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June 29, 2020
This week Remy is joined by some members of the extremely international How Cum team; Robyn Kennedy and Gavriel Chichester! We're getting to know the team and answering YOUR submitted Cumpanion questions! Gavriel is a sexual wellness coach and our new producer bringing you EXCELLENT research cumming all the way Israel. Robyn, our social media maven cums to us from New Zealand and offers amazing insight that only our resident Gen-z Kiwi could! We’re  talking everything from mismatched libidos, the difference between coercion and consent, deep-throating techniques for those who want to do it, what to do when your jaw hurts, dating while asexual, and finally Remy’s Ultimate Guide to going down on a vulva. You DON'T want to miss this one.    Follow us at @howcumpodcast, Remy at @RemyKassimir, Robyn at @RobynKennnedy and Gavriel at @_Lotus.Revlon Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders  at HelixSleep.com/howcum. Thanks, Dame!  Get 15% off your first order at dameproducts.com/howcum
June 22, 2020
Our Harry Potter episode is finally HERE! Our favorite researcher (the magical Charlotte Kassimir) is back to talk witchcraft + wizardry with her sister Remy and the two hosts of the Potterhood podcast, comedians Will Poznan Neko White! These four Potterheads talk sex and romance in the Wizarding World; Which couples did we wish we'd seen hook up? Who at Hogwarts would be the best in bed? Are wizards using contraceptives and if so, what does THAT spell look like?  Also, Charlotte shares a Cameo that she got from the incredibly gorgeous James Phelps (Fred Weasley) for her 27th birthday, and we get a behind the scenes fun fact about filming. Finally we discuss J.K. Rowling's recent and wildly insensitive tweets towards trans people, the backlash she has faced, and why it takes time to form a sincere apology. Follow Neko on Instagram @NekoWhite93 and Will @WillPoznan Follow us at @howcumpodcast, Remy @RemyKassimir and Charlotte @Charkasstic Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! Thanks to Care/of for supporting How Cum. For 50% off your first Care/of order, visit takecareof.com and enter promo code howcum50 Thanks RAYCON!  Get 15% off your order at buyraycon.com/howcum  
June 15, 2020
Remy and Ben talk about Remy's sexuality and how Ben feels about dating someone who is not entirely straight! Woohoo! Then we go back in time to May 2019 in NYC at Charlotte's apartment and Remy has a grand ole' time with comedian couple Cathy Humes and Nasser Khan right before their big move to LA and eventual marriage. We discuss not wanting kids, Nasser and Cathy tell us about their similarities from being raised in conservative Christian and Muslim households, and Remy reveals how a trip to Ripley's Believe it Or Not may have awoken her sexuality, believe it or not. We also talk humping inanimate objects as kids, Harry Potter erotica fan fiction, and the weird movies we ALL watched.  Follow Cathy on Instagram @crappyfumes and Nasser @nassercist Follow us at @howcumpodcast, Remy @RemyKassimir, Ben @BennyDNYC, and Charlotte @Charkasstic Also, scroll down to the bottom for a list of great BLM and LGBTQ charities to donate to! Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! Thanks, Dame!  Get 15% off your first order at dameproducts.com/howcum Go to hellotushy.com/howcum get 10% off your order Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders  at HelixSleep.com/howcum. Charities to Donate to for BLM/LGBT: The Bail Project, a nonprofit that aims to mitigate incarceration rates through bail reform. Black Visions Collective, a black, trans, and queer led social-justice organisation and legal fund based in Minneapolis-St.Paul. The National Bail Fund Network has a directory of community bail funds to which you can donate, along with a COVID-19 rapid response A Gas Mask Fund for black youth activists in Mineapolis The NAACP Legal Defense Fund, which supports racial justice through advocacy, litigation, and education. Communities United Against Police Brutality, which operates a crisis hotline where people can report abuse; offers legal, medical, and psychological resource referrals; and engages in political action against police brutality. Northstar Health Collective, a St. Paul–based organization that provides health services and support at protests. The ACLU, which provides legal services and support for a broad range of people with civil rights complaints. Free Them All for Public Health, which aims to free incarcerated people amid the coronavirus pandemic, is raising money for people who have been arrested during New York City protests over the weekend. What doesn’t go toward local bail will reportedly be sent to other cities, and COVID Bailout NYC. The Atlanta Solidarity Fund is raising bail and bond money for jailed protestors in Atlanta. No New Jails NYC aims to keep the city from constructing new jails, and to instead divert funds that currently go toward the police and incarceration toward housing, ending homelessness, mental health, and other community support systems. The Know Your Rights Camp, an organization founded by Colin Kaepernick that provides education and training in black and brown communities, set up a legal fund for Minneapolis protestors. Fair Fight, an organization founded by Stacey Abrams that aims to end voter suppression and equalize voting rights and access for fairer elections. The Pride Fund to End Gun Violence is a Political Action Committee (PAC) that supports candidates who will act on sensible gun policy reforms while championing LGBTQ safety and equality. Founded in the wake of the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando, America’s deadliest mass shooting in modern history, the Pride Fund to End Gun Violence took action to rally the LGBTQ community and allies in a call for common sense gun reforms. On their website, they note that LGBTQ individuals suffer more hate crimes than any other protected group, which makes disarming hate a crucial LGBTQ issue. The National Center for Transgender Equality is the nation’s leading social justice advocacy organization winning life-saving change for transgender people. They work at the local, state, and federal level to advance transgender equality. Their services also include resources for trans people on navigating legal issues such as changing the name and gender on their identification documents and an About Transgender People resource hub, where family members and other allies can go to find information to learn about and support the transgender people in their lives. Equality Federation is the movement builder and strategic partner to state-based organizations advocating for LGBTQ people. From Equality Florida to Freedom Oklahoma to Basic Rights Oregon, we amplify the power of the state-based LGBTQ movement. They collaborate on issues such as workplace equality and anti-transgender bathroom bans, in addition to intersectional issues such as reproductive justice and immigration, to ensure that LGBTQ people of all ages and walk of life have fair and equal opportunity to thrive. By training and supporting strong local leadership, they ensure that LGBTQ leaders on the ground in their states can fend off attacks and advance protections for LGBTQ people in their legislatures. GLSEN (pronounced "glisten") is a the leading national education organization that works to transform K-12 schools into safe and affirming environments and ensure that LGBTQ students are able to learn and grow in a school environment free from bullying and harassment. 8 out of 10 LGBT students are still harassed at school each year because of who they are, but GLSEN is working to change that through researching and developing evidence-based solutions, and providing resources for educators to use in their school communities. The LGBTQ Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to electing openly LGBTQ people to all levels of government. Victory Fund was founded in 1991, when less than 50 openly LGBTQ individuals held elected office at any level across America. Today they provide campaign, fundraising, and communications support to LGBTQ candidates with the goal of increasing representation and passing pro-equality legislation. NQTTCN is a healing justice organization that works to transform mental health for queer and trans people of color. They provide a community for resource sharing, connection, and learning among queer and trans people of color committed to improving mental health for their communities. The organization also operates a Mental Health Fund for Queer and Trans People of Color, which provides financial assistance in order to increase access to mental health support and address the economic barriers many queer and trans people of color face within the healthcare system. Transgender Law Center is the largest national trans-led organization advocating self-determination for all people. They are a multi-disciplinary organization that uses litigation, policy advocacy, education, movement building, and direct service to meet the needs of transgender communities. Their programs include the Detention Project, which works to end the abuses transgender people experience in prisons, jails, immigration detention, and at the hands of law enforcement, the Legal Resistance Network, which provide pro bono legal services, the Transgender Immigrant Defense Effort, which provides legal services to transgender immigrants, and more. The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ young people under 25. The Trevor Project was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR, and since then, hundreds of thousands of young people in crisis have reached out to The Trevor Project’s multiple in-person and online life-saving resources, including 24-hour mental health hotline, webchat, and text message services. The Gill Foundation is one of the nation’s leading funders of efforts to secure full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. The foundation offers grant funding to nonprofits that work to advance equality through research, education, policy, and the legal system. Their focus lies in securing change to administrative policies at the state level. Founded in 1994 by philanthropist Tim Gill, the foundation has since invested more than $335 million in programs and nonprofit organizations throughout the country. The It Gets Better Project is a nonprofit organization dedicated to uplifting, empowering, and connecting LGBTQ youth across the globe. In 2010, Dan Savage and his partner, Terry Miller, started a global movement with these three words. It began as a widespread social media campaign to provide hope, encouragement, and community to LGBTQ youth, and has now evolved into a major platform, reaching millions of young people each year. Their ultimate goal remains the same: showing LGBTQ youth that although growing up isn’t easy, no one has to do it alone. Protesting Safely: What to wear Nondescript, solid colour, layered clothing, cover identifying tattoos Goggles and mask Heat resistant gloves Hair tied up Emergency contacts written down What to bring Water for drinking and tear gas Snacks Cash/change and ID Washcloth Bandages and first aid supplies Ear plugs Protest signs Don’t Bring Cellphone without first turning off Face/Touch ID, going on airplane mode, and disabling data Jewelry  Anything you don’t want to be arrested with Contact lenses  
June 8, 2020
Remy and comedian Jay Jurden (The Tonight Show, Comedy Central, HBO's High Maintenance) discuss fluid sexualities, coming out, equality and how to come together for BLM during this unprecedented Pride month. We also re-live our horniest bi-sexual realizations and Jay rattles off a great list of male butts in movies. You'll laugh, you'll learn, you'll love it.    Follow Jay on Instagram @JayJurden + download his album Also, scroll down to the bottom for a list of great BLM and LGBTQ charities to donate to!   Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! Thanks RAYCON!  Get 15% off your order at buyraycon.com/howcum To find your perfect sofa and get 20% off all orders, go to Allform.com/howcum Oshotwomen.com enter code howcum and get 20% off O-Shot   Charities to Donate to for BLM/LGBT: The Bail Project, a nonprofit that aims to mitigate incarceration rates through bail reform. Black Visions Collective, a black, trans, and queer led social-justice organisation and legal fund based in Minneapolis-St.Paul. The National Bail Fund Network has a directory of community bail funds to which you can donate, along with a COVID-19 rapid response A Gas Mask Fund for black youth activists in Mineapolis The NAACP Legal Defense Fund, which supports racial justice through advocacy, litigation, and education. Communities United Against Police Brutality, which operates a crisis hotline where people can report abuse; offers legal, medical, and psychological resource referrals; and engages in political action against police brutality. Northstar Health Collective, a St. Paul–based organization that provides health services and support at protests. The ACLU, which provides legal services and support for a broad range of people with civil rights complaints. Free Them All for Public Health, which aims to free incarcerated people amid the coronavirus pandemic, is raising money for people who have been arrested during New York City protests over the weekend. What doesn’t go toward local bail will reportedly be sent to other cities, and COVID Bailout NYC. The Atlanta Solidarity Fund is raising bail and bond money for jailed protestors in Atlanta. No New Jails NYC aims to keep the city from constructing new jails, and to instead divert funds that currently go toward the police and incarceration toward housing, ending homelessness, mental health, and other community support systems. The Know Your Rights Camp, an organization founded by Colin Kaepernick that provides education and training in black and brown communities, set up a legal fund for Minneapolis protestors. Fair Fight, an organization founded by Stacey Abrams that aims to end voter suppression and equalize voting rights and access for fairer elections. The Pride Fund to End Gun Violence is a Political Action Committee (PAC) that supports candidates who will act on sensible gun policy reforms while championing LGBTQ safety and equality. Founded in the wake of the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando, America’s deadliest mass shooting in modern history, the Pride Fund to End Gun Violence took action to rally the LGBTQ community and allies in a call for common sense gun reforms. On their website, they note that LGBTQ individuals suffer more hate crimes than any other protected group, which makes disarming hate a crucial LGBTQ issue. The National Center for Transgender Equality is the nation’s leading social justice advocacy organization winning life-saving change for transgender people. They work at the local, state, and federal level to advance transgender equality. Their services also include resources for trans people on navigating legal issues such as changing the name and gender on their identification documents and an About Transgender People resource hub, where family members and other allies can go to find information to learn about and support the transgender people in their lives. Equality Federation is the movement builder and strategic partner to state-based organizations advocating for LGBTQ people. From Equality Florida to Freedom Oklahoma to Basic Rights Oregon, we amplify the power of the state-based LGBTQ movement. They collaborate on issues such as workplace equality and anti-transgender bathroom bans, in addition to intersectional issues such as reproductive justice and immigration, to ensure that LGBTQ people of all ages and walk of life have fair and equal opportunity to thrive. By training and supporting strong local leadership, they ensure that LGBTQ leaders on the ground in their states can fend off attacks and advance protections for LGBTQ people in their legislatures. GLSEN (pronounced "glisten") is a the leading national education organization that works to transform K-12 schools into safe and affirming environments and ensure that LGBTQ students are able to learn and grow in a school environment free from bullying and harassment. 8 out of 10 LGBT students are still harassed at school each year because of who they are, but GLSEN is working to change that through researching and developing evidence-based solutions, and providing resources for educators to use in their school communities. The LGBTQ Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to electing openly LGBTQ people to all levels of government. Victory Fund was founded in 1991, when less than 50 openly LGBTQ individuals held elected office at any level across America. Today they provide campaign, fundraising, and communications support to LGBTQ candidates with the goal of increasing representation and passing pro-equality legislation. NQTTCN is a healing justice organization that works to transform mental health for queer and trans people of color. They provide a community for resource sharing, connection, and learning among queer and trans people of color committed to improving mental health for their communities. The organization also operates a Mental Health Fund for Queer and Trans People of Color, which provides financial assistance in order to increase access to mental health support and address the economic barriers many queer and trans people of color face within the healthcare system. Transgender Law Center is the largest national trans-led organization advocating self-determination for all people. They are a multi-disciplinary organization that uses litigation, policy advocacy, education, movement building, and direct service to meet the needs of transgender communities. Their programs include the Detention Project, which works to end the abuses transgender people experience in prisons, jails, immigration detention, and at the hands of law enforcement, the Legal Resistance Network, which provide pro bono legal services, the Transgender Immigrant Defense Effort, which provides legal services to transgender immigrants, and more. The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ young people under 25. The Trevor Project was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR, and since then, hundreds of thousands of young people in crisis have reached out to The Trevor Project’s multiple in-person and online life-saving resources, including 24-hour mental health hotline, webchat, and text message services. The Gill Foundation is one of the nation’s leading funders of efforts to secure full equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. The foundation offers grant funding to nonprofits that work to advance equality through research, education, policy, and the legal system. Their focus lies in securing change to administrative policies at the state level. Founded in 1994 by philanthropist Tim Gill, the foundation has since invested more than $335 million in programs and nonprofit organizations throughout the country. The It Gets Better Project is a nonprofit organization dedicated to uplifting, empowering, and connecting LGBTQ youth across the globe. In 2010, Dan Savage and his partner, Terry Miller, started a global movement with these three words. It began as a widespread social media campaign to provide hope, encouragement, and community to LGBTQ youth, and has now evolved into a major platform, reaching millions of young people each year. Their ultimate goal remains the same: showing LGBTQ youth that although growing up isn’t easy, no one has to do it alone. Protesting Safely: What to wear Nondescript, solid colour, layered clothing, cover identifying tattoos Goggles and mask Heat resistant gloves Hair tied up Emergency contacts written down What to bring Water for drinking and tear gas Snacks Cash/change and ID Washcloth Bandages and first aid supplies Ear plugs Protest signs Don’t Bring Cellphone without first turning off Face/Touch ID, going on airplane mode, and disabling data Jewelry  Anything you don’t want to be arrested with Contact lenses  
June 1, 2020
Remy is joined by her boyfriend comedian Ben DeMarco to interview another comedy couple; Caitlin Peluffo and Steve Rogers. We discuss our recent blowout fights, which one of us lies about his dick-size, who said 'I love you' first, and everyone's horrendous first impressions of each other. Trigger Warning: In our introduction this week we discuss police brutality, how important the Black Lives Matter movement is, and what to wear/bring to a protest. We also list several charities to donate to, which are listed below our partners.    Follow Caitlin and Steve on Instagram @CaitlinPeluffo @NotSteveRogers  Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir and Ben @BennyDNYC Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! Get 15% off at all toys at sweetvibes.toys and use promo code howcum Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders  at HelixSleep.com/howcum Go to hellotushy.com/howcum get 10% off your order   Charities to Donate to: The Bail Project, a nonprofit that aims to mitigate incarceration rates through bail reform. Black Visions Collective, a black, trans, and queer led social-justice organisation and legal fund based in Minneapolis-St.Paul. The National Bail Fund Network has a directory of community bail funds to which you can donate, along with a COVID-19 rapid response A Gas Mask Fund for black youth activists in Mineapolis The NAACP Legal Defense Fund, which supports racial justice through advocacy, litigation, and education. Communities United Against Police Brutality, which operates a crisis hotline where people can report abuse; offers legal, medical, and psychological resource referrals; and engages in political action against police brutality. Northstar Health Collective, a St. Paul–based organization that provides health services and support at protests. The ACLU, which provides legal services and support for a broad range of people with civil rights complaints. Free Them All for Public Health, which aims to free incarcerated people amid the coronavirus pandemic, is raising money for people who have been arrested during New York City protests over the weekend. What doesn’t go toward local bail will reportedly be sent to other cities, and COVID Bailout NYC. The Atlanta Solidarity Fund is raising bail and bond money for jailed protestors in Atlanta. No New Jails NYC aims to keep the city from constructing new jails, and to instead divert funds that currently go toward the police and incarceration toward housing, ending homelessness, mental health, and other community support systems. The Know Your Rights Camp, an organization founded by Colin Kaepernick that provides education and training in black and brown communities, set up a legal fund for Minneapolis protestors. Fair Fight, an organization founded by Stacey Abrams that aims to end voter suppression and equalize voting rights and access for fairer elections. Protesting Safely: What to wear Nondescript, solid colour, layered clothing, cover identifying tattoos Goggles and mask Heat resistant gloves Hair tied up Emergency contacts written down What to bring Water for drinking and tear gas Snacks Cash/change and ID Washcloth Bandages and first aid supplies Ear plugs Protest signs Don’t Bring Cellphone without first turning off Face/Touch ID, going on airplane mode, and disabling data Jewelry  Anything you don’t want to be arrested with Contact lenses
May 25, 2020
Trigger Warning: physical /sexual abuse, slavery, and child torture. We begin with idiotic banter and spontaneous beat-boxing from Remy and Ben as they chat about how Rick and Morty continues to inspire this podcast, Remy's new obsession with Madison Beer, and a deep dive into the Call Her Daddy scandal, ultimately both questioning: could this all be a hoax a la LonelyGirl15?? Then we jump back in time to September when Remy and Charlotte had the extreme honor of interviewing Katie Ford at Nanny's. Katie (former CEO and Chairman of Ford Models) tells us about how she sold Ford in 2007 to work as founder and CEO of the non-profit Freedom for All, which focuses on fighting sex trafficking, debt bondage, forced labor and child labor. We discuss how Freedom for All and their partner organizations have been able to save over 10,000 people but also discuss the tragic number of people who still need help being freed from various forms of suffering. Finally we discuss what growing up with models all around her house was like (Katie's parents started Ford Models in 1946) and what giving up the business meant to her.    If you or someone you know is in trouble (sex trafficking/modern slavery/ etc.) contact: The Polaris Project 888-373-7888   Follow Katie on Instagram @FreedomForAll Follow Ben and Charlotte at @BennyDNYC and @Charkasstic Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! Thanks  Buffy.  $20 off your Buffy comforter at buffy.co promo code howcum
May 18, 2020
Remy is joined by her friends and fellow NYC comedians, the ridiculously funny hosts of Mango Bae; Pranav Behari and Usama Siddiquee. Prepare to guffaw on this wild LOLercoaster full of truly one-of-a-kind wet dream stories from BOTH of our guests, a WAY too in depth look at Tik Tok, and a rousing (arousing?) game of "Should You Put This In Your Ass?" Pranav and Usama compete for the title 'How Cum's Sexiest Man' as they talk feminism, treating people properly in bed, and why the best men value successful funny women, instead of being intimidated by them. Finally our guests talk about growing up in Hindu and Muslim households with immigrant parents and how those experiences impacted their sex lives. Also, we get a deeper look into the Kama Sutra; spoiler alert- it's NOT ONLY sex positions! Enjoy.   Follow Usama on Instagram @UsamaStandsUp Pranav @pranahaha and their podcast @YourMangoBae Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir. This episode has hilarious extras with VIDEO. Sign up for access to everything for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! Mentioned in the episode: Buzzfeed Quiz: Should You Stick This Up Your Butt? Richard Gere and The Hamster/Gerbil Urban Legend Thank you to our partners on this week's episode! Go to hellotushy.com/howcum get 10% off your order Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders  at HelixSleep.com/howcum.  
May 11, 2020
This week Remy, Ben and How Cum were featured on Bravo's The Real Housewives of New York City in the wildest clip we could've ever expected! In the beginning of our episode, Remy and Ben discuss behind the scenes drama + how they feel about what went down and then we jump back in time for Remy's interview with woman/ reason it all happened; Bravolebrity Chanel Omari, star of the short-lived Princesses: Long Island. Our guest waxes poetic on how to be 'cool' while Remy asserts that Chanel's perceived vulnerability and openness is what made her so relatable on her 2013 show. Chanel reveals how a public breakup on national TV brought on  insecurities that affected her cumming ability, and why feeling safe with a partner plays such a big role sexual experiences for her. Chanel also discusses what dating is like as a celebrity, the hardships that come with being treated as an achievement, and why it is important to be your most authentic self in all aspects of life. She has recently started a podcast with Dina Lohan called, "Listen to Me, The OG Mama D."    **DRINKING GAME ALERT!** We're taking a tip from Andy and adding some alcohol to your episode in True Bravoholic fashion. DRINK or SMOKE every time someone says the word "cool" or any time you doubt that Chanel has actually listened to "How Cum." Follow Chanel on Instagram @ChanelOmari and her podcast @ChanelinThe Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir. This episode has INSANE extras. Sign up for access to everything for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & merch! To find your perfect sofa and get 20% off all orders, go to Allform.com/howcum Thanks Buffy.  $20 off your Buffy comforter at buffy.co promo code howcum Oshotwomen.com enter code howcum and get 20% off O-Shot
May 4, 2020
Trigger warning: suicidal ideation, substance abuse and death- but it's a really fun one, we swear!  This week we’re joined by Instagram God, Legend, "Daddy," (whichever you prefer--) Tank Sinatra - AKA George Resch; the man behind the memes and @TanksGoodNews. In this episode we discuss Nanny's legacy, how Remy is coping with her very recent death (recorded in early December 2019), and George tells us how his relationship with his late grandmother shaped him for the best. We talk about dealing with loss, why death exists, and how to stay positive through dark times.  Tank talks us through his sobriety journey, hitting rock bottom, and how to turn your life around by seeking out the good. We discuss how to go from co-dependent to healthy committed relationship, and  why you shouldn't search for someone to "complete" you. Finally we talk family drama, parenting tips, stoic philosophy, and almost as if Nanny had requested it herself: GOSSIP. Why do we love it, and is it what makes us human?     Follow George/Tank on Instagram @TankSinatra and @TanksGoodNews Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir. Check out our website for live shows & merch! Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders  at HelixSleep.com/howcum. Thanks  Sweet Vibrations!  Get 15% off all toys at sweetvibes.com - promo code howcum   Books and Authors mentioned: The Missing Piece - Shell Silverstein The Obstacle is The Way- Ryan Holiday The Daily Stoic- Ryan Holiday Authors/ Thinkers: Emmet Fox Ekhart Tolle Neale Donald Walsch - Conversations with God Dale Carnegie- How to Win Friends and Influence People    
April 26, 2020
We’re talking *comedy couples*, Christianity, and confusing cums this week with hilarious standup comedian Taylor Tomlinson. Currently quarantined with her new (also comedian) boyfriend Sam Morrill, Taylor tells us about how living together unexpectedly has been and how a joke she made led to their Web-Series “New Couple Gets Quarantined." We also talk about Taylor's Christian upbringing, and abstinence-only education may have led her to have "better sex" than her friends but also the guilt it caused within her sex-life. We hear about the difficulties of staying "pure" as well as how she opened the floodgates’ after receiving head in a parked car on a dimly lit suburban street. Taylor tells us how she has learned to set boundaries in order to filter out bad relationships and what phrase lets you know that you're dating a keeper. We also hear about Remy's new family dynamic, forgetting what your exes' bodies look like naked, and all the UTIs the girls are getting while banging inside.    Follow Taylor on Instagram @TaylorTomlinson Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir. Check out our website for live shows & merch! Thanks  Buffy.  $20 off your Buffy comforter at buffy.co promo code howcum Today's theme song was covered by our Cumpanion Maja. Find her on Spotify under "Maja and the Missing Orchestra"
April 20, 2020
We’re talking love and relationships in the time of quarantine with none other than sought after psychotherapist Vanessa Marin, who specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy. She gives us insight into maintaining a happy relationship while working and living in such close quarters, navigating new relationships while being quarantined separately, and dating in quarantine as a single person. (How?!) Finally we discuss Vanessa’s online programs that help you transform your sex life from ordinary to extraordinary, all from the comfort and privacy of your own home. [Courses like The Passion Project: A Couples’ Blueprint To Rediscovering Desire And Reigniting The Spark and Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.] Open up those ears and legs, and hopefully we will all emerge revived and more sexually equipped. Enjoy!    Follow Vanessa on Instagram @VanessaMarinTherapy Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir. Check out our website for live shows & merch! Thanks to our partner  Buffy.  Get $20 off your Buffy comforter at buffy.co promo code howcum Also mentioned in this episode: The Domestic Abuse hotline: If you or someone you know is stuck in a situation that is unhealthy please reach out to https://www.thehotline.org/help/
April 12, 2020
 Bit of a trigger warning on this episode with the ridiculously hilarious, flagrant, and unfiltered (yet wildly empathetic) comedian Andrew Schulz. Andrew goes deep into why he thinks women like true crime, his innovative dating strategy for deciding someone is going to be his girlfriend ("The Two Week Rule"), and his views on pegging, the male g-spot, rim jobs, and queefs.  We get to travel back in time for this one [recorded in October] and Andrew tells us all about his *new* girlfriend >> fast forward THIS week is their 1-year-anni (!!) Cumgrats.  Finally we talk growing up in NYC, how to know a guy is cumming without verbal cues and Andrew describes a sex position that he says is '8/10 guaranteed to make a woman squirt.'    Happy Passover + Easter to everyone celebrating and thank you to our essential workers. Stay safe and enjoy the episode everyone!    Follow Andrew on Instagram @AndrewSchulz. Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir. Check out our website for live shows & merch! Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders  at HelixSleep.com/howcum Also mentioned in this episode: Vanity fair article about city kids in groups  Creative story ‘Twelve’  
April 5, 2020
Legendary sex therapist, podcaster and host of SiriusXM's Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily Morse stops by to dispel sex myths and teach us how to have the hottest sex of our lives!! Strap in, strap on, this one is going to be CUMAZING.  We learn about "The Kivin Method," (a wildly erotic and way more effective new way to go down on a vulva), prostate milking, and the best ways to store your sex toys. Dr. Emily then teaches us about navigating boundaries and asking to do new stuff, the biology of the honeymoon period, and how to get out of your head during sex with another person. We hope you enjoy this one as much as we do!  Follow Emily on Instagram @SexwithEmily. Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy @RemyKassimir. Check out our website for live shows & merch! Oshotwomen.com enter code howcum and get 20% off O-Shot. Toys/ Books Mentioned in the Episode: Toys: We Vibe Touch, We Vibe Rave, Unbound bullet, Doc Johnson bullet, Je Joue Gii kii, Je Joue Mimi, Womanizer, Satisfyer, Plus One, Sweet vibrations, Crave Vesper, & Aneros Prostate toy. Books: Women Code - Alisa Vitti Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight! - Emily Morse Good Vibrations Guide: The G-Spot - Cathy Winks
April 1, 2020
We’ve cum back! No, it’s not an April Fool’s Joke, we wouldn't do that to you during this nightmarish pandemic. We kick off the season by taking a much needed deep dive into mental health with comedian and mental health advocate, Kelsey Darragh. The topic? Maintaining sanity. During quarantine as well as when we’re back in “normal life.” We talk stress, depression, anxiety, suicidal tendencies and how to develop coping mechanisms for when the going gets tough. Kelsey talks us through her experience with panic attacks and how a simple ‘how-to’ list for her boyfriend went viral. Remy makes a list of her own to help you laugh through the pain and see the positive side of being stuck at home. We hope that you love this episode as much as we do. Stay safe, stay sane.  Welcum to Season 3! Follow Kelsey on Instagram @KelseyDarragh and her podcast @ConfidentlyPod. Follow us @HowCumPodcast, and Remy @remykassimir Check out our website for show dates and merchandise. Check out Patreon for videos and extras We love our partners for this episode Thank you Sweet Vibrations!  Get 15% off all toys at sweetvibes.toys - promo code howcum Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders  at HelixSleep.com/howcum.  
September 2, 2019
Remy and Charlotte close out the season by calling Cumpanions from around the globe to Cumgratulate them on their new accumplishments this year. Wow -- that's a lot of cum puns and it's only the first sentence! We chat with people from South Africa, to New Jersey, to L.A. and Michigan. First ever orgasms, first squirts, first partnered orgasms, anal orgasms, AND a cumpanion swipes her v-card.  This episode, like this season was/is cumazing. Thanks for cumming & listening; we will miss you all! -- Stay in touch with us while we're away! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charkasstic Tickets now on sale for How Cum Live September 26 at the Stand with Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin Visit our website to find more show dates, shop our merch, and shop our partners at howcumpodcast.com SHOP OUR SPONSORS: HELIX MATTRESS: Helixsleep.com.howcum for $125 off all orders FORIA WELLNESS: Use promo code Cumgrats for 15% off ROMAN SWIPES: GetRoman.com/HowCum for $10 off and FREE two day shipping!  CLIO HAIR GROOMING PLUSONE TOYS Will you miss us in the off-season? Get access to full episodes from Season 3 and extras from Season 2 on Patreon.com/howcum!  
August 25, 2019
This week we are talking BDSM! Everything from being a Sub, Dom--to both, to catching a whip with your genitals and exploring your sexual fantasies.  Remy welcomes NYC stand-up comedian Rachel Sennott to learn about BDSM and we are joined by Professional Dominatrix and sexpert Mistress Couple. She guides us through her initiation into the world of bondage and dominance and her first night moving into La Domaine Esemar, the oldest BDSM chateau in the world. We talk about the importance of consent within the BDSM community, and how it has changed over the years, the psychological aspect of behind being a Dom, and what your fantasies say about you. We also discuss how your senses can heighten sexual pleasure and how you can train to use them to your advantage – even through something as simple as eating a bowl of spaghetti or an egg-roll. Finally, we discuss different types of instruments and types of play; psychological, financial domination, tickling, and the importance of aftercare. We also discuss what a balloon fantasy is and which of our guests has one! Stay tuned for a sneak peek of our Live Podcast about Herpes at the end of the episode, and head on over to Patreon to listen to the full episode. Follow us: @TreaclyChild @MistressCouple @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic Join us for our next LIVE podcast September 26th 9pm at The Stand about losing your orgasm and finding it again- with special guests Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin!    Go to Brooklinen.com and use promo code howcum for FREE shipping and 10% off of amazing affordable hotel quality sheets & towels! Visit Helixsleep.com/howcum to take their sleep quiz and get $125 off your mattress order Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com for show dates and to shop our NEW MERCH! and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewellery, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop! Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com
August 18, 2019
This week we are talking about a bodily function that effects our lives and helps to give life: our PERIODS! We are joined by two giants in the period space;  Miki Agrawal, co-founder of THINX and Tushy and Nadya Okamoto, founder of Period. The Menstrual Movement, which aims to end period poverty and period stigma. We commiserate about how we have felt about our respective periods, from first periods to now. We talk about the various methods we’ve used for them; from tampons, to cups, to pads,  period panties, and more. We discuss navigating sex with periods, how various religious practices contribute to period stigma, and how/why these two women started their companies. We talk about the meaning of feminism and how it isn’t women against men, it’s gender equality. And finally, we talk about pooping.   Follow us: @MikiAgrawal @NadyaOkamoto @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic  Read Nadya's Book Period Power: A Manifesto for the Menstrual Movement and Miki's Book Disrupt-Her: A Manifesto for the Modern Woman Check out ‘Approved, Not Approved’ and play their game to see what advertising the MTA will and won’t allow. This episode is sponsored by Diva Cup and Roman Swipes! Want to use the amazing product we discussed in this episode? Go to DivaCup.com today and order your own DivaCup here ! Keep Roman Swipes in your back pocket for longer, better sex and get yours fast with FREE 2-day shipping by visiting getroman.com/HOWCUM   Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com for show dates and to shop our NEW MERCH! and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop!Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com        
August 11, 2019
We're discussing all things BOOBS this week: How we feel about them in society, how we've felt about our own, and every question you've ever wondered about yours, but were too afraid to ask! Remy is joined by Suzannah Weiss, a freelance sex writer for Glamour, Teen Vogue, Playboy, and New York Magazine, as well as Meshelle, the hilarious “Indie Mom of Comedy” and recipient of the prestigious Soros Fellowship award. We’re talking everything from nipple hair to nipple sensitivity (for men AND women), the shape and size of your boobs to instructions on how to properly play with them, breastfeeding, and breast cancer and the BRCA gene. Meshelle shares her experience with a less traditional, all-natural route for treating her breast cancer; and Suzannah tells us about how her recent experience in an Ayahuasca retreat in Europe helped her to appreciate her own boobs more.  Follow us: @MeshelleComedy @SuzannahWeiss @Howcumpodcast @RemyKassimir @charkasstic   LAST CALL: We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th!  CUM JOIN US. *Don't forget to sign up with your email or tickets will NOT process!     We're OBSESSED with these bras. Go to shopcuup.com and use promo code: cuupxhowcum for 10% off! Shop the toys mentioned in this episode at SweetVibes.Toys and use promo code: howcum for 15% off! Want a new mattress? Go to Helixsleep.com/howcum for $125 off of all mattress orders. Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! and shop our partners with discounts:  Get 15% off your first order of any jewellery, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women.  Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop! Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off.  This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum  Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:   1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!   2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!   3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:   Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast   Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
August 8, 2019
Trigger Warning: rape, suicide and abuse. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners. We talk to Syd Wilder, comedian, insta-model and host of the “Girl Instarupted” podcast. We’re talking everything from surviving suicide to growing up at the Playboy Mansion and everything in between. Syd opens up about her sexual assault, suicide attempts and previous sexual and family relationships; as well as her experience in a psych-ward. We discuss how she has turned her darkest moments into an empowering experience rather than a spiteful situation that controls her life. She shares stories of her first marriage, what it's like dating different “types” of guys, how she contracted HPV and Cervical Cancer and has triumphed over it all and learned how to love herself along the way. We also talk BDSM and *SPOILER ALERT* we have a new ASSIGNMENT!  If you or someone you know may be struggling with suicidal thoughts, you can call the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) any time day or night, or chat online. Crisis Text Line also provides free, 24/7, confidential support via text message to people in crisis when they dial 741741.   Follow us: @Sydwilder @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic  We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th! CUM JOIN US. *Don't forget to sign up with your email or tickets will NOT process!      Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop!Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com
August 4, 2019
This week’s guest is Ev’Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. She has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through her online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode she shares her story of how her personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led her to helping others-- and herself. We talk about her growth, what it means to be a queer person in a heteronormative seeming relationship, what being “ready” for sex really means, and how Ev’Yan and her husband took the steps to enter into an open relationship. We also discuss some of the assignments she gives HER clients, as well as her favorite success stories. We love her.   Follow us: @Evyanwhitney @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic  We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th! CUM JOIN US. *Don't forget to sign up with your email or tickets will NOT process!    Need GORGEOUS, comfortable, and affordable sheets? Visit Brooklinen.com and use promocode HowCum for 10% off and FREE shipping Visit myplusone.com to shop the products we talk about on this episode!  Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop!Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
July 28, 2019
OMG we could not be more excited for this guest!! Remy sits down with (and fan-girls over) the original Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell; icon, it-girl and critically acclaimed, international best-selling author of nine books, including the infamous Sex and the City.  We discuss her new book, Is There Still Sex in the City?, how sex throughout life changes, and what life after divorce is like. Candace regales us with stories about sexually coming of age in the 70s and 80s, celebrity encounters, and dalliances with older and younger men. She defines new dating terms from her book like, "bicycle boys," "cubbing," and "super-middles."  We also hear about her first orgasm and losing her virginity just to lose it. You do NOT want to miss this one!    -- Follow us @Howcumpodcast @CandaceBushnell @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic  Get a NEW mattress! Go to Helixsleep.com/howcum for up to $125 off Last Longer! Go to Getroman.com/howcum for FREE shipping and your first month of Roman Swipes for only $5 when you sign up for a monthly plan! Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Clit necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop!Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. Shop Sweetvibes.toys and use promocode How Cum for 15% all toys This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
July 21, 2019
Sadly, Remy couldn’t be here to host this episode…BUT DON’T YOU WORRY because today, she is our GUEST. This week Charlotte interviews Remy about her biggest takeaways from the season and where she's at now, SEXUALLY.  Also, the Cumpanions submitted amazing, important questions and they are ALL answered in this episode: from cumming tips & tricks, to how to tell a partner about your struggle to orgasm, to more personal questions about depression and the importance of vulnerability. There is ALSO a sneak peek into upcoming episodes, so hang on tight cause this one is a wild ride.   -- Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic    Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! (Cumming this week) and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop! Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. Shop Sweetvibes.toys and use promocode How Cum for 15% all toys Go to Helixsleep.com/howcum for up to $125 off all mattresses Want to treat your E.D.? Go to Getroman.com/HC for a FREE consultation and 2-day shipping! This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
July 18, 2019
Warning: This episode contains deep thoughts and SICK banter. In this VERY EXCITING How Cum/ We Really Love Island crossover event Remy, Charlotte, and Comedian Lili Michelle (Remy's WRLI Season 2 Co-host) interview Season 1 Love Island UK contestant, Chris Williamson! Chris calls in via Skype to talk love, sex and secrets behind the making of Love Island. We also chat about how to dump someone properly, the importance of honesty and external accountability, and his wild "first time" story.     -- Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @lilsmichelle @ChrisWillx To hear more from Chris, check out his podcast Modern Wisdom.  Shop Sweetvibes.toys and use promocode How Cum for 15% all toys Go to Helixsleep.com/howcum for up to $125 off all mattresses Want to treat your E.D.? Go to Getroman.com/HC for a FREE consultation and 2-day shipping! Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! (Cumming this week) and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop! Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
July 14, 2019
We're talking all things PENISES! Remy and Charlotte interview Dr. Eid, a board-certified urologist focusing on the treatment of advanced erectile dysfunction. He specializes in penile implant surgery, and also treats urinary incontinence after prostate cancer. He is one of New York's leading penis prosthesis surgeons and is here to answer YOUR questions!  We are talking why E.D. occurs, how to treat it, and how sometimes it might be an indication of a larger medical problem. Dr. Eid also answers Cumpanion questions ranging from; "are there medical benefits to circumcision?", "do you need a boner to come?", "is “blue balls” really so bad?" and more!  -- Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic Shop Sweetvibes.toys and use promocode How Cum for 15% all toys Go to Helixsleep.com/howcum for up to $125 off all mattresses Want to treat your E.D.? Go to Getroman.com/HC for a FREE consultation and 2-day shipping! Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! (Cumming this week) and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop! Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
July 7, 2019
An unbelievable conversation with sex/ love writer and recent author, Maria Del Russo and Co-Founder of sex toy company Dame Products, Alexandra Fine.  We discuss themes from Maria’s new book, “Simple Acts of Love;” relationships & singlehood, why you should treat single time as a destination instead of a layover, how your dating past actually does not mean anything for your dating future, and the age old question; "Did I bang enough people when I was single?” We also talk about gender discrepancies in advertising and why Dame is currently suing the MTA.   Washington D.C.: Get your tix to see Remy LIVE July 10 7:30pm @ The D.C. Drafthouse! -- Follow us @RemyKassimir @DameProducts @MariaDelRusso @AFineHuman-- Shop the Dame Products we mentioned in this episode! DameProducts.com promocode: DameHowCum for 10% off Shop Sweetvibes.toys and use promocode How Cum for 15% all toys Go to Helixsleep.com/howcum for up to $125 off all mattresses Want to last longer? Go to Getroman.com/howcum for FREE shipping and your first month of Roman Swipes for only $5 when you sign up for a monthly plan! Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! (Cumming this week) and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Cl*t necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop! Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
June 30, 2019
...is the name of one of our guest's new podcasts AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ Inside The Closet Podcast), Jade Catta-Preta (MTV's Ladylike and GirlCode), and Ashley Gavin (Gay Girl Straight Girl) chat girl on girl sex in this fun informative episode. Our hilarious guests answer all of your questions about strap-ons, STDs, and whether "lesbian sex is all just scissoring." (It's not!) It is such a treat to end pride month with these three talented humans; follow them and go see them live. ALSO: If you're in D.C. go see Remy perform at the Drafthouse Theater, July 10 7:30PM!   Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @emmawillmann @thejademovie @AshGavs -- Need a new mattress? Go to Helixsleep.com/howcum for up to $125 off Want to last longer? Go to Getroman.com/howcum for FREE shipping and your first month of Roman Swipes for only $5 when you sign up for a monthly plan! Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! (Cumming this week) and shop our partners with discounts: Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Clit necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop!Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. Shop Sweetvibes.toys and use promocode How Cum for 15% all toys This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com/ www.HowCumPodcast.com 
June 23, 2019
We're taking you into the world of audio porn this week and it is SO GOOD. Remy and Charlotte talk to Jim; the orgasmic voice behind FeelGoodFilth.com, as he explains how he makes audio porn and why he started. Remy also invites CEO of Quinn and senior at Stanford University, Caroline Spiegel to talk her new audio erotica website which features everything from guided masturbations to ASMR. This episode has everything: phone sex, dirty talk, Daddy Dom/Little Girl role play, mental health, and one of our guests give us our FIRST fully clothed first-time-cumming story on the pod! Caution: This episode features some ACTUAL audio erotica and may get you extremely horny. Trigger warning: we also touch on abuse & eating disorders.  Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @quinntakeover @feelgoodfilth -- We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Satisfyer, Britta Ambauen, and Cumpanion Luxury Sex Towels this season. Shop Satisfyer at us.Satisfyer.com/us/ Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our partners with discounts! Get 15% off your first order of any jewelry, including the Althea Clit necklace by Britta Ambauen using promo code: howcum. $5 from every purchase is donated to charities that focus on education, wellness, and leadership of women. Shop Cumpanions/ sex clean-up products. CLICK HERE to shop!Use Promo Code: HowCum for 10% off. AND go to HelixSleep.com/How Cum for up to $125 off all mattress orders! This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
June 16, 2019
We are in LA with wildly talented author and adult film star Logan Pierce! Logan tells Remy about the way he pursued a career in porn, how his “boy next door” look recently came into fashion in the porn industry, and what defines “porn for women.” We discuss scary firsts from his book, gang bang scenes, and surgically enhanced penises. Logan talks about confusing sexual chemistry for intimacy while on the job, the pros & cons of having relationships with people with the same job as you, and how often he gets tested for STIs. We also hear a cute story about Logan's attempt to have a sex dream as a child, and finally when he figured out that women could cum!   --ALSO because we love you so much, we just released an amazing must-hear BONUS episode with former adult film star Chris Zeischegg (Danny Wylde) & current adult film star Tyler Nixon; the surfer boy with 1 BILLION downloads on Pornhub. Want to listen? It is CURRENTLY available on Patreon for a discounted price! We talk about why Chris quit, how Tyler got started, the homophobia around people who have done "crossover porn" (gay and straight), misogyny in the industry, and a scary Cialis-induced penis condition called "priapism."   Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @who_is_logan @instalurk @chriszeischegg and read Logan's book, Between The Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff as well as Chris's books : Body to Job, The Wolves that Live in Skin & Space, and Come To My Brother -- We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG! This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
June 9, 2019
In this week’s episode we have two brilliant doctors of physical medicine and rehabilitation, Dr. Tayyaba Ahmed and Dr. Allyson Shrikhande, who specialize in pelvic pain. They teach us about a very gender neutral organ; the pelvic floor, and many different causes of pelvic pain. We learn about endometriosis, the seriousness of pudendal nerve/ pudendal entrapment, and why kegels aren't always the answer. The doctors answer questions from the Cumpanions and talk thrush, anorgasmia, penis burn, clitoral adhesions, and more. Ahmed and Shrikhande also share their personal experiences as women, mothers, and students during medical school, as well as their first time stories!  Learn more about their work at pelvicrehabilitation.com    -- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow the doctors @DrTayAhmed @pelvicrehabilitation @doctorallyson We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
June 2, 2019
This week Remy welcomes hilarious comedian, J-Train/U Up? podcaster, and naturally good advice-giver Jared Freid. Jared answers all of your dating questions and explains the difference between guys who neg and guys who flower, why people are watching your Instagram stories and why they stop, and why you can’t put your standard’s into someone else’s hands. Jared explains what is everyone doing wrong on dating apps, why kibbutzing is important for men and women, getting messy during sex, and why he (and Remy) LOVE reality shows. He also tells us about his sexual past; his first time cumming, getting rescued from “virgin island” and why he has dubbed himself the “Rosa Parks of Anal Play.” ALSO, THERE IS YELLING! (But it's fun yelling.) Wooo! This episode is also VERY special because Remy’s first cumming day was 2/22 and this episode is 2,22! Hip hip hooray. Everybody masturbate.  -- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Jared @JaredFreid We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
May 26, 2019
Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte’s 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait.  Remy sits down with the amazing Buck Angel. This motivational speaker, film maker, human rights activist, adult film star, and the first transgender man to win AVN’s Performer of the Year award in 2007 has completely stolen our hearts. We discuss so many aspects of the trans male experience and dive into Buck’s past and personal experiences; undergoing top surgery at a time where it was not common,  a messy divorce with a woman who challenged his gender identity, and Buck’s childhood relationship with his dad and how it has grown. We discuss if changes in gender affect changes in sexuality, what “binders” and “pack-and-pees” are and if they are safe to use, the safety of different medical sex-change procedures, how to hook up with a trans man, dealing with periods as a trans man, and so much more. Buck preaches loving yourself and has created an amazing brand of sex toys and a dating website buckangeldating.com, all with trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people in mind. We talk pussy power and a crazy story about Buck’s appearance on The Tyra Banks Show. And of course,  Buck shares his first time cumming and squirting stories - it’s a blast.   Trigger warning: mutilation, rape, and abuse are all mentioned during this episode   Click to watch Buck’s films: Sexing the Trans Man, Conversations with Transmen, & Mr. Angel Click to see Buck’s TMZ appearances -- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Buck @BuckAngel We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum This episode has 30 MINUTES of EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
May 19, 2019
Episode 20 of every season means Ben is here! Remy talks to her boyfriend and his ROOMMATES; brothers Volkan and Cenk, who she essentially lives with as well.  We discuss sharing a living space (especially with siblings), everyone’s weird pooping habits, and having sex with other people in the apartment. We chat about what signs might mean that your roommate is fucking, losing your virginity in a foreign country, and who the messiest one in the apartment is! We also deep dive into Charlotte's research on the recent wave of abortion restrictions, decipher what they individually mean, and suggest ways in which you can donate your time and money to help. Remy opens up about her own abortion, the beginning of her relationship with Ben, and how Charlotte made Ben define the relationship with Remy.  Also, coming soon: How Cum website and merchandise! ***FOR INFORMATION ON HOW TO HELP, SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM! -- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic and follow Ben DeMarco @bennydnyc and his shows @fatbabylive We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG! This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  *** WHAT TO DO TO HELP RE ABORTION BAN: https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/how-to-help-alabama-6-week-abortion-ban-georgia.html ...Donate to local, grassroots organizations Niationwide organizations: Planned Parenthood, NARAL, and the ACLU help but it is more important to go local.  Local Organizations: Access Reproductive Care - Southeast: ARC is a volunteer organization that helps families in 12 states across the southeast access reproductive care.   National Network of Abortion Funds: NNAF is a network of more than 80 funds in at least 38 states that seeks to eliminate economic barriers for low-income individuals seeking an abortion.   The Yellowhammer Fund: Based in Alabama, Yellowhammer not only provides funding for abortions at one of the city’s three clinics, but also helps with other barriers to access patients may face, such as travel or lodging. (Yellowhammer is part of NNAF.)   Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund: Run entirely by volunteers, the Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund helps people access abortion, and provides both support and resources to parents.   Women Have Options: This Ohio-based organization provides financial assistance and support to low-income patients seeking reproductive care, abortion included.   National Asian Pacific American Women’s Forum: NAPAWF is a multi-issue community-organizing and policy-advocacy organization that fights for policy changes that would benefit women, transgender, and non-binary Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders.   Volunteer as a clinic escort. If you live in a state with a restrictive abortion ban — or nearby one — one tangible way to support abortion rights is to become a clinic escort. Find out more here.
May 12, 2019
This week Remy sits down with her wildly talented, hilarious, and similarly named friend Ramy Youssef. This stand up/writer/actor has not only been on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, has a stand-up special coming out on HBO, but he also has a new Hulu TV series out (called Ramy) that the New York times has called a “revolutionary comedy.” Having grown up Egyptian-American in a Muslim family, Ramy tells Remy about grappling with his faith while being surrounded by the pressures and temptations of the average 20-something. We chat about everything from the anxieties of casual sex to how Ramy’s sense of self was affected  after 9/11. He’s the best. ALSO Ramy tries Charlotte’s Helix mattress and loves it. Everyone should get one. --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @ramy We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com      
May 5, 2019
Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.  During this emotional, inspiring, (and still incredibly funny) episode, the incomparable Fran Drescher (The Nanny!) opens up about how she turns pain into purpose: surviving uterine cancer and the struggle of attempting to convince doctors of the pain she was feeling; managing herself and her emotions through two divorces, having a gay ex-husband, and living through the trauma of the sexual assault and violence she suffered throughout her life. We discuss how she has recently started/ and is crushing stand up comedy, the comedians who inspire her, and the extremely important work she is doing with CancerSchmancer.org.  Fran shares her thoughts about sex toys, finding fantasies to get your mojo running, her mother catching her with her hands "down there" as a child and how much she loves penises, now and forever. We discuss how "Women of a Certain Age" DO still love sex, why it may be beneficial to have "a man for every chapter," and Fran gives us a life altering tip from her Shaman on self care.  Also, Remy smokes a joint in Fran’s house!   --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @officialfrandrescher We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com      
April 28, 2019
Thank you, thank you to everyone who came out our first ever LIVE show this past Thursday. We SOLD out and are definitely going to do more of these bad boys. Follow us @howcumpodcast for updates about future shows! In this episode Remy talks to comedian Eitan Levine about how he won an AVN award (porn award!) for his Hamilton inspired film: Hamiltoe. Charlotte’s voice is out from all the fun at the live show but Eitan tells us about surviving cancer as a child, growing up as a grandchild of Holocaust survivors, and an incredible story about his kickass grandmother. We also talk learning about sex through rabbinical stories, being actively celibate until late in life, who is fucking at the circus, male infertility & male birth control.    --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @eitanthegoalie LISTEN TO NANNY! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum   Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: I 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
April 21, 2019
Nanny and Remy’s house flooded TWICE this week but it’s ok because our LIVE show is Thursday and we c*nt wait to meet you guys. We ALSO got to record this awesome episode with Remy’s two friends and powerhouse women: 1) Hannah Berner, host of the comedy mental health podcast Berning in Hell, and star on this season of Summer House on Bravo and badass bitch who opted out of professional tennis, and 2)  Gabrielle Bluestone, Writer and Executive Producer of FYRE: The Greatest Party That Never Happened" on Netflix. We discuss very universal topics such as going to the Hamptons and playing tennis, and more relatable topics such as how competition in sports applies to life and how traditional gender roles affect us. Hannah gives us a peek behind Summer House's walls, and Gabrielle explains our "keeping up with the Joneses" culture.  We also talk about pets, people who seem successful but might just have a trust fund, and how to be your realest self in a world of facades. *Stay tuned until the end of the episode: this one has some post-song goodies!   -- Don't miss the LIVE SHOW! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode “How Cum” for a 25% off discount. Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @beingbernz @g_bluestone(T) @gbluestone (IG) We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations & Brooklinen this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Go to Brooklinen.com & use promocode: "HOWCUM" for 10% off of your first order and FREE SHIPPING! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG! This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
April 14, 2019
Tickets are almost sold out for our first live podcast/ stand up show! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode “How Cum” for a 25% off discount. ...AND GET EXCITED! This episode is one that many of you have requested. Partners in love and life, Chris and Charlotte Rose; aka the Pleasure Mechanics teach us ANAL 101! After hearing what they have to say, you’ll  know what to put in your basic (anal) tool kit, how unlikely “gaping” actually is, and how to answer, “is there a ‘wall of shit’ waiting for me?” The Pleasure Mechanics explain how our culture damages the idea of manliness and anal play, as well as its pornification. They brilliantly clue us into the two anal sphincters, how anal can be pleasurable for anyone, and give us tricks for good prostate play, pegging & anal masturbation.  Men: We teach you what  “Man Box” is and how your dick is bigger than you think!   --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic and Chris/ Charlotte Rose @pleasure_mechanics AGAIN: LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets. We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations & The Pleasure Mechanics this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Go to pleasuremechanics.com and use promocode: "How Cum" for 33% off all courses & offers Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!   Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
April 7, 2019
Make sure to get your tickets for our first LIVE PODCAST & stand up show on April 25th at 7:30. (Doors open @ 7) Use our promo code “How Cum” for a 25% off discount.  Until then, listen to this awesome episode with wildly hilarious entertainer & RuPaul’s Drag Race All Star alumnus Katya Zamolodchikova, also known as Brian McCook. This episode is EVERYTHING! We touch on drag life and a dish soap make up remover tip. We also discuss fearing competition, lacking a gay mentor, the pros and cons of hooking up with fans, and experimentally sticking a finger in the ass. Katya explains how a recent relapse in addiction occurred and the effect it had on her/Brian's lives. Also we shared our experiences with the seriousness of mental health issues and how we cope with it all.  Follow Katya and her podcast Whimsically Volatile: @Katya_Zamo/ @katyaandcraig and and go see her NOW on her tour "Help Me I'm Dying" , on Viceland's The Trixie and Katya Show and on VH1's Grown & Sexy. Follow us at @RemyKassimir, @Charkasstic, & @howcumpodcast --- AGAIN: LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets. We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Roman, Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Keep Roman Swipes in your back pocket for longer, better sex and get yours fast with FREE 2-day shipping by visiting Getroman.com/HOWCUM Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!   Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
March 31, 2019
We are gearing up for our FIRST LIVE SHOW and couldn't be more excited. Buy your tickets, use promo code "How Cum" and we will see you on April 25th in NYC for a night of PURE JOY!  But until then, enjoy this awesome episode with comedian & host of the "Yung Daddy" podcast; Lev Fer! We attempt to define what a "fuck boy" is, and how it compares to a "slut." We cover how Lev deals with receiving overwhelming amounts of nudes, talk about different butthole colors, discover a new dating term called “mosting”, and ponder about losing weight & losing boners. We also chat body issues, grooming, and why McDonald's is so very important.    Follow Lev @LevFer and us @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic --- COME TO OUR FIRST LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets. We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Roman, Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Keep Roman Swipes in your back pocket for longer, better sex and get yours fast with FREE 2-day shipping by visiting Getroman.com/HOWCUM Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!   Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
March 24, 2019
This one is a banger. We get to chat with the one, the only, the amazing and stupendously slutty host of Viceland's Slutever Karley Sciortino. We talk about everything from Karley’s re-definition of the word “slut”, witches on broomsticks (aka magic dildos), the switch from vagina shame to pussy power, having an “anti-social clit”, VR porn, and so much more. Also, Remy has a sexual experience that she never has before AND Remy & Karley were both named "Innovators" in Cosmopolitan's first ever Sexcellence Awards!  Karley's book Slutever is out now, you can read her Vogue column Breathless and follow her @KarleySlutever --- Follow us @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG! This episode has a TON of bonus content. To access 40 min of Kirill and Jax uncensored become a $5 Patron on Patreon- Extras will be posted 3/20 Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com  
March 17, 2019
On the day that he celebrated "10 years of being a professional degenerate," Kirill Bichutsky's 1 million+ follower account @slutwhisperer was yanked off of Instagram.  This controversial social media personality recently starred in Netflix's revealing documentary American Meme and his half-naked champagne facial parties are legendary, but we wanted to know: who really IS the Slut Whisperer? What is real versus just social media, and how do we use social media in a healthy, less stressful way? Kirill and Remy's mutual friend & comedian Jax Dell'Osso joins us to answer these questions. We talk slut-shaming, online personas, working as an exotic dancer and the Fyre Festival.  Trigger warning: A guest opens up about a childhood trauma & we have a conversation about child sexual abuse & the HBO documentary Leaving Neverland. RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization; donate or seek help here  --- Follow us @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic Follow Kirill on Instagram for now @KirillWasHere & Jax Dell'Osso @funnygirljax We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG! This episode has a TON of bonus content. To access 40 min of Kirill and Jax uncensored become a $5 Patron on Patreon- Extras will be posted 3/20 Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com    
March 10, 2019
“Nobody’s sex life is anybody’s business…except on this podcast.” So, we chat with comedians & sexual “late bloomers” Freddy G and Ray Gootz. Ray tells us about losing his virginity at 37 to a sex worker at the Bunny Ranch & Freddy explains how and why he didn’t have an awake orgasm until he was 23.  We define several terms; incel, refractory period, and a “delivery boy” attitude. We keep it funky and fresh and talk pre/post sex vomit stories, Kelly Kapowski from Saved by the Bell, & a few times Ray mentions his friend Kristy Steffano; who is better known as comedian Chris DiStefano. This one’s a blast.   Thank you for all the love over the past year. We couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome BONUS EPISODES and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com   SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!  
March 3, 2019
We sit down with the amazing and hilarious mother son duo, KarenLee and Cam Poter from the hit podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. We cover A LOT with these kindred spirits of ours: how peoples’ “orifice hierarchies” can vary, sexless marriages, KarenLee’s personal definition of "cougar", Cam’s "pregnancy scare," and of course, “anal anal anal.” We also find out that KarenLee gets wet at the first note of a saxophone, Cam tells us a WILD “ball-breaker” story, and magically, Cam finds out something he DIDN’T know about his mom. ALSO: This is our first CROSS OVER episode! That's right, didn't get enough of the four of us? Listen to Remy and Charlotte on Sex Talk With My Mom HERE! WANT EVEN MORE? We ended up calling OUR DAD and talking about sex with him. Check that out HERE!  Thank you for all the love over the past year. We couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, consider helping us in the following ways:  1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome BONUS EPISODES and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!  2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!  3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:  Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast  Website - www.RemyKassimir.com   SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!  
February 24, 2019
Wow. This. Episode. We call Remy's friend, comedian Crystal Beth; AKA "The Girl Without a Clit" and catch up with our anonymous friend from the bonus episode. This episode has everything: trips down memory lane, people's assumptions about bisexuals, and an insanely hot story about an insanely hot threesome with two insanely hot guys. Also: can you cum without a clit? We find out.    Want more?   Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast & @thecrystalbeth And HEY!!  Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, rate and visit our Patreon for exclusive extra content and to donate!  Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings! SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!    
February 20, 2019
We reached 500 reviews on iTunes and are thanking everyone who has rated & reviewed with a BONUS EPISODE! You guys are gonna die. We thought this episode had been lost forever due to sound issues-- BUT WE SALVAGED IT! (Thanks Alex Pischera!)  This episode was SUPPOSED to be episode 4 of season 1; which means it was recorded BEFORE REMY CAME. (Pre-cum!) It is so crazy to hear how much things have changed. Seriously, you'll be shocked. Our guest's voice and named have been changed to protect her anonymity; she is a powerful, high ranking woman in Finance, who also attends all-women sex parties for queer and curious women.  You're gonna love it. (And thank you again!) Want more?   Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!!  Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, rate and visit our Patreon for exclusive extra content and to donate!  Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings! SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!    
February 17, 2019
Get ready for this amazing episode with Dr. Ian Kerner, psychotherapist and author of the best-selling book, and cunnilingus how-to guide, “She Comes First.” You’ll learn SO much and laugh along the way. We talk about everything: mismatched libidos, the distinction between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how privileging intercourse over outercourse can be problematic. We ask a bunch of listener questions, get to real solutions and make lots of sound effects in the process.   Want more?  Visit Dr. Kerner's Website and check out his books   Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate!  Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings! SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!
February 10, 2019
Valentines Day is coming up and BOY do we love these guests. We brought in hilarious comedians LeClerc Andre and Khalid Rahmaan (Eff’n Up Podcast) to talk about how they have eff’ed up sex and how they learned the ropes. They hit it all: ball play,  “begrudging blowies”, and more. Want more?  Follow LeClerc, Khalid and their podcast on Instagram: @LeClercAndre @khalidsays @effnup Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate!  Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings! Check out Khalid's Conan Set & LeClerc's Tonight Show Set here!   SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!  
February 3, 2019
We sit down with Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg from the top 20 comedy & dating podcast Girls Gotta Eat. We talk about it all: happy endings, sizing up a guy’s load (the more the better for Rayna), dirty talk, butt stuff, fan erotica, and fingering with long nails. Charlotte also joins us to talk about what to eat vs. what not to eat on a date. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn, you’ll eat. SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG! *Toys mentioned in this episode: The Perfect Match & Girls Best Friend Want more?  Follow Rayna, Ashley, and their podcast on Instagram: @onehungryjew @ashhess @girlsgottaeatpodcast Follow us @Remy Kassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate!  Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!  
January 27, 2019
We interview Dr. Helen Fisher! She is a Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, Chief Scientific Advisor to the dating site Match.com, and all around amazingly COOL person. We discuss her extensive research on the evolution and future of human sex, love, marriage, & gender differences in the brain. She also teaches us how your personality style shapes who you are and who you love.  We talk about millennial dating culture and "slow love", how to get over a break up, the evolution of trust, and how too many choices can leave us with nothing at all.  We also hear an INCREDIBLE story about a rickshaw and Dr. Fisher answers questions that nobody else has EVER asked her (including but definitely not limited to her first time story).  ALSO: This is the first episode we've ever let Nanny listen to and she LOVED it.   Follow Dr. Fisher on Twitter @DrHelenFisher and find her work/books on helenfisher.com Follow us on Instagram/Twitter @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us: Like, review, 5-star rate us ! Want extras? Go to our Patreon for extra content & to donate! We are going to be adding all sorts of bonus content this season and giving SHOUTOUTS! Woo! Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!    
January 20, 2019
Charlotte had an accident and has to sit this one out but Remy is in LA interviewing Vanderpump Rules' Ariana Madix, who famously stated that she hates her vagina on reality TV. We discuss how that hate came to be, whether it is still around and what it is like to be a perfectionist with body issues.  We also dive into the rocky waters of emotionally abusive exes and skin cancer. We explore how the show has changed throughout the years; especially in this new political climate. Finally, we discuss weed lube, having a relationship on reality TV, and "first orgasm of 2019" stories.  I also tell a story that involves me looking at my own butthole.  Follow Ariana Madix on Instagram @Ariana252525 Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content & to donate! Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!   Want more? Listen to the parts we couldn't say on the podcast:  Extras on Patreon include:  Ariana discusses the beginning of her and Tom's relationship, "the cheating scandal," the night her dad died and how it brought her and tom together. We discuss cheating more in depth and Ariana reveals a secret about one of Jax’s cheating scandals that any Vander-fan would DIE to hear (but I don't want Bravo to sue me). Ariana reveals an embarrassing Twitter habit and we discuss donating to charity on Facebook & rape in the comedy community.  
January 13, 2019
We're back baby!! Season two kicks off with with Remy and Charlotte welcoming the nationally syndicated sex advice columnist Dan Savage.  Equal parts brilliant, hilarious and kind, Dan explains how to communicate and give instructions during sex, how self-touch isn’t a negative reflection on your partner, what the campfire rule is, and how if we fake it, we will likely NOT make it.  Dan also tells us why we should “WATCH THE GAY PORN” (we can all learn quite a bit from it) and discusses the Babe.net Aziz Ansari article from last year, explaining how we can meld male and female perspectives together to understand each other a little better.  We also discuss the "It Gets Better Project", and growing up Irish Catholic and gay. (IN A TWIST, DAN HAS THE BEST STORY EVER ABOUT HIS CHILDHOOD PRIEST). We finish up with a chat about how and when to tell kids about sex, why sex is not just about reproduction, and Dan’s sex-positive film festival HUMP! Want more?  Follow Dan Savage on Instagram @DanSavage Follow us @Remy Kassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content & to donate! Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings!  
November 21, 2018
HELLO MY CUMPANIONS! I miss you so much. Just wanted to say hi and give you some updates. Also, how sick that we have an official name now? "Cumpanions." Some of you voted for "Cumrades" on the Instagram poll and I do still think that's pretty clever.  ((Were you not part of the vote? Are ya pissed? Follow us @howcumpodcast on Instagram and participate in all the polls! Send questions, comments, all that stuff.)) MISS MY VOICE?! We Really Love Island (My NEWEST podcast) cums out tomorrow but How Cum listeners get to hear it TODAY!!! Listen/review/ subscribe & follow us @wereallyloveisland AND HEY! Have you rated/reviewed/subscribed to this pod? Please dew that! 
October 29, 2018
One gigantic celebration for our Season 1 finale episode! Remy and Charlotte are back together and calling How Cum listeners from all around the world to CUMGRATULATE them on their first orgasms, and hear how they happened. We get a sick update from former guest Molly Brenner who just had HER first O too! She had to re-write her one woman show “Molly Brenner is Not Coming,” and now performs “I’m Coming!” Also, Remy has her first INTERNAL orgasm!
October 21, 2018
This week's guests are the three hosts of the only male-run podcast with only female guests; The Good, The Dad, & The Ugly! Comedians Will Winner, Casey James Salengo, & Patrick Schroeder came over so I could thank them (specifically Will) for introducing me to the Womanizer on their podcast many months ago.  We discuss many things including "The Him Too Movement", penis pumps, TLC shows from the early 2000s, dating new people, masturbating with roommates in the house, and copying sex stuff you've seen in movies.  Follow us!  @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @will.the.winner @caseyjsalengo @schrotime ---------- Like this podcast?! Rate, review, subscribe, tell your friends! They need this!!   
October 14, 2018
Did you know that only 20% of schools in the US are teaching Sex Ed right now? That is not enough schools. To fix that I talked to two sex educators. We talk how to manage STD's, good ways to introduce toys to people for the first time, and what the internal structure of the clitoris actually looks like! Did you know doctors only discovered it in 1998? This is crazy. We also answer some fan questions!
October 8, 2018
I interviewed "Liz," a How Cum SUPERFAN who is staying anonymous. Liz is a long time listener and did ALL of my pre-orgasm assignments (1-6). We discuss how all of the assignments went for her and then we talk about what we did last night...  I took her to a sex party! It was crazy. You will learn about sensation play, ASMR, electric shocks, and what went down (pun VERY intended).
September 30, 2018
First, journalist Hannah Soyer calls in to discuss her article, "What Sex Is Like With A Disability" from Cosmopolitan Magazine. Hannah talks about Spinal Muscular Atrophy & the dangers of being a disabled woman surrounding sex. I then talked to comedian Chris Crespo & writer Spencer Williams. Chris was born with Complicated Syndactyly & stars in the awesome web series Hand Jobs, despite being born with no forearms. Spencer has Cerebral Palsey and is currently writing about sex & disability for Vice.
September 30, 2018
What is polyamory and how do you do it?* I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. On this episode we discuss it all: Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous and married? What about having children? We also define different types of polyamorous relationships and terms such as "primary partner", "nesting partner", and "fluid bonding."
September 23, 2018
This week I am answering YOUR questions. Things like: "how do you sit when you use ___ sex toy?" "What really went down during that tantric massage?" "Is it normal if I used to cum and can't anymore?"  etc.  From now on I'll be taking fan questions at the end of every episode so please write in! email ourfamousfriends@gmail.com or write me @howcumpodcast / @remykassimir
September 9, 2018
Celebrating my birthday with a jumbo episode about sex, sobriety, and the joy of handjobs! Seamus Kirst, journalist and author of Shitfaced joins me as I interview him and my friend & comedian Sydnee Washington. We talk dating sober people, going to rehab in highschool, delayed ejaculation and the Real Housewives we’re most worried about. Then Seamus and I (both Virgos) are joined by Britni for more fun!
August 26, 2018
This week's episode features adult entertainer Sofia Rose & Actress/Comedian Alyssa Limperis (Crazy In Bed Podcast) . Body positivity is on the menu; we discuss everything from being a BBW (big beautiful woman) to battling an eating disorder and what body image can do to your sex life. We also talk old-school MySpace, ugly armpits, depression, & how you don't have to find the right person, you just have to find the right person for right now.
August 19, 2018
NYC comedians Pauline Murphy and Jeena Bloom stop by and we have a heated debate regarding dick preference; to circumcise or not to circumcise? That is the question. We also discuss what it is like to live as a trans woman and be able to have EVERY type of orgasm. We also talk about Pauline's predicament - she's only cum four times. Ever. How Cum? Let's find out.
August 12, 2018
This week is GIRL POWER week! Comedians Ariel Elias & Molly Ruben-Long (Well Behaved Podcast) and Instagram blogger Jen Winston (@girlpowersupply) join me to talk about what feminism actually means, dating in the current political climate, what to do when your heroes are perverts and more! It's a great episode.
August 5, 2018
Comedians John Fugelsang (SiriusXM's Tell Me Everything) & Christian Finnegan (VH1's Best Week Ever) discuss Christianity! How does Jesus feel about sex, abortion, homosexuality etc. according to the Bible? We discuss that, growing up as a Christian, faking orgasms as a man, cyber sex in AOL chatrooms, and more!
July 29, 2018
In this final @WomanizerGlobal sponsored episode I chat with Corinne Olympios, and the notorious Bachelor contestant turned podcaster & clothing line owner lets me into her world off camera. We talk about hang-ups with masturbation, long distance relationships, what to do if you dislike oral sex & more. Corinne’s boyfriend Jon also joins us on the mic for an interesting look into the male perspective.
July 22, 2018
Alik Alfus, one of the stars of British reality show Made in Chelsea, (and childhood friend of mine!) joins me and Charlotte to talk about growing up in New York City, falling in (and out) of love while being in the public eye, first loves, and Alik's first blowjob (a LEGENDARY tale in NYC). I also have a breakthrough in self realization and we do some expert sound effects with our mouths.  If you went to high school with us-- don't worry, all names are BLEEPED !
July 14, 2018
Ralph Sutton (Owner of GaS Digital Network) & Lindsey Jennings (Comedian/Suicide Girl) join me to discuss masturbating in public, threesomes, doing stuff for the story, dating people who work in sex, and much more. We mention last year's Skankfest A LOT and coincidentally Skanfest 2018 is going on now. Posting this ep early in case you want to come see us!!  Lots got cut for time but will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum on Wednesday!
July 8, 2018
You've asked for it, and here it is! My boyfriend Ben DeMarco (Comedian & Creator of Fat Baby) joins me to talk about his side of the How Cum journey, first loves, first blowjobs & his late in life circumcision.  We interview two fans of the podcast about THEIR story- Toni & Chuck. Toni is a 50 year old woman who had never had an orgasm before listening to How Cum. Chuck is married to Toni and has WILD stories of his own.  We had the best time, I can't wait for you guys to hear this one.
July 1, 2018
Molly Brenner Is Not Coming! Is a show about how Molly Brenner-- is not coming. But she came on this show! Comedian Riley Lassin joins us as we dive deeper into Vaginismus.  We also talk about whether ghosts are watching you have sex, making barbies have sex, and how much we miss HBO's True Blood.  Subscribe to our Patreon for extras! Episode one of "The Post Coitus: A How Cum Aftershow" go up on Wednesday July 4! Woo! You can see ep. 1 for a donation as little as $1 https://www.patreon.com/HowCu
June 24, 2018
These three hilarious LA comedians chat with me about NY vs. LA dating, giving people yeast infections, banging people who look like you & “vaginismus;” a disorder that doesn’t sound so merry. Also: two of them met the day we recorded this and now they are best friends. It’s amazing. Follow us! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @nicoleaimee @missyannmodell @the_real_miss_piggy @ourfamousfriends
June 18, 2018
We are STILL in LA for this episode and I had the PLEASURE of having my long time friend Tim on who HATES this podcast!! WHAT?! I know.  Conversely we have the biggest fan of the podcast on this episode too! Mark Harley is a comedian from BET's 50 Central. We talk about how gay frats are, putting stuff up our butts, and peeing on people.  We also havebi-coastal beauty Kelsey Cook on, hilarious comedian featured on The Tonight Show who hosts The Self Helpless Podcast.
June 10, 2018
We're still in LA for this one as Ester Steinberg (Comedian from the upcoming season of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel) and I coach 'Kill Tony' comedian Ali Macofsky on how to cum. That's right, there are still women out there who can't! WHO KNEW?! me. that's who.  Enjoy! (Follow up ep hitting our Patreon on Wednesday)  @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @notalimac @ester.steinberg
June 3, 2018
I'm in LA!! These next few eps I am out here having the BEST TIME and talking to a barrage of UNREAL west coast guests. My first is drag superstar Rhea Litre, one of the most requested Drag Queens for RuPaul's Drag Race; who has sky rocketed to fame seamlessly, without having to appear on the show. Rhea comes from a line of famous Drag Race Queens, her mothers include Raja and Mayhem Miller. She and her sister Willem dropped "Let's Have a Kai Kai" which blew up on Youtube with over 3.1m views.
May 31, 2018
In part 1 we left off at my orgasm after ep 6. In part 2 I re-cap episodes 7-14. Now that I can cum alone-- how do I do it with a person? What other stuff is interesting about sex? We delve into the different topics [below] and I play some highlights from those episodes, and let you know what the assignments were all in one spot.  Sex Parties (Ep 7) SexTech (Ep 8) Laughter & Orgasms (Ep 9) Communication (Ep 10) Religion (Ep 11) Gender & Sexuality (Ep 12) Hygiene (Ep 13) Love (Ep 14)
May 27, 2018
A mid-season summary of my journey so far! This is Part 1: I go through episodes 1-6 with you and relive the journey from How Cum to How Came! Guests: Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson (Guys We Fucked Podcast), Alia Janine, Emily Wilson (Babe.Net), Napoleon Emill , Lindsey Metselaar , Alex Pischera, Charlotte Kassimir,  An Anonymous Nurse Named Talya, Wendi Starling , David Goldberg, and  Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (Stay Tuned for Part 2 Wednesday 5/30 6PM)
May 20, 2018
Instagram poets Yasmin Gomez (Words with Yaz/ Words with Queens) & Danae Guerra (DeeGuerra) join me in a discussion about how love and sex are intertwined! Do you know what oxytocin is? Listen to this because its prob fuckin wit ya life! We also talk about arranged marriages, physical and emotional abuse, parents who are on drugs, jackhammer sex, being spiteful, & instagram stalking.  Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @words_with_queens @deeguerra @yasmingomez.official
May 13, 2018
God damnit this episode is so funny. Comedians/ my friends Andrea Allan & Emily Lubin from the Hot Mess Comedy Hour podcast stop by to talk HYGIENE and *spoiler alert*-- two of us are VERY gross. We had the pleasure of interviewing CEO Melanie Cristol via telephone (we're so high tech!!) about her company Lorals-- which make revolutionary latex panties, ideal for giving/receiving oral sex!! ((Obv we talk about cumming, and some insanely hilarious stories involving poop and strap-ons. ))
May 6, 2018
Unreal episode with some comedian pals:  Ian Fidance (You Up with Nikki Glaser, Sirius XM) and Jes Tom, "weird queer comedy babe."  Orgasms vs. cumming. The difference between sex & gender. What it's like to be non binary,  bisexual, or both. We talk about this stuff, growing up closeted, dating assholes, and assholes in general. Also, where is the line when it comes to jokes? Should comics be allowed to say anything they want if it's funny or do we need to be more careful?
April 29, 2018
Religion shapes a lot of how we how we think of relationships and sex. On this episode we delve into the religion I was born into, JUDAISM!(Le'Chaim!) Two brilliant Jews join me: Robby Hoffman: Comedian & Emmy nominated writer for The Chris Gethard Show on TruTV David Yarus: Founder of the dating app Jswipe We talk jews vs non jews in the bedroom, being gay/ coming out, dating apps, leaving Hasidic Judaism,  and some stuff I learned on Birthright!
April 22, 2018
Have you ever been uncomfy asking for what you want during sex? Have you ever tried it in another language?! This week we get a lesson on how to bang in French from Paris comedian Lisa Raduszynski!  Fun, oui? Oui!
April 15, 2018
Dan Soder (Showtimes's Billions/ The Bonfire on Sirius XM) and Mark Normand (Comedy Central/ Tuesdays with Stories) are both hilarious, successful, attractive comedians. On this epi we discover how similar laughing and cumming are, which they'd prefer to make a girl do/ would prefer to do themselves. We talk relationships, banging fans, and what a "chuckle fucker" is. We discuss an article called "Why Men Don't Like Funny Women" and the guys get a special treat-- they get to meet my grandmother!
April 8, 2018
Polly Rodriguez, the hilarious CEO of Unbound chats with Remy about different sex toys BESIDES the Womanizer and the importance of lube. They debate about inter-special banging (a la "The Shape of Water"), discuss a poop snafu that happened during sex, and talk about Polly's battle with cancer and how that shaped her work.  We also discussed my assignment- masturbating with a Chakrub. Enjoy!!  -EPISODES ARE NOW WEEKLY. GET EXCITED!- & Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @unboundbabes
March 25, 2018
NSFW has been dubbed "the Soho House of Sex" by Vice.com. Their 800 members range from busy New Yorkers, Fortune 500 executives to models and entrepreneurs. NSFW hosts adventures ("SEX PARTIES"!!)  including curated experiences  at a 4 story townhome in Williamsburg. Remy went & brought her friend/comedian Betsy Carroll. In this episode we tell you what went down as we interview Melissa Vitale, PR goddess for NSFW. Follow us! @HowCumPodcast @MelissaavitalePR @betsycarroll @remykassimir
March 11, 2018
A VERY SPECIAL EPISODE: Comedians Krystyna Hutchinson and Corinne Fisher (Guys We Fucked Podcast) come over to chat and celebrate something VERY EXCITING! Charlotte (Co-producer & Sister de Remy) is in the house too. So is our grandmother but not on the mic, she's just listening to us record from her room. It's fine.  Follow @Howcumpodcast for LIVE podcast broadcasts & send questions to us on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook!  @remykassimir @charkasstic @krystynahutch @philanthropygal @sorryaboutlastnight
February 25, 2018
This ep is so good. David Goldberg (LGBT Editor @ Timeout NY) co-hosts and introduces Remy to his favorite sexual healers, Lola Jean & Dominus Eros (3FStudios). We learn about the various sexual healing classes they offer: BDSM, Tantric Massage, Masturbation Classes, Tantric Massage, etc.  Also, what's it like to be gay/pan/polyamorous? Let's find out. Follow @Howcumpodcast for LIVE podcast broadcasts & send questions for us!  @remykassimir @goldberghawn @lolajean @dominuseros
February 11, 2018
Seriously, try pronouncing dyspareunia. I still can't-- but now I know what it means! PAINFUL SEX. On this episode Talya, a nurse in training, guides us through the ins and outs of the vagina. We also discuss 'The Female Price of Male Pleasure'-- an article by TheWeek.com that comes on the heels of another viral article-- The Aziz Ansari piece from Babe.net.  I invited Emily Wilson, Comedian and Babe.net producer to guest co-host and discuss all of this with me!  @RemyKassimir @TheRealEmilyWilson
January 28, 2018
The Internet is for PORN! Watching it, talking about it, and for some of us- doing it! This episode features Alia Janine, porn star turned stand up comic. Remy and guest co-host Alex Pischera interview Alia about her life on porn sets, web camming, and BDSM as Remy discusses her own journey down the rabbit-hole that is PornHub.com. (And then she gets an assingment!) Follow @Howcumpodcast for LIVE podcast broadcasts & write in questions for us!  @remykassimir @alia.janine @alex.pischera
January 12, 2018
Men are from mars, women are from venus-- let's talk about my vagina, her vagina & also his penis! On this ep we get the man's angle on all things sex.  Remy & guest co-host Lindsey Metselaar (We Met At Acme) interview the big man on comedy campus, Napoleon Emill. We discuss men's likes/dislikes and ask the age old question-- are we really that different?  Follow @HowCumPodcast for LIVE podcast broadcasts & message us your questions anytime! @remykassimir @wemetatacme @napoleonemill @lindzmetz
December 24, 2017
Those who can't do-- interview. I'm pretty sure that's how that saying goes. Ep one starts with a BANG! (PUN VERY INTENTIONAL) Remy and her sister/ guest co-host for this episode, Charlotte sit down with Comedian Wendi Starling. She tells us about multiple orgasms, squirting, selling panties, and sugarbaby life. Finally, Wendi gives Remy a tantalizing 'assignment' for next week! Follow @Howcumpodcast for LIVE podcast broadcasts & write in questions for us!  @remykassimir @charkasstic @wendibird82
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