No script. No plan. Just Adam & Pris, a list of questions on a smartphone, and zero filter. This week on Beyond Monogamy, the swinger lifestyle podcast that says what everyone else is thinking, we free-flow through the questions couples in ethical non-monogamy actually ask each other — and the answers get real, fast. In this episode of your favorite ENM and open relationship podcast: Bedroom dealbreakers — what we absolutely do NOT want partners doing during play (porn-style pounding, neck sucking, and teeth all make the list) Instant turn-offs — including the "no glove, no love" conversation too many new swingers skip Oral honesty hour — why "low and slow" wins and why you should ALWAYS speak up Swinger club etiquette — couch swaps, when it's okay to touch, and why just asking never kills the mood Playing separately — the two-hour gap, the "deer in headlights" look, and what's too intimate with someone else Could a girlfriend ever happen? — WLW relationships, sexual roommates (hard no), and keeping connections organic How to actually link up with Adam & Pris — plus who should proposition who in couple-on-couple play Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle or a full-swap veteran, this candid Q&A between real-life partners covers the consent, communication, and comedy that make non-monogamy work. Watch us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus all episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. On the radio: Catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central. Come hang out with us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, MO — February 2027! We're doing a LIVE show at the weekend takeover. Tickets at krazykasbh.com — use discount code BEYOMONO for a discount. This episode is sponsored by SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Your people, all in one place. Sign up at SDC.com with code 38236. Like the show? Love us? Hit follow, drop a five-star review, and share it with a lifestyle friend.

Why are people so shitty? It's the question nobody can answer, but this week Adam & Pris sure try. In this candid episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite swinger podcast couple airs a little dirty laundry (no names, promise) about drama, bullies, and trolls in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy community — and how to protect yourself without losing your fun. In this episode: The 80–90% of the lifestyle community that's wonderful — and the tiny percentage that isn't A group owner gone rogue: platform bullying, minions, and a two-year obsession with fake profiles Why outing people in the swinger community is the one unforgivable sin Discretion vs. connection: why you can't be 100% anonymous and still succeed in the lifestyle How to vet new people (yes, including the video-with-your-name-and-date trick) Trolls, anonymous comments, and why Adam officially does not give a f*** One bad apple doesn't spoil this bunch — it's a whole fruit salad Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — chat with us free, drop a question in the 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional, and check the events tab. Also on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central, alongside a whole cavalcade of adult podcasters. Come party with us: Krazy Winter Nights — February 2027 in Kansas City, Missouri! Register at krazykasbh.com with discount code BEYOMONO for a discount. Exact dates on the events tab at beyond-monogamy.com. This episode is sponsored by FirmTech: makers of the Tech Ring — a wearable ring for firmness and blood flow that connects to an app with real, clinically researched data. And don't miss the Ring Mate attachment for your partner's pleasure (everybody wins). Get 15% off at firmtech.co with code BEYOMONO. If you like the show, say so — like, subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share this episode with someone who needs it. It costs nothing and helps the swinger lifestyle and ENM community find us.

That gorgeous couple sliding into your DMs? Yeah... about that. In this revisited episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris dive into catfishing in the swinger lifestyle — the fake profiles, filtered photos, and flat-out fictional people lurking in ethical non-monogamy spaces. With 15 years in the lifestyle, they've seen (and nearly fallen for) it all. In this episode: Adam's AOL chat room days — and the too-perfect mystery woman who vanished Filters, angles, and 20-year-old photos: where does flattering end and lying begin? Why catfishing hits harder in the swinger lifestyle than in vanilla dating The "personality catfish" nobody talks about — fake nice, fake in love, fake experienced Scammers, bots, and the infamous $45 nail-money hustle Red flags in open relationships and swinger apps: no photos, model-only photos, stories that don't add up, dodging verification, pushing for nudes How to protect yourself: live video verification, Pris's date-on-paper photo trick, cross-referencing profiles, and trusting your gut Why trust, consent, and honesty are non-negotiable in ethical non-monogamy Got a catfish story of your own? Share it at beyond-monogamy.com — Adam & Pris may read it on a future quickie episode! Watch us LIVE: Catch the FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus episodes, blog, reviews, and all our socials. On the radio: Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris on FullSwapRadio, Thursdays at 1PM and 6PM. This episode is sponsored by ProDX Health — discreet at-home testing for STIs, hormones, and more. No waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round — even more during special events. Keywords: swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, catfishing, online dating red flags, swinger apps.

What's your dynamic? It's the one question every couple new to the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) needs to know how to answer — and Adam & Pris break it down in this Wednesday Quickie. They dig into full swap vs. soft swap, same room vs. same roof vs. separate play, and why knowing (and stating) your dynamic up front saves everyone's time. Plus: mismatched libidos, menopause and the lifestyle, learning to say no, and why non-monogamy really is a team sport. In this episode: What "dynamic" actually means in the swinger lifestyle Full swap vs. soft swap, and why the label matters Same room, same roof, or separate play — how couples decide Handling mismatched pace and comfort levels as a couple Talking openly about menopause, hormones, and desire in ENM relationships Why Pris handles "the no" and how they split roles as a team The one question to ask any couple at a swinger event or meet & greet Whether you're brand new to open relationships or you've been in the lifestyle for years, this one will help you put words to what you actually want. Keep the conversation going: Everything Beyond Monogamy — episodes, blog, merch, and our Confessional — lives at beyond-monogamy.com Join us LIVE and free every Thursday at 7:00 PM Central right on the website — just hit the live button up top Catch us streaming on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central Mark your calendar for Krazy Winter Nights, coming this February — details on our events tab Check the events tab at beyond-monogamy.com for takeovers and meetups we're hitting up this month If you loved this episode, subscribe, share it with your favorite couple, and leave us a review — it seriously helps this swinger podcast grow.

What were your first swinger experiences really like? A listener couple just entering the swinger lifestyle dropped that question in our anonymous confessional, and Adam & Pris answer it with zero filter. From a drunk Halloween party that went completely sideways to a first full swap that turned into a lifelong friendship, this is the ethical non-monogamy origin story we've never told on the show — mistakes, jealousy, death glares, and all. In this episode: The Halloween party "non-experience" that almost ended everything — and the boxes every new ENM couple must check first (sober, communicating, on the same page) Pris's first single-guy experience, nerves on all sides, and why the equipment failing is almost never about you Adam's unauthorized round two — and the look Pris gave him that he calls "visual cyanide" The full swap couple who became forever favorites The strangest swap of all time: a historic mansion, uncontrollable laughter, and a velociraptor impression we cannot unsee Jealousy, disconnecting, and the communication lessons that saved their marriage Got a confession? Leave it anonymously at beyond-monogamy.com — where you'll also find every past episode, clips, the blog, and the merch store. Catch our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, right on the website. We're also part of the lineup at FullSwapRadio — Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. See us LIVE in February at Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbah and Full Swap Radio. Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — come say hi! This episode is sponsored by 3Fun — the app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. Easy, low pressure, and way less awkward than figuring it out on your own. Download it here: https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932

Birthdays hit different in the swinger lifestyle. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris recap Adam's entire birthday weekend — from free sopapillas and a taco-house serenade to a full-blown celebration at their home club that proves ethical non-monogamy knows how to throw a party. In this episode of your favorite swinger podcast: Birthday breakfast at Eddie's Taco House, where Adam campaigned like a politician for free sopapillas An intimate dinner with three other couples — and Adam's very honest confession about where his mind goes at the table Their friend Ray and her famous bag of toys: why so many women say no, and why Pris says yes Kink vs. fetish — Pris finally settles which one exhibitionism is (for her, anyway) THC lemonade math gone wrong: Pris gets sent to the moon Midnight lap dances, a double birthday treat, and the moment Pris created a scene straight off a vintage VHS cover The Odyssey, new-job news, and why the sexiest plans sometimes lose to cold sheets and leftover pizza Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle, curious about open relationships, or a longtime ENM couple, this non-monogamy podcast episode is a fun, candid look at how one real couple celebrates — together and with friends. Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central, totally free, at beyond-monogamy.com — chat with us in real time. Replays live on our Patreon, along with ways to support the show. Also on FullSwapRadio: Catch us Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central at fullswapradio.com alongside a whole lineup of adult podcasters. Upcoming event: We're doing a LIVE show in February from Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbh and Full Swap Radio! Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — yes, it's spelled that way. We'd love to meet you there. Sponsor — ProDX Health: At-home testing for STIs, hormones, and more. No waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code beyomono at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round — even more during special events. Got a confession, question, or story? Drop it (anonymously if you like) at beyond-monogamy.com — you might hear it on a future episode.

Swinger? Poly? Friends with benefits? If you've ever mixed them up, you're in good company — Adam's own barber had no clue. This week on Beyond Monogamy, real-life couple Adam & Pris break down the real differences between swinging, polyamory, and friends with benefits in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) world — from a couple who has lived all three and collected a few red flags along the way. In this episode: Why so many swingers think they want polyamory… when what they really want is friends with benefits Adam & Pris's five years of poly: unicorn hunting, red flags, and the girlfriend who texted way too much Pris's journey from not knowing her worth to discovering her inner dom The Great Date Debate: why "date" is now a forbidden word in their house (say hello to the "meetup") Jealousy in open relationships, hierarchy, and the rules they hold sacred — no vacations with others, no showering with others (unless it's content) Could they ever date another couple? The empty-nester master plan Whether you're lifestyle-curious, a seasoned swinger, or somewhere on the open relationship spectrum, this candid, funny conversation will help you figure out which flavor of non-monogamy actually fits — before you learn it the hard way like we did. Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Come meet us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027 — use code BEYOMONO for your discount. https://www.krazykasbh.com Our sponsors: SDC.com — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Sign up with code 38236. ProDx Health — keeping us healthy and in the know. Use code BEYOMONO for 15% off.

What actually makes a swinger club great? On this Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris throw open the doors of their home club — Club Eden San Antonio — for a candid, laugh-out-loud review of everything a lifestyle club should be. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just ethical non-monogamy curious, consider this your field guide to on-premise club life. In this episode: The #1 thing to look for in any swinger club (hint: it's not the dance floor) Why vigilant staff make or break a lifestyle club — and the single-men policy that keeps the playroom comfortable The ladies' restroom that's basically a rite of passage, stocked with wipes, mouthwash, and photo-op lighting The infamous toilet paper story from their very first club visit — Pris's nightmare scenario, fully realized BYOB culture, Jell-O shot generosity, relaxed dress codes, and dancing naked from the front door The BDSM room, the spanking bench Adam insists is a "horse," and the porn room that delivered seven orgasms Why you should ALWAYS tip the hardworking playroom "chambermaids" Loaded fries, pizza, and a friendly warning about eating before you play If you've ever wondered what an open relationship night out looks like — or how to judge a swinger club before you commit — this ENM podcast quickie has you covered. Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central, at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com, Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Come see us: Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount! krazykasbh.com  Thanks to our sponsor: Pro DX Health — use code BEYOMONO for 15% off.

This one's serious, y'all — but it's a conversation the swinger lifestyle needs. Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on one of the darkest corners of ethical non-monogamy: sexual predators in the lifestyle. It's not the highlight reel, but after seeing too much of it lately, they're saying the quiet part out loud. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, the swinger podcast for lifestyle-curious couples and ENM veterans alike: What actually makes a predator — the difference between an awkward newbie's mistake and a genuine pattern of circumventing consent The red flags: pushing past a "no," repeat asking to wear someone down, escalating touch without checking in, using alcohol to lower guards, and pressuring one half of a couple when the other said no The saga of the drunk single guy (and his big box of White Claws) who creeped out the whole club — and how a great club staff handled it The gut-punch of realizing people you called friends were grooming newbies and targeting the newly single Adam & Pris debate: do you blast a known predator to the community, or is that not your job? (Spoiler: Adam is not swinger Batman) Why CNC dynamics mean things aren't always what they look like — and the look that tells you something is genuinely wrong How to protect yourself: speaking up, partner check-ins, reading the room, and why verification (SDC, 3Fun, video-verified groups) matters in open relationships Hang out with us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every past episode, the blog, the merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Full livestream replays are a Patreon-only perk. Also streaming Thursdays at 2PM & 7PM Central on Full Swap Radio — fullswapradio.com. Come party with us: Crazy Casba's Crazy Winter Nights 2027 is happening in February and we're doing LIVE shows! Lock in your spot at crazycasba.com with code BEYOMONO for a discount. And next Saturday we're celebrating Adam's birthday at Club Eden in San Antonio — sign up on their site, come find our couches, and say hello. We love meeting listeners! Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — real talk on the swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and open relationships.

Slut. It used to be the worst thing you could call someone. On this Wednesday Quickie, swinger lifestyle veterans Adam & Pris grab the S-word by the collar and ask: what actually makes someone slutty — and why are we still letting a word from the 1400s do our thinking for us? In this candid ethical non-monogamy (ENM) conversation, the real-life couple behind Beyond Monogamy digs into slut-shaming, double standards, and why the swinger community doesn't just tolerate sluttiness — it celebrates it. In this episode: Pris gets called a slut in sixth grade — and again as a freshman, for not giving it up The actual Merriam-Webster definition of "slut" and its 1400s origin story Alcohol vs. weed: which one actually lowers your inhibitions? Adam's hotwife kink and consensual "cheating" fetish — and what happens when the fantasy talk ends Pris discovers her "hot husband" dominant side ("You can borrow him. He's coming back.") Is being touchy-feely slutty? Is teasing? The couple debates what counts as slutty behavior The double standard: what do you call a man who acts the same way? "Just a man, baby." Slut-shaming inside the lifestyle — yes, it happens, and it's ridiculous Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your lifestyle, ENM, or kink confessions and we might read them on air! Also streaming on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. Come see us: We'll be at Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027! www.krazykasbh.com | Use code BEYOMONO for your discount. Our sponsors: SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile and explore: no weirdness, no judgment, just like-minded humans. Sign up at sdc.com with code 38236. Pro DX Health — we test, and they've got the hookup. Code BEYOMONO gets you 15% off. Keywords: swinger podcast, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, hotwife, slut-shaming, swinger lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast