Hosted by Psychologist turned Life Coach, Kate Snowise, Here to Thrive is a practical show about creating and living a fulfilling life. It mixes Positive Psychology with Wisdom + Modern Spiritual Thought, always with a focus on sharing information that will help you create a personally meaningful and fulfilling life. If you're into self-help and enjoy the likes of Gabby Bernstein, Brene Brown & Elizabeth Gilbert you'll likely have some fun here too.The show is practical in that it will include plenty of tips and tricks that you can apply to your own life to feel more happy in your heart. It focuses on achieving balance, finding peace, and discovering our personal power. It is a show is for those of us who are not content with living a shallow life but rather are ready to focus on our personal and soul growth and development.Disclaimer:All podcasts and interviewed guests reflect opinions only. By accessing this information, you waive and release Kate Snowise & Thrive.How, LLC to the full extent permitted by law from any and all claims relating to the usage of the material made available through this podcast. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Dr. Lindsay Weisner, and she is the co-author of a book with Selene Castrovilla called 10-Steps to Finding Happy which is due to be released on March 20th which is the United Nations International Day of Happiness.Now this was recorded well before Coronavirus was even a thing. It’s amazing how things can turn on their heads! So some of our comments you may look at through a different lens now that we’re living with more uncertainty.Lindsay is a psychologist who specializes in teenagers with suicidal ideation. We’ll talk a little bit more about that in here. Alongside that conversation though is one about what makes us happy? And why we aren’t necessarily as happy as we could be. Specifically we’ll touch on:· How technology is interrupting our lives, and stopping us from being present in the here and now (news notifications anyone?)· How perhaps we really are more stressed out these days· How every generation has their “mess of garbage” to deal with· How we are likely bringing more psychological baggage into our lives than previous generations· How expectations of happiness can lead to disappointment· And the importance of living an active over a passive life.You can pre-order 10-Steps to happy before 20th March. But also remember, 20th March is United Nations International Day of Happiness. We need it this year…so spread so happy around dear people.Dr. Lindsay Wesiners book 10-Steps to Happy is going to be released on 20th March. If you enjoyed her upbeat vibe, you can also listen to her podcast which is Neurotic Nourishment. If you want to track down Lindsay and learn more about her work, therapy etc. you can follow her at @PsychShinkMom, and she practices out of Hewlett New York. For information regarding your data privacy, visit Acast.com/privacy
Kate Litterer is a productivity researcher and coach who specializes in intentionality, habit formation, mindfulness, and slow living. Her clients range from PhD students to tenure track professors to self-employed creatives.In this episode, we cover so much about how you can work smarter, so that you have more time to truly live, rest and love. Specifically we talk through:Parkinson's Law (how we will use whatever time we have to do a task)The Planning Fallacy (how we often underestimate time resources needed which leads to overcommitting)Pomodoro Technique for Enhanced ProductivityWorkaholismRecognizing our Invisible Labor as still EffortfulHow to set Boundaries with Ourselvesand more.This is a podcast with hacks to help you better manage your time and your restoration.This is a podcast with hacks to help you better manage your time and your restoration. Find Kate @ www.katelitterer.com or www.thetendingyear.com The list of books she mentioned: Counterproductive by Melissa Gregg: https://www.amazon.com/Counterproductive-Time-Management-Knowledge-Economy/dp/1478000902How to do Nothing by Jenny Odell: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Nothing-Resisting-Attention/dp/1612197493How to Not Always Be Working by Marlee Grace: https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Always-Working-Creativity/dp/0062803670The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin: https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Project-Revised-Aristotle-Generally/dp/0062414852 For information regarding your data privacy, visit Acast.com/privacy
Nancy Levin is a Master Coach and bestselling author of several books including her latest, Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free. Formerly the Event Director at Hay House for over a decade, Nancy is the creator of Levin Life Coach Academy, and offers in-depth coaching and training programs designed to support clients in making themselves a priority and setting boundaries that stick. In this episode we dive deep into the concept of boundaries, including:What a boundary isHow to know when you've allowed yours to be crossedHow we cannot heal, fix, save, rescue othersWhat selfish, self-love and self-care have in commonAuthenticity in our relationships, and what that looks likeThe danger of addiction to external validation and approvalUndoing do-it-all-doormat syndromeAnd so much moreYou can learn more about Nancy here: https://www.nancylevin.com/And grab her excellent new book, Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free here: Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free
We're often told to "find our passion" but what does that even mean? Using Dr. Amy Wrzesniewski's 3 career orientations, I talk about the different ways we can approach our work, and how we can move towards a great sense of personal meaning in what we do.I mention being curious, and Elizabeth Gilbert's excellent talk on this, The Flight of the Hummingbird. You can find that here: http://www.oprah.com/video_embed.html?article_id=59798I also talk of discovery in the bookstore exercise suggested in Martha Beck's audible workshop lecture series. You can find that here: Follow Your North Star.--To find the facebook community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/heretothriveTo find Kate on Instagram:https://instagram.com/kate.snowiseTo sign up for emails:www.thrive.how/freebie
Kate Crocco, MSW, LCSW, is a psychotherapist, confidence and mindset coach and writer who mentors female leaders around the globe. She has coached thousands of women through one-on-one, group, and mastermind programs, as well as through her Confident Ladies Club community. Her first book (of two), Thinking Like a Boss is releasing February 2020! Kate currently resides in New York with her husband, her two sweet girls, and her rescue pup, Turbo.>> to view notes online: www.thrive.how/podcast130Wow. This episode with Kate actually woke me up big time. As I prepped for it I started to wonder if I was using the excuse – I just don’t have enough time – to postpone working on the goals that mattered most to me. This discussion with Kate challenged me to look closer at my own life to see why I was using that excuse. What was the real block that was holding me back. So spoiler alert – this doesn’t sound like a therapy session, it sounds like an interview…but it is absolutely the beginnings of me having a personal breakthrough. I am so very grateful for Kate Crocco!In this episode we’re talking about confronting the excuses that are keeping you stuck. We deep-dive into that pesky excuse of “If only I had enough time” and look at it in detail. We also discuss:The power of looking at the unconscious beliefs behind your excusesHow we often have to be the cheerleader of our own dreamsHow it’s important to look at what we are prioritizingand how Consistency is the key to confidenceThe book she mentions in the podcast as a favorite read is: The Power of Broke by Daymond John—-To learn more about Kate, head to >> www.katecrocco.comTo grab your copy of her new book, Thinking Like a Boss: Uncover and Overcome the Lies Holding You Back from Success, head here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0801094763/?ref=idea_lv_dp_ov_d&tag=aiponsite-20&linkCode=ic6&ascsubtag=amzn1.ideas.1V8W3RKZ67PJ6
This is a quick overview of the Free 2020 Planning Guide I have created for Here to Thrive listeners. It is the same process I take my clients through, I do this myself! and I wanted to share it with you. You can grab your guide here: www.thrive.how/freebieThis process shouldn't take any longer than a couple of hours, but will make you feel so much clearer about what you want from 2020 and how you're going to approach it.
In this episode, Kate shares the three practices she has that help keep her in touch with her inner voice.She references:Meditones (Sonesence): https://www.sonesence.com/Insight Timer - Teacher, Allison Serour: https://insig.ht/B6cLB1iUP1Julia Cameron - The Artist's Way: Book on AmazonCoaching with Kate: www.thrive.how
In this episode, Kate shares the three practices she has that help keep her in touch with her inner voice. She references: Meditones (Sonesence): https://www.sonesence.com/Insight Timer - Teacher, Allison Serour: https://insig.ht/B6cLB1iUP1Julia Cameron - The Artist's Way: Book on AmazonCoaching with Kate: www.thrive.how
Monica Berg is full of grounded wisdom. This conversation we touch on so many points, but we focus on the difference between Ego & Soul Consciousness. You can find Monica at: www.rethinklife.todayLearn more about Kabbalah at: https://kabbalah.com/enTo learn more about the host Kate: www.thrive.how
In this episode Kate is sharing a Taoist parable that tells the story of the Maybe Principle. It demonstrates the power in suspending judgement around our experience, recognizing that life is full of ups and downs, and that often our heartache holds the seed of our greatest blessings.To read the parable, you can head to this site: http://truecenterpublishing.com/zenstory/maybe.htmlTo learn more about the host Kate Snowise and her work, head here: www.thrive.how
Shannon Kaiser is a leader in the self-help space. Her books to date include: Find Your Happy, Adventures for Your Soul, Find Your Happy Daily Mantras, The Self-Love Experiment and her latest release - Joy Seeker. In this episode we're talking about the concept of authenticity, and how we can live a personally meaningful life that is authentically aligned. We cover a lot of concepts in this conversation, but they include: The power in letting go and surrenderFear, and how our dreams can scare usHow having fixed expectations can harm usWhat life looks like when we focus more on making meaning than achieving goalsSelf-Actualization and Self-TranscendenceCourage...and all the things in between. To get a copy of Shannon's latest book, you can head to Amazon: https://amzn.to/2pp6kreTo learn more about Shannon: www.playwiththeworld.comTo learn more about Kate, and see her list of recommended reads and Here to Thrive guest books, head here: www.thrive.how/shop
How can we choose courage over comfort more often? And why would we want to? This episode I define courage, talk through why you might want it, discuss how you can live courageous and the hacks that it takes, and also touch on what to do when you have to pick yourself back up. It has specific action points to help you truly live with more courage. I share a personal note about a dear friend of mine - Nora Guise - at the end of the podcast interview. Nora is a 6-year old fighting for her life and has been accepted into a ground-breaking immunotherapy trial in Houston where they are using CAR-T therapy on a solid tumor cancer. This is the very edge of current cancer treatment. Nora is advancing medicine. This final note some people may find triggering so I want to make it explicit here. If you would like to support Nora and her family, here is the link: Join Nora's ArmyIf you have any trouble, you can search "Nora Guise givealittle" and her donation page will pop up. Thank you so much in advance.
Today’s guest is Dr. Judy Ho. She is triple Board-Certified Clinical, Forensic, and Neuropsychologist, with a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and co-host of CBS's Face the Truth w/ Vivica A. Fox —has the answer. She also a frequent guest on the show The Doctors. Dr. Judy defines self-sabotage as being when we get in the way of the goals we set for ourselves and the things we say we want. It is the thoughts and behaviors that undermine our best intentions. Her book – Stop Self Sabotage – is out now. In it, she outlines a a six-step program for getting out of your own way and reaching your most-desired goals in love, work, health, and all aspects of life. In today’s episode we touch on a lot, but in particular we talk about a few ways in which people often self-sabotage including: - In our careers- When it comes to food & health- And in our relationships---References from in episode: Dr. Judy shares her 4-part acronym – LIFE - that are the causes of self-sabotage. She has found that usually we are self-sabotaging because of one of the following:L: Low Self-EsteemI: Internalized BeliefsF: Fear of the UnknownE: Excessive Need for ControlShe also mentions the book, The Happiness Trap, by Russ Harris which is based on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. You can find that here> Kate's Favorite Books on Psychology & CoachingThe book by her bedside is called The Way of Kings. You can find that here > Way of KingsTo purchase Dr. Judy's book, head here > Stop Self-SabotageYou can find show notes in blog form at www.thrive.how/podcast123To learn more about Dr. Judy: www.drjudyho.com** This post contains affiliate links.
In this episode Kate is discussing the difference a little positive momentum can have, especially when we're considering the trajectory your life is on and where you'll be in 1, 2, or 5 years if you keep on the same path. Specifically this episode discusses: The Spiral of MomentumThe difference between Positive, Stagnant and Negative momentumWhat to do when you recognize you've fallen into a negative spiralAnd so much more. To learn more about Kate, her one-to-one coaching or her group workshops, head to www.thrive.howTo leave a review in iTunes head to www.thrive.how/reviewAnd to find Kate on Instagram: https://instagram.com/kate.snowise
Jordan Reid is the coauthor of - The Big Activity Book for Anxious People. I wanted to talk to her not about the theory of anxiety, but the experience of it, and that is what this episode is all about. We talk about anxiety in the context of Love, Life, Parenting and the big issues like our own mortality and the fear of losing those we love. We discuss what is helpful in terms of advice, and ALL the things that really do not help, even when people mean well. Jordan is open, honest and real about what it is like to live with and navigate anxiety. You can find more about her at Ramshackle Glam: www.ramshackleglam.com and her Big Activity Book for Anxious People at Amazon here.---To learn more about the host Kate and her Coaching & Workshops, head here: www.thrive.how
Kate Northrup is a bestselling author, speaker and mother who has built a digital empire alongside her husband Mike Watts. She leads women entrepreneurs to experience less stress and more financial success through her Origin Collective community. You can check that out at origincollective.com or learn more about Kate and her books at Katenorthrup.comIn this podcast, we’re talking about the concepts from her second book called Do Less, including:how we’re living overscheduled lives full of of busyworkhow motherhood stopped Kate in her tracks and required that she change how she approach her time managementhow there is more than one way for us to perceive timehow women are particular are shocking over-givers (but that is because of our estrogen dominant mind)www.katenorthrup.com & www.origincollective.comTo review the podcast: www.thrive.how/review
Amy E. Smith is...We touch on parts of Amy's personal story, as well as:What People-Pleasing is (and the not so common ways it can manifest)How you can set boundaries (without being a dick)How being worried about what other people think of you takes you away from your truthAmy also shares her 3-part method to boundary making:Decide. Get specific about what you need.Deliver. Be conscious of your tone of voice. Vulnerability for the win.Enforce. You will be required to enforce your boundary. Hopefully only once, but there has to be repercussions if your line is crossed.There is so much more to our conversation! We talk Soul, Fulfillment and Amy's bedside table. You'll have fun.Amy mentions one of her favorite books: Come As You Are by Emily Ngaoski. Emily's second book is, Burnout.To learn more about Amy and her work over at the Joy Junkie, head over to: https://thejoyjunkie.com/---To learn more about the host of the show, Kate, and her Corporate Workshops, Speaking and One-to-One Coaching, head to www.thrive.how
Habits are not all made equal. Some have the power to start a chain-reaction and cause ripple effects of positive change in our lives. Others have less of an effect. Charles Duhigg in his book – The Power of Habit – talks to the impact identifying and focusing on your Keystone habits can have in your life.Firstly, if you work in the People Field, you need to check out the Culture First Summit: https://culturefirst-2019.splashthat.com/Use the code KateSnowise40 for 40% off your ticket, and I'll see you there!I like the easiest route to positive change in life, and utilizing the power of keystone habits is one way we can minimize effort and up the positive momentum in our lives. Rather than relying on willpower, if we can focus on a couple of formative habits and harness their power.In this episode we cover:What a Keystone habit isHow the ripple-effect of positivity plays outExamples of keystone habitsHow you can identify your own keystone habitsTo learn more about Kate, the host of Here to Thrive and her work head here: www.thrive.howTo find Kate's Amazon Reading List: www.thrive.how/shopCharles Duhigg’s article on Life Hacker: https://lifehacker.com/the-right-habits-5896846
Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global leading expert in mindfulness, meditation, relationships, and wellbeing. For two decades, Terri has worked with some of the world’s most well-known personalities from international pop stars to Fortune 500 CEOs. She empowers over 100,000 women weekly through her platform, online community + popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show.This is an episode that covers so many fascinating topics, while also covering Terri's personal story.We're talking about what real love is and what it is not. This episode launches straight into the big stuff so be prepared. Some of the things discussed:What Codependency is and how it manifestsThe importance of self-awarenessHow women are often prone to what Terri calls "overfunctioning"How we can work towards creating real love in our relationships with ourselves and othersTo learn more about Terri Cole, head to www.terricole.comTo join the Here to Thrive facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/heretothriveFind Kate on Instagram! https://instagram.com/kate.snowise and remember to use the hashtag #heretothrive
In this episode, Kate discusses the concept of a mind-diet. It covers how important it is to nourish our mind with positive thoughts and the impact it can have in your life. Kate then goes on to provide 4 simple and practical ways you can improve your mind-diet.Article mentioned on Elephant Journal: https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/07/why-i-no-longer-watch-the-news-what-i-do-instead/For book recommendations & Values Identification Kitwww.thrive.how/shophttps://instagram.com/kate.snowise & hashtag: #heretothrive (use it too!!!!)
Maxie McCoy is a Author, Speaker (who rocks hot pink) and Inspirational Leader here to help other women rise into their potential. Author of the book - You're Not Lost - Maxie has navigated her fair share of career change and uncertainty. From starting out with big dreams that she quickly found she didn't actually want to pursue, to making her own way through "lost" to contented...and then daring to go out and do her own thing.She is full of practical advice. To find Maxie, head to www.maxiemccoy.comOn Instagram: https://instagram.com/maxiemcoyand come find Kate too while you're there! https://instagram.com/kate.snowiseTo learn more about Kate & her coaching, speaking and corporate workshops, head to www.thrive.how
This episode is for you if you find yourself confused about what you want in life, or have that sense of feeling lost, disconnected or off-track.I'll share with you the power of Self-Discovery and how getting to know yourself is the best starting point for starting to uncover what it is you really want in life. I'll go through three tips to help you focus your efforts and dig deep - because you have the answers you seek within you, it's just a matter of uncovering them.I mention the free Self-Discovery journal prompts I have on my website. Head here to grab those >> www.thrive.how/freeI also mention my newly released Values Identification Self-Coaching Kit which is available for purchase at >> https://www.thrive.how/shop/Finally, want to know my favorite books and have a simple place to find ALL of the epic books by Here to Thrive guests? Head to my book reading list here too >> www.thrive.how/shopIf you loved this episode, don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss the good stuff in the future! Leaving a review is always super appreciated too xx
I have increasingly seen Ayurveda referred to in Health & Wellness circles, but had no idea what is was. Then I met Dr. Sarah Kucera and she has opened my eyes to this logical way of looking at our wellness in life.Sarah is the author of the newly released Ayurvedic Self-Care Handbook. This is a manual that you will refer back to time and time again, and it is truly the most beautiful book I can remember seeing in years. Find a copy here:https://www.amazon.com/Ayurvedic-Self-Care-Handbook-Holistic-Healing/dp/1615195432In this episode we talk about:What Ayureveda isThe 3 Doshas or bodily constitutions (I'm Pitta)How living in line with natural cycles benefits us, and how we can do it moreSimple practices that most of us will benefit fromHow we can hack our daily routine for optimal well-beingWhat working late at night is doing to our systemAnd so much moreTo learn more about Dr. Sarah Kucera head to www.sarahkucera.com or her practice Sage Center for Yoga & Healing Arts in Kansas City: https://www.experiencesage.com/To learn more about Kate, head to www.thrive.how and p.s. use the #heretothrive on Insta! Let's connect.
Tara is a Writer, Speaker and Self-Care Coach who holds a Masters in Human Development. She is also a mother of two and we talk about the importance of self-care for mothers in this episode. Tara is eloquent and knowledgable. The way she discusses self-care really brings it home for me. I hope you feel the same way.If you’d like to know more about Tara, her online courses or her coaching group, head to theselfcaresuite.comAs a sneak peek of what you can expect, we’re talking:- About the importance of knowing our care instructions (gosh…this one landed with me hard!)- How there are different types of self-care; the pampering side but also the self-respect and boundaries element which can be harder to implement- How when we’re setting boundaries, it isn’t the setting that is important, but the enforcing of them- How we can support ourselves in new motherhoodTo learn more about the host, Kate, head to www.thrive.how
Ruby Warrington is a British Writer & Thought Leader who resides in Brooklyn, New York. In 2012 she launched a spiritual lifestyle platform for the New Age life called – The Numinous. She is also the co-creator of the event series Club Soda NYC and has a spiritual coaching program called Moon Club. Ruby is the bestselling author of the book, Material Girl, Mystical World and her second book Sober Curious has just been released. To grab your copy of Sober Curious, head here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0062869035/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0I wanted to talk to Ruby as I think in the Health & Wellness space, there is an increasing interest in being more mindful about the way we approach our lives, and I wanted to know how that extended to alcohol. You’ll hear in this interview that my best friend stopped drinking in 2018 and that brought the question about my own relationship with alcohol to the forefront too. Ruby starts with a really simple but HUGELY powerful question – “would my life be better without alcohol?” and discusses how that made her get curious. Today we’re talking about how you can explore that question for yourself, and what that might mean. Our discussion includes: -How being sober curious is all about questioning-How most drinkers are drinking by default or habitual drinking, rather than consciously drinking-How alcohol contributes to anxiety, exhaustion, disturbed sleep, and more-That perhaps life isn’t supposed to be comfortable, and what that means-The 5 different kinds of problem drinkers and how the black/white idea of problem drinking may be outdated-How you can actually survive parties being sober-Healthier ways we can escape and revive from the daily grind of lifeTo find out more about Ruby, head to: www.rubywarrington.com or www.the-numinous.com.To keep up with the Club SODA NYC events, head here: https://www.clubsoda.nyc/events/The TIME article with the 5 Different Categories of Problem Drinking: http://time.com/5464477/types-of-alcohol-use-disorder/---To learn more about Kate, the host of Here to Thrive: www.thrive.how---
Ali Katz is the bestselling author of three books, Hot Mess to Mindful Mom, Getting the Most out of Motherhood & her new book One Minute to Zen where she shares 35 simple ways to bring yourself back to center in one minute or less. As Redbook described it, “this guidebook to daily zen features 35 bite-sized lessons that show you how to create mindfulness amidst the day-to-day of being a parent.”Ali is a Meditation Teacher, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Medium and Speaker. You’ll hear more about how to keep your zen on and more in this interview. If you want to find Ali, you can head to www.hotmesstomindfulmom.comOne Minute to Zen book: https://www.amazon.com/One-Minute-Zen-Mess-Mindful-ebook/dp/B0794F29P6
Kristen shares a perspective on marriage that is refreshing, yet not as common as I believe it needs to be. Her story is unique, but the lessons she shares are not. She is a Life Coach and host of the podcast, Show Up & Love. She has also had her thoughts featured in The New York Times, MindBodyGreen and more.In this episiode, we're talking about how we can communicate meaningfully with the people that matter in our lives, how we can step out of the need to be right, and how important it is that we take responsibility for our happiness.If you're in a relationship or someday hope to be, this one is full of goodness. The wisdom Kristen shares is unmistakable. Listen closely and soak it in.Other noted points include:What radical responsibility is and how we can live itRecognizing that your spouse or partner sees the world differently to you, and that is okayHow you might be undermining connection with your partnerThe power in taking ownership and how we can do thatThe danger in looking to blameHow we can avoid falling into victim-mode in our relationshipsHow judgment keeps us separated from one anotherHow Compassion & Curiosity can be anchors in our relationships with othersKristen an be found at www.kristenfinch.comYou can read Kristen's Modern Love essay in the New York Times here: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/07/style/modern-love-aspergers-diagnosis.htmlWe also discuss her husband's New York Times Bestselling book: The Journal of Best Practice, a Memoir of Marriage, Asperger Syndrome and Ones Man's Quest to be a Better Husband. You can find that here: https://www.amazon.com/Journal-Best-Practices-Marriage-Asperger/dp/1439189749
Denise Duffield-Thomas is a well-known leader in the money mindset space, especially in the female entrepreneur circles. She’s an Aussie mom of three who has managed to build a highly successful business teaching other women how to master their money mindsets and create lives of abundance. She has written bestselling books including the super catching title – Get Rich Lucky Bitch.We’re also talking about the concepts she shares in her new book, Chillpreneur, which is due to be released Feb 2019. She’s an inspiring example of the idea that it doesn’t have to be that hard, and she confesses to being someone who likes to find the path of least resistance.Some of the additional things we touch on:· What a Money Mindset Mentor is· How Denise is moved by empowered women, and how important a feeling of independence is for us· How she set up her business to reflect her strengths· How important it is to uncover our Money Stories and to go back and uncover our money beliefs· What happened when she lost focus in her business· How Manifesting isn’t Magic· And so much more!You can find out more about Denise and her Money Bootcamp at www.denisedt.comTo pre-order a copy of Chillpreneur so you’re one of the first to get it when it is released, head here: https://www.amazon.com/Chillpreneur-Creating-Success-Freedom-Abundance/dp/1788172035/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1542666850&sr=8-1&keywords=chillpreneurFor Denise’s other books, head here: https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1?ie=UTF8&text=Denise+Duffield+Thomas&search-alias=books&field-author=Denise+Duffield+Thomas&sort=relevancerankIf you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to subscribe above and write a quick review! We do it for you :)To learn more about Kate, the host of Here to Thrive, head to www.thrive.how
We're back! Here to Thrive is back for Season 2.That season break wasn't intentional. In this episode Kate is going back over the journey she has been travelling over the last few months, after being diagnosed with Breast Cancer in July.She's talking about how she was diagnosed, her surgery choices, and recovery.To learn more about Kate or send her a message inquiring about Corporate Workshops or Coaching, head to hear website: www.thrive.howTo get your free Life Planning Kit: www.thrive.how/free
If you wanted to know more about Crystals, don't go any further than here. Heather Askinosie and Timmi Jandro have had their Crystal Business - Energy Muse - for over 18 years! But Heather has been studying the power of gems and stones for 27 years. Let's just say, they know their stuff. They are also the co-authors of a powerful new book, Crystal Muse, that is full of rituals and information to help you use crystals and your own guidance to deepen your connection to both yourself and life. We talk through so many things in this interview including: How they got into the Crystal business, all those years ago when it was underground and not cool like it is todayHow we can choose crystals that work for us (including off the internet!)The different ways which you can cleanse a crystal before you work with itSome suggested crystals to use for personal and spiritual well-being & healingThe love crystals and rituals, and how we can apply themCrystals that can be used to help with fertility.And the crystal that makes for a perfect starter stone. To secure a copy of their beautiful book - Crystal Muse - you can head here: https://amzn.to/2OskRJNTo head to their online storefront, www.energymuse.com or you can find them IRL in Torrance, CA.
Hi All,Here is a personal update me on me. It is Here to Thrive's 2nd birthday!! It's also the first time I haven't released a Here to Thrive episode on time, and I want to let you know why.Thank you for your love and support! xx
Wow. Christine Gutierrez was the awesome, honest, upfront and intelligent guest I had only dreamed of being able to ask some hard questions of. Questions that included the "hard" stuff that a lot of people are scared to bring up.But I believe in the power of conversation, and in staying open and curious.Christine is a Licensed Therapist & Spiritual Healer. She has, for many years, been leading women on retreats and in her practice, find there way back to themselves and overcome the trauma and violation that holds them back.She is also a strong voice when it comes to diversity, inclusion & privilege, and one who strongly believes in standing up for and elevating the voices of those who perhaps don't have the same privilege to be heard.If you're looking for a REAL and POWERFUL conversation talking about all the things...don't go any further. This episodes includes:Understanading Spiritual BypassingThe strange Self-Help Elitism that is occurringIntergenerational Trauma; What it is and how it shows upPrivilege, and how it shows up in many different waysHow we can be curious about all the types of privilege we haveAnd what can you do that with privilege we do haveThe importance of lowering our defenses and embracing curiosityDangers of commercialism in generating popularityHow we can be aware of MarginalizationHow we need to have spaces for people to explore their pure and raw rageUnderstanding that we are all learning, and the journey is far from flawlessHow have we have all, at some time, partaken in that which has caused negative impactThe divide that has been highlighted by recent political climateHow important it is to recognize that we all have something to learn from one anotherWhere being hurt and triggered is often coming fromHow the amount we judge one another is hurting us. Judgement keeps us separate from another human. Christine mentions a new initiative of hers that will be live soon called, www.elevatevoices.com.To find more about Christine and the work she does, head to www.christineg.tv or you can find her on Instagram @ChristineG.www.thrive.how to learn more about the host, Kate Snowise.
Do you kick yourself because you always seem to take the path of least resistance and wonder if you have any willpower or self-discipline at all? I'm the first to admit that I'm not the most disciplined person I know, but I do a bunch of things that allow me to maximize the impact of my willpower, and support myself in a positive way. In this episode I'm giving you a quick rundown of some of the theory around Willpower (and I'll say, it is very intuitive) and also outlining 4 simple ways you can maximize your self-discipline. Among other things, this episode covers: Why it is important not to waste our willpowerThe power of "bookending" your day with morning and evening routinesHow being preemptive in our thinking allows us to minimize the need to make decisions in the moment, and in turn, rely on willpowerAnd how we're all likely to have less willpower later in the day. To learn more about the host Kate or Here to Thrive, head to www.thrive.howTo leave a review in iTunes you an head to www.thrive.how/review
Emma Mildon is such a gorgeous soul! She is real, grounded, fired-up and honest. She is the bestselling author of The Soul Searchers Handbook, and this is her second time back on Here to Thrive! You can check her out at #9 too :).Her new book, The Evolution of Goddess, is mesmerizing and the first book to give me a spiritual gut-punch in I don't know how long. In this conversation we're talking about so much, including: How it is time women burned their spiritual training bras, because the world doesn't have time for cuteHow we have full permission and are worthy enough of our biggest dreamsHow our gut knowing is one of our greatest giftsWhat the world needs is more women supporting womenAnd how we must turn inward as we walk forward in our evolution. You can grab your copy of The Evolution of Goddess here: https://amzn.to/2tXAUrvTo learn more about Emma Mildon and her upcoming book launch events, head here: www.emmamildon.com
This episode I'm breaking Gratitude down into the What, Why and How.I consider gratitude a wonder emotion, and one that we can miraculously invoke with not too much energy. If we can find our grateful groove, we really do start to look at the world in a different light.I reference a blog post by a leading Gratitude Researcher, Robert Emmons, and you can read that here: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/why_gratitude_is_goodTo learn more about the host, Kate, head to www.thrive.how or you can find her on instagram at https://instagram.com/kate.snowise
This one was an awesome full-circle moment for me! Mastin is a number one best-selling author of Daily Love and Claim Your Power, speaker and Creator of Functional Life Coaching™ for people who are seeking rapid transformation in their lives.He has been featured on Oprah's Super Soul Sunday in one of their highest rated episodes, and recognized as a “thought leader for the next generation” by Oprah Winfrey. He’s also a two-time contributor to Oprah’s new book.Mastin has built a highly successful international personal development company that helps people create rapid change, connect to who they really are and how to live their lives with passion and purpose. Through his writing, online courses, in-person seminars and international retreats, Mastin has worked with over two million people in over 100 countries around the world.In this episode, we're focusing on what Mastin has been doing lately, and his understanding of the power unhealed trauma is having unconsciously in so many of our lives. He believes that we all have trauma, and that until we look at it and truly heal it, we will never be able to step fully into our power and potential.Specifically we're talking:What Functional Life Coaching™ is?The lack of looking for the root-cause in the current methods of self-help and developmentHow we can be doing all the right things, and still feel like we're not evolving or getting anywhereHow the political divide and uprising around racial inequality and misogyny are actually good thingsAnd why our goal needs to be to make sure we don't pass our suffering on to others. We mention the live event he is holding from July 12th-15th in Orlando, FL. Tickets are still available and very reasonably priced. You can find those here: www.claimyourpowerlive.comTo learn more about Mastin, head to www.mastinkipp.com
This episode I'm talking Career - and how to make sure you're perceived well at work and thought of as a person with leadership qualities, regardless of what level you are within an organization. I'm sharing 5 super-actionable tips that you can implement to make sure you widen your influence, up your visibility, and are thought of as someone worth promoting. Originally, content shared here was in my Huffington Post blog which you can access here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/how-to-make-sure-you-dont_b_10129582.htmlTo learn more about me, Kate, head here: www.thrive.how
Jodi Baretz had me having serious a-ha moments. Her description of why we should be aware of mindfulness, and the benefits it has for us, tugged hard at my heartstrings. I've known about mindfulness and the theory for a long time, but I've never had someone kind of hit me between the eyes about why I would want to prioritize it in my own life, and I feel like our conversation really did that for me.Jodi is a Psychotherapist, Mindfulness Teacher & Integrative Health Coach, and she weaves all of this expertise into her own type of wisdom.She is also the author of the brand new release, Mindful is the New Skinny. To grab your copy, head here: https://amzn.to/2xNECbpIn this episode, a small snippet of the things we cover include:How the desire for external perfection robs us of our joyHow a diet-mindset undermines self-compassionHow obsession with food can be an avoidance mechanism for what we don't want to face in our livesHow we can start being kinder to ourselvesImportance of awareness of our thoughts (and how mindfulness helps us achieve this)How starting a meditation practice can feel like you're locked in a phone booth with a crazy person (but that is okay!)How practicing mindfulness really helps us out when we're up against life's challengesHow so many of us are missing out on making memories in our lives because we're not presentand how we can make sleep a pampering experience.All that and I LOVED her definition of fulfillment! It is a GOODIE!To find Jodi online (and grab your freebie), head to www.jodibaretz.comTo find her on Instagram & Facebook - search for Mindful is the New SkinnyTo join her Mindful Mom's facebook group, head to: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mindfulmoms/?ref=br_rs
Are you very good at looking back on your achievements, celebrating them, and taking stock? Or are you like most of us, and often focused on the next goal or to-do?In this episode, I'm teaching you how to stop.pause. and reflect...because if we're perpetually striving for something else, we're cutting ourselves off from so much of the joy that is already right here with us. -- if you'd like to review Here to Thrive on iTunes, hit here: www.thrive.how/review -I'm talking: · About how important it is for us to look down the mountain and how far we've already come· Why we overlook so often how awesome we are and focus instead on where we still aren't there yet· And how we can make space to reflect and magnify the joy in the journey. To learn more about Kate, the host, you can head to www.thrive.how or follow her on instagram at https://instagram.com/kate.snowise
Esther Blum is a Bestselling Author of 4 books on how we can live Nutritionally Healthy and Happy Lives. She is an Integrative Nutritionist and Registered Dietician. She is also an open-minded Momma who has been through a big bunch of life lessons and is now seeing so much of the wisdom which she shares here today. Some of the things we cover include: How eating Carbs at night is good for your sleepHow important our thoughts are to our overall healthHow Vitamin D is more of an issue now due to WiFi signalsHow as a culture, we are checked out and numb when it comes to food, and what that is doing to usThe power of forgiveness in healing usHow shame will never be a sustainable model when it comes to taking care of ourselvesEsther mentioned her Free Download on her Website: Eat, Drink and be Fortyish. You can find that here: www.estherblum.comIt includes recipes, and tips like the couple we shared here, that can help you get on the front foot when it comes to your health and nourishing your body in the right way. There are extensive lists of good bitter greens, carbs and more. -- And please review Here to Thrive! www.thrive.how/review --You can find me on Instagram https://instagram.com/kate.snowise
Do you have a tendency to want to avoid your problems and pressures, and pretend they're just not there? But do you know deep-down it's not really doing you any favors? I want to reassure you that this is such a common response, and I'm talking through WHY we do it, and where many of us have learned the habit. I'm also running through 5 ways you can start to undo the grip of avoiding your pressures, and start getting shit done. Because we're that much happier and sleep better when we're not walking around with giant unmanageable weights on our shoulders that we're trying to pretend at that. That takes EFFORT!THINKING ABOUT PODCASTING? You seriously have nothing to lose, and boatloads to gain. I never imagined where Here to Thrive would take me and that amazing connections I would make because of it. Katie Dalebout, the master podcaster, has launched her Podcasting School - LAUNCHPOD! You can register with my affiliate link (thank you...doesn't cost you a penny more) here: CHECK OUT LAUNCHPODDon't forget to use the discount code "THRIVE" to get an extra $100 off registration! Boom. Thanks Katie. To find the link on my website, head to www.thrive.how/podcastschoolTo learn more about me, you can also visit www.thrive.how and pick up some awesome freebie resources.
What can you do when you know you have thoughts that are limiting you, disempowering you, and making you feel like all around crap?You can start to challenge them. Because our thoughts are just that; only thoughts. They only have power to dictate our experience if we allow them to.Today I'm talking through a model that I find really useful from a woman called Byron Katie, called - The Work. I'll cover how you can apply her 4 questions to your thinking, to make you feel more confident, empowered and alive.Her questions (in my summarized form) are:Is it true?Can you absolutely know it is true?How do you feel when you believe that thought?Who are you without that thought?The four components of a turnaround thought:An alternative/opposing thoughtThat is likely just as true as the original thoughtThat makes you feel empoweredAnd that you can believeTo read more about Byron Katie's The Work model, visit her website: http://thework.com/en or you can find resources and links to certified facilitators here: http://thework.com/en/tools-do-work(please note: I am not certified in this work, this is merely an introduction to the concept).There is also an article on Oprah that demonstrates how the model is used: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/testing-the-work-of-byron-katieFor more information Kate or her Channel Your Chill program, head here: www.thrive.how
Paige’s story is really interesting. She was the woman who was doing all the right wellness things, yet, of her own admission, was still spirituality starved and looking for something. Then she was hit with a seriously heavy cancer diagnosis. Today we’re talking about her journey through that, and some of the lessons she learned. She talks more about the spiritual and life lessons she learned in her book which is about to be released called Here We Grow. >> Kate's group program, Channel Your Chill goes live May 16th! To learn more, head here: www.channelyourchill.com
How do you know it is Intuitive Guidance OR your busy mind coming up with ideas? What constitutes an intuitive-hit or a nudge from the Universe?--- Channel Your Chill, my group program is currently open for registration! Check it out here: www.thrive.how/channelyourchill ---A listener reached out to me recently to ask this, and she is far from the first person to bring it up. I can still remember back when I was sure I didn't have an intuitive bone in my body. Now - 5 years later - I consider myself incredibly tuned in to my inner guidance system. In this episode I'm talking through 4 particular checkpoints that can help you ascertain whether you're in alignment with your inner knowing, or whether you may have got caught in rumination or your overthinking mind. Some of the things covered include: The difference between Green Light intuition and your Warning System intuitionHow intuition is a feeling rather than thinking systemHow intuitive guidance will struggle to be heard over loud thoughtsWhat you can do to tune-inward and tune-out the outside world so you can hear your intuitionHow seeking approval outside of yourself kills intuitive connectionHow impulsivity is not intuition, and how if you are impulsive you can benefit from building in a contemplative practice before jumping to actHow trust is crucial to the processAnd the fineprint when it comes to intuition. What it can and can't do.There are quotes that I have peppered throughout this interview. If you would like to get those, head to www.thrive.how/podcast90I also mention Ali Katz free Intuition Journal. You can find that here: http://www.hotmesstomindfulmom.com/intuition-journal/And if you don't yet have a copy of my 21 Journal Prompts for Self Discovery, get those here! www.thrive.how/free
This is an important, enlightening and super useful information. Becca Reed Smith is a Therapist & Mindset coach. She shares with us here her straightforward guidance, and she explains concepts that most of us find challenging, in very real and understandable ways.We talk about a lot in this podcast, but some of the particulars include:Understanding that Fear is NormalHow common it is to not feel good enough at timesThe importance of stepping out of our Comfort Zones when it comes to Fear + Self-DoubtImposter Syndrome, and a discussion on the "who am I to ..." statement many of us play in our headsHow once we feel safe and grounded, our options open upHow stress can eventually lead us to feeling numb and that is our nervous system simply doing its job and trying to regulate the big emotionsCognitive dissonance - what it is, and how we can use it to our advantageAnd how our Doubting Dialogue often shows up in the form of "what if" questions and what we can do it quieten itTo see the diagram of the Window of Tolerance, head to the blog post: www.thrive.how/podcast89To find out more about Becca and her services, head to: www.beccareedsmith.comYou can also follow her on Instagram, Facebook & Pinterest at: @beccareedsmithTo get the Freebie I mention, 3 Steps to Moving through Doubt, click here: http://bit.ly/2G7Y3Mu---CHANNEL YOUR CHILL - my group program is LIVE and ready for registration. It launches mid-May 2018. For more information head to: www.channelyourchill.com or thrive.how
Life is stressful. Perhaps more stressful than ever. But how can we support ourselves and make it a tiny bit easier each and every day?Today I'm sharing 3 simple tips that I hope you'll remember easily, that can assist you in supporting yourself so that you can show up day in and day out, as your best self. To sign up for the free resources and get on the list to be on of the first to know about Channel Your Chill, head here: www.thrive.how/free
Niki is an experienced Reiki Master-Teacher with a really interesting story. She offers both Reiki sessions and also facilitates Reiki practitioner training workshops.After reaching her own rock bottom, struggling with anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts, she was led to Reiki through a series of synchronistic events. We talk more about her journey and I get my Reiki-for-dummies questions answered.I’ve been interested, yet confused, by the concept of Reiki for the longest time. So long, I felt it was about time I simply had a conversation where I had the chance to ask all of my completely inexperienced questions.And if I’m a little nosy about what on earth this Reiki thing is, then I’m betting a few of you have heard about it too. Or maybe you haven’t? If you have or you haven’t – you’ll still get SO much out of this conversation.Some of the things we cover in this episode include:- What Reiki actually is- How energy can be sent through time and space- How we all have our unique energy signature, which means that two of us can do the same thing very differently- How the idea of energy can be scary when you come from a religious background, but how it can be thought of as just another label for the holy spirit or gods presence- How even if you aren’t a Reiki practitioner you can use Reiki energy- The importance of the “feel good” factor when choosing a practitioner (or a Life Coach for that matter)- How we can process the hurt and fear we see in the world today- What sending #loveandlight means from a reiki perspective- How we have the power to raise or lower our vibrations- How important water is to our well-being and our we can supercharge our own water to make it even more awesome- And tones more of courseTo find Niki, you can head to www.awakenspiritualtruths.com or on Instagram@highvelocityspiritualcoach.To find out more about Kate and her programs, head to www.thrive.how
It's another play it again episode! If you want to live a deeply fulfilling life, you can't afford not to dive deeply into yourself. This episode made a splash when I released it the first time, and it's also one of my favs. It's hard hitting goodness. I'm going deep in these 12 min asking you - What Matters to You? What is Your Why?I'm talking about getting to your core using Simon Sinek's idea of Starting with Why.Here's the blog post I reference of mine:https://www.thrive.how/what-are-you-working-for/Linds Reeding - A Short Lesson in Perspectivehttp://www.businessinsider.com/its-not-worth-it-linds-reddings-short-lesson-in-perspective-2012-11The questions I challenge you to answer:What matters most to you?What do you believe in?What would make you so very proud of yourself?Finally, are you living in alignment with these things or getting closer to them?Why? Why are you doing what you do? Why does it matter to you?If you enjoyed this and haven't yet listened to April Seifert's recent episode - #81. Stop Living by Default - listen to that to really hit this message home! https://www.thrive.how/podcast81/
This episode with guest Tahlee Rouillon is full of magic. It was so juicy, and I was so engaged I totally forget to ask her my standard set of questions!The conversation is one part inspiration and one part the geeky and fascinating science behind binaural beats (or Meditones as Tahlee refers to them). In the first half of the conversation we talk in depth about Tahlee's finding her way to her soul's calling, and how she took anything but the direct route. Her journey is inspirational as it is so real, and you can also see the thread of magic that wove through it and brought her right back to where she was supposed to be.The second part is a fascinating discussion about the power certain types of music have to deepen our states and change our brainwaves. Tahlee makes her music, Meditones, which are designed to help people go into slower brainwaves states much more frequently. We also discuss just how meditation can make us feel calmer and more present in our waking hours due to neuroplasticity and our brain's ability to create new pathways.Honestly, I was mesmerized. If you're fascinated by any of the following, don't miss this episode:The idea that if you don't struggle you never build resilienceWhat a Saturn Return is, and how it shows up much like a quarter-life crisis (and how Tahlee experienced hers hard and heavy!)How we can live lives that are just 'fine' or dare to feel true joyHow the biggest adventures in our lives often stir simultaneously feelings of terror and excitement within usAn explanation of the 4 different brainwaves states we experienceBenefits of listening to music at particular frequenciesHow binaural beats or Meditones can induce instant calm, remove anxiety and so much moreHow Meditones are perfect for people who struggle to meditateHow exactly meditation works from a brain perspective and makes us happier humans in our waking hoursAn awesome explanation of neuroplasticityHow it is we get stuck in habits and repeat the same behaviors even when we don't want to. Tahlee mentions her free Meditones which you can access yourself here: http://www.sonesence.com/freemeditones/To find Tahlee: www.sonesence.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/sonesence_music facebook: www.facebook.com/sonesenceTo share the online link to this episode: www.thrive.how/podcast85
I'm playing it again, because this concept is important, yet super simple. Are you reactive or proactive in life? This isn't necessarily a cut and dried question. Depending on what is going on in our lives we will often slip back into functioning very much in a reactive state, even if we're naturally more proactive people. It's about getting stuck on the treadmill of life and forgetting to step back for a second. In this episode I will talk through ways in which you can get yourself out of a rut and start living life from your front foot again. For the free resources I mention at the end, head to my website: www.thrive.how/free
Katie Dalebout is the women behind the podcast and book - Let it Out. She is a woman in Wellness, yet she has been on quite a journey with it. She professes to like a Green Juice as much as the next girl, but over the years her approach to wellness has widened and deepened.As she journeyed through the world of Wellness, Katie also found journaling, and one of the reasons I love her is that she believes that getting to have those real and honest conversations with ourselves is one of the most empowering things we can ever do.In this episode we talk:How not everything in the Wellness world is always well and goodWhen Wellness can become problematic, and what signs you should be looking forWhat Orthorexia isHow journaling is one of the best tools to get to know ourselves betterWhy Katie prefers a legal pad to pretty journals when she is letting it all outand so much more.Katie can be found over at katiedalebout.com. Her book, Let it Out: a Journey through Journaling is on Amazon or other places epically awesome books can be found.I also mentioned the upcoming release of her Podcasting School. Check back here for a link once it is LIVE.To view this episode or listen to it online, head to www.thrive.how/podcast83Learn more about Orthorexia: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/learn/by-eating-disorder/other/orthorexia
This is a little pep talk that you can listen to over and over again. The type of listen that I hope you will come back to when you need a reminder of your strength and of your power.It's for:The days and the times when you feel like life has kicked you in the gutsWhen you feel uncertain about your futureFor soothing your heart when it's brokenReminding you that perfect isn't the goal, you're not behind, and that you're more powerful than you think.It is a positive manifesto, but real, heartfelt and not glossy. Life isn't easy some days, but you've got this.I reference Lucy Kalanithi in this episode. I heard her statement in her interview with Kate Bower on the podcast - Everything Happens.If you'd like to learn more about me, the host Kate, and get your freebies, head here: www.thrive.how
Live each day as if it is your last. We hear it all of the time yet few of us really live from that truth. April is different. She has taken this life cliche and used it to fuel her passion for life. April is absolutely awesome. She is a Social Psychologist and host of the Women Inspired! podcast. She believes when we can recognize the precious gift of each and every day, we can start to really push our comfort zones and get out of our own way.She has a powerful story that helps illustrate just why she feels so passionately about this. In this episode, we talk through her story including:How her childhood helped shape her view of lifeThe recognition that our health isn't always a givenHow she could have been sad, but instead, she got motivatedWhat we can do when we decide that life isn't all that scary after allHow a shy girl becomes a confident adultWhat social psychologists doHer special 3-part journaland so so much more (like toddlers and toileting.haha)'You can learn more about April and download her free Life Blueprinting Tool here: www.aprilseifert.comTo find out more about Here to Thrive's host, Kate, head here: www.thrive.how
I'm talking about the concept of having presence. We all want to be able to put our best foot forward in life, and in this episode I'll cover some of the ways you can make that happen, very intentionally. This episode covers:What Presence actually isAmy Cuddy's (Harvard Social Psychologist) research around PresenceWhen we might want to call on presence to help us get us through tough situationsHow we can hack our own body language to feel more powerfulThe importance of understanding situations that trigger usI mention Amy Cuddy's bestselling book - Presence. It is a great read, and also available in audiobook form. If you'd like to see her TED talk to get some of these teachings first hand, head here: https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_areTo learn more about host Kate Snowise, visit her at her web-home: www.thrive.howTo join the free facebook Here to Thrive closed community, hit this link: www.thrive.how/facebook
Shannon is my personal guru when it comes to Mantras. She does mantras better than anyone I know. Even though Shannon has been on this podcast before, this time we go deeper into her personal story of stepping out of her picture-perfect life and onto a path less travelled. She opens up about her debilitating anxiety and how Mantra's were one of the crucial tools in her journey.We also discuss:Her super-simple approach to meditation (if you want to call it that)What Mantra actually meansShe shares SEVERAL power mantras that you can immediately apply to your life ... so get a notepad!How we can deal with disappointment and missed-opportunitiesHow we often subconsciously self-sabotage when we're not walking our authentic pathand so so much more.You can purchase Shannon's book here: http://amzn.to/2Ecz39bIf you'd like the Card Deck too, head here: http://amzn.to/2GZOYFE
This week I'm talking about a simple concept that can have HUGE impacts. Asking for what you want. Too often we assume that people know what it is that is on our heart, but when you step back from the situation, have you ever made sure your hopes and intentions are clear?In this episode I'm talking: About how unconscious beliefs can hold us back from getting what we want in lifeHow communicating your desires is essential in your CareerHow using your words with your partner, spouse or friends can make a huge difference to having your needs metIf you're looking for extra career tips, here is the article I reference in the podcast: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/how-to-make-sure-you-dont_b_10129582.htmlTo find the freebies on my website, head here: www.thrive.how/freeand to join the Here to Thrive closed Facebook group, knock and I'll let you in here: www.thrive.how/facebook
Andrea is the Life Coach behind the Your Kick Ass Life. She is also an Author of two books, a Mentor, a podcast host and a Mother.We're getting REAL today. Both Andrea and I are talking about the habit-traps we have fallen into along the path of our personal growth and development, and how they kept us down (for a while). We're also diving into some of the 14 Habits she covers in depth in her new book - How to Stop Feeling Like Shit.Those habits include:People-PleasingSelf SabotagingNumbing OutBut we're so much jucier than just that. We also discuss:How self-help can sometimes make you feel like a failure and how not cool that can beHow often we crack open, but we're not yet ready to do the workThe point of no return in personal development, when you've turned the light on and can see the sh*tCodependency and how it can undermine our happinessAnd how learning to manage how big emotions is an essential part to trusting ourselvesTo find Andrea, www.yourkickasslife.com or search "Your Kick Ass Life" in on your favorite social platform.You can purchase How to Stop Feeling Like Shit from Amazon by clicking here: http://amzn.to/2GhjUANThe other books that come up in our chat:The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks (great read)A New Earth by Eckhart TolleWomen Who Run With the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola EstesCodependent No More by Melody Beattie
This episode I'm talking Disappointment. We all face it at some stage in our lives, and in this episode I'm priming you with ideas that I hope will make it easier to deal with.Specifically it covers:Facing your emotions, so you can process themThe concept of Name It to Tame ItThe power of moving towards Acceptance (and not fighting what is)Mantras to reassure a tired heartThe power to be found in releasing your grip on life a littleand moreI mention the journal prompts which are a free download available on my site. To get your set, head to www.thrive.how/free. I also mention the inner circle closed Facebook group for Here to Thrive! Knock, and I'll let you in! Head here: www.thrive.how/facebook or search "Here to Thrive" in Facebook.If you enjoyed this episode, it would mean so much if you could leave a review in iTunes or wherever you listen. www.thirve.how/review
I've got a Man on the podcast to talk to about how on earth we're supposed to co-exist with this other sex! Well kinda kidding, but seriously, kinda not.Robert has been helping people to communicate better, connect and create intimacy in their relationships for the last 16 years. And I am picking his brain.In this ep, a small snippet of the things we cover includes:The importance of creating a feeling of approval in your relationshipsWhy telling the truth is so important, but sometimes scary as sh*tWhat Men are possibly thinking when they seem to go cold and bail on relationships with little warningSome communication hacks that can go a long way to minimizing misunderstandingsThe Masculine & Feminine energy in relationships and what that meansHow the majority of relationships have a power imbalance built inAnd the "Me Too" movement - how are Men really feeling about all this?To find out more about Robert, you can head to his website: www.robertkandell.com or listen to him on his podcast, Tuff Love.To find out more about the host Kate: www.thrive.how
What does Happiness look like for you this Year? Instead of piles of resolutions, I think we should take a softer view and look to how we want to live, and also, how we've been living. Are we happy??The Reconnect & Reboot series is about to go live! This is how you can work with me and support this podcast >> www.thrive.how/rebootIn this ep I dive into:The power of writing yourself a New Year LetterHow important it is to soak up the goodness already around youAsking - What have your learned? How did you grow? in about the previous yearHow knowing how you want to feel can focus your energyWhy a 1-year bucket list can help you be more focused in your actionsThe resources I mention can be found here:www.thrive.how/newyearletter & www.thrive.how/free
This episode, I’m in the hot seat! My coaching bud Andrea Featherstone is interviewing me. (see projectself.com.au & the ep. here on Deconstructing Mindfulness for more of her!!) She asked, and I took her up on the offer. And I gave her free reign. I was fascinated to hear what she was interested in talking to me about! This episode includes: - A discussion on what my name actually is- How I got into Psychology- My background as Corporate Psychologist- Why I get angsty around the type-indicator personality assessments sometimes- How you can become more Emotionally Intelligent- Why Personal Values are amazing as guiding lights in our lives- My kids- The secret lives on trees- And so much more! It was seriously fun. If you want to know more about the Group Coaching Live Workshop Series I’m running to kickoff 2018, head to www.thrive.how/reboot to learn more.
I'm talking Habits with the creator of Elephant App, Ricky Cooper. THis is a juicy and personal episode where we dive into how we can form New, Positive Habits in our daily routines, without falling prey to the millions of distractions that get in our way.If you've ever wanted to drink more water, sit up straight or be more mindful, this episode is a must list.We cover a bunch of stuff including:The alarming stats around New Year's ResoultionsThe habit loop that is an essential part of changing our daily behaviorHow small changes can lead to giant gainsRicky's personal story with Panic Attacks and how that related to his desire to change some of his own habitsEckhart Tolle, Oprah and some other personal development leadersand how I hardly got any sleep last night ;)To find the Elephant App on your device, search in your App Store: Elephant Never Forget. You can also find more information at www.elephantapp.com I also mention the Reconnect & Reboot Group Program I am running in Jan 2018. To learn more, head here: www.thrive.how/rebootp.s. Eckhart Tolle's life changing book is called A New Earth. You can read about it (and find a link to purchase) and my 3 other all-time fav self-help books here: https://www.thrive.how/my-four-favorite-self-help-books/
With the New Year approaching, many of us are starting to think: What do I want for 2018?This podcast is full of tips to help you make sure you commit to things that you can stay motivated to achieve. I'm sharing 5 tips that you should consider when setting all goals, intentions and commitments as they will support your ability to achieve great things.I also mention my group-coaching offering that will be going live in JAN! Grab you spot. They're limited!!! www.thrive.how/reboot to read more.
Susie Moore is an Author, Speaker, Life Coach and creator of the Side Hustle Academy. I think of her as the Queen of Side Hustle's as she's also written a book all about how to Side Hustle called What if It Does Work Out?> I also mention my very own Reconnect & Reboot Workshop Series that will be live in January. To learn more and register, head here: www.thrive.how/rebootIn today's episode I'm really picking Susie's brain. What does it take to be a side-hustler? And how do you get started with making that hidden dream of yours a reality?We're covering a lot in this energetic listen, including:How most people live in ComfortvilleWhat a Charged life feels likeIn importance of your desires in leading the wayHow leading from our passions and letting go of the pressure are keys to successThe importance of action, and learning how to pull the trigger on your hustleDanger of Analysis-ParalysisWhy you should choose a side hustle that doesn't feel like workHow pursuing your side hustle can make you a better wife, mother etc.What you can gain from starting a side hustle, and what you give upHow to push fear to the side, and keep on hustlingSusie's new book - What if it Does Work Out - is available here on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/What-If-Does-Work-Out/dp/0486816494You can find out more about Susie at her webhome - www.susie-moore.comTo find out more about the host Kate Snowise, head here: www.thrive.how
This ep. I'm getting real with a topic that frequently comes up in my Life Coaching private sessions. This is one of the things that I've been talking about with my clients over the past few weeks, and it's more than a passing trend - it is a life lessons than can help us avoid a WHOLE bunch of suffering. I'm also celebrating a BIG milestone and giving myself a hard time about my accent (taking the Mickey out of myself if you're a Kiwi in the know). So if you want a little lightheartedness, stay tuned to this one. Specifically this podcast talks to: What Acceptance isWhy accepting what is, rather than fighting against it, eases our hurtHow being stuck on our expectations hurts us3 steps to help you start moving yourself towards acceptanceI mentioned three mantras in here that can be really reassuring: All is in right order. This is happening for me, not to me. Acceptance is my path to freedom. and my favorite: What is truly meant for me will never miss me. To learn more about me, and the Workshop Series going live in Jan 2018, head to my website: www.thrive.how
Marcus Aurelius Anderson is a Mindset Coach, Speaker & Author. His new book is called - The Gift of Adversity.Today we're talking adversity, and how to start moving forward when you feel stuck or blindsided by life. Marcus has an incredible story about overcoming adversity, but what I really appreciate about him, is how focused he not simply telling his story, but in giving others practical ideas, thoughts and actions to help them overcome adversity in their own lives. Specifically we discuss: What adversity isThe importance of deciding your attitude toward adversity before you get landed with the really hard stuffThe regret of wasting your potentialMarcus' quote - "The things that make people great don't happen by accident"My initial frustration with the sentiment that we all have enough timeThe power of identifying what you really want, and what you don't want. What fulfilment means to Marcus...and SO much more!Shortcut to purchase his book, The Gift of Adversity, here. To visit Marcus' website, you can head here: www.marcusaureliusanderson.comTo watch his TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iXicUawrH6o
In this ep. I'm diving into the cliche self-help topic that I have an ABSOLUTE love, yet slight disdain for - Authenticity. I love it, because I believe it is one of the essential keys to living a fulfilling, and wholly happy life. I dislike it, because I think it is thrown around and misunderstood. Today, I'm talking deep authenticity. The stuff when we feel like we're connected and living from our own inner-wisdom. Specifically this ep covers:A definition of Authenticity - have to start with what it actually ISThe pre-requisites to authenticity - how to start becoming more authentic5 attributes that indicate connection with your authentic self. I mention the freebie on my website - 21 Journal Prompts for Self-Discovery. You can download that here: http://www.thrive.how/free/
Tanya Jahnke is a Feng Shui expert. She's been doing this for 22 years and I was thrilled to get the chance to pick her brain. We cover SO much in this episode, from how to increase abundance through what you put in your spaces and where you put it, to the importance of having a sacred landing spot. Some specific points included in here: What Feng Shui isHow Feng Shui can be applied to make our homes feel like a true sanctuarySome simple tips to clear the energy in a room or a space if it feels funky or negativeHow to make yourself feel more powerful in your workspaceWhy your bedroom should be one of your favorite rooms in your houseThe significance of leaking taps and closed toiletsWhy your front door is an especially significant space in Feng ShuiTanya is an Designer and also offers distance Feng Shui consultants to clients the world over. To find out more about her head to Feng Shui 4 the Om: http://www.fengshui4theom.com/To find the Feng Shui map you can follow Tanya on Instagram (you should do this regardless) @tjahnke or head to my website for online show notes: www.thrive.how/podcast66Other potentially useful links (not-affiliate links ... I make nothing off these suggestions):Palo Santo Sticks Sage for ClearingWoodstock Bell FountainSimple Tiered Water FountainAnd if you want to know more about NASA's studying of purifying houseplants Tanya mentions, head here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NASA_Clean_Air_StudyTo review Here to Thrive: www.thrive.how/reviewTo learn more about Kate: www.thrive.how
In this episode I'm pulling back the curtain and letting you know what I talk to my clients about. I looked back at my clients over the last 12 months and tried to summarize what they came to me seeking help with. I was actually surprised to see 3 themes emerge quite rapidly. In this episode, I'm talking through those 3 themes, or 3 driving reasons that my clients tend to reach out to me and seek Life Coaching. My hope is that this episode will help you understand more, through example, what Life Coaching is, and how it helps people navigate their lives. To learn more about me, you can head to my website: www.thrive.howI also mention in passing in this episode, Elaine Aron's book - The Highly Sensitive Person (I'm one of those if you're wondering).
Emily Esfahani Smith is an expert on the meaningful life. Here we're talking through how how meaningful life doesn't have to be an extraordinary life. As she asserts, most of us will live a fairly ordinary lives but there is still huge amounts of meaning to be found in the everyday experiences of being human. Emily is author of the book - The Power of Meaning. She is also a speaker, and has an incredibly moving and popular TED talk - There is More to Life than Being HappyIn this episode we cover: The difference between a happy life and a meaningful lifeWhy pursuing happiness doesn't appear to be enoughThe 4 Pillars of meaning that she uncovered while researching her bookHow you can apply these pillars to your own life and mine it for meaningThe influence that the stories we tell ourselves about our pasts can have on usand the impact of a Contamination story vs. a Redemptive storyTo learn more about Emily you can head to her website, www.emilyesfahanismith.comTo learn more about the host, Kate Snowise head to: www.thrive.how
This ep, I'm diving into possibility, and how powerful a concept this can be in anyone's life. Possibility is the the thing that drives a spark within us, that ultimately leads us towards action. It is the beginning of momentum that is crucial if we are going to achieve anything, or change anything. It is the starting point. Specifically in this episode I talk through: Why believing in what is possible for yourself is SO importantThe 3-Point chain reaction that possibility can set off within you2 meaningful ways you can help to foster a sense of possibility within yourselfThe book I reference in the podcast is The Power of HabitTo learn more about me, the host Kate Snowise, head to my website: www.thrive.how
Today's guest is an Unconventional Mindfulness Facilitator & former cynical pessimist. She’s the woman that was ticking all the boxes but wasn’t necessarily feeling that deep sense of lasting satisfaction that most of us crave. Perhaps the best description ever – she felt like an empty coloring book. She’s a specialist in helping people not buy into the sometimes destructive mind-chatter that most of us experience. As she puts it, Andrea helps indecisive overachievers to get clear on their direction and sense of self by learning to tame their mind.In today's ep. I'm getting to the nitty gritty of mindfulness with Andrea. I really was wanting to understand what it meant to her, and why I might want to practice mindfulness. Specifically, we cover the following:How she defines MindfulnessWhat the ultimate aim of mindfulness practices areHow by separating our sense of self from our minds, we can become more powerful, clearer and feel more aliveWhat we can do when we need a mindfulness hitHow meditation can complement mindfulness, but how they ultimate differHow the cynical types among us can still experience mindfulness without the touchy feely edgeAndrea mentions her favorite book: Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. We also discuss his second book, A New Earth. To learn more about Andrea or sign-up for her free 6 Day to Decisiveness Challenge, head to www.projectself.com.auTo learn more about me, the host Kate Snowise, and my coaching offerings head to my website, www.thrive.how
Most of have a tendency to get stuck on distractions, and sometimes drama, and often the most important stuff gets pushed aside.Today I'm talking about how to make sure the Important stuff (the things that matter most in your life) don't fall by the wayside and become dominated by the things that are nosier and demand your attention more - the Urgent things.Because a life well-lived is one where you're focusing on, and spending your time on, the stuff that matters most. In this ep. I talk through the Franklin-Covey Time Management Matrix. To see an image, head to my website: www.thrive.how/podcast61.This concept is spoken about in depth in Stephen Covey's book - The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People - under Habit 3: Put First Things First. I reference a Fortune article on this topic too. That can be found here: http://fortune.com/2011/03/16/how-i-managed-my-time-the-covey-way/I talk through how you can prioritize your own life, and some simple tools that can help you spend more of your time on the stuff that is truly important to you. Exercise: Towards the end of this episode I ask you to think about what things can go in your personal F*ck-It Bucket. Grab a piece of paper, put a line down the middle. Put a title on one side "What Matters Most", and on the other side title it "F*ck-It Bucket". This is a very quick and easy way to do an audit of your priorities and what you might need to pay more attention to. To learn more about me, the host Kate Snowise, head over to my website: www.thrive.howIf you happen to be an awesome Literary Agent looking for an epic new author you can email me directly at firstname.lastname@example.org :)
Christopher Plowman is the CEO at Insight Timer. He however, is not after any attention. He’d rather let the app speak for itself. BUT I got him talking. I wanted to know about the CEO behind the App, so I asked him a bunch of deep and meaningful questions to get to know him better – cause well, that’s what I like to do.> To download the App, search "Insight Timer" in your App Store
This is a two part series. In the first part of the interview, I’m talking to the CEO of Insight Timer, Christopher Plowman, about their amazing App, what it does, what it is going to do, and what those behind Insight Timer are driven by.If you’re not familiar with it, Insight Timer is the biggest little meditation app you’ve never heard of [as the CEO puts it himself in this interview]. More people meditate on Insight Timer than do on Headspace, but it’s all been organic, word of mouth growth. It’s that awesome product that you can’t help but share with everyone once you know about it. Hence the reason I’m talking to you about it!Insight Timer is different in that it is a community platform. They provide the platform, and teachers upload their content. What that means is that you can find every type of mediation imaginable, and it’s all > FREE!
Life is FULL of tough decisions, but some of us get stuck in the trap of indecisiveness. While many of us want to be rational and thought-out in our decision making, perhaps it isn't always our best option.>> If you'd like to download your FREE 21 Journal Prompts for Self-Discovery head here: www.thrive.how/freeIn this podcast I'm running through some of the research around decision-making, and also getting a little grounded by some philosophical points.>>> Enjoyed this one?! Please review the podcast here - www.thrive.how/review
Today's guest is Roxane Battle. She was a TV News Presenter for 20 years, and if you're from the Minnesota region you will likely recognize her from NBC's KARE 11.But today we're talking about the lessons about life she was learning behind the scenes - what was happening after the camera stopped rolling, and how even when life can look picture-perfect on the outside, it isn't always the case.We ALL have our struggles and heartache, and we're talking in this episode about how you can pull yourself up and start moving forward from them.Specifically we cover:How you can start to put it back together when your life falls apartHow determination and perseverance are your best friends - we're often stronger than we knowThe power of optimism and looking for what is still goodThe power in forgiving you both yourself and others who have hurt youBUT how that forgiveness is not letting someone else off the hookAnd ultimately, how Joy can help you stay focused on the future and hope. Roxane's book is called - Pockets of Joy - and it can be found here: Pockets of Joy on AmazonThe book also has a companion journal - Pockets of Joy Journal.Roxane has generously offered to giveaway a copy of each to the fist person who emails her! Her website with contact details is: RoxaneBattle.comTo find out more about the host, that's me Kate, and my Life Coaching offerings - my webhome is www.thrive.how
"Be thankful for what you have, and you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never have enough." - Oprah Winfrey>> Enjoyed this podcast episode? You can say share your thanks by leaving a review in iTunes here: www.thrive.how/review
Shannon Kaiser is a Bestselling Author, a Life Coach, and an Inspirational Speaker. She is also the author of the brand new book called The Self-Love Experiment [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Love-Experiment-Principles-Compassionate-Accepting/dp/0143130692]>> If you enjoyed the episode, please leave us a review! www.thrive.how/review https://www.amazon.com/Self-Love-Experiment-Principles-Compassionate-Accepting/dp/0143130692Shannon is also offering a free workshop to all of those who purchase the book. To claim your spot, head to playwiththeworld.comFind Shannon on social media @ShannonKaiserWritesTo learn more about Kate head to: www.thrive.how
This episode is inspired by Simon Sinek and his TED talk on the importance of asking WHY when you're talking about Inspiring others. I've flipped it on it's head a bit and I'm talking about the importance of asking yourself why when it comes to living an INSPIRED LIFE.[If you enjoyed this episode, you can head here to leave a review - www.thrive.how/review]Specifically I'm asking:What do you do? How do you do it? And Why do you do it? Seemingly simple questions, but when you pull them apart a bit, not so seemingly simple to answer.I also talk about a story that a few years back pulled hard on my heart strings and make me more focused on the big questions in life. You can read some of my take on Linds Redding's story and get links to the original blog post - A Lesson in Perspective - here: What Are You Working ForTo watch Simon Sinek's TED talk - [How Great Leaders Inspire Action]To head to my website: www.thrive.how
This is a meaningful and wise conversation that opened my eyes in more ways than one. It made me re-think some of the ways the self-help movement has marginalized those who are looking to thrive while living with a mental illness, and helped me feel more empowered around what inclusive self-development includes.[if you enjoyed this episode, please review us! We so appreciate your feedback. Head here: www.thrive.how/review]Arien Smith is thriving while living with mental illness. He is also a Life Coach and host of an incredibly inspiring online TV show - Arien Inspires (aptly named!!) - where he talks through practical ways that people can thrive while living with mental illness.This episode, among other things includes:How simply trusting yourself to get through things (even when they're not easy) empowers youHow many self-help messages inadvertently marginalize those living with a mental illnessAliveness and the power of feeling, rather than closing off emotionsHow happiness isn't always a choiceWhy feeling broken is nothing to be ashamed ofHow you can be completely afraid and courageous at the same timeHow your pain can shape you in a positive wayHow self-discovery and spirituality can go hand-in-handHow you can have wellness and a mental illness at the same timeHow not loving yourself doesn't make you unloveableAnd SO much more! This is jammed full of ah-ha's and insights.We talked about his favorite episode of Arien Inspires so far being - Authenticity & Feeling Broken. Here is the direct link: http://uncoveryourjoy.com/authenticity-self-love-feeling-broken/Arien's website is www.uncoveryourjoy.comHis facebook: https://www.facebook.com/arieninspires/Instagram etc. @ArienInspiresTo keep up to date and join Arien's community (and get access to a free transformation e-course) head here: http://uncoveryourjoy.com/overcome-challenge-ecourse/---To join my community and receive free resources [including a free guide with 21 Journal Prompts for Self-Discovery] head to www.thrive.how/free
It's easy in life to feel like you're getting stuck in a rut. It's that feeling like you're often on the backfoot, and just reacting to what is in front of you.In this episode I'm talking about how to start moving out of that feeling - how you can start being more proactive in the way you approach life.I share 3 simple steps for you to take to start moving yourself up and out of the whirlpool that a life-rut can often feel like.I'm also addressing:What being reactive in life looks and feels likeWhat proactively approaching life is, and why it mattersPractical tips for how you can start stepping up and out of the mundane or overwhelm that is holding you back from living the fullest version of your life. Q: what is the thing that is whispering for your attention right now?** To leave an iTunes review for the podcast and share your feedback with me - www.thrive.how/review **For access to the Free Resources I mention in the podcast, head to my website and click on the [Free Resources] tab - www.thrive.howI also mention this blog post in the episode: 4 Ways to Quieten Your Busy Mind
If you're looking for life inspiration, and a kick of big-picture motivation - start here.Daniel Gefen is sharing big insights, and deep meaning in this episode. He is the host of the Can I Pick Your Brain Podcast where he talks to Entrepreneurial types about their paths, success, and how they've created what they have.Here, we're going beyond the surface level. We're not talking money in the bank, we're talking what makes a truly successful and fulfilling life. What is it that we, as humans, need to feel successful in our hearts?Key points covered include:How Daniel used reverse psychology to convince his wife he was the oneWhy creativity counts in life (and an epic illustration of how he used it to his advantage)The cycle of a Self Help Addict (and discussion on his upcoming book - The Self Help Addict)The big question you'll like be left with after reading another self-help bookThe importance of momentum in lifeHow Children can teach you everything you need to know about success2 ways you can get yourself to look at the big picture in lifeand How to encourage your children to grow into the people you hope they will become. As I said in my sum up, I see Daniel as a Life Leader with the power to enthuse and inspire. He enthused and inspired me!His company is Get Featured, and they get guests featured on podcasts - www.getfeatured.comTo find out more about Daniel, keep informed, or book him to speak - www.danielgefen.comAnd to keep informed about his upcoming book - The Self Help Addict - www.theselfhelpaddict.com--To find me, the host, Kate, my corner of the web is - www.thrive.how
Words have the power to create and transform our lives. Taken from the Amazon snip it introducing her new book, Conscious Communication: Whether we realize it or not, the words we use dictate and control our lives. The persistent messages we repeat can frame our thoughts and trap us into a mind-set that is difficult to break. This mind-set often manifests itself with statements like “I can’t,” “I’m not good enough,” and “I’ll never find the [insert the blank] I want.” Many times, we don’t stop to consider the profound impact that these negative, limiting words have on our mentality, life choices, and the path of possibility that we manifest. I had the honor of chatting through this with Mary Shores. In this episode, we're talking all about how the way we talk to ourselves and communicate with the world around us, impacts on the experience we have. Change your language and you really can change your world. I appreciate Mary's approach because she is completely practical. As we discuss in the interview, it is all well and good to hear many of the self-help anecdotes and theories, but how do you apply them to your life so that you can really see a change? That is where Conscious Communication can serve as a portal, a starting point, and something that you can really do something about. Specifically in this interview we're covering:How Mary overcame adversity [including teenage parenthood, being told she wouldn't ever amount to much, the death of her first child, and divorce] to become a powerful force in her own life The 5 Keys to How we Communicate with Ourselves How communicating consciously can improve our lives and how Science & Spirituality have more in common than perhaps even I've been given them credit for! Mary's new book is called - Conscious Communication. To get your copy head here: https://www.amazon.com/Conscious-Communications-Step-Step-Harnessing/dp/1401952135To find Mary: www.maryshores.comFreebie I mention: Ignite Your Dreams WorkbookPre-Order Book Bonuses: Click Here to Register Post Book Purchase
Heartbreak sucks. I'm talking through 5 super practical ways for you to start moving yourself forward again.The blog posts I reference in this episode are:Things You Love Post: http://www.thrive.how/4-ways-identify-things-love/Break-Up Post: www.thrive.how/breakupIndia Arie's song is called - Just Let it Go - from Songversation MedicineI mentioned the sleep meditations in the Calm & Headspace apps (note, I am not affiliated in any way).The book I mentioned is If Love is a Game, These Are the Rules, by Dr Cherie Carter-ScottMy website if you'd like to contact me, or learn more is www.thrive.how
This episode is a golden nugget. Lucy had me literally laughing SO loud. You’ll hear it!There is a ton of joy in here, but the wisdom imparted is also palpable. Lucy is an expert in comparison, and how comparisonitis can trip us up in life. In here you’ll find us talking through: · How Lucy had been unintentionally using social media to bash herself· How comparison is experienced by all humans to a lesser or greater degree· How comparison brings friends such as jealousy and ‘bitchy-leaks’ [that one got a good giggle outta me!]· The importance of self-preservation & self-focus· Why it is necessary to cultivate a newsfeed that you find nourishing· What living a #comparisonfree life looks and feels like· The importance of the “so what” question + how comparison always holds a jewel of insight within it· How comparing ourselves can lead to procrastination among other things· Lucy’s understanding of the fast-food version of self-care· The significance of evaluating why you’re doing something and the danger or not doing so· Her experience of talking with Oprah (and how she managed to nab the opportunity) Lucy, her infectious smile, and all her work around combating comparison can be found at her web-home – www.proofcoaching.com She also has the book she co-wrote called Higher Selfie which can be purchased here: https://www.amazon.com/HigherSelfie-Wake-Life-Soul-Tribe/dp/1781806675 She mentioned Genevieve Davis’ book Becoming Magic in this episode too. That book can be found here: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Magic-Course-Manifesting-Exceptional-ebook/dp/B00J7VUL9I To learn more about me, and my coaching, you can head to my website: www.thrive.how
These lessons are from an article I wrote for Mike Dooley's TUT.com. To read the full article with 8 lessons, head here: http://www.tut.com/article/details/318-7-empowering-truths-about-your-divine-essence/?articleId=318In today's episode I'm outlining 3 spiritual lessons that have changed my worldview, and in turn, contributed to me being a happier, my relaxed human.They are short thoughts which I use as mantras in times of stress, confusion, or to help keep me feeling focused and empowered. To sign up for the daily Notes from the Universe I mention in this episode, you can head to Mike Dooley's site - www.tut.com.Elyse Santilli's episode on Manifesting Miracles is #45.To learn more about me, and my coaching and personal development options, head to www.thrive.howHappy listening!Kate x
Has human's our brains are fascinatingly wired towards searching for, and paying attention to the negative.It does make sense from an evolutionary standpoint that to be afraid unnecessarily and flee a potentially dangerous situation is better for the human race than for us all being too busy looking at the roses to even care about potential threats.But this default wiring can cause us a great deal of stress in the modern day at age. In this episode I'm talking through what this Negativity Bias is, and how we can overcome the ways it limits us. www.thrive.how
My guest on the show today is Elyse Santilli. She is a Life Coach & Spiritual Mentor to women all over the world. She is my personal go-to expert on all things manifesting.Her accent is Australian; mine is from New Zealand if you're wondering!In this episode, we're deep-diving around the topic of manifesting. Specifically, in this interview we discuss:How we can co-create with the Universe (or God)Elyse's definition of Miracle Minding Thinking, and how important it is in helping us get what we desireAn explanation around Quantum Physics and how it relates to manifestingThe importance of taking inspired action towards what brings us joyHow to 'keep the faith' when we feel like our manifesting attempts are failingAnd finally, Elyse offers some practicals ways for us to start manifesting the life we desire.You can find Elyse at www.notesonbliss.com or the free resources she speaks about at www.notesonbliss.com/bonusesElyse also talks about Pam Grout's book E-Squared in this episode, and Eckhart Tolle's book, The Power of Now.
Here I'm having an intimate chat with Author, Speaker, and Coach, Cortney McDermott. She talks through her personal experience of being "miserably successful" and how important it is for each of us to contribute to the greater whole, in the way we were designed to.She also specifically addresses:What a sustainable life looks like?How baby-steps are what often lead us to our greatest changesHow we can identify, and then start taking, our own baby-steps towards a life that brings us joyHow we can tap into our deepest selves needsAnd how Compound Interest can be an important concept when we think about personal growth (that small bit of effort on a consistent basis adds up to a whole heap!).Cortney's book - Change Starts With You - get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Change-Starts-Within-You-Confidence/dp/0998955205/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1497023369&sr=8-1&keywords=change+starts+within+youTo learn more about Cortney and her work, head over to her website: www.cortinc.comBooks Cortney mentioned in this podcast included:Sapiens - A Brief History of HumankindThe Top 5 Regrets of the DyingA Course in Miracles
If you need a breath of fresh air to fill your lungs, listen to this chat with Sonia & Sabrina Choquette Tully. They are refreshing, real, authentic and practical. All things you can't help but appreciate!In this free-flowing conversation about spirituality in our modern world, we're specifically talking:What is unique about the upcoming generation of MillenialsWhat it was like to be brought up by a "spiritual badass" - their mother, renowned self-help leader & intuitive, Sonia ChoquetteHow being spiritually conscious helped Sabrina navigate her natural sensitivity & anxietyHow spirit is really fun and playful, not seriousAnd how we can tap into our own intuition. We also talk about Poulet, Soul Growth & Life Lessons, Cinnamon Buns, Gluten, Lattes, Boyfriends, and which are actually their favorites out of all of the books their talented Momma has written.And we talk about their book! You Are Amazing can be purchased on Amazon here: You Are Amazing, Sonia & Sabrina Choquette-TullyTo jump to Sonia & Sabrina's website, visit www.soniaandsabrina.com To see a picture of Poulet and their pretty faces, as well as live links to their resources, you can also visit my website, www.thrive.how/podcast42
In this episode I'm talking through 3 reasons why feeling lost is a good thing. I'm also sharing a little about my personal experience of flunking out of Law School, and now I can now look back and see all the dots join up so perfectly.This episode is for anyone who has ever felt lost at some time or is possibly feeling lost now. It will help you see how you've grown, or hopefully, light a little spark of hope in you if you are currently locked in the struggle.If you'd like to know more about me or my coaching, you can head to www.thrive.how
I didn't always know the answer to this question. I was attached to my surface identity, and it wasn't until I reached my 30's that I was put in a position where life begged me to address this. I was disconnected from myself, and it got to the point that it wasn't working anymore.In this podcast, I'm talking through my story, as well as how you can start to connect with your Authentic Self and show up in life. I'm highlighting that we are all beautifully, usually, uniquely perfect, and we need to celebrate that.Points include:Identity, and how it can mask our authenticityHow our unconscious identifications can particularly mess us upHow exactly we can start to connect with ourselvesAnd, why our own voices matter more than what we hear from outside of usI reference in this episode, Elizabeth Gilbert's speech, Flight of the Hummingbird. It's a must watch! You can find it here: http://www.oprah.com/own-supersoulsessions/Elizabeth-Gilbert-The-Curiosity-Driven-Life-VideoAnd if you'd like a "Me" Journal, here is an Amazon search page to get you started (note: I haven't checked any of them out personally, so can't recommend sorry! - still think I just might have to write one!): ME Journal SearchTo learn more about me, or my Life Coaching program - Thriving Life Project - head to www.thrive.how
In this episode, I'm getting real with Mom, Author, Self-Care & Meditation Teacher Ali Katz about how life can go from Hot Mess crazy, to truly mindful; and what that even means!Ali went from a frazzled Mom, who didn't even realize how crazy she was, to a Mom who now practices a bunch of things to keep her centered. She's kicked her anxiety goodbye and now teaches others how they can step into their best selves and truly Get the Most Out of Motherhood.In this interview we're talking:Ali's personal journey to peace and calmHow we can go from Stressed to BlessedWhat Balance is in real lifePractical Self-Care tips to help us take care of ourselvesHow Meditation can help calm our crazyAnd a gorgeous little tip to help us Mom's feel more connected with our kiddos.For more on Ali, you can visit her website: www.hotmesstomindfulmom.comTo get your hands on either of her books (or at least your name down to get one as soon as it is released!) head to Amazon here:https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=ali+katzHer Digital-Detox Program can be found here: www.hotmesstomindfulmom.com/digital-rehab
This episode I'm talking why it's important to consider a Future Vision for yourself. Change is a constant, and yet most of us underestimate how much we do change! If we're not in the driving seat, setting our course, life has a tendency to just happen to us.Here I'm going deeper into:How it's easy to look backward, but looking forward requires us to look insideThe difference between Therapy vs. CoachingWhat life is like when you're on the Offense rather than on the DefenceAnd how taking the time to think about your future breeds possibility (and possibility contains a spark of magic in my mind! ;))I reference Dan Gilbert's TED talk, The Psychology of Your Future Self: https://www.ted.com/talks/dan_gilbert_you_are_always_changingI also refer to an article I find useful in describing the difference between Therapy & Coaching by Patrick Williams. You can download a copy of that here: http://www.cce-global.org/Assets/BCC/Resources/CoachingvsPsychologyTheGreatDebate.pdfIf you're interested in knowing more about me and my coaching, head to my web-home: www.thrive.how
I’m getting personal and talking about my struggle to integrate both the Mystical & Practical sides of myself. I now recognize that it was through finding a way to do so, that I have ultimately been able to find my sense of wholeness. Specifically, I’m discussing:What Mysticism isThe Left Brain/Right Brain divideHow we mainly live in a Left Brain world (and how Science may have screwed us)And how Action is the key to bringing the mystical stuff into the real world I’ve also got 3 questions for you to ask yourself to help you integrate what is coming up from your mystical side:· What is rising in me that wants to be expressed?· What can I do to bring this to life? · What are my next 3 simple steps? In this episode, I mention Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor and her book, My Stroke of Insight. You can also watch her TED talk here: http://www.ted.com/talks/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight I also talk about a book that I found life-changing, A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. It won’t change everyone's’ (I’ve decided no book ever really has!), but it turned up right when I was ready to read it and helped me look at my world differently. If you’d like to know more about me, or my Coaching programs where I mix the practical with the old-school wisdom so many of us crave, head over to my web-home at www.thrive.how
Are you ready to amp up your joy? This week I'm talking about how we can make the most of the good things of our life, and use them to help us feel happier. I'm diving deep into tactics that can help us:Use anticipation to create joyBecome mindful in the moment to find more joy right nowHow reminiscing can be great for our psychological healthAnd how joy shared is truly joy magnified.To jump over to my website to learn more about my Executive & Life Coaching head to: www.thrive.how
Ever had that feeling like you're out of your depth, that somehow your success is a fluke or that everyone around you is way more capable than you and you're just waiting to be found out? It's called Imposter Syndrome, and it's way more common than you'd think!In this episode I'm addressing:What is Imposter SyndromeWho is prone to getting itWhat are the downsides to feeling like an ImposterPractical tools & exercises to help you put your self-doubt to beIf you're struggling with feeling like a fraud at times and would like some support, you can read more about me and my Coaching Options over at my web-home: www.thrive.how
Shannon Kaiser is on the show! Shannon is my favorite go-to expert on all things happiness. She is the bestselling author of Find Your Happy, Find Your Happy Daily Mantras and Adventures for Your Soul. In this episode, Shannon shares parts of her personal story and how she went from hopeless and lost to happy and thriving. We talk about how she lost her confidence only to regain it, and how she found the courage to step into a life that felt truly authentic despite the obstacles. It's a discussion about self-love, personal growth and discovery, relying on your inner strength and learning how to trust yourself. Specifically, Shannon describes: · What believing your future-self means· How you can start creating a life your future-self will thank you for· What it looks like to move away from a life that doesn’t fit you anymore· How the recent political climate has pushed many of us into a fearful state· How we can override our fear, and put ourselves back into a positive space· How we can reclaim our personal power· What trusting yourself actually looks and feels like There are so many highly relevant and actionable points we touch on in this discussion! You may actually need to listen to it twice. For Links & Show Notes online, head to :www.thrive.how/Shannon --- Shannon’s website is: www.playwiththeworld.com You can find Shannon’s booksat:http://www.playwiththeworld.com/home/books-articles If you’d like to look into working with Shannon her coaching options for Life, Business or Writing head over here: http://www.playwiththeworld.com/home/coaching/ Her course in conjunction with MindBodyGreen is How to Find Your Calling: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/classes/get-unstuck-how-to-find-your-calling-live-a-life-with-more-meaning