Is it possible that a number between 1 and 9 can determine your personality? Have you ever wondered why you act the way you do at your best AND your worst? Is it possible for any of us to change, or does change come about when you start to learn who you really are at your core? Follow us on Instagram @bandofmothersofficial. To kick off our newest series, “IT ME: Identity in Motherhood,” we are talking all things Enneagram this week with Tess O’Driscoll of The Enneagram Mom. And you don’t want to miss this deep dive into our favorite personality tool, which has not only transformed our lives as friends and business partners but has hands down made us better moms. We explore: Why learning your Enneagram number helps improve all facets of your day-to-day life Whether we should “type” our kids What to do if your partner isn’t on board and why men/husbands in particular seem to shy away from learning the Enneagram  Tess explains all the numbers and how to find your type Shay sings “Cool for the Sitter,” a song about losing your identity around the younger cool-kid set ;) Moms leave messages about how learning the Enneagram has helped them and improved their lives   Resources: Tess O’Driscoll — The Enneagram Mom | Instagram | website | podcast   $12 Rheti Test from The Enneagram Institute   Book: The Wisdom of the Enneagram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types by Don Riso and Russ Hudson  To access any products or other endorsed items and brands mentioned in this episode, visit BOM.Market/Shop-The-Podcast. Do you want to share an inspiring, hilarious, or amazing story that we can air on an upcoming episode? Take a peek at what we’re looking for next and leave us a message here: www.bandofmothers.com/shareyourstory. Looking for a great gift, or in the mood to treat yourself? Shop our delightfully curated marketplace of amazing goods selected for moms, by moms at BOM.Market, including our own handcrafted, bespoke line of super-clean wellness products, High Plains Market. Use code BOMPOD for 15 percent off your first order! Join our super-high vibe private Facebook group for moms, #BANDOFMOTHERS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices