And The Next Thing You Know PodcastEpisode 017: Susie Bright Susie Bright, all pink like ruby grapefruit! Susie Bright, prolific author, editor, and sex-positive feminist pioneer, is on And The Next Thing You Know podcast!Susie and I got together to talk about our evolving relationships with alcohol. For a lot of us, the social isolation of the pandemic shifted our drinking habits. This was true for me, as well as for Susie and her partner Jon.My conversation with Susie about booze comes from a harm reduction perspective. Let’s be honest about how people choose to live and celebrate joy, and minimize the harm. In the era of early HIV/AIDS, Susie contributed to a more transparent cultural dialogue celebrating sex and sexuality, and helped us take the shame out of it. That’s how it’s done.Susie Bright’s list of credits and accomplishments is vast! She was the editor of On Our Backs magazine from 1984 to 1991, author of Susie Sexpert’s Lesbian Sex World, author and editor of scores of other books and erotica collections, and one of Hollywood’s first intimacy coordinators—before it was even a thing—on the set of Lana and Lily Wachowski’s film Bound. She continues to share her prolific work with the world as a film and culture critic, expert teacher of writing and publishing, and audio producer who brought Allison Bechtel’s groundbreaking Dykes To Watch Out For comics to life for Audible last year.Find Susie Bright at her bloghttps://susiebright.ink References the Suz(s)ies talked about in the episode Me and a bespoke stack o’ books for Susie Tristan Taormino’s Opening Up, Vito Russo’s The Celluloid Closet, Please Kill Me: The Uncensored Oral History of Punk by Legs McNeil and Gillian McCainSusie’s commentary on queer self-hatred in The Children’s Hour from the 1995 documentary The Celluloid Closet, based on Vito Russo’s book. (YouTube link)Radical Desire: Making On Our Backs Magazine at the Cornell University archiveSusie Bright’s books at Bookshop Santa Cruz 

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 016: In Memory of Jenessa Schwartz - There's Blood In My Stool (Rebroadcast) The transcript for the new introduction is here. My niece Jenessa Schwartz died on November 1, 2023, after living with a stage 4 colon cancer diagnosis since March, 2017. She was 41 years old. This is a rebroadcast of our podcast conversation from 2019, with an updated introduction. We talked in detail about the early days of her diagnosis, many of the various treatments she endured, and the effects of surgery and chemo on her spirits. We also talked about what it was like to discuss her cancer with her young kids, and how she embraced a new relationship amid this major transition in her life. Early onset colon cancer is on the rise. If you have any GI symptoms you’re suspicious about, at any age, talk to your doctor about getting a colonoscopy. And if you’re 45 or older, even with no symptoms, it’s time to schedule your first screening colonoscopy. If you detect colon cancer early, it’s very treatable. Get on that. If you’d like to learn more about Jenessa, please read her truly wonderful blogs My Colon Cancer: Semicolon, Not Full Stop about her experience as a stage 4 cancer thriver and Womb For Hire  about becoming a gestational surrogate. There is also a lovely obituary written by Leslie Katz for J. The Jewish News of Northern California.We love you, Ness. Suzie Shermanis the host and producer of And The Next Thing You Know. She's a podcaster, writer, content marketer, and ever-aspiring creative noodler.

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 015: Shawna Virago Photo by Lindsay Gauthier, courtesy of Shawna Virago This is my conversation with Shawna Virago. Shawna is an indie punk/roots/folk musician and singer-songwriter, and the Artistic Director of the San Francisco Transgender Film Festival. In this episode, we talk about coming up in the eclectic L.A. music scene in the 70s and 80s, seeing artists like Screamin’ Jay Hawkins, Bo Diddley, and gay punk rocker Tom Robinson live, and what it was like gigging at frat parties while trans. Photo by Lydia Daniller, courtesy of Shawna Virago We also talk about Shawna’s move to San Francisco, and Shawna’s surprising and nourishing meet-cute with longtime partner, the choreographer and Fresh Meat Productions Artistic Director, Sean Dorsey. Since the 1990s, Shawna and Sean have done some heavy lifting in the queer and trans communities in the San Francisco Bay Area and beyond to create vibrant trans visibility, community, and culture.Read a lovely piece about Shawna and Sean in the Advocate.Musical interludes in this episode are from Shawna Virago’s “Eternity Street,” used with permission. Find Shawna at shawnavirago.com and support Shawna on Bandcamp. Shawna Virago Metaphorically Punches Lou Reed in the Face: The Spotify Playlist I made a playlist to accompany this episode! It’s got original songs from Shawna, along with a bunch of the artists we talk about in the episode, including Bo Diddley, the Chiffons, X, Bowie, T. Rex, Amanda Lear, Jayne County, and many more! The Spotify Playlist Is Here Queer history, activists, authors, and institutions referenced in the episode

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Episode 014: Oliver Strimpel Oliver Strimpel in the field. Photo courtesy of Oliver and Harriet Strimpel In this episode of And The Next Thing You Know, I talk with the creator and host of the podcast Geology Bites, Oliver Strimpel. If you&#8217;re curious about what drives plate tectonics, or about the composition of rocks and the amazing amount of information they contain about Earth&#8217;s prehistoric climates, if you&#8217;ve ever wondered what shapes a mountain ridge, or a  canyon, Geology Bites is a podcast for the geoscience informed and the just curious alike!In the episode, we talk about the path Oliver has taken from his childhood in India, marveling in the Himalayas, to his PhD work in astrophysics studying galaxy clusters. Oliver then worked at the Science Museum in London, and parlayed that work to his move to the United States in the 1980s to direct the Computer Museum in Boston. Oliver&#8217;s career path then took a sharp turn to patent law, and we talk about how the language of patents is kind of like poetry, and helps with podcast editing, as it turns out. Through it all, Oliver is driven by genuine curiosity and joy in learning about how the cosmos works, and the ingenuity humans use to understand it. Find Oliver&#8217;s podcast Geology Bites at geologybites.com or in your podcast app. Continuity and correction A note on the timing of this episode and some corrections: At the beginning of the episode, Oliver says he started his podcast &#8220;last July&#8221; and that really means July of 2020, because it was already July of 2021 when we sat down together to talk. Later on, Oliver mentions that he&#8217;s about to publish episode number 37, which was his conversation with guest, Steve D&#8217;Hondt, about 100-million-year-old bacterial colonies living in the abyssal clay at the bottom of the Pacific Ocean. That episode of Geology Bites was also posted back in July of 2021. Geology Bites is soon to break 60 episodes. I am posting this episode of And The Next Thing You Know several months after Oliver and I sat down to talk, so the time registry between our conversation and this episode are out of sync. My apologies for the continuity confusion.One more correction, also at the beginning of the episode, Oliver guesses that Nanga Parbat is about the &#8220;fifth or sixth&#8221; highest peak in the world; it is in fact, the ninth highest peak. <a href="https://i0.wp.

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 013: Kati Douglas Arlene Easterwood Photography Early childhood educator and photographer Kati Douglas and I talk about her career in the education field and what her first few years in leadership were like. We talk about what it&#8217;s like to deal with white supremacy as a biracial Black mom of Black kids with a Black partner. We also talk about how her struggle with postpartum depression catalyzed a radical career path change, and how she puts equity and justice at the center of all her work. You can find Kati’s absolutely gorgeous photography atxilophotography.com and @xilophotography on instagram. Themes we discuss in the episode Early childhood education, leadership in education,  San Francisco, Oakland, post-partum depression, self-care, mental health, parenting, photography, career path, career transitions, relationships, Black Lives Matter, institutional oppression in education, Black experience in parenting, making art, grief. References we talked about in the episode The wonderful Buen Dia Family School, serving preschoolers in the Mission in San Francisco. Kati’s principal at Flynn Elementary in San Francisco was Dr. Karling Aguilera-Fort, now a superintendent of schools in Southern California.We talk in the episode about the acquittal of Treyvon Martin&#8217;s murderer, and about the murder of George Floyd, and the Black Lives Matter movement. Learn BLM herstory here. Patron Shout! Thank you to ALL my patrons for making this podcast happen, and for making it better! And a special shout out, as always, to my Failure and Redemption level patrons: Noah, Melissa, Marck, Lisa, Kurt, Kristina, Jen, Jeannie, Heather, Elyse, Liz, Eidell, Bonnie, Barry, and Amy, and to my Serendipity level patrons: Steve and Cyndi, Micharelle, Laurie, Kristi, Dorian, Brittany and Jodi.You, too, can become a patron of the show at patreon.com/nextthingpod. Patrons now get billed only when I release an episode, so you won&#8217;t even get billed monthly! Set it and forget it, and I&#8217;ll give you a heads-up before you get charged. This is a one-person operation, and it&#8217;s made better with your support. Thank you.

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 012: Dana Morrigan, epic karaoke host Photo of Dana Morrigan by Tristan Crane, from their series Here Portraits. Today, I talk with Dana Morrigan, wonderful human, wry wit, queer nonbinary transfeminine spoken word artist, writer, performer, and epic karaoke host! It’s about her quest for self-knowledge across many parts of her life: in her cultural affiliations, in her work, in her relationships, in her gender and sexuality, in finding her creative callings. And the through-line is really that the process of finding ourselves is lifelong, and, if you’re doing it right, you can help other people find themselves, too. Themes we talked about in the podcast We talked about: growing up in the Catskills of the ‘60s and ‘70s; identifying with cultural outlaws like Tiny Tim and Harpo Marx, and identifying with genderfluid and sexually free hippie culture; we talked comedy and improv; performance; writing, both creatively and professionally; copywriting; the demands of academia; heteronormative relationship expectations; gender and sexual discovery; finding the language to better understand oneself; the lifelong project of integrating one&#8217;s sense of self and belonging; finding and creating community; queer and trans performance; queer open mic; karaoke&#8230;and so many other things! Find Dana! Keep up with Dana&#8217;s karaoke, spoken word, and other creative projects on her social channels!  Karaoke With Dana on Facebook@KaraokeWithDana on Instagram and @KaraokeWithDana on Twitter Dana's performance history One of the main open mic events Dana performed at was The SF Queer Open Mic. They no longer hold events, but you can still find the community and archive online.Dana also participated in the Fresh Meat Festival of Trans and Queer Performance. Cultural references

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 011: Kurt Granzow/Sister Krissy Fiction Kurt Granzow and his inner beast! Coming out as a conservative Christian, and gay, at the same time Kurt Granzow came into himself as a gay man at the same time that he found support as a conservative Christian in a Lutheran community in the San Francisco Bay Area in the early &#8217;90s. What came next was a decade of communion and pursuit of ministry within the church, all the while denying his own need to express his true sexuality and capacities for an authentic kind of personal, queer love in his life. This included a heterosexual marriage and divorce, an inner reconciliation of the pain in himself and the pain he caused others, and a project moving forward of personal accountability and operating, literally, in good faith.He’s spent the last two decades finding queer and spiritual community outside the church, and is now also known as Sister Krissy Fiction of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, an international order of queer nuns &#8220;promelgating universal joy and expiating stigmatic guilt!&#8221; Kurt as Sister Krissy Fiction of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Themes we talked about in the podcast Coming out as gay in the early &#8217;90s; coming out as a conservative Christian; conservative Lutheranism and conservative Christian theology; the so-called “ex-gay” movement; LGBTQ parents; pressure in the church toward heterosexual marriage; missionary travel; being closeted; September 11; Portland, Oregon; exploring liberal Christianity, paganism, and neo-paganism; the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence; gay and trans Pride; examining and leveraging white cis privilege to work against oppression of people of color and trans folks.  Cultural references in the episode Why Morrissey is a dickA good summary from Forbes about how J.K. Rowling confirmed her commitment to trans exclusionCrystal Frasier on TwitterThe downfall of Exodus International, and the “ex-gay” movementThe Sisters of Perpetual IndulgenceA his...

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 010: Shawn Drinks from a Lucky Fountain When I pitched my guest, Shawn, about coming onto the show, my original idea was just talking to her about her career change from being a lawyer to becoming a psychotherapist. She counter-pitched me a story that I couldn&#8217;t resist.She said, and I&#8217;m paraphrasing, &#8220;Let me tell you about that time I drank from a lucky fountain.&#8221; And from here our story departs. This conversation is about several consequential events in Shawn&#8217;s life. The subjects are emotionally heavy, but there is so much joy and levity and emotional wisdom that Shawn brings to her story. This conversation just glows. Themes we talked about in the episode Psychology, therapy, mental health, spirituality, travel, family, queer families, marriage, relationships, breakups, parenting, pregnancy, abortion, grief, adoption, adoptee experience, career path, queer, lgbt, lgbtqqia, Bay Area, Hawaii, Spain. References in the episode The fountain at CovadongaShawn’s Your Fellow Traveler pagePsychology and spiritual frameworks referenced in the episode: Attachment theoryCognitive behavioral therapyPsychodynamic approach Wilhelm Reich/Reichian psychotherapyCore shamanismDiamond ApproachJudith Blackstone Patron Shout! Thanks so much to all my patrons for the support you give me at any level. You&#8217;re doing it! You help make this show happen, and I appreciate you so much! And, as always, a particular shout out goes out to my Failure &amp; Redemption level patrons: Bonita, Barry, Liz, Jen, Melissa, Noah, Elyse, Amy, Jeannie, and Heather, and my Serendipity level patrons: Dorian, Emily and Brittany. We are And The Next Thing You Know Our official HQ is atnextthingpodcast dot comwhere you&#8217;ll find complete transcripts and detailed show notes for every episode, all the social links and subscribe buttons, and the archive of every episode. Support the show by becoming a patron!patreon dot com/nextthingpodJoin the discussionfacebook dot com/nextthingpodInstagram dot com/soozenextthing Say hi, give us feedback,

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 009: Musician Amelia Ray *On &#8220;cruisible,&#8221; I was oblivious to this pun when I said it in the episode!Today’s episode marks the one-year anniversary of the podcast! I posted the very first episode in September, 2019, way back in the Before Times. I feel really proud of And The Next Thing You Know, and I’m so, so grateful for everyone who’s listening, and for all your support and love and retweets and telling your friends about the show, and for supporting us at Patreon, and for just being here with me in these extraordinary times. If you’re new to the podcast, welcome! If you’re an old friend of the show, thanks for sticking with us.  Amelia Ray in her studio Today, I talk to musician Amelia Ray. Amelia is currently based in Helsinki, and before that, San Francisco, and before that, Reykjavík, and before that, many many other ports of call. We talk about the circumstances that led her to become an avid traveler and eventually a performer aboard tropical cruise ships.  The Many Projects of Amelia Ray You never know when a 3-hour tour could become a way of life&#8230;hashtag Gilligan’s Island, hashtag popculture references for old people. You’ll hear a few more of those in this episode. You’ll also get to hear Amelia sing her song “Constant Traveller,” recorded live during our conversation.Amelia is the creator of the Quarantuned Music Festival, the variety show Up, Up, and A Ray, and the MashUpheaval podcast, an all-request show wherein she dunks your chocolate in her peanut butter to create a tasty new blend of musical delights. Find Amelia atAmeliaRayDotNetCatch the Up, Up, and A Ray show atupupandaray.comSubscribe to the MashUpheaval podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.Support Amelia on Patreon atpatreon.com/ameliarayAmelia’s got new singles in the hopper, so do drop by amelia ray dot net for updates! Themes we talked about in the episode Amelia and I talked about how we’re holding up during the COVID crisis, feelings about the Black Lives Matter uprising in the wake of George Floyd’s murder, travel to other countries, being a working musician, the process of creating music projects and uplifting others’ work, playing music on cruise ships, yacht rock, mental health, family and relationships.

And The Next Thing You Know podcastEpisode 08: The Real Drug Was Checking Out. In this episode, I talk to my guest, Cisco, about how being sober isn&#8217;t just about not drinking booze. Cisco&#8217;s exploration of sobriety is no less than a spiritual quest, and it&#8217;s a daily examination of how he can be of better service not just to himself, but to the people in his life. We get into the weeds of his story by way of work pressures, sex clubs, racism, trauma, queer bar culture, and yeah, I figure out a way to squeeze in a reference to late stage capitalism in this episode too, if you&#8217;re keeping track. Cisco is a designer, a writer, a musician, and a human. Content warning for this episode &#8211; we talk about family sexual abuse. We also talk about youth sexuality, public sex, drugs, alcohol, and recovery.A correction: the &#8220;parable&#8221; I refer to about walking down a road and falling into a hole turns out to be a 1994 poem by Portia Nelson, titled &#8220;Autobiography in Five Short Chapters.&#8221; My apologies for not crediting her in the episode. You can find the poem by googling it, and here&#8217;s a cute, short video illustrating it:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSCA0EWR2REMajor themes: self-care, psychology, spirituality, sobriety, harm reduction, sexuality, othering and being othered, LGBTQQI culture, alcohol and drug use. We are And The Next Thing You Know. Subscribe in your podcast app, and tell your friends about the show on your social media with the hashtag #nextthingpod. Thank you to all our Patrons for making this show better! And special thanks to our Serendipity level Patrons, Emily, Brittany, and Dorian. &lt;3 #nextthingpodRate or review us at iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/and-the-next-thing-you-know/id1478818695?mt=2&amp;app=podcastSponsor the show at:https://patreon.com/nextthingpod Join the conversation at nextthingpod on Facebook.http://facebook.com/nextthingpodFind me, at soozenextthing on Instagram and Twitter. Send us your And The Next Thing You Know story. Just record a voice message on your phone, and email it to nextthingpod at gmail dot com. We might talk to you for an upcoming show!Check out our beautiful website where you can find all the episodes, full transcripts, and all the ways to participate in the #nextthingpod community. nextthingpodcast.comThe banana peel is by Max Ronnersjö. Music is by Jon Schwartz. More episodes you might dig!