Beyond the Statistics (formerly 1 in 3)
Beyond the Statistics (formerly 1 in 3)
Ingrid Dutton
Red Flag or Trauma? Navigating New Relationships with Kimberly Mathis I Ep. 78
58 minutes Posted Jul 23, 2025 at 4:00 am.
Welcome to Love After Abuse
Red Flags vs. Trauma Responses
When to Share Your Trauma History
Dating Takes Energy: A Personal Experience
Accepting Support Without Second-Guessing
Setting Boundaries in Healthy Relationships
Being Your Authentic Self While Dating
Choosing Yourself First
Closing Thoughts and Resources
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What happens when the chaos of abuse finally ends, and you're faced with the possibility of new love? For many survivors, this terrain feels more frightening than familiar. Dating after domestic violence isn't just about meeting someone new—it's about rewiring your entire understanding of what relationships should feel like. When you've spent years walking on eggshells, genuine kindness can feel suspicious. When you've learned to anticipate mood swings, a stable partner might seem boring. Wh...