142 Do you know how to say no, even in situations you feel compelled to say yes? Do you want to live a more rested life and a life you want to live? 

In today's episode, Emily talks all about boundaries. She outlines what boundaries are and what they are not. Boundaries are not:

• being too much
• being rude or demanding
• an ultimatum
• what someone needs to do for you
• set to restrict or trap you
• not demands, expectations, or idle threat

Boundaries are:

• putting the power in your hands
• concise and kind
• if/then statements
• put in place to help you live the life you want to live
• a course of action used to take care of yourself
• what YOU do

Boundaries identify our triggers and understand what we need for ourselves. These are repeatable actions and phrases used to reinforce the borders we have in place. 

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