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July 1, 2020
Suck Army tells it like it is! Is Dating during a global pandemic possible?! Dean and Jared have a panel of 4 single people revealing everything. We find out what its REALLY like to be single during quarantine, and what to do if you find yourself texting your ex, navigating Zoom dates and social distancing hookups. Plus, Dean confirms the symbolism of his “promise ring” with Caelynn and Jared opens up about how quarantine has changed his relationship with Ashley Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 24, 2020
How much can you tell about a person by the way they treat their dog? Dean and Jared learn that a new relationship might only be a leash length away!  They talk to Leigh Isaacson, founder of the Dig app, about launching a dating app based around hooking up “dog people”.  And in the wake of Dean’s major hair change, we discuss what hairstyle women like best on a guy.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 24, 2020
In the wake of Dean’s major hair change, we discuss what hairstyle women like best on a guy. Then Pappy and Lois' dad's discuss DOGS and DATING! How much can you tell about a person how they treat their dog? Dean and Jared learn that a new relationship might only be a leash length away! They talk to Leigh Isaacson, founder of the Dig app, about launching a dating app based around hooking up “dog people”. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 15, 2020
It’s Caelynn’s birthday week… what’s Dean gonna do?? He shares his plans (or lack thereof!)  We play a game of Never Have I Ever and you won’t believe what Dean reveals! Plus Dean and Jared talk to Leah Van Dale and her boyfriend Matt Polinsky (known in the WWE as Carmella and Corey Graves) about what it’s like being in a relationship as pro wrestlers.   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 8, 2020
Dean and Jared catch up with Tayshia Adams and she shares her thoughts on the state of the country right now. She shares her experience growing up with biracial parents and we hear about how dating is going for her… even in quarantine. Plus Dean and Jared talk about the new rules for safe sex: wearing masks!  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 4, 2020
Dean and Jared have an honest and vulnerable conversation about racism and the protests against police brutality throughout the nation.   Jubilee Sharpe (The Bachelor - Ben Higgin’s season and Bachelor in Paradise) joins Dean and Jared to educate, enlighten, encourage them about matters of race. They also address the underrepresentation of Black people on The Bachelor. Dr. Ish discusses racial issues and how they affect our relationships. He shares resources that people can use to better understand the experiences of Black people in America. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 27, 2020
Dean and Jared open up about their intimacy struggles during quarantine, especially for Jared, who’s been on lockdown with his in-laws for months.  They share an incredibly honest conversation about self-esteem issues and how they can affect intimacy.  But then they spill all during a SPICY round of “Spin the Bottle”! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 20, 2020
Dean and Jared discuss Mary-Kate Olsen’s split from Pierre Sarkozy and her “iron clad prenup” which opens a TON of questions. What’s the oldest you could date?? Would you ever get a prenup? Are they a smart idea?? And we play a round of “7 minutes in Heaven”, where the boys get to talk about anything they want! You won’t believe what Dean reveals about his new love: the saxophone. Plus Jared talks to one of his favorite authors Ben Mezrich! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 13, 2020
Dean and Jared get open up about their “intimate moments” in a way we’ve never heard before! Plus we hear how dating in the public eye has changed the way they view relationships.  Dean and Jared talk to Sukanya Krishnan, host of “Find Love Live” on TLC. She tells about the challenges and advantages of playing matchmaker over video chat! Plus, should you wait until after quarantine to define your relationship??  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 6, 2020
When are Jared and Ashley going to have kids....we get an update. And, Dean & Caelynn may have already added to their family! Plus, Dean and Caelynn open up about their future together, since their anniversary is coming up!   Dean & Jared talk to the breakout superstar of 90 Day Fiance… Big Ed! We get all the inside info on his relationship with Rose, including what caused their biggest fight! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 29, 2020
Even though everyone is in quarantine, there’s still a lot of hooking up happening, so Dean and Jared call in sex therapist and Bachelor alum Taylor Nolan. She helps us figure out why sex is often linked to shame and ways to have safe healthy sex while in quarantine.  and from the Netflix phenomenon “Too Hot to Handle”, Francesca Farago Zooms in with Dean and Jared. She spills everything about her future with Harry and we find out how she’s keeping things spicy while in isolation.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 21, 2020
Significant Other Takeover...Ashley and Caelynn steal the mics to reveal some intimate secrets about Dean and Jared! Dating in the time of quarantine poses some strange challenges, and Dean and Jared are ready to get to the bottom of it all. How to navigate the dating apps while in isolation. What stands out about profiles? How do you deal with catfish? All the answers and all the Help! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 14, 2020
Dean and Jared Talk Exes and what they learned from them. Who would they text if the world was ending...they answer! Dean and Jared share their advice for staying productive while quarantined with Caelynn and Ashley and how to maintain your alone time when stuck together. And they reveal what they miss from their single lives. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 7, 2020
Court is in session when Judge Lynn Toller from Marriage Boot Camp tries to help Dean and Jared suck less during quarantine. She shares her tips to make it through some of the arguments that are bound to come up during isolation with your partner.   Plus Dean tells us his thoughts about Caelynn appearing in a new book by a former Bachelor!   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 31, 2020
Dean and Jared are running out of ideas to stay busy during quarantine, and when you're stuck in a house with your significant other, that probably leads to a lot more sex. We talk to sex expert Emily Morse about how to maintain healthy sexual habits when you're on lockdown, and we get real about how porn can shape sexuality... for the good and the bad. And we peel back another layer of the onion that is Dean Unglert, and get some info on his "wedding ring". Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 24, 2020
We check in with your favorites on how to stay social while socially distant. Mike Johnson has been keeping seriously busy. We hear about his huge accomplishment and we clear up a rumor about a girl from Peter's season he may be "distantly dating". Fan favorite Peter Kraus checks in. A major extrovert, Katie Morton, shares how she stays connected to her friends during quarantine.  And Nick Viall gives us a look at single life while stuck inside.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 16, 2020
If anything has turned the dating world on its head, it’s the Netflix sensation “Love is Blind”. Dean and Jared hang out with a fan favorite from the series, Giannina Gibelli! She tells us what she learned about herself and love after going in the pod and we find out the secret to her successful relationship with Damian. And we finally get an answer to a mystery surrounding Dean and Caelynn! Check out Giannina's new podcast "Love in Sight" on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 11, 2020
Now that we’ve reached the end of Peter’s season of The Bachelor, it’s time for Dean and Jared to see which of their predictions came true. And we have relationship expert Dr. Nancy Lee with us to help understand what was going on with Peter.  Is he a people pleaser??  And Dr. Lee explains “soft boys”, cheaters and narcissists. Could Jared or Dean fall into one of those labels?? Plus we find out which Bachelorette contestant is a “master manipulator” Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 2, 2020
Dean and Jared more to cover with Tayshia Adams and Brooks Laich and this time we’re going after hours! Things are a little more loose, a little more casual and you won’t BELIEVE what secrets are revealed. We’re playing a question game to learn more about Tayshia and Brooks but things get a little… spicy!   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 24, 2020
Dean and Jared are solving your dating conundrums. Are first dates actually fun or just awkward and painful?  How do you deal with a guy that is constantly sending mixed signals? What’s the best way to handle a love affair at the office?Sucking it up and sucking less, we are Solving these and other dating dilemmas. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 16, 2020
It's Valentine's Day. Galentine's Day & Singles Awareness Day, so Dean and Jared have a very special episode for the #SuckArmy! We've gathered a bunch of dating experts to all give us their top dating advice and we're talking to some of our favorite Bachelor Nation couples to do the same! Becca and Garrett, Ben Higgins and Jess, and our own Ashley and Jared and Dean and Caelynn! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 16, 2020
It's Valentine's Day. Galentine's Day & Singles Awareness Day, so Dean and Jared have a very special episode for the #SuckArmy! We've gathered a bunch of dating experts to all give us their top dating advice and we're talking to some of our favorite Bachelor Nation couples to do the same! Becca and Garrett, Ben Higgins and Jess, and our own Ashley and Jared and Dean and Caelynn! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 8, 2020
Dean and Tayshia host this week with Brooks Laich, Wells Adams and pro golfer Paige Renee. We're answering the most asked questions about dating! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 4, 2020
Ask yourself these three questions... Think of one thing in your relationship you want to improve What is the biggest flaw in your relationship? What is one thing you’d like your partner to work on? We gave Dean and Jared some homework to help identify potential issues in their relationships. Their answers may surprise you. Plus, Jared reveals that he and Ashley have considered going to couples therapy and Dean helps out someone dealing with severe trauma. And, Dr. Ish from Marriage Boot Camp is here to run drills on the Suck Army! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 4, 2020
Ask yourself these three questions... Think of one thing in your relationship you want to improve What is the biggest flaw in your relationship? What is one thing you’d like your partner to work on? We gave Dean and Jared some homework to help identify potential issues in their relationships. Their answers may surprise you. Plus, Jared reveals that he and Ashley have considered going to couples therapy and Dean helps out someone dealing with severe trauma. And, Dr. Ish from Marriage Boot Camp is here to run drills on the Suck Army! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 28, 2020
Tracy Shapoff from Colton’s season of The Bachelor is here with Dean and Jared! As a fashion expert, she gives the guys the real deal on fashion mistakes men make that turn women off. After we get an update on her dating life, she sticks around to help us answer YOUR relationship questions! We try to find out the best way to get closure with an ex, and Tracy tells us a story of a total nightmare date that involves an RV… much to Dean’s disappointment.   Plus the eternal question: how can you tell if a guy is interested??   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 28, 2020
Tracy Shapoff from Colton’s season of The Bachelor is here with Dean and Jared! As a fashion expert, she gives the guys the real deal on fashion mistakes men make that turn women off. After we get an update on her dating life, she sticks around to help us answer YOUR relationship questions! We try to find out the best way to get closure with an ex, and Tracy tells us a story of a total nightmare date that involves an RV… much to Dean’s disappointment.   Plus the eternal question: how can you tell if a guy is interested??   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 22, 2020
Dean reveals a very intimate change in his relationship with Caelynn and what it means for them going forward. Our Producer Torrie asks a question about texting and long distance relationships but then, Dean and Jared uncover a text flirtation she has with a very popular Bachelorette contestant. Find out who! Plus we hear which of Jared’s Bachelor friends he wants to set up. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 21, 2020
It's the same Arden you know and love but with an all new home! Check out Will You Accept This Rose? to get all that latest on your favorite reality dating series! Will You Accept This Rose? on iHeartRadio Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 14, 2020
Dean’s back! After he hobbles into the studio, he and Jared hang out with Kendall Long who’s become kind of a dating expert on her own! She tells us everything she’s learned from guiding people through a blind date on her podcast.   Relationship expert Tracy McMillan stops by to tell us why she supports arranged marriages and we hear some surprising information about humans and monogamy.   And have you ever hooked up with someone that kept wanting to stay friends? We have some incredible advice on how to find someone that is serious about being in a relationship! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 14, 2020
Dean’s back! After he hobbles into the studio, he and Jared hang out with Kendall Long who’s become kind of a dating expert on her own! She tells us everything she’s learned from guiding people through a blind date on her podcast.   Relationship expert Tracy McMillan stops by to tell us why she supports arranged marriages and we hear some surprising information about humans and monogamy.   And have you ever hooked up with someone that kept wanting to stay friends? We have some incredible advice on how to find someone that is serious about being in a relationship! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 7, 2020
Jared and Dean are back! Dean is still recovering from his skiing accident and he is giving us all the details. How he’s doing, how he’s healing, and what exactly happened on that mountain! Plus, we find out about how Caelynn is helping Dean through it all.   Corinne Olympios joins the Suck Army as our guest co-host! She tells us about her new boyfriend and how she landed him by making ALL the moves!   And from Marriage Boot Camp, Dr. Venus Nicolino stops by to breakdown some of the B.S. in relationships! Plus, she tells Jared about what she learned about him from meeting with Ashley privately, and it’s a SERIOUS bombshell. And finally, a surprise visit from Ben Higgins! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 6, 2020
It's a show about...SEX. You have questions ...we'll answer them. You are curious...we are here to encourage and enlighten.   Sex lowers stress, boosts overall health, and reduces anxiety. It connects us and brings us happiness. Why then, aren't we talking about it...and having more of it?! The show will cover EVERYTHING when it comes to sex, intimacy, and relationships.  Infidelity, Love at First Sight, from One Night stands to a 50 year Marriage. Is it Love or is it Lust? Once a Cheater always a Cheater? Can a marriage be saved when infidelity occurs? From Sexless marriages to how to keep the spice alive. Nothing is off limits. Join your friends, BROOKE BURKE, MEGHAN KING EDMONDS and Sex and Intimacy Coach Lila Darville for an honest discussion about a topic that is too often whispered about and ignored. This is Intimate Knowledge...a show about SEX. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
December 31, 2019
We check in with Dean after his ski accident and surgery.  What happened?! Will dean ever ski again? Where is Caelynn? And then, Suck Army get ready... our engineer Easton reveals his favorite HELP! episode of 2019. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
December 15, 2019
Katie Morton is back with us co-hosting. For the first time anywhere, she opens up about her break-up with Chris. We find out how she is doing, when she knew the engagement was falling apart and if she is ever going back on Paradise! And...It’s time for our holiday gift extravaganza! If you don’t know what to get your friends and family, we’ve got you covered! Dean, Jared and Katie will reveal and review the perfect Holiday options! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
December 10, 2019
Dean and Jared are together again and for the first time since Paradise, we’re with Katie Morton! Dean tells us about the headlines claiming that Caelynn ISN’T “the one” and he shares a HUGE milestone in their relationship!   John Kim “The Angry Therapist” helps us understand the stigma around therapy and he has some incredible advice for anyone who is waiting for their partner to propose.   Plus we hear from expert Simone Milasas about “National Dump Day” and how to be in a relationship that you actually LIKE Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
December 1, 2019
Sydney Lotuaco is here with Dean to try and figure out how to suck less at dating. We hear about some dates she’s been on since Paradise and she shares a WILD story about when too many gifts is a red flag.   And Mean Girls Star Jonathan Bennett stops by with his partner Jaymes Vaughn to tell us the secret to a strong relationship. We also hear about his new show “Holiday Wars” and he tells Dean why there are gingerbread houses… but no gingerbread vans!   Relationship expert Jill Gonzalez reveals which cities are the best… and WORST to date in and why. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 21, 2019
In today’s world of continuous negative news coverage, it can be hard to remember there is a lot of good in life. Love What Matters brings inspiring stories from real people far & wide to share love, kindness and compassion, and to remind us that good things don’t happen by default – they’re a daily choice that we make. Episode 1 of Love What Matters is now available. Listen here. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 18, 2019
What exactly is “breadcrumbing”?? Dean and Jared talk to expert Tracy Crossley who tells it like is but won’t leave us hanging. She has a challenge of a 30 day “emotional cleanse” and we’ll see who’s up for it! Plus Dean opens up about what he’s learned about Caelynn after living with her... in the van.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 11, 2019
Jared is back with guest co-host Katie Morton to help everyone stop sucking at dating. We called in some experts to help... Chris and Krystal! The happy couple opens up about their struggles with communicating and how daily affirmations have totally changed their relationship. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 6, 2019
He Said, Ella Dijo is HE SAID, SHE SAID like you won’t believe. Singer, Dancer, Actress Latina Superstar Roselyn Sanchez is quirky, fiery, and sassy. She met her match with straight - laced, Type A, perfectionist actor Eric Winter. Aries and Cancer do not make the perfect match but they are fighting the signs and have been together for fifteen years. When they say Opposites Attract… they were describing Roselyn and Eric. Who will win? Who will back down? We’re here for it…  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 4, 2019
Katie Morton is our guest co-host this week with Jared!  She tells us about the advice she gave Hannah B before she went on Dancing with the Stars and we get an inside look at Demi’s break-up with Kristian. And we hang with Grocery Store Joe and Kendall Long! They’re part owners of the new Seen dating app and we hear why dating might work better with zero privacy! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 4, 2019
Katie Morton is our guest co-host this week with Jared!  She tells us about the advice she gave Hannah B before she went on Dancing with the Stars and we get an inside look at Demi’s break-up with Kristian. And we hang with Grocery Store Joe and Kendall Long! They’re part owners of the new Seen dating app and we hear why dating might work better with zero privacy! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 30, 2019
Heather M “never been kissed “from Colton’s season is our guest cohost with Dean this week! She spills all about the real reason we didn’t see her in Paradise.  Dean is determined to find Heather a boyfriend, so we run a full dating profile on her. And Heather gets Dean to open up about the troubles he and Caelynn has early in their relationship.  Plus we talk to one of the Girls Next Door, Bridget Marquat, about her new role as a paranormal investigator!  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 21, 2019
Mark Walberg, host of Temptation Island is here with Dean, Vanessa & Jared! He shares his secrets to a happy marriage and some lessons he’s picked up along the way while on Temptation Island. And things get a little awkward when we hear the advice Mark gave his son and daughter about porn.  Plus, Vanessa has some big news that will change the podcast forever.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 15, 2019
Dean and Jared hang out with Bachelor fan and comedian Heather McDonald. And, as a die-hard Bachelor fan, Heather has some thoughts about Dean’s time on Paradise. (as well as Kim and Kanye's marriage...hmmmm) And we talk to David & Annie from 90 Day Fiance! Their love story brought them together from completely different parts of the world and they’re ready to share how they make it work between their two cultures.   Plus Dean has a DIRTY confession. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 7, 2019
Eric Winter and Roselyn Sanchez are complete opposites, but their 11 year marriage is stronger than ever! Dean and Jared try to figure out what their secret is and why they’re such a great example of “opposites attract”. We hear about their new podcast coming soon to iHeartRadio, “He Said, Ella Dijo”, and we hear about some of the challenges they face as a couple in the entertainment industry.     Plus Dean and Caelynn have their first joint interview as a couple! (sort of…) Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 1, 2019
Do you know how to spot a “bad boy red flag”? Amanda Stanton is the pro, and she helps Jared & Vanessa hone their detectors. We hear some WILD stories from her new book “Now Accepting Roses”   The ultimate matchmaker Patti Stanger lends her expertise to some burning relationship questions.   Plus we find out if Jared or Vanessa have ever “zombied” someone… or have they “Peek-a-boo’d”??? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
September 21, 2019
Dean and Jared are live from Planet Hollywood Resort & Casino in Las Vegas! Teddi Mellencamp from the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills is here to tell us about her brand new podcast where she goes down all the rabbit holes that catch her attention. She actually gets Dean and Jared to spill about the freaky stuff they like in the bedroom!   Teddi helps us answer some listener questions and we try to figure out if “friends with benefits” ever works.   Plus we hear how Dean is handling relationship life! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
September 16, 2019
One of our favorite guests Nicole Lapin is here to tell us about her new book “Becoming Superwoman” and has some UNBELIEVABLE advice on how find balance in your life. And we talk to the “Catfish” master Nev Schulman and his wife Laura Perlongo about their relationship advice series “We Need to Talk”. Find out why Laura thinks ghosting is a good thing!  Plus Dean gives us an update on #VanLife Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
September 10, 2019
Jared’s back from his honeymoon and Dean’s back on Paradise! We hear a ton of secret details from Jared’s wedding and honeymoon and he tells us the story of how he LOST his ring! Dean clears up some details about what happened with Caelynn and why he dumped her on her birthday. Plus we hear what happened during his time away from the beach. And we get an update on how things are going since Dean and Caelynn left Paradise. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
August 30, 2019
Annaliese Puccini has lost at love now THREE TIMES on Bachelor shows...but she stops by to see Vanessa and Dean LIVE at the SF GIANTS GAME to reveal how things have changed!  Maybe she doesn't suck at dating.... But first she tells us everything that went down with Chris Bukowski on Paradise. The Married Men from HOW MEN THINK are here to help the singles find love and consider settling down. Do you still think about your past loves even when you're in a relationship and is that ok???Does Dean like it when a woman is more successful than him...his answer may surprise you.  (He reveals something he finds SEXY) Does the cost of an engagement ring really matter?  Did Vanessa like the ring she received during the proposal on her Bachelor season? and Dean fills us in on what convinced him to return to Paradise. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
August 27, 2019
Things are starting to heat up for Dean on Bachelor in Paradise and he’s here to fill us in on what we didn’t see. He tells us who he confided in the most while on the beach.   Dean opens up about some of the Bachelor moments he was too embarrassed to watch on TV.   And we get his take on who will be the next Bachelor! Is he Team Derek? Or Team Pilot Pete??   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
August 19, 2019
Vanessa did some soul searching and made a list of the Top 5 lessons she’s learned about love since her last relationship and she’s ready to share all her tips!   Is it cheating to “Like” an Instagram picture of the opposite sex when you’re in a relationship? We look at both sides and try to figure it out.   Plus we talk to Ernestine Sclafani, wife of sports commentator Skip Bayless, about how to deal with the superstitions and quirks that come with a sports obsessed partner. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
August 14, 2019
Dean has made his appearance on Bachelor in Paradise and he’s here with Vanessa to fill us in on everything you DIDN’T see. He lets us in on his conversations with Kristina and what their relationship is like this time around.  And we hear all about Dean’s wedding weekend with Ashley and Jared… he almost missed the whole thing! Plus we break down Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth’s split Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
August 5, 2019
Bachelor in Paradise is back with a new season, so Dean brings Wells onto the show for a full preview of what goes down this year in Mexico. Wells tells us that something happens on this season that’s never happened before in Paradise history. Annaliese spills the tea on what happened with Kamil after he broke up with her last year. Tayshia gives us a sneak peek at the drama she gets into on her first season. And Caelynn tells us how her perspective has changed from Colton’s season to Paradise. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
July 30, 2019
Jared is in the final stages of wedding planning, and the recently married Krystal Nielsen is here to help make sense of some last minute dilemmas.   We hear about what went down at Jared’s bachelor party and why Dean wasn’t there.   And Krystal tells us why she’s not changing her last name to Randone. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
July 23, 2019
The gang is all together in Lake Tahoe, and Vanessa brought her boyfriend to meet her co-hosts for the first time!  This leads to a discussion on why its important for your significant other to mesh well with your friends. We address the caterpillar in the room… and we’re talking about Dean’s mustache. And Vanessa’s boyfriend pops a question live on the show that leaves everyone floored! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
July 17, 2019
Dean is back! We have a lot of questions for him after seeing his promo for Bachelor in Paradise.  Sean Lourdes and his fiancé Megan Thomas from “Marrying Millions” on Lifetime tell Dean, Vanessa & Jared how to know if someone is dating for love… or for money. And Tina Wilson, founder of the Wingman app, explains why a wingman is beneficial when dating. And why you should put your friends in charge of your love life Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
July 9, 2019
Bachelor alum Sadie Murray is with us and if anyone knows what its like to suck at dating, it's her. She was the O.G. Bachelor virgin and she shares with us what it was like for her virginity to be such a big part of the show. How's your Venmo etiquette? We talk to digital etiquette expert Mika Meier about the Dos and Don'ts of dating when it comes to apps and technology. She has some great advice for when you're blindsided by a Venmo request after a date. And we have an update on the "date vs not a date" discussion from last time.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 24, 2019
When is a date actually considered a date? That’s the question that Dean, Vanessa and Jared hope to solve for one of our producers. And for those recently dumped, Latreal Mitchell from Revenge Body on E! Is here with some tips for getting into the best shape of your life. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 18, 2019
Jared went to Chris and Krystal’s wedding down in Mexico, and is ready to spill all the details!  The cast of the new season of Bachelor in Paradise is out and we hear Dean, Vanessa and Jared’s initial thoughts on who’s hooking up with who.  And we talk to former Playboy Playmate Sunshine Shen about her spiritual awakening and what she’s learned about dating from living in L.A. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 16, 2019
Introducing Brooks Laich and Gavin DeGraw and HOW MEN THINK. We are opening the mind of the man for you and revealing HOW MEN THINK.You're finally going to get answers to all your questions. Be prepared to be surprised.  It’s honest... it's unexpected... it's raw... it’s How Men Think, an iHeartRadio podcast. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 10, 2019
Vanessa heard what Alex Bordyukov said about her on last week’s show, so we get him back on to clear the air about their “relationship”.   Then we talk to Vanessa’s friend Taylor Nolan about how to keep things spicy in a long distance relationship and it gets spicy! And while we’re settling issues about Alex, Caroline Lunny checks in. She dated Alex on Bachelor in Paradise: Australia and tells us what really went down.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 3, 2019
After Dean experiences some motorcycle trouble, he makes it to the studio with his friend from The Bachelorette Alex Bordyukov. Alex tells us about his experience on Bachelor in Paradise Australia, and he gives us some exclusive behind the scenes tea.  And we hang out with the host of "Unspouse My House" on HGTV, Orlando Soria, who has some simple tips people can follow to change their home after going through a breakup.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
June 3, 2019
Dean and Jared are backstage at iHeartRadio’s Wango Tango!  Bachelor villain Corinne Olympios is here to give us an update on her dating life! She’s in a long distance relationship, and she lets us in on how she makes it work.  Dean crawled out of his van to talk to Jared about their celebrity crushes and who Jared’s “hall pass” would be, and we hear some incredible advice on how to successfully slide into DMs! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 29, 2019
Dean and Jared have a lot of questions about sexual health, so they called in real life nurse and Bachelor alum Danielle Maltby to help shed some light!  She clears up a lot of confusion about HPV, birth control, and what to know if you think you have a sexually transmitted infection. Plus, we hear about some moves Dean has tried that the rest of the room can’t quite relate to. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 21, 2019
We are the most  personal and uncomfortable dating questions today.    When is the best time to tell the person you’re dating that you have kids, have been divorced, or have an STD? We get to the bottom of those tough conversations.   You asked...we answer! Dean lets us in on what he expects when he goes full #VanLife.     And after discussing some of Hannah B’s season of The Bachelorette, Dean tells us about his plans for Paradise, and we hear about his stint in prison! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 14, 2019
Dean, Jared & Vanessa keep finding ways to improve at dating, but maybe the best choice is no relationship at all. We talk to Brendon Watt, author of "Relationship, Are You Sure You Want One?".  Get rid of the "fairy tale complex", and find new levels of intimacy.  Then we hear from Brett and Devon Kolomyjec about their app "Happily", which is a one stop shop relationship resource.  Plus, Dean, Vanessa & Jared break down all the new guys on Hannah B's season of The Bachelorette. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
May 6, 2019
Everybody’s fist pumping when Vinny Guadagnino from Jersey Shore stops by.Vinny can relate to Dean, Jared and Vanessa now, because his new show Double Shot at Love is kind of like The Bachelor. Vinny tells us about how he defended Dean early on, and he reveals that he might even show up on Paradise! Plus, we talk to body language expert Katia Loisel, and find out how much you can learn about someone from the way they kiss.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 30, 2019
More people are meeting their partners over social media, so we try to figure out exactly what an attractive Instagram feed looks like. Ben Higgins met his new girlfriend after sliding into her DMs, so he lends his opinion to Jared, Vanessa & Dean.  Ben sticks around to help Jared and Vanessa smooth things over from last week’s talk about Jared’s wedding and who isn’t on the guest list. And we talk to Monica Berg, who describes herself as a “change junkie”. She’s written a new book called “Rethink Love”, which aims to tear down some of the myths about love and relationships. She has some incredible advice for Vanessa on how to keep from losing her identity to the person she’s dating. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 22, 2019
Jared’s wedding planning with Ashley continues but something is revealed that deeply upsets Vanessa. Meanwhile, Dean lets us in on some personal work he’s been doing and explains why he thinks he’s a better person when he’s single.  And we talk to psychotherapist Ken Page, author of Deeper Dating. He tells us about a meditation practice that’s easy to do, and will put you in the perfect headspace for meeting the right person.   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 15, 2019
Dean tells us he’s been feeling a lot healthier and confident lately, but to really evaluate what that means, we talk to “Possibilitarian” Cherie Healey. She helps Dean face some of his unprocessed grief from losing his mother, and she shares some incredible advice on how to deal with fear. Plus, Dean lets us in on a HUGE project he’s been working on, and we hear about how his Coachella trip has left him thinking about a recent ex girlfriend. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 8, 2019
The rumors are circulating that Dean is going back to Paradise, and he finally sets the record straight for you. He hints at a truly epic entrance, and tells us that this new season could completely change the way everybody looks at him.   We talk to model GiGi Gorgeous about her journey.  She tells us her theory on why transgendered dating is better than cisgendered dating. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
April 2, 2019
Dating coach Marni Battista joins us to share some advice on how to meet people that have "evolved" to a more serious level in relationships. And we tackle some dating issues from 3 different perspectives: a single person, someone in a committed relationship, and one in a new relationship. Also, we figure out the male equivalent to flowers... what's a quick gift you can get for your guy to show that you care and are thinking of him? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 26, 2019
It's a girls day on the podcast when Vanessa hangs out with her friend Mikaela Whightman from Bachelor Canada. Together, they tackle the question "can you ever be satisfied in love?" Reza Farahan from Shahs of Sunset stops by, and reveals why hands and teeth could be a clue to what kind of kisser you are. Plus, Vanessa opens up about her anxiety, and how she deals with panic attacks.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 19, 2019
Kimrie Lewis from Single Parents on ABC is hanging out with Dean, Jared & Vanessa, and all their worlds collide when they talk about the Single Parents/Bachelor crossover episode. Kimrie tells us about how her ex was the DJ at her wedding, but at the moment, Kimrie is painfully single, so we see if Dean or Jared can set her up with one of their Bachelor buddies.  Plus, we figure out why women feel heartbreak worse than men, and we get an inside update on Bachelor in Paradise from Dean, who spent some time with some of the guys recently.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 12, 2019
Dean’s back from another trip around the world!   Blake Hortsmann stops by the studio. Blake reveals if Bachelor Nation pals Jason Tartick and his new girlfriend Kaitlyn Bristowe have tried to hook him up with anybody.   We find out what’s been on his mind while watching Colton.  Dean and Colton both had a shot at being the Bachelor and they open up about that! And the story of Caelynn sliding into Dean’s DMs has been everywhere, so Dean has to set the record straight, and tell us all the dirty details of what went down in those messages. Then we welcome The Bubbies into the studio, and who better than Grandmas to help us STOP SUCKING AT DATING! They have some crucial words for Vanessa, who recently hit a huge milestone in her new relationship, and you don’t want to miss their answers to your dating questions! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
March 4, 2019
HOW DO YOU BUTTER YOUR BREAD?   Etiquette specialist Amy Rainer helps us understand the proper way to do it.  You might recognize Amy from Colton’s bread buttering on last week’s episode of The Bachelor. Did you know there’s a right and wrong way to pass the salt? She has some little known rules that may save your next date!  We play a round of “10 Questions with Vanessa Grimaldi”! And Dax Holt from TMZ and Access Live stops in to share some of his celebrity expertise, and the dos and don’ts for couples that want to share their relationship on Instagram. He warns us of  the effects a vacation (even a short one) can have on a relationship, then Jared and Vanessa open up about some of the crazier dates they went on during The Bachelor. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 25, 2019
Vanessa fills us in on her first Valentine’s Day with her new guy, and we hear about her clapback against a body shaming troll.  Plus, we talk to author Sabrina Must about her new book “A Terrible Dater”. With a title like that, she’ll fit right in on this podcast!  And life coach Mike Bauer introduces Vanessa and Jared to their alter egos... Barfola and Captain Suckbag! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 18, 2019
These days, it seems like dating apps are the best way to meet people, but our expert says that might not be true! Dean and Vanessa talk to Melissa Brown, CEO of “Its Just Lunch”, about the advantages of getting to know people in person instead of just chatting on apps. And if you think you’ve tried every dating gimmick, strap your skis on, and see what happens during “Chairlift Speed Dating”.   Then, Brittany Rose from Temptation Island stops by to talk about her experience on the show, and her intimate connection to Dean. Vanessa has some predictions for this new season, and we find out how Brittany really feels about the cast members after filming ended. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 11, 2019
Things get “twinteresting” when Dean and Jared hang out with Brittany and Briana, who are identical twins engaged to another set of identical twins, Jeremy and Joshua. They tell us all about their adorable proposal story, and we find out how strong the “twin bond” actually is. You can follow their entire wedding adventure on “Our Twinsane Wedding” on TLC.  Then Dean opens up about his own fears of infertility, and how he’s confronting that anxiety.  And we discuss the new menstruation emoji, and how far texting can go before it becomes cheating.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
February 6, 2019
Vanessa recently made it Instagram official with her new boyfriend, and she’s ready to open up to Dean and Jared about why this might be her most serious relationship yet.   Then Rob Mack from Famously Single on E! stops by. He’s a “love coach”, and once we find out what that is, he tells us all about how to find true happiness in a relationship, and he spills about some of the celebrity couples he’s worked with.    Plus, we check in with Bri from Colton’s season of The Bachelor, and we start the process of hooking her up with a member of Bachelor Nation she’s made no secret of crushing on.   And former Bachelor producer Naz Perez hangs out to tell us about her program called “Heartbroken Anonymous”, which is a support group for anyone going through heartbreak, even if it’s not related to love. And we don’t let her leave without telling us some crazy behind the scenes stories from The Bachelor. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 28, 2019
Kristen Doute from Vanderpump Rules stops by to hang with Dean and Vanessa… and she brought wine! After a couple glasses of her new “Witches of Weho” wine, she lets us in about some of the hookups that go down on the new season of Vanderpump Rules, and she bonds with Dean and Vanessa over life on reality TV.  Then we take a trip to the sunshine state, with Madisson Hausberg from Siesta Key! We talk to her about the challenges with having a long distance relationship, and we get a sneak peek into her love life on this upcoming season. Plus, Kelsey & Zach from Dating #NoFilter help us out with some dating terms, and they’re dissecting some texts from listeners to figure out where things went wrong! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 21, 2019
This week everyone focuses on an extremely important part of Vanessa’s anatomy… her ovaries. Vanessa’s been exploring the topic of freezing her eggs, so we talk to Bachelor alum Sadie Murray , who actually froze her eggs. She was also the original “Bachelor virgin”, so we get her take on Colton’s season and the unending virginity talk.   Then, we talk to Whitney Bischoff from Chris Soules’ season, who is a fertility specialist. She has some little-known information that women need to hear before they make any fertility decisions.   And Dean opens up about his plans to become a parent. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 15, 2019
Dean addresses his bombshell interview with Access Live and explains why he said Bachelor relationships aren't real.  Jared, who is in a Bachelor relationship of course disagrees with Dean, and they fight it out on the air. Then, former  Bachelorette contestant, Chad Johnson from  MTV's “Ex on the Beach” is coming by the studio.  Dean is NOT happy about it and considers not participating in the interview and discusses with Vanessa and Jared live, with Chad just steps away from the studio. And Mark L. Walberg, host of “Temptation Island” stops by to talk about all the craziness going down on the new season and why couples can come out stronger on the other side of this show.   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
January 8, 2019
Dean is back from the land down under, and he’s ready to talk all about everyone’s favorite subject… SEX. Dr Chris Donaghue, author of the book "Rebel Love", stops by to clear up some misconceptions about sex, including a MAJOR misunderstanding Dean has about the female anatomy.  We answer your burning questions, and some of them get REALLY down and dirty.  Then, we find out something about one of Dean’s exes that left him shook.  Plus, we find out if Dean or Vanessa had a New Year’s kiss! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
December 18, 2018
Dean’s back from his trip to South America! He’s got a bunch of stories from his adventures, and he finally some news from his dating life! Then, we hang out with relationship expert Hillary Goldsher (drhillarygoldsher.com), for some advice on how to get the most out of therapy. She also has some valuable resources people can check out before getting started with therapy. And she sticks around to lend her expertise to some relationship questions from our Facebook page. Plus, Vanessa tells us why she thinks she’s in her sexual prime, and we hear what Dean thinks about using sex toys. Brought to you by: AMAZON FIRE TV - Head to www.amazon.com/isuckpodcast to order a Fire TV of your very own STAMPS.COM - Enter dean for a special 4 week Trial THRIVE MARKET - Take an EXTRA 25% off your first order + free 30 day trial at THRIVEMARKET.COM/DEAN THIRD LOVE – Go to THIRDLOVE.com/VANESSA now to find your perfect-fitting bra… and get 15% off your first purchase! 23ANDME - get 30% off any 23andMe kit. Order your DNA kit at 23andMe.com/DEAN Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
December 11, 2018
Vanessa wants to clear up some rumors that have been circulating about her romantic life with a member of Bachelor Nation, and we hear about Jared’s experience as a Chippendale’s dancer, and his first time being spray tanned. Then matchmaker and relationship expert Susan Trombetti (exclusivematchmaker.net) stops in to share some tips on how to tell if you’re being cheated on, and how to know you’re getting to know the “real” person you’re dating. Plus, she’s a Bachelor fan! She shares her expert analysis on Vanessa’s break up with Nick. And we hear some intimate details about Vanessa, her bedroom, and costumes. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
December 3, 2018
Jared and Vanessa meet up to talk about Lauren Bushnell’s new boyfriend, country singer Chris Lane, and it leads to a conversation about if you should give an ex a heads up before “going public” with a new relationship. Then Youtuber Brittani Louise Taylor stops by, and shares her absolutely wild story about the worst relationship in history. She has some dating lessons she learned from being involved with a manipulative and dangerous person. And she helps break down the differences between dating apps, and when is the best time to tell someone you’re dating that you have a child. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 26, 2018
This week, Dean and Vanessa are ready to get real about sex. Intimacy expert Alanna Pratt is on to help Vanessa work through a situation with her recent ex, and they discuss if monogamy can actually work in a relationship.  Dean opens up about his love life, and we hear the (sometimes) awkward argument of why Vanessa thinks she’s great in bed. And she spills a few secrets about the more intimate moments she shared with Nick Viall. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 13, 2018
This week, Dean, Vanessa and Jared are answering all the questions listeners have submitted to them over social media. And here to help them make sense of it all is Possibilitarian Cherie Healey (www.cheriehealey.com). She helps us understand what it means to be “stuck in your own head”, and she really helps Dean figure out what type of communication is appropriate with an ex. Jared opens up about his plans with Ashley after they get married, and the group gives some really great advice for dating as an introvert.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
November 5, 2018
Dean, Vanessa and Jared talk about the big news in Bachelor Nation: the break-up of Shawn Booth and Katilyn Bristowe. They each have a unique perspective, because Jared is friends with Shawn, Vanessa is friends with Kaitlyn, and Dean knows nothing about either one! Then, our podcast threesome talks about Frankie Grande and his “throuple”. Vanessa recently admitted she’d try a threesome, but would she be into a “threelationship”? And we get Dean’s honest thoughts on what’s going on between Blake Hortsmann and Kristina Schulman. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 30, 2018
Dean, Vanessa and Jared gets some life altering tips on how to remove stress and anxiety from their lives from Lauren Berger, who is the author of the book “Get it Together!”. She also has some advice on how to better handle rejection, which anyone who is in the dating world can benefit from. Then Dean wants to reach out to an ex he hasn’t spoken to since they broke up. What’s the etiquette on that?? Should it ever be done? And Vanessa spills some secrets about what she’s open to “intimately”, and we hear about Jared’s first visit to a sex shop. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 22, 2018
Vanessa gets honest and real in this episode, and talks all about the new man in her life, and how she felt "fighting the fizzle" in her last relationship. And she really opens up about the incredibly emotional topic of having kids. But she's got some help to lead her in the right direction, when Elle from the Mend app stops by, and we get a visit from Dr. Jennifer Freed, a psychological astrologer. She gives Vanessa some incredible advice on what she needs to do to meet her future husband. And her friend Brandi Cyrus hangs out too, to talk about her experiences on dating apps, and what it's like moving to Denver, Colorado, a city with a TON of single guys.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 15, 2018
Dean and Vanessa learn all about the troubles with tech addiction from Jedidiah Bila, who just wrote a book about taking back your life from your cell phone. She tells this INSANE story of finding her boyfriend had a totally separate life that she didn’t know about, until she looked through his phone. Then we hear from matchmaker Susan Trombetti, who has advice for how women can stay safe while dating, and some simple tips to avoid putting yourself in dangerous situations. And we get a long awaited and in depth update on the new man in Vanessa’s dating life! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 8, 2018
Dean, Jared and Vanessa are bringing in the big guns this week, and have 2 major experts in matchmaking to help everyone suck less at dating. We talk to Pastor Cal from Married at First Sight, about the most important factors that make up successful relationships, and he gets real about how important personal faith is in relationships. Then we talk to Eileen from Elite Connections, and she shares the rules she’s come up with for your relationship to last. She tells us how important it is to be friends first with people you date, and explains how emojis can kills relationships. And we do a round of rapid fire dating questions with Dean and Vanessa, and hear about who they’ve been dating. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
October 2, 2018
This week, we’re getting down and dirty about sex! YouTube superstar Laci Green is hanging out to give some much needed advice to Dean and Jared about how to have better sex, and she gives Dean some pointers on how to dirty talk. And, she gets Jared to open up about his sex life with Ashley! Then, Jared and Dean discuss if it’s ever helpful to go on “a break” when you’re having relationship troubles, and we hear about what it was like when their names first got released for The Bachelorette. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
September 22, 2018
Dean and Jared are live from the pool at the Planet Hollywood Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas! It gets rowdy when Jason Tartick stops by, and we hear about what it’s like dating after The Bachelorette, and what his go to “opening line” is.  And Blake Horstmann is hanging out too, and he spills the best way to get him to respond to a DM.  Then we do a round of Rapid Fire Questions: Vegas edition.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
September 18, 2018
We have a big surprise in store for Dean this week, and it puts him face to face with one of his biggest passions. Then, we get therapist Haley Hewitt in studio, for a brainspotting session with Dean. We hear the results of their off-air meeting, and he has a huge breakthrough about his past that helps him understand his behavior.   And we talk to Samantha Hess, who is a master cuddler, about the world of professional cuddling and she fills us in on the best ways to cuddle. Plus, we get a full recap of Dean’s date with Tanya Rad! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
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