<p>Richard Jenkins (&quot;The Shape of Water&quot;) reads John Gfroerer's essay about going to the gym to cope with loss.</p>

A Dose Of Empathy | With Andrea Martin

For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.

Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.

Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp

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