097: How to support gender-creative children
Published August 19, 2019
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    Recently a listener posted a question in the Your Parenting Mojo Facebook group asking about research related to children who are assigned to one gender at birth, but later realize that this assigned gender doesn’t match the gender they experience.
    Another listener recommended Dr. Diane Ehrensaft’s book The Gender-Creative Child, and we are fortunate that Dr. Ehrensaft quickly agreed to speak. Listener Elizabeth co-interviews with me as we learn how to truly listen to our children when they tell us about their gender, and what we can do to help them navigate a world full of people who may know very little about – and even fear – children whose gender does not conform to expectations.
    While we didn’t get a chance to discuss it (too many other topics to cover!), you might also be interested to learn about the “They-by” movement, which advocates for allowing children to choose their own gender when they feel the time is right, rather than the parents assigning a gender at birth based on the child’s genetalia.
    Here are some especially recommended resources:
    Human Rights Campaign’s Guide on supporting transgender children: https://assets2.hrc.org/files/documents/SupportingCaringforTransChildren.pdf?_ga=2.156922811.1499059672.1559845994-1938179427.1559845994
    Recommended books for children – for ALL children, not just those actively exploring their gender identity (note: these are affiliate links):
    10,000 Dresses
    The Adventures of Tulip, Birthday Wish Fairy
    My Princess Boy
    The Paperbag Princess
    Mama, Mommy, and Me
    Daddy, Papa, and Me
    Who Are You? The Kid’s Guide to Gender Identity
    I am Jazz
    Julian is a Mermaid
    Introducing Teddy
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