The one where we cry, there are a lot of long pauses, a lot of questions and not many answers. We have been having the same conversations with friends about this again and again and it feels like a lot of us are hitting a wall: We are tired of the system we live in. This capitalist, unjust, patriarch, messed up society that values numbers over humans, exploits others to accumulate more How do we get out? Where is the exit button? Can you really live off grid outside of this system when you still need to be a part of it somehow to survive? We don't hold back in this episode!

The one where we give you advice - irony! We get into questions you have sent in and tell you what we think based on our personal experiences and observations on each topic. They include: How do you get over and heal from heartbreak? My partner cheated on me but told me right after, and swore it was just once, do I give him another chance? How do you do something you really want but are scared of?

Our first time, our last time, our worst time and our best time. And everything in-between incl: how sexy consent is, getting finger-raped, our sexual evolutions, what we now know to look out for and a few related tangents. ***Please be aware that we touch on some sensitive topics so take good care of yourself and listen responsibly. If you think you might feel triggered, please protect yourself, and move on from this episode.

Do we feel old? Are we scared of aging? What are the lovely sides of getting older? We answer these questions honestly and rant about the (under)-representation of older women in society and media, crooked eyeliner, saggy boobs and the joys and wisdom of getting older.

The one where we attempt to broach the broad and nuanced topic of beauty, social beauty standards and how they have impacted our lives, experiences of the world and our place in it. This conversation is just a beginning of something longer that needs to be unpacked.

We speak to International Women’s Day and the world we want to see in contrast to the world we have grown up in where men have more power, respect and safety in their every day life while we, as women, have had to use our voices to come anywhere close to receiving the same.

We talk about things that make us feel things, being sensitive in a desensitised world and how that relates to dating in recent years as we have matured inclusive of how the world of emotions, self-awareness and dating apps has changed around us.

The one where we chat about what we're currently watching on Netflix and our periods now vs. in our twenties. Bust mostly, this is a conversation about if we feel at home anywhere at this point in our life. We both have moved a lot and don't identify strongly with one culture or nationality. So the question of home and belonging can be a tricky one. The answers might surprise you! 

A little bit of an interview: Vienda asks Nadia about her religious upbringing, how it shaped her and why she is an atheist today.  We talk new-age spirituality based on our own experiences and how growing up Vienda connected with the spiritual world and what it means to her today.  We explore if extreme devotion to either ends of the spectrum tends to be from a place of desperation and trauma rather than a healthy desire to seek deeper understanding. Strap yourselves in, it's intense. 

Welcome back! Today we chat about the shitty parts of friendships: conflict! How do we navigate it? How do we hold the complexities of friendships, when do we cut people off vs. sailing the weather of relationships and what has our gut feeling told us about friends in the past? It's a juicy one.