A Dancer's Mindset
A Dancer's Mindset
Ballet with Isabella
This podcast, hosted by ballet dancer, Vaganova graduate and international coach Isabella McGuire Mayes @balletwithIsabella For all the dancers out there with a desire for more and to reach their highest potential. Isabella will build your confidence, self esteem and self belief so you can make it to the top. There are many stories from Isabella's training days, tips to improve your mindset, special guests and more!! Giving you a winning dancer's mindset! Explore BWI - Your secret weapon to excellence. www.balletwithisabella.com Email [email protected]
Ep. 170 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT! My Story
Hello Everyone! This is so exciting - We are launching ISABELLA - our rebrand and new platform June 24th 2026 I wanted to not only thank this beautiful community but also share more about how this has evolved, why the change and why it is such a personal change and how this has been born out of my journey. In this episode, I will share with you some of the very steps in my life that led to this point and why I am so passionate about not only helping other people but helping people see what can happen if that step into what's possible How when in the right environment, when with the right people, huge change can happen for you both in and out of the studio. I am so excited for this next chapter and thank you for being here! ---------JOIN OUR MAILING LIST! NEVER MISS A THINGhttps://mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella-platform-sign-up
Jun 25
31 min
Ep. 169 Never Give Up Again!
Hello Everyone!, Today we talk about what makes us actually want to give up. It happens to all of us, the determination slips, the motivation just isn't what it used to be. We associate those emotions with how much we may actually want something when in fact, it could be how you are spending time. This can look at the pockets of time in the day that are actually wasting your time, and the lack of systems you have in place in your life. We often think, to get good at something or to work hard means the the journey needs to feel hard. While ballet is hard as we know, I don't want the systems in place to feel hard or effortful. I want them to feel easy, so I can keep doing them, keep improving and keep achieving what I have set out to do! This episode will help you achieve all of that! So let's dive in!-------JOIN OUR MAILING LIST! NEW PLATFORM COMING :-)https://mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella-platform-sign-up
Jun 22
47 min
EP. 168 How To Visualise The Future You Want
The Power of Visualisation: See It To Become ItWhat if the most powerful training tool you have costs nothing, requires no studio, and works while you sleep? In this episode, we dive deep into the science of visualisation and why your brain doesn't know the difference between vividly imagining something and actually doing it. We cover four types of visualisation — outcome, process, negative, and creative — and exactly how to use each one as a dancer. I also share a story from my own childhood that I didn't even have a name for at the time, and how it quietly made me better at movements I'd barely tried. If you've ever been trapped in the 'what ifs' — what if I mess up, what if I'm not good enough, what if I don't deserve this — this episode is for you. Grab a pen and paper. You're going to need it.Let's dive in! ----------✨ EXPLORE MORE WITH ISABELLA🌐 Website — ⁠balletwithisabella.com ⁠ 📩 Join the mailing list — ⁠mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella ⁠📸 Instagram — @balletwithisabella💫 Want to train properly from home? Everything is inside the Ballet With Isabella membership — classes, courses, corrections and more. Join us → ⁠balletwithisabella.com⁠
Jun 10
43 min
EP. 167 Failures & Mistakes Are Not Your Identity!
Hey Everyone! We need to talk about failure.Not in a "dust yourself off and try again" motivational poster kind of way. Really talk about it. Because so many of us — especially as dancers — have spent years quietly believing that every mistake we make says something about who we are. A wobbled pirouette, a bad audition, a class where nothing went right. And instead of letting it go, we become it.This episode is about untangling that.Failure is not your identity. It is information. It is redirection. It is, honestly, one of the most powerful tools you have — but only if you stop running from it and start getting curious about it.In this episode we're talking about:🎙️ Why we attach our sense of self worth to our mistakes — and how to stop 🎙️ The difference between having a bad experience and being a failure 🎙️ How embracing mistakes (rather than burying them) is what separates dancers who grow from dancers who plateau 🎙️ Practical ways to reframe failure in the moment — on and off the dance floor 🎙️ Why the most successful, most celebrated artists in the world have failure woven all the way through their storyBecause here's the truth — the mistake doesn't define you. What you do with it does.Whether you're a dancer, a student, a creative, or just a human being navigating life, this one is for you. Pull up a chair. Let's get into it.✨ EXPLORE MORE WITH ISABELLA🌐 Website — balletwithisabella.com 📩 Join the mailing list — mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella 📸 Instagram — @balletwithisabella💫 Want to train properly from home? Everything is inside the Ballet With Isabella membership — classes, courses, corrections and more. Join us → balletwithisabella.com
May 20
19 min
Ep.166 Day 7: Becoming the Confident Dancer
Hello Everyone!You made it to Day 7. And something has already shifted — even if you can't quite name it yet.This final episode is about bringing everything together. The work you've done this week — facing the performance anxiety, stepping out of comparison, separating your worth from your results, quieting the overthinking, releasing the fear of being seen, finding your way back from burnout — it has all been leading here.To you. The confident dancer. Not the perfect dancer. Not the fearless dancer. The one who knows herself, trusts herself, and shows up fully anyway — on the hard days, in the difficult rooms, under the lights, and in the quiet moments when nobody is watching but her.Confidence is not a destination you arrive at and stay forever. It is a practice. A daily decision. And in this episode we talk about exactly how to keep making it — so that everything you've reset this week becomes not just a moment, but a new standard.This is not the end. This is where you begin.------Follow For More!balletwithisabella.com@balletwithisabella on all socials Join our mailing list ⁠https://mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella⁠
May 9
18 min
Ep. 165 Day 6: Burned Out? "Why Am I Even Doing This?
Hello Everyone! Welcome to Day 6 .You used to love this. You used to live for it — the classes, the rehearsals, the music, all of it. And somewhere along the way something shifted and now you're showing up out of habit or obligation or guilt, going through the motions, wondering when it stopped feeling like yours.If you have ever stood in the studio and genuinely asked yourself why you're still doing this — this episode is a safe place to land.Today we talk honestly about burnout in dance — what it actually is, how it creeps in, and why it is so often misread as laziness or lack of passion when it is actually the opposite. We talk about how to find your way back to yourself and back to the love that started all of this. And we talk about what it looks like to rebuild your relationship with dance on your own terms — not the terms of a schedule, a syllabus, or someone else's expectations. The love is still there. Today we go and find it.------Follow For More!balletwithisabella.com@balletwithisabella on all socials Join our mailing list https://mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella
May 9
23 min
Ep. 164 Day 5: Fear Of Being SEEN!
Hello Everyone,Welcome to Day 5 of The Dancer Reset Series! Let's dive in. Day 5: Fear of Being SeenYou love to dance. But something happens when you feel truly watched — really seen — and it stops you. You make yourself smaller. You pull back at exactly the moment you should be expanding. You hold something in reserve, even when everything in you wants to let go.Fear of being seen is more common among dancers than almost anything else. And it makes sense — to dance is to be exposed in a way that most people never have to be. But it is also the very thing standing between you and the dancer you are meant to be.In this episode we go beneath the surface of performance anxiety and into something deeper — the fear of full visibility. We talk about where it comes from, what it is really protecting you from, and how to begin dismantling it so that you can do the thing you were made to do, fully and without apology. The stage does not want a smaller version of you. It never did.🌐 balletwithisabella.com 📩 Join the mailing list: mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella 📸 Instagram: @balletwithisabella ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@balletwithisabella
May 1
32 min
Ep.163 Day 4: Don't Overthink & Align Yourself
Hello Everyone,Welcome to Day 4 of The Dancer Reset Series. Hopefully we are feeling good! Let's dive in to episode 4 Day 4: Why You Overthink Under PressureThe combination starts and your brain won't stop. Check your arms. Is your core on? What comes next? Why does everyone else look so relaxed? You're thinking so hard about every single thing that there is no space left to actually dance — and the harder you try to switch it off, the louder it gets.Overthinking under pressure is one of the most common and least talked about struggles in dance. And in this episode we get into exactly why it happens.We cover what is going on in your nervous system when pressure triggers the overthinking spiral, why trying harder to stop thinking actually makes it worse, and the specific mental tools that help you get out of your head and back into your body — where the dancing actually lives. Because you already know how to do this. Your body just needs your mind to get out of the way.🌐 balletwithisabella.com 📩 Join the mailing list: mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella 📸 Instagram: @balletwithisabella ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@balletwithisabella
Apr 30
17 min
Ep. 162 Day 3: Self Worth Tied To Decisions Out Of Your Control
Hello Everyone, Welcome back to this Dancer Reset Series Day 3! You got the part — and you felt worthy. You didn't get the part — and suddenly you questioned everything. Whether you're good enough, whether you belong there, whether all of this is even worth it.If a casting list has ever had that kind of power over how you feel about yourself, this episode is for you.Today we get honest about what it really means when our self worth becomes dependent on external outcomes — roles, results, rankings, recognition. We talk about why the dance world makes this so easy to fall into, what it costs you when you live there, and how to build a sense of self that is solid regardless of what any list, any teacher, or any audition panel decides on any given day. You are not your casting. It is time to separate the two.🌐 balletwithisabella.com 📩 Join the mailing list: mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella 📸 Instagram: @balletwithisabella ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@balletwithisabella
Apr 29
18 min
Ep. 161 Day 2: The Comparison Trap
Day 2: The Comparison TrapShe got the correction you wanted. She has the extension you've been working on for years. She seems to pick everything up faster, easier, better — and suddenly you're not in class anymore, you're in your head, measuring every part of yourself against someone else and coming up short every single time.Welcome to the comparison trap. And today we are getting out of it.In this episode we talk about why comparison is one of the most destructive habits in the dance world, why your brain is wired to do it and how to interrupt the pattern, and what happens to your dancing — and your joy — when you finally make your own journey the only one you're focused on. Your path is not her path. And that is not a weakness. That is your greatest advantage.🌐 balletwithisabella.com 📩 Join the mailing list: mailchi.mp/balletwithisabella/isabella 📸 Instagram: @balletwithisabella ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@balletwithisabella
Apr 28
20 min
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