In this episode, we continue the conversation about the division of household labor, using Eve Rodsky’s Fair Play cards to guide our conversation. We discuss sleep routines, holiday cards, thank you notes, spirituality, and more. Is it worth it? According to Josh, “Just  going through this process is productive for our relationship, for setting expectations, for creating our values.”  Empathy, FTW!
 
In the episode, we mention: 
Dr. Becky Kennedy: <a href="https://www.goodinside.com/about/">https://www.goodinside.com/about/</a> 
Kolbe: <a href="https://www.kolbe.com/">https://www.kolbe.com/</a> 
Mika Ross: <a href="https://www.mikaross.com/">https://www.mikaross.com/</a> 
Eve Rodsky: <a href="https://www.everodsky.com/">https://www.everodsky.com/</a> 
Fair Play Life: <a href="https://www.everodsky.com/fair-play">https://www.everodsky.com/fair-play</a>

7. Women winning doesn't mean men lose.

Screaming into my own echo chamber about the imbalance of gender equality feels amazingly cathartic, but it led to resentment in my relationship with my husband, and last time I checked, resentment lacks utility. 

As the magnificent Liz Plank says, “The only way we can improve women’s lives is by helping men.” If I want men to see women’s experiences, shaming them isn't going to work. Instead, I'm inviting men to have uncomfortable conversations about gender equality so you feel empowered to do the same.