â??Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.â?? â?? Shannon L. Alder Recently we lost sportscaster Stuart Scott to cancer. Before he passed he said, " When you die, it does not mean that you lose to cancer. You beat cancer by how you live, why you live, and in the manner in which you live." That made us ask ourselves: What mark do we want to leave on this world while we are here? When I go, I do not want people dwelling on how I went, but how I lived.