It's no secret that men in Western culture tend to struggle with emotional intimacy. It seems almost ingrained in our culture. Ryan stumbled on a comment from a Reddit post that seemed to offer an interesting perspective on why men find being emotionally intimate so difficult and how that impacts our romantic relationships before they've even started. We are talking about Why emotional intimacy struggles lead to the "nice guy" effect Why women seem to have an easier time being emotionally intimate with men without a romantic connection What can be done to help craft a better and safer culture for men to express their feelings and for men and women to establish better boundariesAbsurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker

In November, SDA Pastor Burnett Robinson stepped down after making egregious statements from his pulpit that went viral. There was an apology issued, but a couple of months later, Robinson showed up on a live stream in Jamaica for another SDA organization and defended his behavior, claimed he never apologized, and attacked those who publicized his statements.We believe in accountability, especially to our own denomination, so we are talking all about the Robinson situation, detailing what happened, and sharing resources and what you can do to help recognize abuse in your community and what you can do about it.More info: https://fb.watch/bwGADeO4PT/https://atoday.org/north-jamaica-conference-still-venerating-disgraced-ex-pastor-burnett-robinson-giving-him-a-platform/ Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://absurdpodcast.comPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker

In late 2021, Billie Eilish spoke about her experience with exposure to pornography and how it has affected her emotional health, sexual experiences, and more. As two Christians and one pastor, we figured why not talk about this?We discuss: Billie Eilish’s actual comments and our observations What her statements potentially mean for sex workers How Christians and pastors can have better conversations around pornography, sex, lust, and romance More info: https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/billie-eilish-porn-sex-worker-b1976902.html Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker

The Oxford High School Shooting is a tragedy in its own category. Never before have we had such immediate insight into the behaviors of the parents in the time leading up to and after the incident occurred. Henry and Ryan discuss the importance of reporting, the atrocious behavior of Crumbley's parents, and the school's decision-making amidst the crisis. Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.org Patreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork Twitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker IG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker Email: [email protected] Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

We thought we'd do an update on the Josh Duggar case, though we didn't know the conviction would come so quickly. Josh Duggar has officially been convicted, but we believe this discussion is still highly relevant and important. We hope you do too! Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.org Patreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork Twitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker IG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker Email: [email protected] Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Henry and Ryan jump into where they've been the last few months and share some really MAJOR updates about their lives! October and November were crazy, but that's just 2021 for you! Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.org Patreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork Twitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker IG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker Email: [email protected] Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

With the IATSE and the AMPTP in a standoff, the IA has officially put a potential strike on the table if talks don’t go more in their favor. This isn’t like the ‘07 writer’s strike; if these crews walk out, then productions halt immediately. Let’s talk about it.  More info: https://www.cnbc.com/2021/10/04/iatse-strike-hollywood-union-workers-approve-measure-to-call-a-strike.html Henry’s imdb page: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10977752/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cr224 The 24th Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10452854/?ref_=nm_flmg_msc_1 Want to take your podcast to the next level? https://PodMentoring.com/Services Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.org Patreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork Twitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker IG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker Email: [email protected] Absurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

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Good quality conversations are seemingly fewer and far between. Especially when it comes to tough or controversial topics. Seth J. Pierce, a university professor at Union College, joins Ryan to talk about his new book, Seeking an Understanding: How To Have Difficult Conversations Without Destroying Your Relationships. You can get Seth’s book here! https://amzn.to/2WAg2rP Want to take your podcast to the next level? https://PodMentoring.com/Services Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.org Patreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork Twitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker IG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker Email: [email protected] Absurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

We are diving headlong into the vaccine conversation, sharing our frustrations and experiences with the antivax movement, the impact that’s had on us individually, and what we believe can and should be done moving forward. Want to take your podcast to the next level? https://PodMentoring.com/Services Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.org Patreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork Twitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker IG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker Email: [email protected] Absurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm