Guess who's been missing from this new wave of political organizing: CIS dudes. Alex grapples with how critique of toxic masculinity has left a gap in men's identity. And Sarah asks why so many progressive men are down to fuck, but not down to fight. Mentioned in the episode:  <a href= "https://www.eventbrite.com/e/intentional-nonmonogamy-workshop-building-strong-foundations-for-polyamory-tickets-1983560771664"> Intentional Nonmonogamy Workshop</a> | <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnKK4ULoMB8">Sensitive New Age Guys</a> | <a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/100184/9780060959470">All About Love</a>, by bell hooks | <a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/100184/9781637560358">The Better Man</a>, by Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud  Follow us: mistakescast@gmail.com | <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/">https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/</a> Logo design by roy franklin: <a href= "http://www.whateverfactory.org/">www.whateverfactory.org</a>

Ep 70: Community and Cancel Culture with Ramsey

Non monogamy for imperfect people. Hosted by a queer therapist and her husband of 15 years. Sarah & Alex share their experiences opening their marriage, and interview guests about the struggles & rewards of doing relationships your own way. Mistakes Were Made is part advice, part confession, part culture critique. But it's all about learning from our missteps and stumbling toward liberation. Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/. Logo design by roy franklin of the Whatever Factory - https://www.whateverfactory.org/.