SummaryIn this conversation, Alex Trippier and Nancy Reddy explore the evolving ideals of parenting, particularly focusing on attachment theory and its critiques. Reddy discusses the dubious science behind attachment theory, the historical context of motherhood, and the pressures placed on mothers today. They delve into the roles of fathers, the economic implications of motherhood, and the importance of community in parenting. Reddy emphasizes the need for a more nuanced understanding of caregiving, highlighting the significance of relationships and the ability to repair mistakes in parenting. The conversation also touches on the challenges of navigating parenting advice in the digital age and the lessons learned from raising multiple children.TakeawaysParenting ideals are constantly evolving.Attachment theory has dubious scientific backing.Motherhood is often viewed as a selfless act.Expectations of mothers have increased significantly over time.Fathers play a crucial role in caregiving.Economic factors influence the perception of motherhood.Community support is essential for effective parenting.Repairing mistakes in parenting is more important than perfection.Navigating parenting advice can be overwhelming in the digital age.Each child is unique and requires individualized attention. ChaptersKeywordsparenting, attachment theory, motherhood, fatherhood, economic implications, community care, parenting advice, modern motherhood, parenting expectations, parenting studies