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Per My Last Email
Morning Brew
The Hidden “BS” Holding You Back at Work (And How to Break It)
44 minutes Posted May 4, 2026 at 10:00 am.
Intro
What Aiko is referring to when she talks about bullsh*t
The Bullsh*t Asymmetry Principle
Using the anchored, aligned, accountable framework
How to figure out your values
Finding the motivation to get clear on your values
How to hold colleagues, peers, and higher-ups accountable
The important role of curiosity
How do you counteract a scarcity mindset?
How do you know when your identity is too tied up in your work?
The best first step towards getting anchored, aligned, and accountable
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Show notes
In this episode, Kaila and Kyle are joined by Aiko Bethea, Founder of Rare Coaching, to talk about the hidden bullsh*t at work, how it’s holding you back, and what you can do about it. From holding yourself, your colleagues, and even bosses accountable, to freeing yourself of a scarcity mindset, this conversation is packed with practical advice for anyone feeling stuck in their career. 
And don’t forget to pick up Aiko’s new book, Anchored, Aligned, Accountable: A Framework for Transcending Bullsh*t and Transforming Our Lives and Work.
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