June 29, 2020
Maintaining your identity in marriage is important. Having a personal hobby can be a much needed break from life, work, stress, family, kids, etc. But you HAVE to have boundaries! In this episode, we talk about why hobbies are great, why you shouldn't be an asshole to your spouse if you have one, and why you should support your spouse's hobby. We have a new show on GetVokl every Wednesday night at 8pm PST! Subscribe to our channel here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
April 16, 2020
We're so excited for our good friends, Marriage & Martinis, to be our first ever guests! We talk about the reality of having a marriage podcast and social media following, the kind of support and scrutiny that comes with putting your relationship out into the public, and play a fun round of The Newlywed Game! Danielle and Adam of Marriage and Martinis, present a real, authentic marriage at its core: the love, hate, teamwork, struggles, laughter, humiliation, and ever-changing dynamics that comprise spousal relationships. They explore every hilarious, heartfelt, shocking, embarrassing, and completely inappropriate facet of marriage and parenting. It’s a bumpy ride, but it’s worth it. OFFERS Save $10 off your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go and enter code WORST.   Little Passports is offering 15% off the price of ​any subscription. Use offer code ​NOTTHEWORST ​at checkout for 15% off your order. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
April 15, 2020
Relationships require work and that includes compromising. Without it, you'll probably kill your relationship eventually. In this episode we talk about some serious relationship killing issues, such as: Being "Too different” growing apart  Changing your mind about wanting kids  Opposite Sex Friendships Being mean or disrespectful Unhealthy boundaries with in-laws OFFERS Try Simple Health, online birth control subscriptions, for free by going to or entering code nottheworst at checkout. Get 10% off your first month at Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
April 2, 2020
Parenting is fucking hard, We all try to do our best everyday but nevertheless; we're not perfect and fails are bound to happen. In this episode, we give way too many details about our biggest parenting fails. Including Sterling crashing an ATV with one of the kids as a passenger, Sara took two of the kids on a hike that was too long with not enough water, leaving a baby in the car, and near choking experiences. OFFERS Get 10% off your first month at Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
March 26, 2020
Be honest, no one is the perfect parent but some people are WAY more annoying than others. This episode isn't about parent shaming or how we do things better than others; but it is about parents and parenting ways that annoy the fuck out of us. We think you'll agree with at least a few of them. Some parents we can't stand: Helicopter Moms Over Zealous Football Dads Anyone who throws a gender reveal party Non-parents who try to give parenting advice (GO FUCK YOURSELF) Sara also goes on a rant about beauty pageants that you don't want to miss! OFFERS Get 10% off your first month at Try Simple Health for free with my code by going to or entering code NOTTHEWORST at checkout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
March 24, 2020
This last week of quarantine probably has some married couples spending more time together than they have in awhile. Things may be getting a litte tense. Things may be getting a little stressful. In case your spouse is annoying the fuck out of you (or maybe you're purposefully annoying them), remind them how great you are and why they married you. In this episode, we remind each other of the ways we could appreciate the other more. Some examples, Sterling should appreciate how Sara has planned every birthday and Christmas for the last 15 years and Sara needs to remember that Sterling basically runs to the store whenever she doesn't feel like it. OFFERS Get 10% off your first month at Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
March 21, 2020
Talking about money is not only important when you're married, apparently it's pivotal to financial success. Well, we never did that and are terrible with money. We have zero real advice so this episode is entirely focused on only wrong answers when it comes to dealing with money. We get asked A LOT about doing a finances HERE YOU GO. Getting married young with no knowledge on how to budget, save, build credit, etc. has led to a lot of fights and overdraft fees. Definitely take all of these sarcastic suggestions seriously if you'd like fuck yourself financially for years. OFFERS Get 10% off your first month at Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
March 19, 2020
With all this not leaving the house stuff, we think it's a good time to try out some new things in the bedroom. Here's some fun ideas and hopefully a few laughs to get you through these crazy times. Don't forget to use birth control. We don't need 10k babies born this December. OFFERS Get 10% off your first month at Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
February 18, 2020
Opinions are like assholes. Everybody's got one. We looked up some of the most controversial parenting topics and weigh in. No one thinks they have it all figured out quite like a new parent. At least, that was our opinion as young parents. We thought the way we were doing things was the best and only way. Thankfully, we grew up and realized no one knows what the fuck they're doing. Topics incude: child leashes, extended breastfeeding, ear piercing, kissing your kids on the lips and more! OFFERS Go to and use code nottheworst10 during HelloFresh’s New Year’s sale for 10 free meals PLUS free shipping. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
February 5, 2020
Having certain conversations before getting married, or early on in your relationship can prevent A LOT of future fights. We had some pretty pivotal ones that helped us a lot in the early years of trying to figure marriage and parenting out. Some were serious and others lighthearted, but in this episode Sterling learns that Sara will probably take him off life support a lot sooner than he'd take her off. OFFERS Get 10% off your first month at For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to and enter code nottheworst50 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
January 29, 2020
Everyone has personal space and boundaries and understanding the difference is important.
January 19, 2020
In this episode, we talk about the different ways having negative body image can impact your relationship, sex life, and kids.
December 11, 2019
Can you really "affair proof" your marriage? We say "nah".
December 5, 2019
Everyone has a different opinion on what they consider a true apology.
November 27, 2019
Cancel culture has been a recent hot topic of conversation and we wanted to talk about how stupid it is.
November 18, 2019
Here's a list of things we both do that make us unapologetic twats.
November 7, 2019
Setting healthy boundaries for your family is important!
October 24, 2019
parenting, mental health, sexuality
October 15, 2019
Sex is a NEED, not a WANT and should never be stigmatized! Here we talk about the different stereotypes, stigmas, and insecurities all of us face in the bedroom.
September 25, 2019
Some couples are annoying and sometimes we're that couple.
September 19, 2019
Being on the same page and establishing healthy boundaries with your in-laws is good for your marriage and great for your relationship with your spouse.
September 12, 2019
Basically, it's just us talking shit to each other for 45 minutes hahahahaha
September 8, 2019
We have both cheated and this is our story of how after years of hard work, we're able to have a happy marriage.
September 4, 2019
ADHD and depression have put a lot of stress on our relationship but open communication has helped us understand each other.
August 28, 2019
Everyone experiences love differently, and it’s easy to miss the mark when it comes to showing that you care.
August 14, 2019
Everyone brings expectations into their marriage whether they realize it or not. Unrecognized expectations set your spouse up for failure, set yourself up for disappointment and ultimately lead to resentment.
August 8, 2019
Most people can't manage weekly dates when you have little ones, which is why we "invented" homie time.
July 29, 2019
After a bad hospital experience, we decided to have our next two babies at home with a midwife.
July 23, 2019
This are rules we set up for ourselves in order to effectively discipline through the toddler years.
July 16, 2019
Everyone should have rules about fighting with your spouse.
July 9, 2019
Sex isn't a want, it's a need. This episode we discuss the reasons people AREN'T having sex.
June 27, 2019
We talk through the pros and cons of starting a family at 18 and 21 years old.
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