A thoughtful gift prompts deep discussion about childhood insecurities and overcoming them. From the flow state things that make you forget about time, to the pro’s and cons of being self employed vs having a job, we cover a lot of ground. Finally, we talk about a heavy topic: assisted suicide. We share feelings and thoughts, showing that tough subjects can be handled with care. Join us for a laid-back, insightful journey through life's big questions. If you enjoy today’s episode then please consider sharing with a friend as these conversations can be more beneficial to a wider audience.  Contact us at [email protected] But most importantly, love yourselves and each other ❤️ ✌️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

A candid conversation about all the weird and wonderful things that being a paraplegic entails. We hope that hearing us laugh about it can help newly injured folk come to terms with their situation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

A conversation on honesty, relationships and distance.  Benji talks about the joys of his recent holiday with his mum and girlfriend and the challenges of long distance relationships.  Freddo talks of having the opposite experience when enveloped in a love bubble with his girlfriend. We explore the nature of direct communication and ask why it can feel so uncomfortable sometimes, while remaining crucial for personal growth and resolving conflicts. Is it better to be kind than to be right? How do we balance politeness with honesty, and when should we choose one over the other?  These timeless questions form the crux of our discussion, infused with a blend of serious introspection and light hearted banter that characterises Apes on Tape conversations. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

Pedaling dreams from Argentina to Alaska. I was fortunate to recently meet Christian Hosking, who accomplished something truly extraordinary by cycling not only through the rugged terrains of Patagonia and the demanding Alaskan wilderness but also enduring a continuous mental trial. Over 18 months, he cycled two continents. Each pedal seemed to bring new challenges and insights, which he shares with me over an informal chat. His journey is fascinating and we go on to talk about some great coincidences involving him listening to the entire back catalogue of this podcast on his ride.  Check out his YouTube channel : Kooks on Bikes https://www.youtube.com/@chosking132 Get in Touch : [email protected] --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

Pete was there on the day of my Spinal Cord Injury, playing a pivotal role in the rescue mission after I snowboarded off a cliff. Now, in his second podcast visit, we catch up on life post-accident. It's a down-to-earth conversation, full of real talk and reflections on where life has taken us since that fateful day.  We share how the accident's ripples have affected us in different ways, discussing personal growth, unexpected challenges, and the twists and turns of life after such a life-changing event. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

In this special in person episode, Benji shares how he met Roz, and Freddo shares how he met Cris, a pair of equally sweet stories of romance and love ❤️ We share how special the serendipitous journeys running in parallel have multiplied the joy for both of us. We share the biggest lessons learned, highlights, lowlights and accomplishments from both of us. We also end up in tears at the end when Benji reads a very emotional tribute to his friend Barbara who passed away last year. As always, we love to hear your feedback and you can reach us at [email protected] Love yourselves and each other! ❤️✌️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

“Yule Can’t Handle The Truth” Welcome, dear listeners, to another heartfelt episode of apes on tape, where raw conversations intertwine with laughter, exploring the profound tapestry of friendship, mental health, and the quirks that make us human. In this week's authentic exchange, Benji vulnerably unfolds the recent loss of a dear friend, unravelling the intricate tapestry of emotions that inevitably accompany such a profound event. Simultaneously, Freddo sheds light on his ongoing struggle with the constraints that winter now imposes, transforming it from the once cherished snowboarding haven into a season marked by personal limitations. Yet, amidst the poignant narratives, there's room for laughter. Freddo, ever the storyteller, injects humor into the conversation, weaving in funny anecdotes from recent holidays. And, of course, a podcast with Freddo wouldn't be complete without a classic poo story that will leave you chuckling. Throughout the highs and lows, both hosts emphasise the pivotal role close friendship plays, providing a sanctuary for honest conversations. They remind us that authenticity and vulnerability strengthen bonds, creating a safe space where every emotion, be it joy or sorrow, is welcome. Jump on board this emotional rollercoaster episode filled with laughter, genuine connection, and the beauty of real conversation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

In today's conversation, Freddo chat’s with Tom Powell, a dedicated listener of the podcast, who recently reached out with a question about mushroom ceremonies. Little did we know, our connection would lead us to a story too incredible not to share. Tom just happened to be there on the day when Freddo snowboarded off a cliff, resulting in a life-altering accident that left him paralysed from the waist down.  During our conversation, Tom takes us back to that life-changing day, sharing details that even Freddo didn't know about.  But it's not just about the accident; our discussion takes intriguing turns, with the bizarre revelation that NOT wearing a helmet that day, may have just saved Toms life, averting him from the perilous danger that lay ahead. From the profound significance of gratitude, to the courage to open up about mental health struggles, this conversation started as a lighthearted exchange but ventured into deeper, more meaningful territory.  Whether you're a longtime listener or new to our podcast, we're confident that you'll find something valuable in this episode. We love to hear from you, send us your thoughts and feedback to [email protected] Until next time, love yourselves and each other ❤️ ✌️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

Benji recounts another vehicle mishap, leading to a heartwarming tale of community support involving a helpful neighbour with a tractor. The conversation takes an intriguing turn when Benji wonders if AI could replicate the profound wisdom of philosopher Alan Watts. Could an AI, armed with Watts' vast catalog of talks, generate new insights and knowledge? Freddo contemplates the possibility that the AI Alan could even surpass the original, sparking a fascinating discussion about the potential of AI and the question of who, if anyone, they would choose to replicate using this technology. From the realms of simulation theory to the mind-expanding effects of psychedelics, Benji and Freddo delve deep into thought-provoking topics, fueling their signature style of imaginative exploration. Tune in to this episode for misadventures, musings, as we traverse the fascinating landscapes of the mind and the future. We love to hear from you, send us your thoughts and feedback [email protected] Love yourselves and each other ❤️ ✌️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message

The Story of My Dad That Died While Freddo initially shares lighthearted tales of joy and inspiration stemming from a mushroom ceremony, Benji throws a curveball with probing questions about Freddo's relationship with his parents. This unexpected twist leads to a poignant and deeply personal story: Freddo's discovery of his father's lifeless body when he was just 8 years old. Freddo recounts this traumatic scene with an almost robotic detachment, offering a unique perspective on how a child's mind can shield them from the full weight of such tragic circumstances. He vividly describes the event, highlighting his surprising lack of tears or immediate sadness. As the conversation unfolds, Benji's inquiries uncover surprising revelations that suggest Freddo's father's death may not have been as random as it initially seemed. A hand-written note delivered to Freddo after his 18th birthday further complicates the narrative. Together, Freddo and Benji piece together fragments of the past, gradually realising that there may be more to the story than meets the eye. Prepare for an emotional journey as Freddo bravely shares the story of his childhood and how both he and Benji grappled with the loss of their fathers at a young age.  The episode navigates this sensitive topic with utmost respect, offering a deeply moving and thought-provoking exploration of their shared experiences. We'd love you to get in touch with us with any questions you have, or any topics you'd like us to chat about. If you'd like to take part in the podcast, we're open to having more guests, so please email us on: [email protected] ❤️✌️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/apesontape/message