Here's what is covered in today's episode

• There are a ton of "submit" verses in the Bible. 
  • They were used to abuse me in my first marriage.
  • I think these also have made men feel that they had the right to abuse & justify their actions with the misuse of these scriptures.
• But what people don't realize is they are reading the Bible (and even translations of the Bible) through a patriarchial lense.
  • Don't believe me?
  • What does "help-meet" mean?
    • This word which Eve is supposed to be to Adam.
    • Well, it's not the supporting, secondary, servant role you may have always thought.
    • The original word in Hebrew is "ezer kenegedo". Ezer is used 21x in the Old Testament
      • When speaking of Eve 2x in Genesis, it's translated as "help" 
      • Three times it is used to describe a powerful nation that comes to save the nation of Israel from their enemies
      • The other 16x it's used to describe God as a military warrior, the powerful savior, giving  desperate salvation from foes
      • Is that how you see women?
      • Is that how you see yourself?
• What if more verses are viewed through this patriarchial lense and we just aren't aware?
• What scriptural references do we KNOW for sure speak of female leadership even in the New Testament (sprinkled among the books including "wives submit to husbands" verses are found):
  • Woman apostle
  • Paul honoring the 10 out of 28 people who have been colaborers
  • Woman deacons

• As a feminist myself, this material breaths life to my soul

• BUT, what if there IS something to this "submitting" thing in the 21st century, Christian marriages with powerful, feminist women...?
• What if there's an empowering message for both men and women when done "right"?
• This is a morsel of a much larger conversation, but God-willing it will leave all of us with a bit more of a softened heart to where God may be leading us.

This isn't easy territory, but I pray that it is an eye-opening episode for every listener. 

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