Mary Pat’s husband Josh joins the pod again to continue the conversation from Episode 2 about the division of household labor. They use Eve Rodsky’s Fair Play deck of cards to determine who owns each task and in the process, realize that not only is the mental load overwhelming, but TALKING about it is incredibly exhausting. Yet, it&#39;s important to have these conversations. And there might even be more than logistical benefits...
 
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 <li>Get the Fair Play book: bookhttps://www.fairplaylife.com/the-book </li>
 <li>Get the Fair Play cards: https://www.fairplaylife.com/the-cards</li>
 <li>Listen to the podcast, Time Out: https://www.fairplaylife.com/podcast</li>
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Episode 6 / Is "Fair Play" foreplay? (Part 2)

Screaming into my own echo chamber about the imbalance of gender equality feels amazingly cathartic, but it led to resentment in my relationship with my husband, and last time I checked, resentment lacks utility. 

As the magnificent Liz Plank says, “The only way we can improve women’s lives is by helping men.” If I want men to see women’s experiences, shaming them isn't going to work. Instead, I'm inviting men to have uncomfortable conversations about gender equality so you feel empowered to do the same.