Ramsey rejoins the podcast to talk about that thing everyone seems to be seeking more of these days: Community. What even is it? Why are so many of us lacking it? And is polyamorous dating the solution? TW: The conversation about community accountability vs. cancel culture somehow lands on the Epstein Files and guillotines.  Mentioned in the episode:  <a href= "https://www.eventbrite.com/e/intentional-nonmonogamy-workshop-building-strong-foundations-for-polyamory-tickets-1983560771664"> Intentional Nonmonogamy Workshop</a> | <a href= "https://www.thestranger.com/queer-issue-2025/2025/06/04/80087017/quake-rugby-isnt-a-drag"> Quake Rugby Isn't a Drag</a> (The Stranger) | <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/p/DU9IW9vkiU-/">Alex Garland in Speak the Sojourner</a> | <a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/100184/9780060959470">All About Love</a>, by bell hooks  Follow us: mistakescast@gmail.com | <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/">https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/</a> Logo design by roy franklin: <a href= "http://www.whateverfactory.org/">www.whateverfactory.org</a>

Ep 71: Love or Limerence?

Non monogamy for imperfect people. Hosted by a queer therapist and her husband of 15 years. Sarah & Alex share their experiences opening their marriage, and interview guests about the struggles & rewards of doing relationships your own way. Mistakes Were Made is part advice, part confession, part culture critique. But it's all about learning from our missteps and stumbling toward liberation. Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/. Logo design by roy franklin of the Whatever Factory - https://www.whateverfactory.org/.