Absolutely Not, Sis!
Absolutely Not, Sis!
Courtney and Laura
Absolutely Not, Sis! Two small-town gals navigating their 30s through grieving, thriving, or barely surviving. Courtney and Laura discuss everything from loss and heartbreak to shower thoughts and what's trending! These two have been THROUGH it but will be sure to come out the other side laughing, so...Grab a drink, and get ready to have a catch up with your new besties!
Keeping Amalie's name alive - Life after infant loss with Sarah Oliver Pt. 2
Last week we had an amazing and raw discussion with Sarah about the loss of her beautiful baby at 4 weeks old. We navigated her fertility journey and then the devistating and fast decline of her babies health. Today, we continue our discussion with Sarah, and move into the chapter that follows. Where to next? How does someone move on from losing a child? Sarah talks us through the funeral, and weeks that followedand how her relationships with those around her changed. As time goes on Sarah and her husband long for the family they always wanted and we chat about the difficulty of concieving again. Today we share with you the amazing buisness venture inspired by Amalie and the wonderful things Sarah is doing to support others. We are super grateful to have had this conversation and we hope it encourages others to speak out, understand their own loss and keep the stories of these beautiful angel babies alive.   This episode contains discussions around infant loss, depression, and infertility. Please listen with cautcontains discussions around infant loss, depression, and infertility. 
Nov 1, 2022
58 min
Keeping Amalie's name alive - Infant loss with Sarah Oliver Pt. 1
Part One: Sarah Oliver is the creator of Amalie's Room, a business specialising in handmade accessories and gifts. Sarah created this instagram page in memory of her beautiful daughter who she sadly lost at 4 weeks old. In this epsisode, we speak to Sarah about her journey with infant loss, grief, infertiltiy and motherhood. Shes a wife, a daughter, a natural creative and most importantly, a mumma. Sarah reached out to us 2 months ago to thank us for our grief episode in season one, and we instantly connected over the weird and wonderful world of grief. We thought it would a great opportunity to share her story, and normalize talking about these heavy topics that are often swept under the rug. This episode contains discussions around infant loss, depression, and infertility. Please listen with caution. 
Oct 25, 2022
55 min
10 out of 10 yarn and binge-worthy TV recommendations
Hello, hello our beautiful friends! This weeks episode, we check in with Laura after her wisdom teeth removal and see if shes thriving...Or barely surviving! Courtz shares her positive-polly vibes about enjoying the slower pace of the school holidays and the absolute delight it is negotiating with a toddler. We catch up on the latest series and movies we have binged, so if you need a recommendation...We are ya gals!
Oct 19, 2022
55 min
The growing pressures, tricky questions, and the growth of a 30 year old
The girl gang is back! Laurz and Courtz enjoy an OG ep with just the two of them discussing the societal expectations they face and the pressure to hit the 'milestones' of life. We chat about the paths we have taken and the places we have ended and whether it was where we expected ourselves to be. We cover the awkward chats you find yourself (when's the baby, when are you getting married, why haven't you bought a house yet?) are decide... Are these questions invasive or are they a way to connect? Send us your 'absolutely not' game suggestions – we love ending with a bang!!
Oct 12, 2022
54 min
Interview with a makeup Guru - Pt. 2 with Gabrielle Houghton
She's baaaack! We couldn't get enough of our makeup queen so we asked Gabrielle Houghton back to have theultimate girly chat! We cover all things beauty, skin care, the best brands, and of course the makeup do's and don't we didn’t even know about! Gabby does a mini personal shopping analysis on Laura (the rookie) and runs us through what she would do with a personal shopping client. Enjoy pals! 
Oct 5, 2022
57 min
Interview with a Makeup Guru - Gabrielle Houghton Pt.1
Gals and Pals, we are so pumped to bring you Gabrielle Houghton! Professional make-up artist and educator with over 9+ years industry experience, this boss babe is every girls dream artist. Gabrielle's work has been featured in magazines from Remix and Fashion Quarterly and events such as NZ Fashion Week and Germany's Next Top Model! Her self-titled business is not only weddings and special occasions, it has grown into masterclasses, workshops, artist-to-artist training and a personal shopping service. She's our make-up queen and we cannot wait for you to hear her story and be inspired by the one and only....Gabrielle Houghton!
Sep 28, 2022
56 min
Reality TV, motherhood and social media with Matilda Green
You spoke, we listened!!! We are so thrilled to bring you the one and only, Matilda Green! She won our hearts over in The Bachelor Season 1  and since then, has shared her journey online from fashion and fitness to marriage and now motherhood! Matilda is also TV Personality,  Podcast Host, Brand Ambassador and Published Author of two best selling books. Matilda’s done it all, from her London O.E, being on TV and  now, a wifey and mama to two beautiful mini Green’s, Milo and Autumn. She’s a big believer of encouraging all woman to feel confident and happy in  their own skin, so that’s an absolutely yes from us! So get comfy and get ready to hang out with your new bestie, Matilda Green!
Sep 20, 2022
1 hr 9 min
First home buying and open home etiquette with Fraser Kilgour
First home buying? Wanting to invest? Scrolling million dollar properties that are WAY out of your budget? Well friends, we have the episode for you! This week we are joined by our sponsor, Fraser Kilgour from Lugtons Real Estate. An ex high school teacher, loving husband and father to two wee ones,  Fraser is in the know to all walks of the journey before turning 30. In this episode, Fraser helps us understand the home buyer 'jargon' with his informative discussions about getting on the property ladder and the ever changing property market we have experiences the past few years. Laura and I learnt a lot through this episode, so grab a pen and paper to take some notes gals and pals - you won't want to miss it. The conversation with Fraser is one we are proud to be a part of, and welcome you along with us! If you want to get in touch with Fraser you can call or text - 027 346 4118.  Enjoy, Besties! x 
Sep 13, 2022
1 hr 7 min
Social media, fashion, and living child free with Jade Marie
We are so excited to introduce our first guest for Season Two, Jade! With a growing instagram following, Jade has made her mark online by sharing all things from fashion and styling to sustainability and book reviews! Jade shares personal styling tips and creates daily outfit inspo which is an absolutely YES from us! We live for her fashion reels, collaborations, and all round good vibes. In this episode, we chat with Jade about her journey to discovering fashion as her ultimate passion, and the many careers she tried on the way. Jade opens up about social media, and the importance of engagement with your favourite creators posts, as well as her interest in a child-free life. Get ready for an open and honest chat with your new bestie, Jade!
Sep 6, 2022
1 hr 28 min
A second look into grief - are we better yet?
It's coming up to Courtney's dads birthday so we revisit our favourite topic...grief. Laurz and I discuss how we feel when special dates related to our parents arise - and the things we do to cope on those days. We debunk the '5 stages of grief' model and chat about the different parts of the journey we are on. It's our first remote call (thanks to covid), but we bloody made it work didn't we - just call us tech-gals.  If you liked what we chatted about, or our experience with grief has resonated with you, please head to our instagram page: absolutelynotsis_ and click the follow button (send us a cheeky DM while you are there). And don't forget to follow us on spotify!  Thanks team, enjoy! x 
Aug 30, 2022
1 hr 4 min
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