On this month's Deep Dive interview, Brat Whisperer Lola Jean joins me to talk all about how to find your inner brat and, more importantly, negotiate the conditions that will allow (controlled, joyful) chaos to reign. You are a cute puzzle!  Going patreon at $11/month to get the full hour-long interview here: <a href= "https://www.patreon.com/posts/brat-motivations-79112905">https://www.patreon.com/posts/brat-motivations-79112905</a>  Or join at $5/month to join us live for our next Deep Dive interview with @safeslut all about STI’s, safer sex, and her life as an HSV+ queen!  <a href= "https://www.patreon.com/askasub">https://www.patreon.com/askasub</a>  Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com More on my breakup with Instagram: <a href= "https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship">https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship</a> Subscribe to the subby substack for free short form content: <a href= "https://askasub.substack.com">https://askasub.substack.com</a>  Free & Public Friday Q&As: <a href= "https://discord.gg/AvkZ9f6BtY">https://discord.gg/AvkZ9f6BtY</a>  Follow Lola: <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/lolajeandotcom/" target="_blank" rel= "nofollow noopener">Instagram</a> | <a href= "https://twitter.com/lolajeandotcom" target="_blank" rel= "nofollow noopener">Twitter</a> | <a href= "https://lolajean.com/" target="_blank" rel= "nofollow noopener">Her Website</a>

13. Don’t SUBlimate Your Feelings

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.