Have you realized that it is very easy for you to encourage others, but when it comes down to encouraging yourself you seem to have no words? Pastor Joty Allison shares affirmations that not only enhance how we look at ourselves, but also enhance how we look at the word. As a cisgender openly queer faith leader, Pastor Allison has seen how trauma from years of rejection has caused many communities to rehearse false claims about who they are, or who they should be. In effort to become, we must embrace unbecoming what years of trauma forced upon us.