Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

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Episode 749: When Longterm Love Meets Crush Restlessness

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose frustrations with her relationship are leading to a wandering mind Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 31

24 min

Episode 748: The Grief of Being Queer in a Cishet-Presenting Relationship

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's grieving the possibilities fo an outwardly queer relationship Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 29

34 min

Episode 747: My Boyfriend's OnlyFans Confession

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend bought someone's photos on OnlyFans Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 27

38 min

From the Patreon: Being Neutral About Our Changing Bodies

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to cope with getting older Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 22

34 min

Episode 746: Why Do Hard Truths Come at the End of the Relationship

Sam and Sierra answer a letter form someone who want sot know what it's like to have a relationship with yourself Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 17

31 min

Episode 745: My Partner Cuddles with Their Friends

Sam and Sierra answer a letter form someone who feels a jolt of jealousy when her partner cuddles with their friends Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 15

28 min

Episode 744: How to Maintain No Contact

Sam and Sierra answer a letter form someone who wants to let her mind rest instead of thinking about her ex Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 13

27 min

Episode 743: The Line Between Compassion and Self-Abandonment

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose empathy for her ex is maybe making her too understanding Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 10

36 min

Episode 742: My Girlfriend Feels Like She's Competing With My Vibrator

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose girlfriend wants sex toys out of the bedroom Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 8

29 min

Episode 741: A Life Without Grief is Impossible

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner changed his mind about wanting kids Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 6

35 min