ADHD Chatter
ADHD Chatter
Alex Partridge
Trauma Expert: 3 Oddly Specific ADHD Trauma Issues
55 minutes Posted Jun 29, 2026 at 11:00 pm.
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How do you separate who you are from who you've had to become to survive?
The childhood experiences that teach people to mask
Why ADHD can make you more vulnerable to abuse
How trauma can intensify rejection sensitivity (RSD)
Why rejection hurts people with ADHD so deeply
How to calm your nervous system when RSD is triggered
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Is masking actually a survival response?
What happens when you finally stop masking
Why masking leaves so many people feeling lonely
How to find your people and stop feeling alone
The one thing people with ADHD need to stop apologising for
The biggest lie people with ADHD have been taught about themselves
The message every person with ADHD needs to hear
A letter to my younger self
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Ella McCrystal is a psychotherapist and trauma specialist who helps people understand how early life experiences shape the nervous system, self-worth, relationships, and the way we move through the world.
Together we explore the hidden link between ADHD, trauma, masking, rejection sensitivity (RSD), and why so many people with ADHD feel like they have to become someone else just to be accepted. We also discuss how trauma can make ADHD symptoms feel even more overwhelming, why masking is often a survival response, and what healing can actually look like.
If you've ever wondered who you really are beneath the mask, this episode is for you.
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Producer: Timon Woodward 
Recorded by: Hamlin Studios
Trailer editor: Ryan Faber
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