Beyond the Statistics (formerly 1 in 3)
Beyond the Statistics (formerly 1 in 3)
Ingrid Dutton
Coercive Control, The Invisible Abuse with Dr. Lisa I Ep. 101
1 hour 9 minutes Posted Dec 31, 2025 at 5:00 am.
Welcome And Guest Background
From Surgeon To Advocate And Coach
Discovering Abuse And Preparing To Leave
Defining Abuse Beyond Violence
Why Diagnoses Are Rare And Misleading
The Trap Of Couples Counseling
Entitlement, Patriarchy, And Control
How Coercive Control Shows Up At Home
Love Bombing, Future Faking, Data Mining
Isolation And Alienation Tactics
Financial Control And Dependency
Spiritual Gaslighting In Church Settings
DARVO And Circular Conversations
Gut Instinct, Dissonance, And Health
Reframing Reality In Recovery
Infidelity As Coercive Control
Coaching Approach And Global Work
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What if the most dangerous abuse leaves no bruises? In this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid is joined by Dr. Lisa to unpack coercive control—a form of abuse that often hides behind charm, faith language, and “helpful” or respected personas. We explore how relationships that begin with love bombing, future faking, and devotion slowly shift into gaslighting, DARVO, isolation, and financial dependence, causing even the most capable people to doubt their own reality. This conversation breaks down why f...