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Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with To Love, Honor and Vacuum--the blog!
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October 10, 2019
Epidsode 37: "We Have a Newborn, Husband Wants and Xbox!" and More Reader Questions
Answering Reader Questions from after the honeymoon years
October 3, 2019
Episode 36: The Honeymoon Years of Sex (Figuring it Out)
Sex in the first few years often doesn't start off as great as we expect, but have the rest of our lives to improve!
September 26, 2019
Start Your Engines Ep. 1: Understanding Female Sexuality
Gentlemen, this episode is for you!
September 19, 2019
Episode 35: Using the Bible to Gaslight Women?
The author of Love and Respect addressed criticisms that have been aimed at his book's effect on marriages, and there is a lot to unpack.
September 12, 2019
Episode 34: Sexonomics
We talk a lot about libido issues getting in the way of sex, but today we are talking about life issues getting in the way of sex
September 5, 2019
Episode 33: What's Stressing Out Your Marriage?
"If you buy a mouse a cookie," but about bad financial decisions
August 28, 2019
Episode 32: What Does Headship in Marriage Really Mean? It's All Greek to Me!
What Does Headship in Marriage Really Mean? It's All Greek to Me!
August 22, 2019
Episode 31: The Only Way to Grow Your Marriage
We want change to be easy, but sometimes we need to challenge ourselves
August 15, 2019
Episode 30: Yoga Pants and Why We Need a Better Shame-Free Message
A deep conversation about modesty culture
August 8, 2019
Episode 29: The Lonely Generation
Today's society is facing a crisis of loneliness
August 1, 2019
Episode 28: Taking Back Sexy
It isn't sinful to feel sexy, and we may have lost sight of that.
July 25, 2019
Episode 27: The Purity Culture and the Prosperity Gospel
The purity culture is falling
July 18, 2019
Episode 26: Communicating with Your Grown Up Kids
Sometimes the way we talk about dating and marriage with our kids can seriously hold them back when it comes to finding a good spouse
July 11, 2019
Episode 25: Making Marriage Easier and Pregnancy Etiquette
Making Marriage Easier and Pregnancy Etiquette
June 27, 2019
Episode 24: I Was Naive But Now My Eyes Are Open
Discussing what is heavy on my heart lately
June 20, 2019
Episode 23: Emotional Needs and Emotional Affairs
The importance of emotional needs, and how to recover from emotional affairs
June 13, 2019
Episode 22: How Sex Can Start Off Badly
How to start your marriage off with good sex and intimacy
June 6, 2019
Episode 21: Resolving Conflict With 5 Why's
Solving conflict with the "5-Why's" method
May 30, 2019
Episode 20: Horrible Scorecards for Wives
We examine and criticize marital resources being used by churches in marital counselling
May 23, 2019
Episode 19: Sex Ed for Adults
Why God made our bodies the way he did
May 9, 2019
Episode 18: Remebering Rachel Held Evans: Don't Let the Church Drive You Away From Jesus
Let's not let doctrinal differences get in the way of knowing and following Jesus
May 2, 2019
Episode 17: Can We Stop with Gender Stereotypes Already?
God created man and woman, but culture created masculine and feminine.
April 25, 2019
Episode 16: Forgiveness, Healing, and Lust
Is healing the outcome of forgiveness, or is it the other way around?
April 18, 2019
Episode 15: Women and Porn, Creepy Men, and More
Men are not the only ones who struggle with porn
April 11, 2019
Episode 14: Let's Talk Modesty!
Are our ideas about modesty actually harming women's faith
April 3, 2019
Episode 13: Speak Up in Your Marriage
Let's talk about how to fix our marriages before they are broken.
March 29, 2019
Episode 12: The Burden of the Household
Being in charge of chores is challenging, so let's talk about finding balance with your spouse!
March 21, 2019
Episode 11: A New Take on Resolving Conflict
Let's talk about how to resolve "conflict" without someone needing to be in the wrong!
March 14, 2019
Episode 10: A New Definition of Sex
A new definition of sex, cosleeping, husbnads in high-pressure jobs, and more!
March 7, 2019
Epidode 9: Two Keys to a Successful Marriage
Here are two key changes that can revolutionize your marriage!
February 28, 2019
Episode 8: Who's being deprived
Have we been using the do not deprive verses all wrong?
February 21, 2019
Episode 7: How Our Bodies Work, Sexual Health, and More!
Let's flip the conversation about sex in marriage and talk about sexual health
February 14, 2019
Episode 6: Valentine's Day! Being a Sexually Confident Woman
Today is our Valentine's Day special, so we are talking all about sex and romance!
February 7, 2019
Episode 5: Hot and Holy Sex, Control Freaks, and More!
To have truly hot and holy sex, you need to let go of control.
January 31, 2019
Episode 4: You Don't Get to Be Selfish
Is it okay to say you regret being a mother?
January 24, 2019
Episode 3: Creating Conditions for Success in Marriage
How can we handle time wasters in marriage, and find our joy in the process?
January 17, 2019
Episode 2: Love and Respect
Let's have an honest conversation about what's worrisome about the book "Love and Respect"
January 7, 2019
Episode 1: Health, Sex, and Wine Culture
Today let's talk about getting healthy, wine culture, and what rejection does to husbands!
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