Beautifully Blended
Beautifully Blended
Larry Colbert
Every day, over 1300 new stepfamilies are formed. It's incredibly important to offer the necessary tools to support each family in finding help, hope, and healing. Larry and Julia, a dedicated couple with 15 years of marriage, are deeply passionate about sharing their stories, offering insights from the Bible, and emphasizing the importance of faith in God to help blended families blend beautifully. They firmly believe that patience, communication, and love are the three essential pillars of every marriage and family. These foundational tools can fortify any marriage and aid each family in achieving success. Tune in to the Beautifully Blended Podcast every two weeks as Larry and Julia Colbert discuss personal stories of failures, triumphs, and faith. This content is designed for families who may be facing struggles, seeking change, or simply wishing for a healthy and successful marriage and family. Join us as we work to help one marriage and family at a time learn to be Beautifully Blended.
Christian Marriage & Parenting 101: Q&A with the Colbert’s
In this episode, Larry and Julia discuss the complexities of blended families, emphasizing the importance of building relationships, maintaining systems, and navigating co-parenting challenges. They address how to deal with disrespect from ex-partners, creative budget-friendly date and family activities to strengthen marital bonds, and the importance of understanding sensitivity in stepchildren.Some key takeaways include:Maintaining systems and structures is essential for family unity.Reconciliation may not mean friendship, but it can lead to peace.Budget-friendly dates can be fun and meaningful. Change up the scenery for family fun.Lead with relationship, not just rules.
May 14, 2025
47 min
Do We Need Gender Roles In Our Marriage?
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended Podcast, hosts Larry and Julia discuss the complexities of marriage, focusing on the roles of husbands and wives, the importance of submission, and the need for mutual respect.They explore how cultural perceptions of marriage often conflict with biblical teachings, emphasizing the significance of servant leadership for husbands and respectful partnership for wives.The conversation also addresses the serious issue of abuse in relationships and the necessity of seeking help. Ultimately, they encourage couples to communicate openly and support each other in their roles, fostering a healthy and loving marriage.Some key takeaways include:Marriage requires effort, but with God's guidance, it is achievable.Mutual submission and respect are essential for a healthy marriage.Marriage is often viewed through the lens of personal happiness, but God's design is different.Submission in marriage is about willingly aligning with God's order, not oppression.
Apr 30, 2025
35 min
Inclusion VS Competition In Your Blended Family
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended Podcast, hosts Larry and Julia discuss the challenges faced by blended families, focusing on the importance of clear communication, understanding territorial feelings, and fostering a team-oriented environment.They emphasize the need for emotional awareness and the dangers of unspoken expectations, while providing practical tips for building inclusion and unity within the family.The conversation highlights the significance of love and forgiveness in overcoming territorialism and creating a harmonious family dynamic.Some key taweaways include: Clear communication of boundaries is essential for family direction.Territorial feelings often stem from fear of loss or change.Recognizing the root of territorialism is the first step to resolution.
Apr 16, 2025
36 min
How To Fight Fair
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended Podcast, hosts Larry and Julia discuss the complexities of blended families and the importance of fighting fair in marriage.They explore how past relationships can influence current conflicts, the significance of understanding love languages, and the necessity of maturity and wisdom in resolving disagreements.The conversation emphasizes setting boundaries for healthy conflict and viewing conflict as an opportunity for growth. The hosts encourage listeners to share their insights and apply these principles in their own relationships.Some key takeaways include: Recognizing when emotions are too high is important.Pre-deciding what is off limits can prevent hurtful arguments.Conflict should not be seen as a threat but as a chance to grow together.
Apr 2, 2025
34 min
Co-Parenting Is Not Easy. Period.
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended Podcast, Larry and Julia discuss the challenges and importance of having a unified vision in blended families.They explore how differing visions can create confusion and competition among children, and emphasize the need for trust and communication in a marriage.The conversation also highlights practical steps couples can take to achieve unity, including regular communication, joint planning, and seeking divine guidance.Some key takeaways include: A unified vision is essential for a successful marriage.Regular communication helps maintain unity in marriage.Joint planning is crucial for achieving shared goals.
Mar 19, 2025
23 min
The Hardest Years Of Marriage Are…
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of Beautifully Blended, Larry and Julia discuss the challenging seasons in marriages.They explore the importance of flexibility, communication, and conflict resolution, emphasizing how hard times can arise both from external circumstances and personal inflexibility.They insights on how to navigate these challenges, highlighting the significance of humility, empathy, and seeking help when needed. The conversation aims to offer hope and practical advice for couples striving to strengthen their relationships.Some key takeaways include:Inflexibility can lead to resentment and tension in marriage.Active listening and empathy are essential for a healthy marriage.Embracing humility can lead to better adaptability in relationships.
Mar 5, 2025
32 min
The Quickest Way To Divide A Marriage
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended Podcast, hosts Larry and Julia discuss the critical role of agreement in relationships, particularly in blended families.They explore how unresolved disagreements can lead to resentment and emotional distance. The conversation highlights practical steps couples can take to cultivate agreement, including prioritizing communication, seeking God together, and focusing on shared goals.Some key takeaways include:Agreement is essential for intimacy and connection in marriage.Communication is key to resolving conflicts effectively.Create regular spaces for open and honest conversations.
Feb 19, 2025
33 min
The Problem with "Playing House"
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here: https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended Podcast, hosts Larry and Julia discuss the implications of cohabitation versus marriage, particularly in the context of blended families and Christian values. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, the impact of living together without marriage on children, and the necessity of aligning relationships with God's design. The conversation provides practical steps for couples to honor God through their commitments.Some key takeaways include:Setting boundaries is crucial in relationships.Consider the long-term impact of your relationship choices on children.Creative solutions can help couples honor God's design.
Feb 5, 2025
38 min
Is Your Marriage More Important Than Your Kids?
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended Podcast, Larry & Julia discuss the importance of having a strong marriage as the foundation for a blended family. They explore the different types of love. Biblical love versus contractual love, and emphasizing the need for sacrificial love in relationships.The conversation highlights the significance of communication, the role of marriage as a ministry, and the impact of parental dynamics on children. Larry & Julia share personal anecdotes and insights on how to strengthen family bonds through a healthy marriage.Some key takeaways include: A strong marriage is essential for a blended family to thrive.Children observe and learn from their parents' relationship dynamics.Communication is crucial for maintaining a healthy marriage.The health of a marriage directly affects the family unit.
Jan 22, 2025
28 min
Create a Family Vision in 3 Easy Steps
Visit our website:https://www.beautifullyblendedpodcast.com/Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beautifullyblendedpodcast/Check out our pop-up shop here:https://beautifully-blended.printify.me/productsIn this episode of the Beautifully Blended podcast, hosts Larry and Julia discuss the significance of having a family vision! They emphasize the importance of unity, direction, and purpose in family dynamics, and how a clear vision can help navigate challenges.The conversation includes practical steps for creating a family vision, the role of prayer, and the importance of involving children in the process. They also introduce a free family vision tool to assist listeners in crafting their own family vision.Some key takeaways include: Having a unified vision prevents division.Involve children in the vision-making process.Accountability in the family vision is important.Utilize tools to help create and maintain a family vision.
Jan 8, 2025
33 min
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