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Jen Lumanlan
198: The connection between your ideas about childhood and politics with Dr. Toby Rollo
55 minutes Posted Nov 26, 2023 at 5:00 pm.
Introduction to today’s guest and topic
The definition of children and childhood
The historical shift from a protective view of childhood to a modern perspective emphasizing children's progression toward becoming adults and citizens
The developmental view of childhood is criticized for biases, as it deems non-Western governance as inferior.
Dr. Toby Rollo challenges the Western perspective on political agency, seeing children as political agents.
Dismantling racism and patriarchy requires challenging early patterns of oppression in adult-child relationships
Advocating for a change in society's focus to better empower children and families
Exploring the link between political ideologies and ideas about childhood
Dr. Rollo suggests conventional school success doesn't guarantee overall well-being and advocates for fostering children's internal motivation and self-awareness.
Wrapping up the discussion
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A couple of years ago I was watching a session of the Alliance for Self-Directed Education's online conference by unschooling advocate Idzie Desmerais. At some point she dropped a quote into her presentation that I jotted down but didn't think much of at the time:
 
What if your ideas about politics were just your ideas about childhood, extrapolated?
 
I returned to my notes some months later, having spent much of that time immersed in writing the first draft of the book, the quote almost took my breath away. There, right in front of me, was a single sentence that encapsulated so much of what I'd been thinking and writing about.
 
On the surface, it may seem as though these topics are completely unrelated but they are actually intimately connected.
 
We use politics set up systems that support the culture we want to live in.
 
We create systems that make it harder to vote because we don't think everyone should be able to vote - especially if you aren't White, male, or at least middle class.
 
We abolish Affirmative Action in college admissions because we think everyone has the same basic chance to succeed, so there's no reason to support some more than others.
 
Government policies establish the conditions of capitalism - like manipulating interest rates, regulating companies' ability to engage in certain business practices, and offering tax cuts for activities we collectively think are good, which ends up transferring wealth from people with less money who rent, to people with more money who buy homes.
 
And we shape them to try to ensure their success in these systems.
 
If we believe that people should basically take care of themselves rather than relying on support from others, since we all have equal skills and freedoms, then we're probably going to raise children who do things for themselves without relying on other people.
 
If we see that boys get punished for 'being soft' and that girls get punished for expressing big ideas (Clementine Ford's Boys Will Be Boys, which discusses online take-downs of women who express ideas, is one of the most depressing books I've ever read), then we're probably going to raise boys who don't express weakness, or girls who express big ideas. (Little ideas are OK...but nothing that could rock the boat too much.)
 
If we think that there are limited resources in the world and our child has to get their place in school, university, employment or someone else will, then we're going to work to get our child ahead in that system.
 
And because all of those systems out in the world rely on one person or group's power over another person or group, we practice that at home as well.
 
In this provocative episode, Dr. Toby Rollo explains in-depth how our ideas about politics are our ideas about childhood, extrapolated. Yes, it's theoretical...but we also discuss what this means for OUR real children in OUR real families.
 
 
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Jump to Highlights
00:42 Introduction to today’s guest and topic
02:16 The definition of children and childhood
04:58 The historical shift from a protective view of childhood to a modern perspective emphasizing children's progression toward becoming adults and citizens
10:55 The developmental view of childhood is criticized for biases, as it deems non-Western governance as inferior.
16:23 Dr. Toby Rollo challenges the Western perspective on political agency, seeing children as political agents.
20:38 Dismantling racism and patriarchy requires challenging early patterns of oppression in adult-child relationships
30:50 Advocating for a change in society's focus to better empower children and families
37:12 Exploring the link between political ideologies and ideas about childhood
45:12 Dr. Rollo suggests conventional school success doesn't guarantee overall well-being and advocates for fostering children's internal motivation and self-awareness.
54:00 Wrapping up the discussion
 
 
References
Araujo, E., Ferretti, F., Ince, A., Moason, K., Mullenite, J., Pickerill, J., Rollo, T., & White, R.J. (2017). Beyond electoralism: Reflections on anarchy, populism, and the crisis of electoral politics. ACME: An International E-Journal for Critical Geographies 16(4), 607-642.
 
Brito Vieira, M., Jung, T., Gray, S.W.D., & Rollo, T. (2019). The nature of silence and its democratic possibilities. Contemporary Political Theory 18, 424-447.
 
Rollo, T. (2016). Everyday deeds: Enactive protest, exit, and silence in deliberative systems. Political Theory 45(5), 587-609.
 
Rollo, T. (2016). Democracy, agency, and radical children’s geographies. In: R.J. White, S. Springer, and Lopes de Sousa, M.: The Practice of Freedom: Anarchism, Geography, and the Spirit of Revolt (Vol. 3) (p.235-255). Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield
 
Rollo, T. (2018). Feral children: Settler colonialism, progress, and the figure of the child. Settler Colonial Studies 8(1), 60-79.
 
Rollo, T. (2018). The color of childhood: The role of the child/human binary in the production of anti-Black racism. Journal of Black Studies 49(4), 307-329.
 
Rollo, T. (2020). Women and Children First! Childhood, Feminisms, and the Co-emancipatory Model. Turbulent Times, Transformational Possibilities?: Gender and Politics Today and Tomorrow, 199.