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Ingrid Dutton
When Leaving Turns Dangerous: Jane’s Story of Coercive Control & Legal Abuse I Ep. 116
1 hour 10 minutes Posted Apr 29, 2026 at 4:00 am.
Welcome, Listener Letter, And Poem
Meet Jane And Why She Speaks
Online Dating And The Love Bomb
Moving In And Coercive Control
COVID Pressure And Escalating Fear
Cheating Discovery And Kicking Him Out
Kids Reveal Restraining Order Scam
Threats Of Jail And License Loss
Police Response And Invalid Service
Break In, Fake Lease, And Arrest
Appeals, Small Claims, And Courtroom Chaos
Fake Service, Endless Delays, And Vexatious Litigation
Trauma Recovery, Danger Assessments, And Closing
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A breakup should be an ending—not a new battlefield. In this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid sits down with Jane, an ER nurse who shares her experience with coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and the devastating reality of legal abuse after separation. What started as charm, fast attachment, and love bombing quickly turned into gaslighting, isolation, and fear. When Jane finally said “no,” her ex escalated—not just emotionally, but legally. Through restraining order manipulation, altered documen...