Lead with the Enneagram with Host Tracy O’Malley
Lead with the Enneagram with Host Tracy O’Malley
Tracy O'Malley
If you are new to the Enneagram or are a hardcore Enneagram junkie, but aren’t sure what to do with this incredible growth tool to take all that work you are doing in Personal Development to actually transform your life, personally and professionally, you have landed on THE Perfect Podcast for YOU.In case you are new to me, I am Tracy O’Malley, highly sought after Master Performance Coach, Top Enneagram Expert, Multi-Millionaire Entrepreneur and a Mom to two incredible Millennials.I have helped millions all over the globe; individuals, couples, families, leadership teams, fortune 100 Executives and CEOs step into the leaders they were always designed to be and create an effective and beautiful culture not only in their Professional Teams, but also their Home Teams.In this show, not only will I teach you the complexities of the Enneagram, I will show you in real time how to integrate it in every area of your life. I will guide you to think and perform differently, uncover and change habits that no longer serve you, plus shift your relationship with money and intimacy by identifying where you are blocked and rewire those limiting beliefs.You will also be able to listen to this all in action as I feature beautiful candid interviews with people that walk their talk, while sprinkling in some hot seat coaching sessions and Client Spotlights with those that have gone before you on this journey with me.To do this, I will use a combination of my transformative method of Enneagram framework implementation, along with my unique performance coaching style that has allowed me to help transform millions of lives worldwide for over a decade. Give me your attention twice a week and I promise your life will change in ways you never imagined, personally and professionally. Live your life by design, not default.
EP392: Enneagam Hotline - Dropping the Armor- Embracing Authenticity and Healing Shame as a SP Enneagram 3 with Laurel Boylan
In this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," we dive deep into the world of Enneagram Threes, particularly those with a self-preservation instinct like our guest, Laurel Boylan. We explore how the Enneagram can be applied to family dynamics, especially in a household as diverse as Laurel's, with six different Enneagram types under one roof. I offer practical advice on how to communicate effectively with each type, emphasizing the importance of understanding their core motives and fears.Laurel and I discuss the challenges of overcoming a scarcity mindset, particularly around money, and the shame that can accompany it. I highlight the significance of meeting these fears with compassion rather than trying to eliminate them, and the power of nurturing our inner child's emotions to foster growth and change.We also touch on the concept of flow and how operating at a higher frequency of gratitude and compassion can unblock blessings and create a sense of fulfillment that hard work alone cannot achieve.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com
Jan 18
41 min
EP391: 4 Enneagram 8's walk onto an island together - The power of surrender and understanding the vulnerable parts of your type and tritype
In this episode, I reflect on a transformative trip I took with a group of seven other women to a small island in Mexico. This journey was a follow-up to last week's discussion about the importance of support and love in our lives, and it turned out to be a profound experience of vulnerability and growth for me.As an Enneagram 8, known for seeking power and control within a group, I consciously approached this trip with the intention to receive as much as to give. Surrounded by four other Enneagram 8s, two Enneagram 2s, one Enneagram 7, and one Enneagram 5, I found myself in a dynamic where, despite our intense and assertive nature, none of the 8s felt the need to take over. This was a testament to the trust we had in each other and the leadership of our Enneagram 7 friend who planned the trip.Each of us brought different tri-types to the table, which influenced our interactions and personal growth. Despite our shared motivations for independence, autonomy, and control, we each displayed our unique ways of dealing with anger and leveraging our heart and thinking centers of intelligence.During the trip, I was particularly mindful of not falling into my usual role of the rescuer, allowing myself to be vulnerable and open to receiving support. This was challenging, especially given my past experiences with betrayal and hurt from other women. However, I was determined not to let my spiritual gifts block my own blessings.Tune in to hear more and the lesson I received from a Mayan Prophet during our van ride!Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com
Jan 16
32 min
EP390: Slay, Scale, Sustain: A CEO Woman's Epic Journey Through Business Evolution and Personal Growth with Rashae Doyle (SP Enneagram 3)
Our special guest, Rashae Doyle, CEO and founder of Bevel Up, joins us to discuss her transformation from a nurse practitioner to a thriving business owner. Rashae embodies the essence of a powerhouse woman and shares her experiences of overcoming initial doubts and leveraging her Enneagram type to achieve success.We explore the complexities of leading a diverse team, the challenges of transitioning from a star employee to a CEO, and the importance of creating a supportive culture in a competitive industry. Rashae opens up about her personal growth journey, the significance of vulnerability in leadership, and how understanding her Enneagram type has helped her navigate business challenges and team dynamics.Listeners will gain insights into the value of the Enneagram in understanding and motivating team members, the balance between caring and crushing goals, and the fulfillment that comes from collective achievement.Join us for powerful conversations and learn how to lead with compassion, effectiveness, and a deep understanding of the Enneagram. Whether you're a seasoned Enneagram enthusiast or new to the concept, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you lead yourself and others more effectively.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com
Jan 11
48 min
EP389: Clearing the clutter for the relationships, support and community you desire and deserve in your life.
In this episode of "Lead with the Enneagram," host I discuss the importance of having a support system and community in our lives. Building a support system can be challenging, especially for introverts like me. However, I stress the significance of having people around us who can love us, hold us accountable, and help us achieve our goals.The episode also delves into the concept of vulnerability and the fear associated with it. I emphasize the importance of being vulnerable and exposing our weaknesses in order to receive the support we need. I discuss the difference between transparency and vulnerability, highlighting the need for real-time vulnerability where we share our current struggles and ask for help.I also touch on the clutter that can exist in our relationships and the need to clear the path for the kind of support we desire. I share how I have had to end friendships to make room for new, supportive relationships. I encourage you to assess their own relationships and determine if they are hindering or supporting their growth.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com
Jan 9
29 min
EP388: The Enneagram Hotline - Living life at warp speed, when YES is your default with Amy Bartko (SO Enneagram 7)
In this episode of the Lead with the Enneagram podcast, we had an enlightening conversation with Amy Bartko, an Enneagram 7, who shared her experiences with the overcommitment cycle and how the Enneagram has helped her navigate through it. Amy's story is a testament to the power of the Enneagram in creating long-term freedom and choices, which is especially significant for Enneagram 7s like her.We delved into the complexities of the Enneagram and how it can be applied to both personal and professional life. I shared my own journey from skepticism to embracing the Enneagram, and how it has transformed my approach to leadership, sales, and relationships.Amy and I discussed the challenges of being an Enneagram 7, such as the tendency to say "yes" to too many things and the struggle with feeling boxed in. We also touched on the importance of delegation and the value of giving people grace, recognizing that not everyone operates the same way.We explored Amy's tri-type, 7-4-9, and how it influences her work in high-level influencer and celebrity marketing. The combination of visionary thinking, empathy, and a nonjudgmental approach makes her uniquely effective in her field.Amy asked insightful questions about how to lean into her Enneagram type for greater success and how to identify and work with different Enneagram types in her life. We discussed the significance of pausing before committing, the value of asking questions, and the importance of understanding the motivations of others.This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in using the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth and better communication. Whether you're an Enneagram 7 or not, you'll find valuable insights into understanding and leading the people in your life.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame &amp; Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail<a...
Jan 4
49 min
EP387: How the Power of a Pause can set your entire 2024 on the right path for YOU
As we step into 2024, it's time to reflect on our goals and intentions. But before we charge ahead, I want to talk about the importance of taking a pause. This isn't about inaction; it's about intentional reflection to ensure our goals align with our true selves.I've been where you are, skeptical of the Enneagram, but now, with over a decade of experience, I've seen its transformative power in my life and the lives of others. Whether it's personal growth, family dynamics, or professional leadership, the Enneagram has been a guiding light.In this episode, we'll explore why pausing is crucial before setting goals. It's not just about what you want to achieve but understanding the core motives and fears that drive you. The Enneagram can help you identify these, ensuring your goals are genuinely yours, not influenced by external comparisons or pressures.I'll share personal anecdotes, like my powerful full moon sound bowl healing session and a deep conversation with friends, to illustrate the importance of digging deeper into our desires. It's about knowing who you are, which many of us struggle with. The Enneagram has been my tool for self-discovery, and it can be yours too.If you're ready to start the year with clarity and purpose, I encourage you to explore the Enneagram Blueprint. It's a highly accurate assessment that can provide you with the right information to navigate your journey. With this knowledge, you can leverage your strengths, be aware of your blind spots, and take action that aligns with your true self.Remember, growth is uncomfortable, but with the Enneagram as your compass, you can stay on track, even when the path gets rocky. Let's make 2024 a transformative year together.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame &amp; Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail<a href="https://tracyomalley.com"...
Jan 2
16 min
EP386: Step into 2024: A Journey Towards Choosing Your Word for the year that will set your 2024 on fire
Today we're exploring the power of choosing a theme word for the year.This past year has been a rollercoaster for me, filled with grief, challenges, and a lot of personal growth. I've learned the importance of not bypassing the hard feelings and truly going through the process to grow. Despite having a strong network of resources, I've realized the necessity of facing my struggles head-on.I recently had a transformative weekend with a close friend and strategist, which helped me start to emerge from my cocoon season. We discussed the concept of a theme word and how it can serve as a North Star through life's ups and downs. After much reflection and consideration, I've chosen "emerge" as my word for 2024. It signifies my readiness to step into new beginnings and embrace the next stage of my life.In this episode, I guide you through the process of choosing your word. It involves a compassionate acknowledgment of the past year's highs and lows, brainstorming with trusted friends or mentors, and considering your personal and professional life holistically.I encourage you to reflect on your Enneagram type, core fears, and blind spots when selecting your word. This self-awareness will help you stay grounded and focused throughout the year.Thank you for your support in 2023, and I look forward to growing together in 2024. Remember to share your theme word with me, and let's make this year transformative. Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame &amp; Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com
Dec 28, 2023
24 min
EP385: Enneagram Strategies for Effective Goal Setting : Transform Your 2024 Desires into Reality
In this episode I am talking all about goal setting! As we're in the week of setting goals for the new year, I want to guide you through goal setting for 2024 using the Enneagram lens. This episode is particularly special as we celebrate the four-year anniversary of the podcast.Today, we'll dive into how each Enneagram type can set goals effectively, avoiding common pitfalls and leveraging their unique strengths. We'll also discuss the importance of integrating this knowledge for true transformation, because as I always say, information doesn't equal transformation.Enneagram Insights for Goal SettingType 1 (Reformer): Aim for realistic and flexible goals. Balance self-improvement with self-acceptance.Type 2 (Helper): Prioritize self-honoring and self-care. Set boundaries and focus on personal achievements.Type 3 (Achiever): Balance goals with personal life. Set goals that aren't necessarily measurable and go beyond external validation.Type 4 (Individualist): Embrace unique personal goals and avoid comparison with others.Type 5 (Investigator): Incorporate social and emotional goals. Overcome analysis paralysis and balance knowledge with action.Type 6 (Loyalist): Address fear and anxiety. Build a supportive network and trust in your decision-making.Type 7 (Enthusiast): Prioritize and focus on key goals. Manage impulsiveness and embrace depth over excitement.Type 8 (Challenger): Balance assertiveness with collaboration and vulnerability.Type 9 (Peacemaker): Overcome inertia and passive resistance. Assert your own needs and prioritize personal goals.Common ChallengesBalancing ambition with mental health and wellness.Maintaining flexibility in goal setting.Recognizing the right to change your mind about your goals.Remember, the Enneagram is not just about understanding ourselves but also about leveraging who we are designed to be. If you're new to the Enneagram or my podcast, I encourage you to listen to previous episodes for a deeper understanding.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame &amp; Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy<a...
Dec 26, 2023
27 min
EP384: Beyond the Cocoon: The Real Truth in what it takes to soar into your Butterfly Szn with Aisha Marshall (SO Enneagram 3)
In this vulnerable and heartfelt episode, I sit down with my dear friend Aisha Marshall, a social Enneagram 3, to discuss the necessary parts of going into cocoon season in order to emerge as the best version of ourselves. Cocoon season is an unpredictable phase of self-exploration and unlearning unhealthy patterns. It varies for each individual, and there is no specific timeline or step-by-step guide to navigate it. We emphasize that cocoon season is disruptive and uncomfortable. It requires you to confront your coping mechanisms and address the pain that led to your development. Many people resist or rush through cocoon season due to its challenging and painful nature.We also explore the misconception that Enneagram 3s have it easy and we dive into the hidden costs and challenges they face. Whether you're an Enneagram 3 or someone who loves or leads them, this episode offers important insights and information.Join us as we navigate the journey from cocoon to butterfly season.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame &amp; Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com
Dec 21, 2023
54 min
EP383: Finding Holiday Harmony : Navigating the Season with Enneagram Wisdom
In this episode, I provide tips for each Enneagram type on how to navigate the holiday season and find harmony. I address the stressors and challenges that each type may face during this time and offer suggestions for growth and self-care.Enneagram Type 1 (The Reformer): Type 1s may struggle with the disruption of their sense of perfectionism and black-and-white thinking during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 2 (The Helper): Type 2s may overextend themselves and try to please everyone during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 3 (The Achiever): Type 3s may feel pressure to be the best at everything and put on a perfect holiday show.Enneagram Type 4 (The Individualist): Type 4s may experience heightened emotions and feelings of melancholy during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 5 (The Investigator): Type 5s may struggle with social demands and depletion of energy during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 6 (The Loyalist): Type 6s may experience heightened anxiety and worry during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 7 (The Enthusiast): Type 7s may overcommit and experience burnout during the holiday season.Enneagram Type 8 (The Challenger): Type 8s may struggle with control and dynamics during the holiday season, which can lead to anger and conflict.Enneagram Type 9 (The Peacemaker): Type 9s may settle for short-term harmony and neglect their own desires during the holiday season.Listen to this episode to find out my tips for each type as you head into the holiday season.Connect with Tracy:Tracy’s Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy’s Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy’s Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame &amp; Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy’s Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com
Dec 19, 2023
25 min
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