We're finally going to wrap season ONE and take a short sabbatical. Here's a quick check in and thoughts on that, and some suggestions on how to not miss us too hard while we're away from the mic. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Join us as we gear up for the approaching holidays. They look quite a bit different than last year, but we're going do our best to heed our own advice here. How are you planning to celebrate all of the upcoming holidays (safely)? Fresh Market Thanksgiving meals - for real, y'all. The Accusation Audit - Chris Voss EJ's video on talking about issues instead of the candidates if the election comes upLiturgies for ParentsEvery Moment HolyThe Sarcastic LutheranSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

This week we're decompressing from the Election on our latest monthly State of the Union episode. First up we're tackling local news (our own personal "happies"), State (what's new with Milspo Gurus), and Federal (election, duh..). Never Split the DifferenceJenny Colgan Bookshttps://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/17/books/review/let-the-people-pick-the-president-jesse-wegman.htmlhttps://fairfight.com/about-stacey-abrams/https://securefamiliesinitiative.org/Parlerhttps://www.cnn.com/2020/11/08/us/arkansas-police-chief-violence-parler-invs/https://www.instagram.com/mosheh/https://news3lv.com/news/local/military-spouse-accused-in-gop-claim-of-voter-fraud-speaks-outhttps://www.ncsl.org/research/elections-and-campaigns/after-the-voting-ends-the-steps-to-complete-an-election.aspxSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Ew, David! We have been waiting a long time for this: we are talking all about  the Rose family and Schitt's Creek. More specifically, we are putting our own spin on how the story arc of Schitt's Creek has a lot of similarities to what military life is like. We dive deep into being a fish out of water, new in town, roles different family members take on, self-discovery and awareness, personal growth, and for good measure we give a rundown on all of the characters' Enneagram types. Mentions: Schitt's Creek on NetflixBest Wishes, Warmest RegardsReddit thread of SC Enneagram typesSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Are you considering jumping into a job search? Recently PCS'd and settled and ready to begin looking? About to PCS and wondering what the job market may look like at your next duty station? Or has a global pandemic caused you to consider rejoining the workforce until economic times are more steady? Join us this week as we unpack Deloitte's Insights findings on "Military Spouse Unemployment," where they explore solutions to a local problem of national importance. Mentions: ANG EP 007: PaychecksANG EP 011: Knowing When to Lay Low, and When to ShineANG EP 013: Generalists and Specialists Want to hear more about our Enneagram Webinar November 12 at 2:00 EST? Sign up here. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Levity? Yes, please! Let's debate PSL (pumpkin spice lattes) instead of two other "P-words" we're purposefully avoiding this week. We want to know what your This or That votes are for our three categories: Fall FeelsWarm and FuzziesHalloween TraditionsSo, listen in and then head over to our Instagram account for your own This or That story tile to share your pair of pennies. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Join us for our monthly State of the Union address. We are tackling the Local, State and Federal levels of updates we think you'll love. Local:Kellie and her daughter Hannah have had a HUGE week with Dr. Jill Biden, including a social media shoutoutClaire gives an update on reactivating her Tennessee Teaching License, the process of working with a workplace initiative grant, and facing rejection throughout the employment processState:Milspo Gurus updateMilspo Gurus Patreon community Federal:Deep dive discussion of the nuance of social media influencers, their #thisiswhy2020 posts, what we think about their boundaries and motivations for sharing political views, how and why we choose to trust them, and how their monetization of their online communities impacts what they share"Dirty Delete" Caste, by Isabel WilkersonThe Social Dilemma on NetflixSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Happy Six Month Pandemi-versary! Join us as we share our insights on some of the commentary and observations of real experts at this half-year mark of pandemic life. We offer some of our tips and tricks for making sure your resilience bank account is full as well as some practical things we are doing to care for ourselves physically and emotionally as the shorter days of fall and winter approach. Mentions: Shoutout to Patron-only live "Group Therapy" video call we had with our pals. Join us as a Podcast Pal for the next one here. Brene' Brown's podcastMedium articleANG episode "Undone in Ennui" Pauline Boss, Ambiguous LossMichael Maddaus, Resilience Bank AccountANG episode "Mindset and Mindfulness"Life Kit NPR: Making a Pandemic Winter EasierClaire's End-the-Year-Strong ListMichael Hyatt Full Focus PlannerSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Hey! We are NOT throwing away our shot! We decided to do a Hamilton deep dive and break the first rule of Enneagram typing. Listen in to see if you agree or disagree with what numbers we've assigned to Alexander Hamilton, George Washington, Eliza Schuyler, Aaron Burr, and more! Mentions: ANG episode 28: Enneagram and relationshipsSweet Tea Shakespeare and the Enneagram Personality types of the Founding FathersRelevant Mag: "The Enneagram Type of Every Hamilton Character"My Dear HamiltonLeann + Michelle: "Enneagram Types + Hamilton"The Bible Binge, Faith Adjacent: Hamilton (Erin Moon)Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message

Today's main conversation and its tangents stem from a listener who tagged us in an article on MarieClaire.com titled, "Your Spouse is Your Glass Ceiling." It's a thought provoking interview with author Caitlin Moran (More Than a Woman) that tackles the idea that you are only as successful as your spouse is supportive. We think there are several more layers to peel back - especially in military marriages - so tune in to hear our take. Fortune: COVID-19 is causing a backslide in workplace gender equality. Here’s how to stop itMarie Claire: Warning Working Moms: Your Partner Is Your Glass CeilingNew Mommy Juice MemesANG Episode 21: Drink LessHuge Thanks to Hana R. (@ semperagblog) for tagging us in her IG stories and prompting this convo! We love hearing what you want to talk about, so don't be shy. Tag, DM, (@milspogurus) or email us (kellie or [email protected]) with show topic ideas and contribute to the conversation!  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/milspogurus) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/advice-not-given/message