The Catholic Gentleman
The Catholic Gentleman
John Heinen, Devin Schadt
The Catholic Gentleman is a show for Catholic Men on topics related to living your best life in the modern world. Featuring conversations on all aspects of masculinity, as well as interviews with experts, the show seeks to provide practical insights for men of all ages. There are great Catholic men who are intentionally committed to the difficult work of actual life. Join us and be one of them. Hosts include John Heinen and Devin Schadt. Episodes are released weekly. Be a Man. Be a Saint. View and Listen to Previous Episodes - https://catholicgentleman.com/all-episodes
Are You Stuck in the First Stage of Manhood?
More and more men today are are successful, handsome, good people, but they don't feel like men. They feel that something is missing. They work harder and harder, chasing wealth, success, women; the list goes on. Still, they feel like failures. Join us today as we discuss the 4 stages of manhood and how to silence the boy inside you who wants you to quit at the sign of difficulty. 👉 Join us and Holy Cross Family Ministries in their prayer for world peace here: https://hcfm.org/pray-for-peace/ 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Marriage Gap: ⁠https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-marriage-gapCOUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 Video Producer – Joe Haggard Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Oct 22
59 min
The Submissive Wife: The Right Way to Love Your Husband (w/ Mary Stanford)
Submission. A word that is a instant red flag to many modern women. It sounds like a rule to be enforced, and a way a husband can get his way no matter what. But, t's so much more than that. Today we are joined by Dr. Mary Stanford, a theology professor from Christendom College, a wife of 26 years, a mother of 7, and the author of "The Obedience Paradox: Finding True Freedom in Marriage". Today we discuss what the Church really asks of wives and husbands and wives, why obedience and freedom are not opposites, and what a husband has to give before his leadership can be received. 👉 Mary Stanford book on submission: The Obedience Paradox https://www.amazon.com/dp/1681926954?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Marriage Gap: ⁠ https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-marriage-gap/?srsltid=AU7gw4XQRKty0esiDRfuPozEP0GiG8kHzXemqCBBJYD62q9U62o-C7ef COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 Video Producer – Joe Haggard Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Oct 15
1 hr 20 min
The Hidden Parenting Secret That No One Ever Taught You
Every parent wants their children to succeed. Catholic parents want their child to be successful but also Saints and we know that parents play a huge role this. But how do you do it? Today we talk about about the framework that will give your children a better chance at being successful. We discuss how the way you react to suffering and joys deeply affect the lives of your children, the importance of resilience and work ethic, and a 7 things your child must see in you to be successful. 👉 Join us and Holy Cross Family Ministries in their prayer for world peace here: https://hcfm.org/pray-for-peace/🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Rule: ⁠https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-rule/⁠COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20Video Producer – Joe Haggard Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Oct 8
1 hr 20 min
Defeating Lust: The Proven 5 Step Plan for When You're Tempted
Every man has struggled with the vice of lust. Most men believe it is sheer willpower that will bring them to chastity and that if they are continuing to fail then they must not be trying hard enough. This loop can be broken, and it is not by willpower alone. Today we give you a 5 step plan to help you defeat the sin of lust. We explore how sexual attraction is good and how repression can make the problem worse. We also discuss the importance of having a plan of attack and how you cannot do this alone. This episode is sponsored by Holy Cross Family Ministries, join them in their prayer for world peace here: https://hcfm.org/pray-for-peace/ 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Rule: ⁠ https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-rule/⁠ COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 Video Producer – Joe Haggard -- FOLLOW THE CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN – ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/catholicgentleman ➡️ https://www.facebook.com/TheCatholicGentleman ➡️ https://x.com/catholicgent 🔴 PLEASE HELP US GROW THIS CHANNEL 🔴 1. Don’t miss a Youtube Catholic Gentleman Video: Please click SUBSCRIBE, then Click the "Notification Bell" = 🔔 and select “ALL”. This will make sure that you are notified when any new video is released. 2. Please "Like" this video. 👍 3. Please share this video on Facebook and Twitter using the SHARE button. Please SUBSCRIBE, LIKE, AND SHARE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Oct 1
1 hr 9 min
What Wives Don’t Understand About Husbands
Instead of communicating when he needs are not met, many husbands will assume their wife will read their mind and "get it" eventually. However, many wives don't know the needs of their husbands, but it is not their fault, husbands struggle to name them too. Today we discuss the 4 core needs of ever husband and give husbands the tools to communicate them effectively. We dig into what effect these have on men and how they can ultimately save your marriage. 4 Core Needs of a Wife Episode - https://youtu.be/0gJi8_fG-WU 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Marriage Gap: ⁠ https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-marriage-gap COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ Video Producer – Joe Haggard _________________ Please SUBSCRIBE, COMMENT, AND SHARE 0:00 Unlocking the Four Needs of a Husband 1:06 From Honeymoon Bliss to Marriage Gap 4:30 Why Tension Is Actually a Sign of Hope 7:50 The Cycle of Unmet Needs 11:47 The First Core Need: Respect 29:15 The Second Core Need: Beauty 45:01 The Third Core Need: Physical Intimacy 56:33 The Fourth Core Need: Partnership in Mission 1:06:39 What to Do When Needs Go Unmet Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 24
1 hr 17 min
Fulton Sheen’s SHOCKING Prophecy That Came True (w/ Al Smith)
In 1949, Fulton Sheen foresaw that men were starting to live lives of indifference. He was right. Today we discuss the choice of indifference, how it will ultimately lead you into a life of sin, and how anxiety and restlessness are a result of this lifestyle. Today we are joined by Fulton Sheen expert Al Smith who has spent the last 17 years studying Fulton Sheen. He offers great insight into the words of Fulton Sheen and how Sheen saw into the hearts of men and knew what they needed. 0:00 The Dangerous Path of Indifference 0:42 A Conversation with Al Smith 2:10 Falling in Love with Jesus 3:59 A God-Incidence Story 10:05 Man's Flight from Silence 21:07 Why We Are Time-Conscious Creatures 35:29 The First Remedy: Confession 42:28 The Power of the Holy Hour 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Rule: ⁠ https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-rule/⁠ COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 Video Producer – Joe Haggard ______________________ -- FOLLOW THE CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN – ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/catholicgentleman ➡️ https://www.facebook.com/TheCatholicGentleman ➡️ https://x.com/catholicgent 🔴 PLEASE HELP US GROW THIS CHANNEL 🔴 1. Don’t miss a Youtube Catholic Gentleman Video: Please click SUBSCRIBE, then Click the "Notification Bell" = 🔔 and select “ALL”. This will make sure that you are notified when any new video is released. 2. Please "Like" this video. 👍 3. Please share this video on Facebook and Twitter using the SHARE button. Please SUBSCRIBE, LIKE, AND SHARE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 17
1 hr 12 min
4 Things Your Wife Needs From You (But Won't Say)
Men don’t understand women. It’s a refrain that has been heard for centuries. Many men feel that no matter what they do, no matter how much they try to love their wives, she still does not feel secure or appreciated. This lack of understanding can end marriages, and we want to prevent that. Pulling from Devin and Kim Schadt’s new book, The Marriage Gap, today we discuss the 4 core needs of every woman. We dig into what truly makes them feel loved, secure, and appreciated. We will explain the right and wrong ways to men should answer the needs of their wives. 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Marriage Gap: ⁠ https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-marriage-gap COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ Video Producer – Joe Haggard 0:00 The Four Core Needs of Your Wife 2:00 The Marriage Gap Explained 4:43 The Mystery of the Feminine 6:50 Facing the Reality of Divorce 12:25 Theological and Practical Unity 25:18 The First Need: Security and Protection 33:37 The Second Need: Strength 47:34 Closeness and Spiritual Leadership ______________________ -- FOLLOW THE CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN – ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/catholicgentleman ➡️ https://www.facebook.com/TheCatholicGentleman ➡️ https://x.com/catholicgent Please SUBSCRIBE and SHARE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 10
1 hr 6 min
Former Muslim and Oxford PhD: Why Your Education Failed You
Joined by former Muslim, Oxford PhD recipient, and university founder, Dr. Jacob Imam, today we passionately discuss why the contempt for working with your hands is not just modern, but pagan. We explore how the current education system leaves men in a world that cannot tell them who they are or what they are for. We also get into how the idea that Catholicism has “gone soft” is a false rhetoric and how Islam offers a false sense of strength.   From Andrew Tate, to converting from Islam, to what our young men need to be successful as a person in 2026, Jacob provides us with fuel and direction.   The College of St. Jospeh the Worker: https://www.collegeofstjoseph.com/  Help the College reclaim the Masonic Temple: https://www.collegeofstjoseph.com/reclaim  0:00 The Crisis of Modern Manhood 1:39 A Journey from Jerusalem to Oxford 3:43 Roots in the Holy Land 7:00 The Legacy of Clerical History 10:41 Finding the Face of Christ 16:05 The Allure of Modern Islam 31:55 Reclaiming the Dignity of Work 1:02:15 Building a New Future  🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: ⁠ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠  👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Marriage Gap: ⁠ https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-marriage-gap COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20   Video Producer – Pietro Damasceno   ______________________   -- FOLLOW THE CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN – ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/catholicgentleman ➡️  https://www.facebook.com/TheCatholicGentleman ➡️ https://x.com/catholicgent 🔴 PLEASE HELP US GROW THIS CHANNEL 🔴   1. Don’t miss a Youtube Catholic Gentleman Video: Please click SUBSCRIBE, then Click the "Notification Bell" = 🔔 and select “ALL”. This will make sure that you are notified when any new video is released.   2. Please "Like" this video. 👍  3. Please share this video on Facebook and Twitter using the SHARE button. Please SUBSCRIBE, LIKE, AND SHARE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sep 3
1 hr 7 min
3 Requirements to a Successful Catholic Marriage
There is always the temptation to keep score. Every little disagreement becomes a legal discussion, and you try so hard to win the case and walk away victorious. But it costs you. 74% of divorced people say their spouse should have worked harder. 73% say they themselves had already done enough. Both cannot be true. Today we discuss the importance of not making your marriage a constant battle to win and how wanting to win can cost you your marriage. We learn to listen to our spouse's heart, not just their words, and to recognize that our needs are God-given. Devin and Kim Schadt have been married thirty years, through cancer, poverty, miscarriage, and a daughter's brain injury. In their new book The Marriage Gap, they lay out the three things every thriving marriage does. 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Marriage Gap:⁠https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-marriage-gap⁠ COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 🟢 FREE RTIC Travel Mug with our New Coffee Bundle 🟢 https://store.catholicgentleman.com/collections/coffee/products/coffee-bundle 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Video Producer – Pietro Damasceno Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Aug 27
1 hr 6 min
Why "Holy" Men Make Lazy Husbands (A Father of 9 Explains)
A man decides he is serious about his faith, and somewhere along the way that becomes the reason he stops trying. His work is sloppy, his day is unstructured, and his wife carries the house while he tells himself he is just not attached to worldly things. He is not being humble, he's using God as cover, and the men around him can see it even when he cannot. Today we sit down with JJ Sanford, a father of nine and the president of the University of Dallas, to talk about the excuse Catholic men keep reaching for. We discuss why magnanimity and humility are sister virtues rather than opposites, why St. Joseph was not spending his Saturdays on the couch while Our Lady did the work, what it means to live your whole day as a prayer instead of fencing your faith into a morning offering and a Sunday Mass, and why outsourcing your thinking to a machine leaves you unable to answer the one question that actually matters: what is God calling you to do with what He gave you. University of Dallas | https://udallas.edu/ 🟢 FREE RTIC Travel Mug with our New Coffee Bundle Learn More Here: https://bit.ly/GabeCastillo 🟢 Join Catholic Gentleman+ for over 31 sessions of exclusive formation, daily saint quotes, and a brotherhood of men pursuing holiness: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com 👉 Devin Schadt's new book The Rule: https://sophiainstitute.com/product/the-rule/⁠ COUPON CODE for 20% Off: Gentleman20 Video Producer: Pietro Damasceno Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Aug 20
59 min
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