When you grow up having not learned how to put up boundaries you often end up becoming a people pleaser or you develop people-pleasing tendencies. Us people pleasers do things that feel uncomfortable and we often have a hard time saying no, all in our efforts to "please." This means that we are constantly unhappy and in a circle of longing and searching to be whole. Check out the 5 Signs You're A People Pleaser by Psych2Go via https://youtu.be/rhFDM4YtAjM