PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of Family Time*, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, in the first of a 3-part series to explore how parents can RESPOND thoughtfully rather than react impulsively to their children. Norma shares practical tools like pausing, naming emotions, and shifting to shame-free language. We also dig into the difference between engaging and evading difficult conversations, reminding parents that connection always comes before correction. Whether you're navigating spilled juice or tough questions about sexuality, this episode offers real, grace-filled guidance to help you build stronger, more trusting relationships with your kids.*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of thoughtful responses to children's questions and behaviorsDistinction between reacting impulsively and responding thoughtfullyBuilding strong parent-child bonds through connection before correctionPractical tools for parents: pausing, counting, and naming feelingsThe impact of language on children's emotional responsesEngaging in difficult conversations rather than evading themThe significance of showing interest in children's lives and activitiesStrategies for effective engagement and communication with childrenThe role of humility in repairing relationships with childrenEncouragement for parents to view challenging moments as growth opportunitiesResources for Next Steps:God's Design CurriculumCritical Conversations Online CourseJust Between Us Parent-Child Journal*RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERSR - Respond over ReactE - Engage over EvadeS - Sincerity over SilenceP - Patience over PunitiveO - Opportunity over ObstacleN - Nearness over NeglectD - Divine Perspective over Diluting TruthThis episode (Part 1) covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 covers N-DDownload a FREE 1-page PDF with the RESPOND infographicFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, affectionately known as "the Lindas," who share their passion for helping parents navigate conversations about sexuality through the theology of the body. We explore how parental shame can block open dialogue with children and why humility and curiosity are essential tools for healing. The Lindas remind us it's never too late to start these conversations and share practical resources, including their book Before the Sex Talk, to help families build a foundation rooted in God's beautiful design.To learn more about The Lindas and their resources for parents, visit TheConversationWorkshop.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Understanding God's design for sexuality and the human body.The impact of parental shame on discussions about sex with children.Encouraging open and healthy conversations between parents and children.The importance of humility in parenting and discussing sensitive topics.The role of curiosity in overcoming shame and fostering dialogue.The significance of parents sharing their own stories appropriately.Practical steps for parents to start conversations about sexuality.The value of building a foundation of trust and openness in family relationships.Resources available for parents to guide discussions on sexuality.The idea that it's never too late to engage in conversations about sexuality with older children.More Resources:Before the Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors*Critical Conversations (FREE Online Course)7 Tips to Help You Address Sexual Issues with Your KidsRelated Podcasts:Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused WorldHelping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and SexualityHow Parents Can Leverage Their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Troy Snyder, a colleague and counseling expert from Restoration Counseling of Atlanta, to explore early couple recovery after sexual betrayal. Troy breaks down what those first six months after discovery really look like, emphasizing stability and safety over quick fixes. We dig into the concept of "reality abuse," the critical role of humility for the betraying spouse, and why individual healing must work in harmony with relational work. Troy also shares practical boundary-setting strategies and reminds couples that restoration is possible — it's simply a long, faithful journey worth taking.To learn more about Troy and his resources, visit RestorationCounselingATL.com and RedeemingLife.net.Topics Covered in this Episode:Early couple recovery following sexual betrayal in marriage.The concept of "reality abuse" and its impact on shared reality.The necessity of individual work for both partners in the recovery process.The importance of humility, patience, and long-term commitment from the betraying partner.Establishing and respecting healthy boundaries to ensure safety for the betrayed spouse.The significance of creating stability and safety in the early recovery phase.The role of professional support and community in the recovery journey.The process of honesty and full disclosure as foundational for rebuilding trust.The need for couples to avoid rushing into relational work before individual healing.The long-term vision for recovery and the importance of perseverance and hope.More Resources:Restoration Counseling of AtlantaGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenOnline Care Groups for Wives (betrayal trauma healing)Related Podcasts:Early Recovery Couples Empathy ModelThe Three Phases of Couples RecoveryHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Andrea Rogers, a Board Certified Life Coach specializing in intimate partner betrayal trauma. Andrea shares her powerful personal story of discovering her husband's double life after 14 years of marriage, which eventually led her into coaching work. We explore what intimate partner betrayal truly means, its devastating emotional and physical impacts—including PTSD-like symptoms—and why it's so isolating. Andrea also shares about the Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day, observed annually on August 4th. This is a growing movement to bring visibility and community to those affected. To learn more about Andrea and her resources, visit FullyAliveCoachingLLC.com and IPBAwareness.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experience with intimate partner betrayal and its impact on relationships.Definition and understanding of intimate partner betrayal and betrayal trauma.Emotional and psychological effects of betrayal trauma, including symptoms similar to PTSD.The isolating nature of betrayal and societal misconceptions surrounding it.The establishment and significance of Intimate Partner Betrayal Awareness Day.Misconceptions about preventing betrayal and the need for specialized support.The importance of community and support systems for healing from betrayal trauma.Distinction between betrayal trauma and other forms of relational conflict.Strategies for healing and first steps for those experiencing betrayal.The role of friends and family in supporting individuals dealing with betrayal trauma.More Resources:An Ember of Light by Andrea AminahWives Care Groups (Online)40 Days of Healing for Wives (online course)Related Podcasts: Is There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal? Online Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal TraumaHealing from Sexual Trauma and Coercive Control in Relationships----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend Dr. Stephen Cervantes to explore a powerful communication tool for couples. Inspired by psychologist Aimee Moran's work with children, Stephen shares nine meaningful questions designed to spark deeper conversations beyond the typical "How was your day?" "Fine." exchange. From reflecting on daily blessings to spotting God at work, these questions build curiosity, emotional connection, and intimacy. We also discuss how especially in marriages healing from betrayal, meaningful dialogue is a true sign of heart-level growth. These simple questions can genuinely transform how couples connect every day!For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Improving communication in marriages, particularly after sexual betrayal.Adapting questions originally designed for children to facilitate deeper conversations between couples.Encouraging emotional expression and moving beyond superficial responses.Discussing daily experiences, challenges, and personal growth within the context of marriage.The importance of creating a safe space for sensitive discussions, especially regarding mistakes and challenges.Fostering curiosity, care, and intimacy through meaningful dialogue.Recognizing and addressing emotional needs in relationships.The role of prayer and spiritual awareness in strengthening marital bonds.Highlighting the significance of noticing and appreciating daily moments and connections.Encouraging ongoing personal and relational growth through intentional questioning and dialogue.More Resources:40 Days of Oneness* by Stephen Cervantes131 Creative Conversations for Couples* by Jed JurchenkoLove Talk* by Les and Leslie ParrottRelated Podcasts:The Goal is ConnectingWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in MarriageAssumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this special edition of Family Time* (which we recorded right before Mother's Day), I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, and two incredible moms, Sonia and Carol, to talk about having critical conversations with kids around emotions and sexuality. They share their personal experiences using our ministry resources, including the Honest Talk game and Honest Talk book. Together, we explore how building emotional awareness creates the trust needed for kids to open up about harder topics, and why grace, humility, and ongoing dialogue matter more than having all the answers.I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and I think you will too. It is honest, yet hope-filled. If you are a parent in today’s world, you don’t have to be scared.*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of emotional awareness in parenting.Tools and resources for facilitating difficult conversations with children.Experiences of mothers in using parenting resources effectively.The foundational role of emotions in discussing topics like sexuality.Building trust and open communication between parents and children.Normalizing ongoing conversations about sexuality rather than a single "talk."The impact of parental reactions on children's emotional development.Encouragement for parents to engage with their children's questions and concerns.The significance of using proper anatomical terms and age-appropriate discussions.The role of grace and community support in parenting challenges.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Honest Talk* by John FortHonest Talk: The GameFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire to explore how wives can navigate healing after sexual betrayal, particularly when dealing with emotional triggers. Ashley shares vulnerably from her own recovery journey, explaining what triggers are, how they affect our nervous system, and why "befriending" them is more powerful than suppressing them. We discuss rebuilding intuition after gaslighting, setting healthy boundaries, and practical grounding tools. Ashley reminds us that healing is possible and that connecting with a supportive community is absolutely essential for the journey forward.To learn more about Ashley, visit PureDesire.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Healing journey for wives experiencing sexual betrayalUnderstanding and managing emotional triggersThe concept of "befriending your triggers"The impact of betrayal on intuition and gut feelingsImportance of validating feelings and investigating triggersSetting boundaries for personal safety and well-beingCommon triggers that heighten anxiety in betrayed wivesPractical tools for grounding and emotional regulationThe role of community and support in the healing processEmpowerment through understanding triggers and making informed decisionsMore Resources:Online Wives Care GroupsUnfiltered Podcast with Ashley and HeatherFree Wives Care WebinarRelated Podcasts:Forgiveness and Grief in Betrayal Trauma HealingRelapse Safety Plan for Wives Healing from Betrayal TraumaOnline Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of Pure Sex Radio, I sit down with Jim Burns, founder of HomeWord and author of A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity. Jim shares why open, ongoing conversations with our kids about sexuality are far more effective than one big "talk." We explore how parents can present sexuality as God's good design, set healthy boundaries, and address tough topics like pornography, gender identity, and shame — all without being preachy. Jim also emphasizes the power of authenticity, encouraging parents to be real with their kids to build trust and keep the dialogue going.To learn more about Jim and get this latest book, visit HomeWord.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing sexuality with children and teenagersChallenges of addressing sexuality in contemporary cultureThe shift from a single "talk" to ongoing conversations about sexualityRole of parents in providing a positive narrative about sexualityAddressing boundaries, pornography, and gender identity in discussionsThe impact of social media on youth sexuality and educationStrategies for discussing healthy sexuality and pornography with kidsThe significance of authenticity and sharing personal experiencesUnderstanding and addressing shame in conversations about sexualityEncouraging a foundation of sexual integrity based on biblical principlesMore Resources:A Student's Guide to Sexual Integrity* by Jim BurnsDIGITAL COURSE: A Student’s Guide to Sexual IntegrityFREE Online Course: Critical ConversationsRelated Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Know God's Good DesignCritical Conversations Podcast Bundle (6 episodes)Fighting Fears of Talking to Your Kids About Sex*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Matt Wenger to explore his powerful concept, the "Wheel of Destruction." Matt breaks down the five interconnected factors that fuel sex and porn addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and brain changes. He explains how these elements feed into each other, creating a destructive cycle that impacts every area of life. Matt also shares practical pathways to healing through therapy, community, and sobriety. Most importantly, he reminds us that recovery is absolutely possible—your brain, heart, and body are capable of healing, and you don't have to face this journey alone.Get more info on Matt and resources to help your recovery journey at BeginAgainInstitute.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Understanding sex and porn addiction recoveryIntroduction of the "Wheel of Destruction" conceptInterconnected factors contributing to addiction: trauma, maladaptive sexual experiences, attachment wounds, autonomic nervous system dysregulation, and brain changesThe impact of trauma on addiction and recoveryThe role of attachment wounds in shaping addictive behaviorsThe relationship between shame and attachment woundsImportance of community and authentic relationships in recoveryThe effects of autonomic nervous system dysregulation on behavior and recoveryBrain plasticity and the potential for healing in recoveryMessages of hope and support for individuals struggling with addictionMore Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenBegin Again Institute 14-Day Christian Men's IntensiveHow Sex Addiction Creates False IntimacyRelated Podcast:The Importance of "Whole Man" RecoveryReframing Recovery as Emotional RegulationPorn and Sex Addiction Recovery as Mental Health Issues----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I talk with Lyschel Burket about something every betrayed spouse needs to think about: what happens if there’s a relapse? We get honest about how deeply destabilizing that can be, especially for wives who have already been through the pain of betrayal and are trying to rebuild a sense of safety.Lyschel helps us understand why a relapse can feel like another trauma. It can knock a wife’s body and mind right back into survival mode, making it hard to think clearly, make decisions, or even know what to do next. That’s why we spend time talking about the value of a relapse safety plan, which is really a practical way to prepare before a crisis hits.We walk through the important pieces of that plan, including how to define the difference between a slip and a relapse, why it matters to think ahead about your physical, emotional, spiritual, financial, and relational needs, and how a plan can actually reduce panic when life feels chaotic. We also talk about the unfairness many wives feel in having to create this kind of plan, and why it still can be an act of wisdom and self-care.At the heart of it all, Lyschel reminds us that a woman’s safety is not ultimately dependent on her husband’s choices. God is the true source of her provision, protection, and hope.To learn more about Lyschel and the resources she offers to wives, visit HopeRedefined.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: Relapse and betrayal trauma.How relapse destabilizes a spouse.Slip vs. relapse.Why a relapse safety plan matters.Preparing before crisis hits.Fire escape plan analogy.Key safety plan categories.Hope and stability in God.More Resources:Relapse Safety Plan WorkshopRedeemed Hope intensiveOnline Wives Care GroupsRelated Podcasts:Helping Wives Restore Hope After Betrayal Trauma in MarriageIdentifying and Meeting Needs in a Betrayed WifeThe Need for Boundaries After Betrayal----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.