Send us Fan Mail Tim Cortazzo and I dig into raising daughters and sons with different instincts, why toughness is really confidence, and how to coach kids without breaking their spirit. The weight room becomes a tool, not a religion, as we push for specificity, rest, and joy that keeps kids in sport. • protect versus prepare as a parenting tension • firm language with positive reinforcement • problem solving over punishment in behavior and sport • when to coach your own kid and when to step...