Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast; today, we will explore the impact of generational trauma. Jimmy Evans shows how past experiences influence our lives and relationships, sharing personal stories and offering practical steps to overcome these patterns. Learn how to make peace with the past, forgive, and create a positive legacy for future generations. Tune in to start your journey towards healing and blessing those to come. -------------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday -------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:27 Generational Connection and Family History 06:44 Dealing with Pain and Hurt from the Past 10:00 The Role of Parents in Generational Transference 13:45 Recognizing and Repenting of Iniquities 16:07 Breaking Family Iniquities 23:27 The Destructive Nature of Inner Vows 27:36 Breaking Free from Intervows 30:02 Leaving a Legacy of Blessing for Future Generations 30:14 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday podcast. Today pastor Jimmy Evans dives into Isaiah 61 to explore how God's promise of healing and redemption through Jesus can profoundly impact our lives. He identifies five key areas of healing—poverty, bondage, brokenheartedness, heaviness, and mourning—offering hope and a path forward for those suffering. Evans emphasizes that true healing involves a collaborative process with God, requiring our obedience, willingness to change, and active responsibility. Tune in to learn how embracing God's healing can not only resolve physical, emotional, and spiritual wounds but also fulfill His eternal purpose for your life and marriage. ------------------------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket For all links mentioned in episode & more XO content, visit: https://linktr.ee/marriagetoday ------------------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction 02:01 The Purpose of Jesus' Coming: Healing Hurting People 09:05 The Dilemma of Healing: Why Aren't People Healed? 10:56 The Partnership of Healing: Obedience, Change, and Responsibility 31:38 Healing: Relieving Pain or Redeeming Purpose? 35:47 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the MarriageToday Podcast, I'm excited to dive into this episode with you. Today, we're going to uncover how the enemy uses pain and trauma to deceive and manipulate us. I'll share some powerful biblical examples that shed light on this issue and offer practical strategies for aligning our thoughts with God's truth to overcome deception's grip. Join me on this journey of healing and restoration in your marriage. -------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket -------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 02:23 The Devil's Introduction of Thoughts 09:00 God's Goodness and the Devil's Lies 11:43 Vulnerability and the Devil's Attacks 24:26 Expelling Thoughts That Don't Align with God's Word 25:47 Confessing Our Agreement with God's Truth 28:01 Preventing the Devil from Campin in Our Minds Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Marriage Today Podcast with Jimmy Evans. In this episode, Jimmy delves into the profound impact of pain on our lives and relationships. Through personal stories, he illustrates how unresolved pain can accumulate and affect our mental, emotional, spiritual, and relational well-being. Jimmy identifies three common ways people cope with pain: medicating, motivating, or meditating. Join us as we explore these approaches and learn how to navigate life's challenges towards healing and growth. Tune in to the Marriage Today Podcast and discover valuable insights for transforming pain into resilience. ----------------------------- To watch the full series for free follow this link: https://www.xonow.com/zen/the-hurt-pocket Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Jimmy and Karen Evans here, and in this episode, we're tackling a question many of us grapple with: what to do when you love your spouse but don't particularly like them. Get ready for a candid conversation as we share our personal insights on navigating those moments. We emphasize that it's okay to have times when you're not best buddies, but it shouldn't shake your commitment to the marriage. Join us as we delve into controlling emotions, the distinction between liking and loving, and the power of agape love. Stick around for a special mention of our book, the 'I Will' Devotional, and details on counseling services available through xomarriage.com/help ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways It is normal to have times when you don't like your spouse, but it should not affect your behavior or commitment to the marriage. Controlling emotions is crucial in maintaining a loving relationship with your spouse. Liking someone and loving them are not the same thing; agape love goes beyond emotions. The I Will Devotional and counseling services are resources available to help couples navigate challenges in their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Question 00:35 The Real World of Marriage 01:31 Loving Your Neighbor 02:01 Dealing with Dislike 03:00 Controlling Emotions 04:27 Actions vs. Feelings 05:23 The Arrogance of Not Liking 06:22 Commitment in Marriage 07:20 Agape Love 08:17 The Naivety of Expecting Perpetual Like 09:45 Sustaining Love 10:43 The I Will Devotional and Counseling 12:13 Closing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving deep into the heartbeat of a strong marriage: sacrificial love. We're excited to share insights from our new book, 'I Will,' a 365-day devotional crafted for couples. Join us as we unpack the foundation of sacrificial love, the challenge of embodying Christ-like love, and the pivotal role of husbands at home. We get personal about the importance of sacrificial love as the bedrock of any thriving marriage. Stick around for a special promotion of 'I Will' and our heartfelt call to action—whether it's strengthening your bond with our devotional or seeking help when needed. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Sacrifice is the foundation of a man's love for his wife. Loving like Christ is a challenge, but with God's grace, it is possible to strive for it. The husband's role at home is to sacrificially take care of his wife. Sacrificial love should be the number one role in a marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Book Promotion 01:00 The Foundation of Sacrificial Love 03:22 The Challenge of Loving Like Christ 06:11 The Role of the Husband at Home 08:56 Sacrificial Love as the Number One Role 10:20 Promotion of the I Will Devotional 11:49 Closing and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! We're Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're diving into the critical topic of having an emergency relief plan for your marriage. Drawing parallels to hurricane evacuation routes, we share personal insights on the importance of being prepared for crisis situations, even those that might seem less severe. We emphasize the impact of emotional decision-making on marriages and highlight the need for help and counseling. From pastors to trusted friends, we encourage you to build a support system and be accountable to others. This isn't just advice; it's our heartfelt call to action—reach out, seek help, and strengthen your marriage. ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Having an emergency relief plan for your marriage is crucial to navigate crisis situations. Seeking help and counseling is not a sign of weakness but a sign of wisdom. Building a support system of godly friends and mentors is essential for a healthy marriage. Being accountable to others and submitting to authority can protect and strengthen your marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast 00:34 The Importance of Having an Emergency Relief Plan 01:31 Making a Plan for Crisis Situations 02:29 Seeking Help and Counseling 03:27 Availability of Marriage Counseling 04:23 The Consequences of Not Seeking Help 05:23 The Importance of Outside Influence and Perspective 06:21 Creating a Support System 07:18 The Role of Church and Godly Friends 08:17 The Value of Accountability 09:42 The Importance of Submission to Authority 10:12 The Need for External Help in Complicated Situations 11:37 Encouragement to Seek Help and Counseling 12:07 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! It's Jimmy and Karen Evans, and in this episode, we're getting personal about the importance of unity in marriage. Beyond parenting, we explore how being a united front impacts every aspect of life—relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Drawing from our own experiences, we stress the benefits of counseling and highlight the pivotal role of communication and shared vision in a thriving marriage. Join us for a candid conversation on why unity is the heartbeat of a strong and lasting relationship. This is not just advice; it's our personal journey, and we're excited to share it with you on the MarriageToday Podcast! ---------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Being a united front in marriage means being one and not allowing divisions to occur. Parenting requires couples to be a united front and not let their children divide them. Seeking counseling can help resolve disagreements and strengthen unity in marriage. Being a united front extends to all areas of life, including relationships, friendships, and decision-making. Vision retreats can be a transformative experience for couples, helping them align their goals and strengthen their unity. Applying marriage principles and actively working on unity is essential for a successful marriage. Shared finances and decision-making contribute to unity in marriage. Blended families face unique challenges, but being a united front is crucial for the success of the marriage. Resources such as counseling and vision retreats are available to help couples strengthen their marriage. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the Importance of Being a United Front 01:04 Parenting as a United Front 03:00 Seeking Counseling to Resolve Disagreements 04:28 Being a United Front in Relationships and Friendships 05:25 The Importance of Communication and Unity in Marriage 06:20 The Benefits of Vision Retreats 07:47 Applying Marriage Principles to Real Life 08:44 The Dangers of Separate Bank Accounts 09:43 Blended Families and Being a United Front 12:32 Conclusion and Resources for Strengthening Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Join Jimmy and Karen Evans as we unpack the difference between love and enabling in relationships. We get real about codependency, sharing personal stories, and tackling tough issues like addiction and boundaries. Tune in for a fresh perspective on love and relationships! ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/black-friday-exclusives/products/i-will ----------------------- Takeaways Enabling is doing something that encourages your spouse to continue in a negative behavior. Codependency is a relationship where both partners are unhealthy and dependent on each other's unhealth. Setting healthy boundaries is crucial in preventing enabling behavior. True love means loving imperfections but not enabling self-destruction. ----------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Love vs Enabling 00:33 Enabling vs Codependency 01:02 Enabling in Extreme Situations 02:00 Setting Healthy Boundaries 03:24 Negative Behavior and Destructive Relationships04:20Entitlement and Self-Centeredness 05:44 Loving Imperfections but Not Enabling Self-Destruction 07:09 God's Resistance to Pride and Grace for the Humble 08:38 Taking Responsibility in Destructive Relationships 09:33 Manipulation and Enabling 11:02 Knowing Each Other's Past and Recognizing Red Flags 12:00 True Love: Telling the Truth and Taking Action 12:29 Resources and Help for Destructive Relationships 13:12 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! In this episode, Jimmy and Karen Evans delve into the crucial theme of forgiveness in marriage. They highlight the consequences of not forgiving, the dangers of bitterness, and the challenging journey of forgiving infidelity. The hosts stress the importance of grace, discuss rebuilding trust after betrayal, and underscore the long-term effects of unforgiveness. Wrapping up, they encourage couples to keep short accounts, seek help when needed, and recommend their book, 'I Will,' as a valuable resource for daily devotionals in marriage. Don't miss this insightful conversation on the transformative power of forgiveness in relationships. ----------------------- Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/ Need a romantic Date? Register here for XO24 Conference from the comfort of your home! :https://www.xonow.com/pages/xo-now-at-home More resources from our team: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family Grab a copy of our new book: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/fighting-for-the-soul-of-your-child ----------------------- Takeaways Forgiveness is essential in marriage and should be practiced daily. Unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and negatively impact the relationship. Earning trust after betrayal takes time and consistent behavior. Seeking help and counseling is important for resolving relationship issues. ----------------------- 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forgiveness in Marriage 01:18 The Consequences of Not Forgiving 02:35 The Daily Practice of Forgiveness 03:59 The Impact of Unforgiveness 05:22 Forgiving Infidelity 06:54 Earning Trust After Betrayal 08:43 Grace and Forgiveness in Marriage 10:06 The Power of Forgiveness 11:03 Keeping Short Accounts and Seeking Help 12:27 Conclusion and Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices