So what actually happens after you say "I do"?  It's definitely not a fairy tale.  Just ask Andrew Gillum, Cardi B, and Ray J!   Ty and Tari are discussing what actually happens, what expectations NOT to have, and why love languages are important.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/zestandzen/message