AskYourselfWhyNot
AskYourselfWhyNot
Ask Yourself, Why Not ?
Ask Yourself Why Not is a feel-good personal growth podcast where two friends share what they're learning from self-help books, podcasts, and their community and talk through how it actually shows up in real life. Hosted by Shaye and Jayla, AYWN is rooted in a Why Not mindset choosing curiosity over pressure, honesty over perfection, and small, supportive shifts over trying to fix yourself. This is a space for real conversations, everyday wisdom, and reminders that you're allowed to grow gently and in your own time. Come as you are. Stay as long as you need.
What If the Next Version of You Starts With a Why Not? Come take a walk with us!
 Summary Join Jayla Robinson and Shaye Pentino  as they explore the benefits of functional health, new fitness experiences, and personal growth strategies. This episode offers insights into preventive medicine, trying new activities, and embracing a feminine approach to business and life.  keywords functional medicine, preventive health, yoga, personal growth, wellness, empowerment, business strategy, intuition, empowerment festival Key  topics Functional health and preventive medicine Unique yoga experiences and challenges The role of intuition and spirit guides in life Building a wellness-focused community event Strategies for embracing feminine approaches in business Titles Unlocking Preventive Health with Functional Medicine Trying New Fitness: A Yoga Experience and More  sound bites "Why not ask yourself why not?" "Yoga is very challenging and mental." "Be open to unexpected paths in life." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Walking Concept 02:39 Exploring Functional Health and Preventative Medicine 05:28 Yoga Experiences and Personal Growth 08:18 Building a New Studio and Overcoming Doubts 11:13 Setting Objectives vs. Goals in Business 13:55 EmpowerFest Wheeling and Community Engagement Resources Dr. Mark Hyman - Functional Medicine - https://www.instagram.com/drmarkhyman/ EmpowerFest Wheeling Tix  
Jun 11
16 min
Build Your Own Wellness Day: Inside EmpowerFest Wheeling 2026
Summary Join us as we explore the upcoming EmpowerFest Wheeling, a build-your-own day event filled with vendors, experience stations, and wellness activities. Discover how this event offers personalized health, beauty, and wellness services, and learn about the diverse range of vendors and experiences that make EmpowerFest Wheeling unique. Keywords Empower Fest, wellness event, health and beauty vendors, experience stations, personalized services, community event, holistic health, self-care, local vendors, wellness activities Key Topics EmpowerFest  Wheeling event overview Vendor and experience station highlights Personalized health and beauty services Community and networking opportunities Titles EmpowerFest Wheeling  2026: Build Your Own Wellness Day Discover the Top Vendors at Empower Fest 2026  Sound bites "Early mornings give me good energy." "Build your own day, your way." "Healing and wellness start here." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Ask Yourself Why Not Podcast 02:52 Empower Fest Overview and Highlights 05:24 Vendors and Experience Stations at Empower Fest 10:46 Wellness and Beauty Services Offered 16:27 Unique Vendors and Their Offerings 20:58 Conclusion and Event Details Resources EmpowerFest Tix  
Jun 4
21 min
Are We Delusional or Just Influenced?
summary Jayla and Shaye explore the humorous side of how we romanticize and delude ourselves with trends, supplements, and life expectations, reflecting on personal experiences and societal influences. keywords self-delusion, trends, wellness, supplements, life expectations, humor, personal growth, societal influence key topics Self-delusion and societal trends Humorous reflection on wellness and beauty trends Impact of social media on self-perception guest name  Titles Are We Delusional or Romanticizing Our Lives? The Funny Side of Wellness Trends and Self-Delusion sound bites "We are fully participating in the protein trend." "I've bought into every supplement, every trend." "We're romanticizing our lives in our 20s." Chapters 00:00 Empower Fest Launch and Updates 02:55 Delusions vs. Romanticizing Life 05:32 Health Trends and Supplements 08:26 Reflections on Youthful Delusions 11:33 Life Changes and Realizations 14:11 Nostalgic Beauty Trends 17:07 Embracing Delusion in Life Planning
May 14
22 min
Your Routine Might Be Running You—Let's Fix That
In this episode, Shaye and Jayla dive into the importance of regularly checking in with your routines to ensure they serve your well-being and happiness. They share practical tips on how to identify habits that may no longer benefit you and ways to make intentional changes for a more fulfilled life. Key Topics: The significance of adapting routines as life evolves Recognizing unhelpful habits and habits that no longer serve you Practical ways to reset during everyday transitions (like in line or while commuting) The role of dopamine and how to get it from healthy, meaningful sources Spring cleaning your mental space and physical environment for mental clarity The importance of connection and intentionality in daily life Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and upcoming Empower Fest event 00:58 - Details about Empower Fest Wheeling on June 27th 02:07 - How to get involved as a vendor, sponsor, or experience station 03:04 - Tips for event sponsorships and ideas like signature drinks or swag 04:30 - The theme of the episode: checking in with routines to see if they still serve us 05:28 - How routines evolve and the importance of adapting them 06:23 - Mindful coffee drinking and managing caffeine intake 07:14 - Using lunch and breaks more intentionally 08:35 - Being present during car rides and waiting in lines, disconnecting from phones 09:54 - Transition moments and how they affect stress levels and productivity 10:20 - Moving through the day without energy or mental space 11:46 - The thriving need for dopamine and avoiding instant gratification 13:00 - The brain's craving for dopamine and healthy ways to meet that need 13:58 - Connection, real food, and physical movement as sources of dopamine 14:27 - Spring cleaning for your mind and environment 15:27 - Over-scheduling and reconnecting with loved ones and yourself 15:54 - Closing encouragement to tune into what benefits your well-being Resources & Links: Mark Hyman - Brain and Dopamine (search: "Mark Hyman" on Amazon for related books) Kroger 80 Acre Salad (search your local Kroger for availability) Connect with Shaye & Jayla: Instagram Facebook
Apr 23
15 min
Hurt or Fueled? Choosing Growth When Criticism Hits
Are you tired of feeling hurt or defensive when faced with criticism or insults? In this episode, Shaye and Jayla explore how to recognize, reframe, and leverage negative comments—whether direct or backhanded—to propel your personal and professional growth. Key topics: The significance of insults and negative feedback as signals rather than setbacks Personal stories of pivotal moments involving misunderstood or backhanded insults How to use criticism to ignite motivation and prove doubters wrong Recognizing when comments reflect others' limitations versus your potential Strategies for maintaining confidence and setting boundaries amid negativity The importance of reframing "insults" into opportunities for self-awareness Practical ways to handle unwelcome opinions: asking ChatGPT for perspective, talking with friends, or going for a walk The power of self-reflection: understanding why certain remarks sting and how to turn that into growth Overcoming imposter syndrome and societal expectations through resilience and self-trust Cultivating gratitude and redirecting energy into positive action and self-affirmation Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to turning insults into growth opportunities 00:28 - Announcing EmpowerFest Wheeling details and engagement opportunities 02:17 - Handling backhanded and unkind comments in personal life and career 03:15 - Overcoming initial feelings of insult during real estate career beginnings 04:40 - How a comment about young motherhood fueled Jayla's motivation 06:00 - Seeing criticism as a reflection of others' limitations, not personal failure 07:17 - Facing COVID-related challenges and asserting confidence in business 08:46 - Using feedback to highlight your competence, not diminish it 10:10 - Acknowledging the power of pushing through perceived limitations 11:33 - Reframing societal labels like "too much" or "all over the place" into assets 12:33 - Recognizing the value in personal routines and boundaries 13:31 - The role of others' perceptions in growth and setting boundaries 15:24 - Self-awareness, apology, and growing from accidental missteps 16:44 - The importance of understanding your communication style and energy 17:40 - Overcoming the narrative of being "too much" and embracing your full self 18:36 - Practical tools: asking ChatGPT for perspective, talking with friends, and physical movement 19:06 - Final thoughts and encouragement to embrace criticism as a growth tool   Remember, every insult or criticism can be spun into motivation. Your response defines your growth!
Apr 16
18 min
Breaking the Groundhog Day Routine: Small Shifts for a More Exciting Life
Breaking the Groundhog Day Routine: Small Shifts for a More Exciting Life In this episode, Shay and Jayla explore practical ways to break free from the monotony of daily routines and infuse more excitement, awareness, and purpose into everyday life. Whether you're feeling uninspired or just looking for fresh ideas, these tips can help you create more space for joy and growth. Key Topics: How our brains operate on autopilot and why routines can feel monotonous Simple ways to introduce novelty, like changing inputs or trying new experiences The power of micro-adventures and local explorations to boost mood How to incorporate intentional focus and mindfulness into daily activities Practical tips for reducing overwhelm by asking for help or delegating tasks Using gratitude, reflection, and perspective shifts to enhance overall well-being Tools and apps, like masterclass and health trackers, to inspire learning and self-care The importance of connection—reaching out to friends and re-evaluating your perceptions Timestamps: 00:00 - Introducing Empower Fest 3.0 and upcoming event details 00:31 - Venue highlights and food vendor updates at Waterfront Hall 01:27 - Experience stations and vendor showcases at EmpowerFest 02:51 - Intentional living and creating space in your day 03:17 - Reflecting on the busy first quarter and finding pauses 04:16 - The concept of "softening" and asking for help 05:14 - The benefits of creating mental and physical space 06:08 - Tips for reducing mental overload and managing nervous system health 07:03 - The idea of brain dump and to-do list management 07:56 - Self-care practices like dressing up or trying new products 08:45 - Using wearables like Aura Ring to understand your body better 10:31 - Eating mindfully and avoiding distractions 11:25 - Micro adventures and local exploration as a way to challenge routines 12:19 - Reframing perceptions and hosting small adventures in daily life 13:44 - Trying new activities, like rollerblading, and discovering new spots 14:43 - Planning future self-care activities and learning experiences 15:36 - Cultivating human connection and reaching out intentionally 16:34 - Shifting perspectives on irritations and challenges 17:31 - Summing up small ways to spark inspiration and gratitude Resources & Links: MasterClass Aura Ring Oglebay Park Fort Henry Capital Waterfront Hall Connect with Shay & Jayla: Shay on LinkedIn Jayla on Instagram Let's embrace small intentional changes to brighten our days and renew our spirit!
Apr 2
19 min
Create Space & Soften: Practical Tips to Reduce Stress and Find Calm
Summary In this episode, Jayla and Shaye explore the importance of creating space and softening in our busy lives. They share practical tips on how to ask for help, declutter your mind, and prioritize mental well-being to enhance overall life balance.  keywords mindset, self-care, mental health, time management, stress relief, empowerment, self-improvement key  topics Creating space in daily life The concept of softening and asking for help Managing stress and nervous system health  takeaways Creating space in your day can reduce stress and improve mental health. Asking for help, like carpooling, can free up mental and physical space. Writing things down or decluttering can help clear mental overload. Recognizing signs of stress, such as acid reflux or sleep disturbances, is crucial. Small acts of doing nothing can significantly improve well-being. Titles Create Space, Find Calm: Practical Mindset Tips The Power of Softening: How to Reduce Stress and Overload  sound bites "Putting things on paper helps clear mental overload." "Recognize signs like acid reflux as your nervous system in overdrive." "Feel a little better inside by creating space and asking for help." Chapters 00:00 Empower Fest 3.0 Announcement 03:30 Creating Space in Our Lives 09:51 Softening and Letting Go    
Mar 26
11 min
Stop Starting Over: Simple Mindset Shifts That Help You Reset and Move Forward
Episode Description Ever feel like you've "fallen off" and have to start everything over? In this episode, Shaye and Jayla talk about a mindset shift that can change the way you approach goals, habits, and personal growth: you don't need to start over — you just need to start again. So many people abandon progress because of an all-or-nothing mindset. One missed workout, one off week, one imperfect moment suddenly feels like failure. But growth doesn't disappear because life got messy. In this conversation, we explore five powerful mindset shifts that help you reset, refocus, and move forward with more self-trust and less pressure. Because real consistency isn't about perfection — it's about returning. In This Episode We Talk About The "Start Again" Mindset Why missing a habit doesn't erase your progress and how learning to return is the real key to consistency. The Stories Your Brain Repeats How the thoughts you rehearse about yourself slowly become your identity — and how changing the narrative can change everything. The Energy Audit Why you might feel exhausted even when you're not that busy, and how identifying what drains your energy can help you feel more clear and focused. Discipline as Self-Respect Why confidence doesn't come from motivation — it comes from keeping small promises to yourself. Stop Borrowing Worry From the Future How overthinking steals peace from the present and why most of the things we worry about never actually happen. Ask Yourself, Why Not? Why not start again today instead of waiting for Monday? Key Takeaway Growth isn't built from perfect streaks. It's built from the moments you decide to return.
Mar 19
6 min
The "I'm Fine" Trap: Why Women Delay Their Own Health
Episode Description In this episode of Ask Yourself, Why Not?, Jayla and Shaye share reflections from a recent family/soccer team trip to Chile and how stepping outside of daily routines sparked a bigger conversation about women's health. So many women are experts at taking care of everyone else — scheduling appointments, managing households, and making sure the people they love are supported. But somewhere along the way, their own health checkups often get postponed. This episode is a reminder that preventative care and self-care aren't luxuries — they're essential. Shaye and Jayla talk about the mindset behind the "I'm fine" trap, why so many women delay their own medical appointments, and small ways to start treating your health like a priority again. Because the truth is: taking care of yourself is one of the most important things you can do for the people who rely on you. In this episode we talk about: Why women often put their own health last The "I'm fine" mindset that keeps us from scheduling checkups How travel and stepping outside your routine can shift perspective Simple ways to start prioritizing preventative care Modeling healthy habits for your kids and family Key Takeaway Your health deserves the same priority as everything else on your calendar. Not someday. Not when things slow down. Now.
Mar 12
21 min
Small Steps, Big Change: Micro-Habits for Real Life Growth (Mindset Munchie)
Embracing Bite-Sized Personal Development: How Small Steps Transform Your Growth In this episode, Shaye and Jayla discuss the power of small, manageable actions in personal growth and self-development. Perfect for busy minds, they emphasize that you don't need to finish every book or overhaul your entire routine — just taking one page or one action a day can lead to meaningful change.   Key Topics: The importance of bite-sized content in busy lives How completing all books isn't necessary; focus on snippets that inspire Personal experiences with favorite books like Rhonda Byrne's "Countdown to Riches" and Gabby Bernstein's programs The concept of taking one small, focused action daily inspired by "Atomic Habits" Managing expectations and perfectionism in personal development journeys How mental health benefits from simple, consistent micro-actions The significance of reducing pressure to "do it all" and embracing progress The role of technology apps in facilitating daily growth activities Reflections on past challenges and the power of persistence and small wins Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and episode intro: redefining personal growth with small steps 02:20 - Our relationship with self-help books and podcasts: finishing vs. consuming in bite-sized pieces 03:33 - How consuming varied content influences your mindset and persona 04:27 - The challenge of finishing books and embracing incomplete progress 05:49 - Focus on recent practices: Rhonda Byrne and Gabby Bernstein's 21-day programs 06:45 - The benefits of 21-day focus challenges on clarity and manifestation 07:42 - Introducing "The Pivot Year": building confidence with daily small insights 08:41 - Connecting "Atomic Habits" to daily micro-actions for lasting change 09:31 - Actionable tips: taking small steps during anxiety or overwhelm 10:30 - Revisiting the roots of the podcast and the power of consistent manifestation practices 11:18 - Tools and apps to support daily growth and reducing pressure 12:06 - Overcoming perfectionism: doing enough without the stress of "doing it all" 12:36 - Future plans for the podcast: deep dives, community episodes, and growth goals 13:04 - Gratitude for listeners and encouragement to share and support the community     Resources & Links:   Atomic Habits by James Clear Rhonda Byrne's Countdown to Riches  Gabby Bernstein's 21-Day Manifestation Challenge James Clear Podcast with Mel Robbins Your Favorite Meditation & Journaling App    Connect with Shaye & Jayla:   Instagram Website (if applicable)   Note: Remember, small consistent actions create profound long-term results. Don't stress over finishing everything — just showing up with a little effort each day is enough.              
Mar 5
12 min
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