How staying in a bad relationship or not healing from trauma in your life can keep you from money AND OR finding your purpose...
Our relationships have a HUGE impact on our work life, our income, what we think we are worth... Because our intimate relationships - if we cannot feel safe, loved, and respected THERE - that WILL play out in every area of our lives.
My divorce was in '08 and I am STILL seeing self-worth issues come up for me in my life around work, money, my body, and all of my relationships. But I was strong, independent and I thought, "It wasn't that bad" - Uhhhh... When I hear people say that now, it's a RED FLAG. We keep programming ourselves to stay in situations that 'aren't that bad' us - but really these situations are just the slow silent death of our soul.
LIVING is NOT staying in something that is 'not that bad'. Living is about being in a place in your life, work, relationship where you breathe deeply into your chest and fill up with gratitude. It's about feeling vibrant in your body and feeling connected to yourself and what's around you.
A good friend of mine spent 2 years traveling the world and came back telling me all of these CRAZY stories... and he went into $20k of debt for it which is ridiculously low, I think. And he said to me, "You know Nichole, I've lived more in the last 2 years than most 80-year-olds ever have."
And really... what are you waiting for? I spent a year watching my mom die of cancer while I felt trapped in my marriage and software engineering career.
I BELIEVE... and this is sad... but I believe we need death to come knocking at our door in some form or fashion for us to really wake up to life.
ALL your bullshit stops then.
I mean WHAT are you giving your LIFE BLOOD FOR? Do you believe in the shit you are doing? Do you LOVE the person you are with? Are you connected to yourself?
Question: Are YOU fundamentally living your LIFE the wrong way?
And I feel like I get off course all of the time, but do you KNOW when you are off course? Can you adjust? THAT is the key.
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