Living Singlish… The girls of BeSelfishPod are talking the single life! The pros & cons of setting your standards and boundaries? Do you know the difference of Healthy Single or Toxic Single? Can having a “Type” mess up your chances on finding love? Can you reciprocate the love we want? So many questions so little time! Grab your wine, and your blanket and let’s chat!

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He was too nice!?! Did she really just say that ?! Lilly & Sharrell wanted to talk about boundaries in dating! Are platonic dates possible with the opposite sex? Is money enough to give it up? Why is there so much pressure in marriage?! Take a listen to Episode 9! Here we growww!

Ending 2022 with a BANG! There’s only days left in 2022 and Lilly and Sharrell go down memory lane! They shared their most powerful moments in their year and what they learned from it. Honestly it’s a great to recap and manifest 2023. But first they burn what they want to leave behind in 2022! Beautiful way for the ladies of BeSelfishPod end the year on a HERE WE GROW! Happy New Year! From the Be Selfish Pod Family!

Right before the holidays, Sharrell wanted to introduce Lilly to a life long friend of hers. He goes by , Shabazz the OG, a mentor, author, social media influencer and an all around OG. We sat down and did some catching up, but we definitely went in a covered topics about the Miami night life scene, to checking in, the streets then we flipped to mental health, finding your purpose and polyamory, Yes , y’all, We definitely went in with Shabazz . Towards the end, everything came full circle as Shabazz had a special little message for Sharrell! So sit , relax and expand your mind, HERE WE GROW!

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