20 years ago, a pivotal moment reshaped my entire life's trajectory. It wasn't about success or achievements—it was about the powerful, life-altering question a doctor asked me: “Do you want to walk your daughter down the aisle on her wedding day, Ed?” This episode dives into the heart of that story, Bella's wedding day, a narrative that didn't just save my life but holds the key to the blueprint for harnessing the power of emotional leverage to foster lasting change in any area of your life. I'm sharing this life-changing story and the 4 steps you can take to fuel lasting change including: - Pinpointing the deep-seated reasons that motivate and drive you, which are crucial for enduring change - Establishing powerful, emotional triggers that propel you forward and keep you committed to your goals - Utilizing leverage not just as a tool for success, but as a profound influencer in your personal transformation - Understanding the dynamic between seeking joy and avoiding pain, and how this balance can radically alter your path Each of us has our "Bella’s wedding day" questions—those deep, personal challenges or goals that define our paths. Join me, as we explore how to harness these transformative strategies to craft a future filled with health, happiness, and fulfillment and where our actions and choices align with our deepest values and desires. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You’re about to hear one of the most difficult but important interviews I’ve ever done. Recovering from the death of a loved one in the prime of their life is one of the most challenging things anyone can endure. But when that death is by suicide, and you’re a public figure with three children, the challenges are exponential. This week, I'm joined by Allison Holker, an extraordinary dancer known from "So You Think You Can Dance," who faced the unimaginable when her husband, Stephen “tWitch” Boss, tragically ended his own life. Allison's story is not just one of profound loss but also of resilience, healing, and the redemptive power of opening up about mental health. In this deeply personal and impactful discussion, Allison shares her ongoing journey through grief, providing insights that resonate with anyone facing their own battles with loss. This episode isn't just about coping with grief; it's about allowing grief to fuel personal growth and awareness. Here's what you'll gain from todays episode: Allison's insights on navigating heartache with children in the wake of loss The critical importance of giving and receiving love when you're naturally reserved How cherishing every second is a pathway to healing Strategies for slowly rebuilding your capacity for happiness and finding light after darkness. How viewing your life through a lens of beauty and appreciation can alter your healing journey The strength and comfort drawn from spiritual beliefs during the toughest times Managing relationships with those who give energy and those who take it away. Allison's openness offers hope and a roadmap for those navigating the murky waters of grief, particularly the unique sorrow that follows suicide. Her courage in sharing her story aims to light the way for others, emphasizing that while the pain might not completely vanish, the strength we discover in our darkest hours can lead to a personal transformation. Join us for a conversation that promises not just to touch your heart but also to offer real strategies for anyone dealing with grief to find a way forward. This is about more than survival; it's about learning to live again with joy, purpose, and gratitude. If you or someone you know is having a mental health emergency call 911 Or reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline by dialing 988 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ready for a quantum leap in how you perceive and engage with your life?  This episode dives deep into the crucial distinction between living from a place of history and memory versus vision and imagination.  Many of us unknowingly replay the same scenarios, bound by our past experiences and limitations. But what if you could shift to a life driven by your dreams, aspirations, and the untapped potential of your imagination? I'm sharing 4 huge transformative insights and practical strategies to help you break free from the cycle of cognitive immobility (living from a place of history and memory ). This is a blueprint for anyone feeling stuck or confined by their past, and ready to embrace a future filled with possibilities. Here's what you'll gain from tuning in: Learn the power of Possibility Projection - your ability to craft and live into a future fueled by your aspirations Learn why a “Phone Fast” might be the key to reclaiming your focus, presence, and mental health Discover the technique of “Small Box Focus”, a method to train your brain for presence and appreciation of the moment And “Name the Dummy”— a practice to help you recognize and label the part of you that dwells on negativity, enabling you to gain control and redirect your thoughts towards constructive paths. Whether you're young and feeling overwhelmed by the noise and expectations of the world, or at any stage of life seeking a pivot towards a more fulfilling future, this episode offers the insights and steps to shift from a life defined by past constraints to one shaped by your greatest visions.  It's time to turn your imagination into your reality. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Revolutionize your well-being with Science-Backed Secrets to Brain Health and strategies to build Mental Resilience! I’m excited to reconnect with my good friend and a titan in the realm of neuroscience, Dr. Daniel Amen. With an illustrious career that spans 5 best-selling books, pioneering clinics across the country, and transformative health strategies, Dr. Amen's insights have the power to change lives across all ages.  Stress, digital overload, and lifestyle choices constantly challenge our mental equilibrium, which means understanding the fundamentals of brain health has never been more critical.  Here's a sneak peek of the insights from today’s episode: Mind vs. Brain: What’s the difference and how to nurture both  Learn about Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTS) and practical steps to counteract their harmful effects on our mental state Explore the impact of diet—caffeine, sugar, and beyond—on brain health, mental clarity and resilience The critical importance of bonding and attachment, not just for children but in relationships at all ages Discover strategies to build resilience in the face of adversity, enhancing your ability to bounce back stronger from life's challenges Learn the value of holding oneself accountable and the role of physical activity in maintaining a healthy brain. Addressing the modern challenge of screen time and social media, offering balanced approaches for healthy engagement. Dr. Amen's expertise extends beyond individual wellness to also include strategies for raising mentally strong and happy children, making this episode a vital listen for families too.  Explore the science-backed secrets to unlocking a healthier, more resilient mind and brain. Whether for yourself or your loved ones! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Unlock the blueprint to revolutionize your life with "15 Life-Changing Tips I Would Give My Younger Self". In a world brimming with distractions and diverging paths, finding your way can seem like an insurmountable task, especially for the younger generation stepping boldly into their futures. But imagine if you had a compass or a guide who’s navigated the paths of life before you. This week, I'm here to be that guide.  Drawing from my personal experiences and lessons learned, I'm sharing 15 pieces of advice, designed not only to steer you clear of common pitfalls but to propel you toward a life of unparalleled success and fulfillment. Whether you're just starting out or looking to recalibrate your journey, these insights are your game plan for transformation.  Here's a glimpse of what we'll explore:  The truth about hard work vs talent  The Power of Mentorship  Communication Mastery and Gaining Influence  How to network and open doors of opportunity  Key financial principles that drive wealth  How to Identify and maximize your innate talents  How to focus your energy on what truly matters  The art of choosing wisely who you allow into your personal space  I’m also sharing my top 12 must-read books, selections that have profoundly shaped my perspective and approach to life.  This episode is more than a list; it’s a journey into the heart of what it means to live intentionally, passionately, and with purpose.  Whether you're just starting out or looking to refresh your life, these 15 life-changing tips are your roadmap to a future beyond your wildest dreams. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What would you do with a second chance at life? Damar Hamlin's story transcends the world of football, marking a pivotal moment not just in sports history but in the narrative of human endurance and divine intervention. Damar collapsed on the field during an NFL MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL game in January 2023. He went into cardiac arrest after taking a blow to the chest during a tackle. The world held its breath. But his story was far from over. Through a miraculous recovery fueled by quick action, unwavering faith, and a collective outpouring of support, Damar's life was saved, and his purpose magnified. But Damar’s story doesn’t end there. Because eight months later, Damar stepped on the field once more to play the game he loves. In one of the most profound conversations I've had on this show, Damar opens up about his extraordinary journey back to the field and how his brush with mortality has reshaped his outlook on life.  Here's what you'll uncover in this incredible episode: Damar's firsthand account of that fateful day and the miraculous series of events that led to his survival. The instrumental role of faith and prayer in his recovery The emotional moment of communication with his family after regaining consciousness Navigating the waves of notoriety that followed his recovery and the challenges of being thrust into the spotlight. The profound mix of emotions experienced upon returning to the field and the internal transformation that ensued. Insights on dealing with imposter syndrome and the universal quest for authenticity and purpose. Words of wisdom for those facing their darkest hours, sharing the light of hope and the power of perseverance. This is one of the most uplifting and faith-based stories you’ll ever hear. If you wonder if you can overcome the odds in your own life, look to Damar and his example, and you will undoubtedly be INSPIRED just like I was. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There’s a growing EPIDEMIC I’m seeing in men everywhere I go. Many men are tired. They are suffering mentally and emotionally. It’s causing a lot of damage to them. This conversation is for anyone feeling the weight of life's burdens, regardless of gender. I'm talking directly to you, about the quiet struggles, the hidden weariness, and the silent battles that many of us face but seldom acknowledge. This isn't just about being tired; it's about the deeper exhaustion that seeps into your bones—the mental, emotional, and spiritual fatigue that whispers doubts in the dead of night. It's about the journey of navigating life when you're running on empty, feeling invisible in a world that constantly demands more. In this heart-to-heart, you’ll uncover the lifelines that can pull you or someone you love, back from the brink including: How to turn your struggles into strength How to BELIEVE in yourself again How to let those around you reignite your inner fire Simple yet profound actions to start reclaiming your energy and focus The necessity of finding solace and strength in something greater than yourself Strategies to break free from the cycle of comparison and rediscover your unique path and purpose This episode is a call to arms—a declaration that it's never too late to refresh, to shake off the shackles of exhaustion and step into the light of your true potential. Whether you're a man feeling lost and tired, a woman witnessing the struggles of the men in your life, or anyone in between, there's a message here for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nick Kyrgios reveals all: battling demons, chasing glory, and finding strength in vulnerability. I’m serving up an important talk about peak performance and MENTAL HEALTH issues this week with NICK KYRGIOS, one of the most fascinating, and complex athletes in the world today and a powerhouse in the tennis arena known not just for his explosive talent but for navigating the complexities of mental health in the glaring spotlight. Originally from Greece, Nick moved to Australia at a young age and became one of the TOP TENNIS PLAYERS IN THE WORLD. He is known for a mercurial, aggressive style of play, including his fiery on-court rants, fines, suspensions, and other colorful displays. He has developed a legion of devoted fans, and a fair number of critics as well. But as you’ll hear, there’s a lot more to Nick than what you see in on the court. As Nick steps back to rehab from an injury, he's hitting pause to reflect on his whirlwind of achievements and the road ahead. For anyone standing at their own life's crossroads, Nick's candid exploration of his triumphs, trials, and mental health offers invaluable insights. In this episode we dive into: Overcoming imposter syndrome and building a foundation of self-worth amidst the pressures of professional sports. From battling substance abuse to confronting suicidal thoughts, Nick shares his journey through the mental health challenges that shadow athletic excellence The Weight of Expectations of others while staying true to your path The Cost of Victory and the all-consuming drive to win and the personal toll it exacts Knowing when to step back for self-preservation and the courage it takes to make that choice Hear what facing giants like Nikola Djokovic on the court reveals about competing with the elite Nick discusses his proudest moments, deepest regrets, and the lessons learned along the way Nick’s story is more than a sports narrative; it's a powerful reminder of the importance of authenticity, resilience, and the ongoing battle for mental well-being in the face of extraordinary pressure. His openness and honesty provide not only a rare glimpse into the life of a top athlete but also lessons on staying true to oneself despite the challenges. This episode transcends tennis, touching on the universal themes of ambition, adversity, and the unyielding quest for personal peace and fulfillment. Nick Kyrgios reminds us that even in the loneliest battles, there’s strength to be found in vulnerability and immense power in authenticity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You might be neglecting the most important relationship you have—the one with yourself! Today we’re diving into the heart of what it means to truly embrace and cultivate self-love, a topic that's often discussed yet rarely unpacked with the depth and authenticity it deserves. I'm sharing the 14 SIGNS YOU DON’T LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH that just might change your perspective on self-love, the way you see yourself and how you navigate your journey towards becoming your best self. You’ll learn: The Hard Truth about Self-Love How Discipline is one of the highest forms of self-love How to align Your Life with Your Values How setting and adhering to high personal standards as a testament to self-love. How to Experience the joy and fulfillment that come from living authentically, aligned with your true self and potential. I believe that to love ourselves truly, we must strive to be ourselves fully. This means pursuing our goals with discipline, living in congruence with our values, and continually seeking to expand and grow. It's about setting high standards for ourselves and not settling for mediocrity or complacency. Take this episode as an invitation and a guide to LOVE YOURSELF MORE through the actions you take and the choices you make every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Resilience, courage, and unwavering determination are the 3 words I’d use to describe today’s interview with my friend Inky Johnson. Inky was on the brink of realizing his lifelong dream of playing professional football when a catastrophic injury during a game for the University of Tennessee changed his life forever. In a fleeting moment, his promising athletic career was halted, leaving his right arm and hand permanently paralyzed. Yet, what Inky chose to do in the aftermath of this life-altering event is nothing short of remarkable. Instead of succumbing to despair, Inky transformed his greatest setback into his biggest breakthrough. Today, he's not only an acclaimed author and entrepreneur but also one of the most compelling motivational speakers, touching the lives of people across the globe, from elite athletes to top executives. Inky's narrative is a powerful reminder that our greatest trials often pave the way for our most significant triumphs. In this episode, you’ll learn about: Inky’s journey through the shock and realization of his injury and how he found the strength to face his new reality. The pivotal role of patience, faith, and an unwavering belief Insights into leveraging adversity as a catalyst for uncovering and utilizing other gifts and talents. The importance of unconditional effort Lessons on leadership The critical distinction between expectations and standards The indispensable value of joy and happiness These insights offer not just hope but practical strategies for anyone facing obstacles, big or small and will leave you with lots of things to think about as you fight through battles in your own life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices