Coming Up for Air
Coming Up for Air
Loula
Why 'Focus on Yourself' Feels Impossible After a Breakup.
1 hour 5 minutes Posted Mar 27, 2026 at 2:00 pm.
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Struggling to move on after a breakup? Especially when you were the one who got left? In this episode, I break down why 'focus on yourself' feels so hard after being dumped. If you’re overthinking, replaying memories, missing your ex, or feeling stuck in heartbreak, this episode explains the psychology behind it. I cover breakup healing, attachment, rejection, and why letting go isn’t as simple as people say. I actually challenge my own advice, so if you are SICK of reading 'just focus on you...