In this episode of Not Superheroes Just Dads, I sit down with Andrew from Minnesota, co-host of the Why, Dad? podcast. While he isn’t a father yet, Andrew shares a unique perspective as an aspiring dad and a full-time uncle to five nieces and nephews.We talk about what it means to prepare for fatherhood before becoming a father, the importance of being present in the lives of children, and how faith helps shape the man he hopes to become. Andrew opens up about the lessons he’s learning through everyday moments listening to kids, helping them process their emotions, and showing up consistently when they need him most.This conversation is a reminder that fatherhood isn’t just about having children t’s about developing the character, habits, and heart that children need long before the title of “Dad” arrives.https://www.whydadpodcast.com/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZnRzaASLKahleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAaeTPF8q8_5-okVAjpVEng4iKaw9VSEkDXnKAhlGirLW6M-EE5bSYKveAHBjaA_aem_yffDkqqsoN5Uhs4Zgrfw8Q

What happens when a man is successful on the outside but internally disconnected from purpose?In this episode I reflect on identity, purpose, and the quiet struggle many men face when they’re trying to prove themselves, stay relevant, and figure out who they really are.This honest conversation explores how purpose protects us from unnecessary fights, why relevance can become a dangerous addiction, how not every opportunity is alignment, and why true growth requires restraint.Because when identity is unclear, confusion eventually shows up publicly.This episode is a challenge for every father and every man to pause and ask:Does the life I’m live align with the man I’m becoming?If you’ve ever wrestled with purpose, validation, or finding your footing as a man, husband, or father this conversation is for you

In this episode of Not Superheroes Just Dads, I sit down with Malachi Hudson for a conversation on fatherhood, culture, and his upbringing in the United Kingdom.We talk about the influence his father has had on his life, the expectations many parents place on their children, and why he’s choosing to simply enjoy his son being a kid while guiding him along the way.No matter where you’re from, one thing remains true: a father’s presence matters. This episode is a reminder that while our backgrounds may shape us differently, the mission stays the same showing up, leading well, and being intentional with our kids.https://www.instagram.com/_fathersworld?igsh=MXBpZzF5ZGlvM2J3Yw==https://linktr.ee/notsuperheroesjustdads

Everybody wants success, but not everybody defines it the same way.In this solo episode of Not Superheroes Just Dads, I dive into what success really means beyond money, status, and what social media tells us to chase. As fathers, husbands, and men, our definition of success can shift through different seasons of life and sometimes the most meaningful success isn’t what others can see.This episode challenges listeners to reflect on whose definition of success they’re living by, the cost of chasing the wrong goals, and what it means to build a life rooted in purpose, peace, and presence.Whether success for you looks like providing for your family, breaking generational cycles, healing emotionally, or simply showing up every day this conversation is a reminder to define success for yourself.Success looks different for all of us. Make sure the version you’re chasing actually belongs to you.https://linktr.ee/notsuperheroesjustdads

In this episode, Jawan joined me as we dive into one of the most powerful recent conversations on Shannon Sharpe podcast with Michael Beasley and why it hit so many men on a deeper level.This isn’t about basketball.This is about pain, pressure, loss, and what it really means to be a man.We talk about:Why success doesn’t always heal what’s broken insideThe silent battles men face that nobody seesHow being labeled early can shape a man’s entire lifeGrief, identity, and the pressure to “stay strong”What fathers need to understand about raising boys in today’s worldToo many men are carrying weight they never talk about.Too many fathers are trying to lead while silently struggling.This conversation is a reminder you’re not alone, but you do have to face what’s inside.https://linktr.ee/notsuperheroesjustdads

The pressure of being the strong one… it’s something a lot of men carry, but rarely talk about.In this episode, I open up about what it really feels like to keep showing up for everyone else while silently dealing with your own weight. From not fully processing the loss of my grandfather to navigating everyday responsibilities, this is a real conversation about the emotional and mental load men carry.We’re taught to lead. To provide. To stay solid no matter what.But what happens when being ‘strong’ starts to feel heavy?This episode is for every man who’s been holding it together on the outside while dealing with things on the inside. You’re not aloneand strength doesn’t have to mean silence.https://linktr.ee/notsuperheroesjustdads

I had the opportunity to sit down with Jacob from the UK, who shares his powerful journey of becoming a father at just 19, battling drug addiction, and ultimately turning his life around. Now, at 27, he has full custody of his daughter and is raising two children. In this episode, Jacob opens up about where he’s been, the challenges he’s faced, and where he’s headed as a man and a father.https://www.instagram.com/jacobking.fatherhood?igsh=MTY2c2Zkc2Zoamc2MA==https://m.youtube.com/@jacobking.fatherhood?fbclid=PARlRTSARCRmxleHRuA2FlbQIxMABzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAafr1lphaV6_rg-m4GA8zDqAdqa3cw0CNaIyIbpd01GJCxGYE-CJiBWNsomD8g_aem_QUQ3FMwXexOi9oYXb-ss1g

On this episode of Not Superheroes Just Dads, I sit down with Joel a husband, father, and former construction worker who made the bold decision to leave what was comfortable and step into the unknown of real estate.With a wife, a 1 year-old son, and a family depending on him, Joel shares what it really looks like to take a leap of faith when everything is on the line. From the fear and doubt that come with starting over, to the purpose he’s found in helping families find a place to call home.Joel opens up about the mindset it takes to keep going, the importance of having the right support system, and what he hopes his son learns from watching his journey.https://www.facebook.com/share/1EbKF16wSN/?mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://www.tiktok.com/@jevrealtor?_r=1&_t=ZT-958LboeGyRJhttps://www.instagram.com/jevrealtor?igsh=cnExZGRqYjBpNmd5https://linktr.ee/notsuperheroesjustdads

In this solo episode, I reflect on what it was like growing up in the 90s and how that upbringing shaped us into the men and fathers we are today.We came from a time where discipline, accountability, and respect weren’t optional they were expected. But at the same time, not everything about that era was perfect. Many of us grew up without the emotional support or communication we needed.Now as parents, we’re trying to do better… but in some cases, we may have overcorrected.With the rise of gentle parenting, more parents are leading with empathy and understanding but sometimes that can turn into a lack of structure, boundaries, and accountability.

In this solo episode, I reflect on the importance of rest and inner peace as a father. With so many responsibilities on our shoulders, it’s easy for dads to feel like we always have to keep moving and never slow down.But a father who never rests eventually runs on empty. In this episode, I share my perspective on why taking care of your peace isn’t selfish it’s necessary so you can continue showing up for your family the way they need you to.https://linktr.ee/notsuperheroesjustdads