [email protected] to the 15 Minute Convo with your Hunka-Hunka in Episode #151Link to #179 A Stepmom's Guide to Setting Boundaries - Using the 4Cs to Communicate Stepfamily LimitsReady to accelerate your wins, Stepmama? Apply for private coaching now!Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Aug 10, 2023
24 min
What do a sword, belt, breastplate, shoes, and helmet have in common? They're powerful weapons, combined with prayer, that are your spiritual weapons of warfare. And...they can all be lumped together with one word: BOUNDARY. Have you thought about God's Divine Armor as a Boundary? Jen talks about this and more in today's episode.PLUS!! Listen in for a special offer so you can Stop Fighting That Same Losing Battle Over Parenting Again & Again!You just need to click the link to get started! Use Code NOWOCLOCK to save 20% off this powerful mini-workshop!Mentioned in today's episode: Mighty Men Stay on Track by Rick ScarboroughJen tackles questions from you regarding boundaries during July & August. If you want in on the Q&A, then take one teeny tiny action step to move forward to put your question in the ring.📳☎📞Get your question answered in one of 3 ways:Leave Jen a VMJoin the FB GroupEmail me and the team [email protected] to the 15 Minute Convo with your Hunka-Hunka in Episode #151Link to #179 A Stepmom's Guide to Setting Boundaries - Using the 4Cs to Communicate Stepfamily LimitsReady to accelerate your wins, Stepmama? Apply for private coaching now!Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Aug 3, 2023
23 min
Can you relate to the feeling of having a ton of responsibility with little or no authority as a Stepmom? Perhaps you have this specific question: ❓Can I say, “No” to transportation for extra curriculars if it is too demanding on my schedule but it on our days with the kids? Jen tackles questions from you regarding boundaries during July & August. If you want in on the Q&A, then take one teeny tiny action step to move forward to put your question in the ring.📳☎📞Get your question answered in one of 3 ways:Leave Jen a VMJoin the FB GroupEmail me and the team [email protected] to the 15 Minute Convo with your Hunka-Hunka in Episode #151Link to #179 A Stepmom's Guide to Setting Boundaries - Using the 4Cs to Communicate Stepfamily LimitsReady to accelerate your wins, Stepmama? Apply for private coaching now!Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Jul 27, 2023
23 min
180 \\ How to Get Your Partner to Set Boundaries with His Ex - Stepfamily Answers for Smart Stepmoms
You might be wondering...❓What do healthy boundaries look like for DH's & BM's conversations?❓How do I know when those conversations cross the line from parenting to personal?❓Should DH & BM still have a friendship post-divorce and post-remarriage?❓Is there such a thing as being too nosy when it comes to being privy to conversations my husband is having with his ex?Jen tackles questions from you regarding boundaries during July & August. If you want in on the Q&A, then take one teeny tiny action step to move forward to put your question in the ring.📳☎📞Get your question answered in one of 3 ways:Leave Jen a VMJoin the FB GroupEmail me and the team [email protected] to the 15 Minute Convo with your Hunka-Hunka in Episode #151Link to #179 A Stepmom's Guide to Setting Boundaries - Using the 4Cs to Communicate Stepfamily LimitsReady to accelerate your wins, Stepmama? Apply for private coaching now.Get the Boundaries Book - on sale for $5 at release of this episode.Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Jul 20, 2023
23 min
(Almost) Live Q&A with Jen - During the next several weeks, Jen tackles questions from you regarding boundaries. If you want in on the Q&A, then take one teeny tiny action step to move forward to put your question in the ring.📳☎📞Get your question answered in one of 3 ways:Leave Jen a VMJoin the FB GroupEmail me and the team [email protected] July & August, we're talking all things BOUNDARIES on the pod. You might be wondering if it is...❓ok to allow an ex into your home❓how do I deal with a toxic ex MIL❓my hunka-hunka lets his kids stay out until midnight, using my car. I don't like it, Jen. What can I do?You get the idea...Here's a template for you.Hi Jen! It's Susie Q. I've got a question about _____. I'm ________(family status - i.e., married for 2 years, have two stepkids, ages 10 & 8 and two biokid twins, aged 3.)What do you recommend based on my situation? Link to the 15 Minute Convo with your Hunka-Hunka in Episode #151Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Jul 13, 2023
17 min
Are you pounding out questions on your keyboard in anxiousness as you search for answers on how to deal with a high conflict co-parent, Stepmom? Are you exhausted with endless documentation of she said/he said/the kids said? Are you wondering how to diffuse a narcissist's bait and switch?Listen to today's episode to learn how to co-parent with confidence, no matter the level of drama and toxicity with an ex-spouse.Get answers FAST with the Parallel Parenting vs Co-Parenting Quick Wins Mini-Workshop! https://www.stepfamilypodcast.com/parentingworkshopHigh Conflict Co-Parenting Options - Dealing with Toxic Exes Featuring Lemon Price, Host of Milk & Honey Podcast with Jen Rogers Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Jul 6, 2023
43 min
💫❤️😎😘Congratulations!!! Welcome to Day 30, Sis!!⚔ It's time to ARMOR UP! ⚔ COURAGEOUS CHALLENGE DAY 30⚔ 📒📓Bonus for Day 31! Take time on day 31 to reflect on what you’ve learned about yourself, the outcomes you expected versus what you are experiencing right now, and what you want to do next. Keep taking action!⚔ 📒📓Ask your hunka-hunka: “How can I be a better stepmom to your children?”⚔ 📒📓Ask your hunka-hunka: “How can I be a better wife to you?”⚔ 📒📓Consider each one of your children. As you do, what one question could you ask them that would demonstrate you promoting unity, as a woman of influence, in your blended family? Listen to the pod for details.⚔ 📒📓Enroll in the next Transition Day Webinar or the Parallel Parenting vs Co-Parenting Workshop, Stepmama Clarity, or Private Coaching with Jen.It's not too late to register for the prayer challenge! Get the deets in the brief intro!Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Jun 30, 2023
27 min
✝️Day 29 - Prayer Challenge Praying for US ~ Family Unity✅Free Training with Jen! Learn 3 Mistakes to Avoid on Transition Day ✅Use the coupon code PARENTWITHJEN to save 10% on Parallel Parenting vs. Co-Parenting! Sign up now!⚔ It's time to ARMOR UP! ⚔ COURAGEOUS CHALLENGE DAY 29⚔ 📒📓Review your journal journey from days 1-29. What do you notice about your journey? What emotions come up for you as you review your writings? What is one takeaway ⚔ 📒📓Of all the courageous challenges you’ve completed to date, which one was the easiest for you? Which one challenged you the most? How did these challenges impact intimacy in your family?⚔ 📒📓Do you have a dollar bill story? Think about a time where your values clashed with your hunka-hunka or your kids. Identify your values and compare & contrast them with the values of your family members. If you could redo that situation, what if anything, would you do differently, knowing about values clashing?It's not too late to register for the prayer challenge! Get the deets in the brief intro!Here's how to move forward, Stepmom!Step 1: Change Your Habits, Change Your Life & Commit to 30 Days of PrayingStep 2: Join the Brave Stepmoms FB GroupStep 3: Top 10 tips for Stepmoms (Prevent Burnout), Get the Free Download!Step 4: Free Training! Avoid the 3 Common Mistakes on Transition Day Step 5: Peaceful Co-Parenting Strategies that Work-Mini Workshop Step 6: Regain Control, Fast - Enroll Today! Stepmama Clarity & End the Chaos Be strong, and let your heart be courageous, all you who put your hope in the Lord.Psalm 31:24
Jun 29, 2023
16 min
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