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When betrayal impacts a marriage, children feel it too. But how do you protect your kids without pulling them into adult pain?In this episode, betrayal trauma expert Sarah McDugal (MSA-ID, MCPC, High-Conflict Divorce and Custody Coach) shares how parents can teach children to recognize manipulation, unhealthy behaviors, and emotional red flags—without trashing the other parent.We explore:how betrayal impacts childrenwhat NOT to say to your kidshow to teach emotional boundarieshow to recognize manipulation and gaslightinghow to help children trust their intuitionhow to protect kids without parental alienationConnect with Sarah: Facebook, Instagram, websiteChapters00:46 Introducing Sarah McDugal01:44 Parenting Without Trash Talk05:05 Teach Red Flags Not Blame09:07 Kids Tools Help Recovery12:42 Using Movies to Teach23:05 Age-Appropriate Answers25:55 Don’t Speak For Others31:34 Someday Journal Method40:15 Breaking Generational CyclesRegister Now!***Use promo code PODCAST150 to get $150 off when you register for any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!***🌴NEW: Couples Retreat in Costa Rica! - If you are in a stable place in your relationship and want to reconnect, regulate, and rediscover each other, we invite you to our couples breathwork retreat. Register by May 31st to get our early-bird pricing - $600 OFF!🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica - Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey. 💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives. Get our FREE eBook - Healing From Betrayal Trauma: A Compassionate Guide to Reclaiming Your LifeQuestions or topics you'd like us to address? Send us an email with “Choose To Be” as the subject to [email protected]. Watch us on YouTube.Follow us on Instagram: @choose_recovery_servicesSchedule a complimentary consultation.Join our email list to be notified when new episodes air.More from Choose Recovery ServicesBeyond the Facade Podcast - Helping men live authentically and aligned with their values.Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women navigating betrayal trauma and its effects.Intensives - Immersive healing experiences designed for deep transformation in a short time.Help. Her. Heal - A program for men to build empathy, improve communication, and repair relationships.Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - Support for men working through addiction, shame, emotional growth, and relationship healing.The Empowered Divorce Podcast with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.Dating From Within - Learn to date yourself first and recognize when you’re ready for a healthy relationship.Should I Stay or Go? - A self-paced course guiding you toward clarity and personal empowerment.Trauma Trigger Kit - Grounding tools to help you manage triggers using your five senses.Believing in You - Learn brain-based tools to rebuild trust, empowerment, and joy.Intimacy Within - A self-paced guide to building authentic, vulnerable intimacy from the inside out.